JANE BLAFFER OWEN

JANE BLAFFER OWEN obituary

JANE BLAFFER OWEN

JANE OWEN Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jun. 27 to Jul. 4, 2010.
JANE BLAFFER OWEN 1915 - 2010 Jane Blaffer Owen CBE, of Houston, was the daughter of Robert Lee Blaffer and Sarah Campbell Blaffer and wife of Kenneth Dale Owen, a descendant of Robert Owen. Her father helped start the Humble Oil Company, now Exxon and on her mother’s Campbell side, the Texas Oil Company, formally known as Texaco. She was the proud mother of 3 daughters; Jane Dale Owen, Caroline Campbell Owen Coleman and Anne Dale Owen-Pontez.

She attended the very first Kinkaid School, in Margaret Kinkaid’s home on Elgin Street. In 1933, she graduated from the Ethel Walker School in Connecticut. She studied at Bryn Mawr, The Washington School of Diplomacy &The Union Theological Seminary in New York, and later, studied under the late Theologian Paul Tillich.

She once commented, “To whom much is given, much is expected,” “People don’t understand generosity…to give is to receive” and on her own terms she did receive honors and accolades. Armed with her gifts, extraordinary intelligence, grace, charm and her own innate sense of style, she began her quest. In her 20’s she helped organize one of the first events to raise funds for WWII war bonds. Howard Hughes loaded his plane with Hollywood stars to add sparkle to the event. Mr. & Mrs. Henry Fonda, Olivia de Havilland, Jimmy Stewart, Mischa Auer, Richard Green and Tyrone Power were among the notables. It was immensely successful.

This free spirit with an untethered generosity turned her sights on New Harmony. She married Kenneth Owen in 1941. He introduced her for the first time to the home of his birth, New Harmony, Indiana, a faded town on the Wabash that once held the dreams of generations past. It was founded by Robert Owen the Welsh Industrialist and Social Reformer in 1824 as a utopian society in the hopes of creating “a community of equality”.

New Harmony became her pallet and unfettered she set about to preserve its history, restore its homes and bring some of the greatest minds and artists to its door. With renewed dreams, she had hopes for a better world for all humanity. Of course she did it with a dash of her own verve. With passion for people from all walks of life; she provided an atmosphere of vitality and acceptance. With her charm, vision, and insatiable drive she tried to create a more interdependent world.

It began in 1958, when she started the Robert Lee Blaffer Foundation to preserve and promote the historical and educational attributes of New Harmony. In 1961, she commissioned Philip Johnson to build The Roofless Church where one could see the sky and embrace people of all faiths while aspiring towards a more united and peaceful world. Jacques Lipchitz, acclaimed sculptor, fashioned the bronze Madonna & Child at its center and the gilded gold gates on either side.

She created a park for Theologian Paul Tillich in a wooded glade to cherish his desire that his ashes be scattered in New Harmony. She convinced The Eli Lilly Foundation of Indianapolis to build an athenaeum as a visitor center in New Harmony. She was instrumental with the choice of Richard Meyer as the architect.

Eclectic and inspiring, she ever encouraged and supported others to fulfill their true potential.

Renowned sculptor Steven de Staebler once found his way to New Harmony and wanted to grace its fields of wheat with his granite sculptures, Jane prodded him to sculpt “The Pieta, Angel Gabriel and The Vision on St. Benedict”.

She encouraged Jeff Sparks from Indianapolis to start the New Harmony project, the precursor of the now acclaimed Heartland Film Festival in Indianapolis.

She entreated Kent Schuette, from the architectural school at Purdue to measure and replicate the ancient labyrinth from the Chartres Cathedral, France. In 1997, Frances Lepaux, Cannon of the Cathedral of Chartres dedicated the rose granite unicursal Labyrinth for meditation, and prayer. Imminent British sculptor Simon Verity created the Fountain of Orpheus placed at its apex.

She was a magnet both near and far, attracting over the years, Michael Ramsay, Archbishop of Canterbury, Duke & Duchess of Hamilton, the grandson of Winston Churchill, Senator McGovern and Henry Luce. Senator Lugar and Governor Mitch G. Daniels were always there to support her latest vision.

She was awarded the prestigious Louise DuPont Crown Shield Award, The National Preservation’s highest accolade and honored by The National Trust for Historic Preservation. She received The Sachem Award from Governor of Indiana Mitch Daniels to recognize a lifetime of excellence and virtue that brought credit & honor to Indiana. She shared this inaugural award with college coaching legend John Wooden and Reverend Theodore Hesburgh CSC, President Emeritus of the University of Norte Dame and world statesman. With all her acclaim she lived a modest simple life; she was often seen in her hat and golf cart chauffeuring visitor and guests around New Harmony.

In Houston she was a major supporter of The Blaffer Gallery and The University of Houston’s Gerald Hines College of Architecture. She was honored for her lifetime support of the arts and architecture, with a retrospective of the art, sculpture and buildings of New Harmony at the U of H, along with film documentary, “Conversations in New Harmony.” She and the Dean of Architecture, Joe Mashurn, collaborated with Ben Nicholson from Chicago Art Institute and a class of UH architecture students to employ contemporary digital modeling to design and build Frederick Kiesler’s lifelong wish to realize “The Grotto for Meditation,” now standing at the University of Houston.

She founded the English Speaking Union of the United States. She was the first president of the Allied Arts Council, a persistent founder of the International Seaman’s Center of Houston, Trustee of C.G. Jung Educational Center, Sustaining Trustee of the University of Houston Moores School of Music. She had served on the board of The Houston Symphony and The Contemporary Arts Association. She holds Honorary Doctorates of Arts & Humanities from University of Southern Indiana, Kenyon College, Ball State University, Butler Theological Seminary and Purdue University Doctor of Letters. She was awarded The Good Brick Award for work in preservation and Champions Breakfast award by Youth First Houston. She was one of two persons in Texas to have received Commander of The British Empire, bestowed by her majesty, Queen Elizabeth II.

It was befitting that Jane Owen’s heart should stop on the longest and brightest day of the year at her home in Houston surrounded by family.

She will be greatly missed by her family and many, many friends. No one will forget her joy of life, boundless energy and her positive attitude that gave us such hope and a belief that all things are possible and that miracles can happen.

Jane is survived by her sister, Joyce von Bothmer of New York; daughters: Jane D. Owen of Palm Beach, Anne D. Owen-Pontez of Houston and husband Hal Pontez; devoted grandchildren: Erik O. Arneberg, Ingrid A. Grados, James O. Coleman and Abigail Owen-Pontez; Great-Grandchildren: Sarah Grados and Jane Owen-Coleman; Nieces and Nephews, Joe Hudson, Lee Hudson, Camilla Blaffer Royall, Catherine Blaffer Taylor, Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, Joan Blaffer Johnson, Marisol Bocly, Jacqueline Younes, Diane de la Begassiere, Bernard von Bothmer, Maria Villalba; and by her many Campbell cousins. Thank you to her caretakers Rosa, Gwen, Jessie , Mabel and Helen.

The memorial service is to be conducted at half-past ten o’clock in the morning on Saturday, the 10th of July, at St. Martin’s Episcopal Church, 717 Sage Road in Houston, where the Rev. Dr. Russell J. Levenson, Jr., Rector, and the Very Rev. J. Pittman McGehee, former Dean of Christ Church Cathedral, are to officiate.

In lieu of flowers and customary remembrances, charitable donations may be directed to Dr. W.K. Alfred Yung, M.D. Anderson Cancer Center, P.O. Box 4486, Houston, Texas, 77210-4486; St. Martin’s Episcopal Church, Wayside Chapel and Gardens, 717 Sage, Houston, Texas, 77056; the Robert Lee Blaffer Foundation, P.O. Box 514, New Harmony, Indiana, 47631.

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January 3, 2022

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June 6, 2016

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Suraj and chand ahluwalia

January 3, 2022

Mrs I Owen was a genuine beutiful lady with elegance generosity and a vision she lived for we met her with her daughter Anne dale owen and Joe Hudson in Newport to and we were won over by her charm and eclectic spirit she contributed so much to society. and will always be remembered fondly.

Karl Peterson

June 6, 2016

What a privilege to have gotten to know Mrs. Owen. Her spirit will always be felt present in New Harmony, and all who met her there will for ever be thankful and see her in all that she did to infuse New Harmony with beauty and spirit

Merri Leffel

June 2, 2011

What I would give for just one more long lovely day being and talking with Jane .. I miss her more and more and yet as she taught She is with me always.

Arved and Ruth Teleki

May 12, 2011

The entire Teleki family and extended family in Warksworth, Canada send our belated condolences at your loss. It is a loss for all who knew Jane and experienced her beautiful spirit of giving. She leaves behind many treasures in the legacy of her support in the arts and Humanities. She will be greatly missed.

George Waterman

July 25, 2010

I remember Jane gave her love to all who came within her reach, as I did for a period of time in the 60's. Even though much time has passed, I shall never forget her. She was and will continue to be an inspiration.

Micarl Hill

July 15, 2010

What an honor to meet such a beautiful and wonderful lady in Mrs. Owen. On behalf of all of us at the Preferred Hotel Group we cheerish having the New Harmony Inn as one of our treasured independant hotels. I will never forget my initial meeting with Mrs. Owen as it was a step back in time seeing her with her blue flowing dress adorned with a spring hat and holding freshly cut flowers placed in a basket in her arms. I smile at this wonderful image and remember her so fondly. She IS New Harmony and will be missed.

T. McClung

July 12, 2010

I am very please to have met Ms. Jane once in May 2010 , in New Harmony. I was charmed by her and know the world has lost a friend.

Vickie Poynter

July 7, 2010

Mrs. Owen was a wonderful person. Her passion for a art was inspirational. I can remember her walking me and my father around New Harmony telling us the history of each newly aquired piece. Her hard work restoring New Harmony will always be appreciated. It is such a beautiful place thanks to Jane. Vickie Stanonis Poynter(The Woodlands, TX)

Cathy Ellis

July 7, 2010

Jane Owen lived such a long wonderful life because she had so much to give to New Harmony, Houston and Humanity. "Cathy Ellis ( Red Hook, Ny)

Donna Heinlin

July 6, 2010

An organization I belong to has been Blessed to rent The Barn Abbey annually, a part of the Blaffer Foundation. It is such a beautiful building and has such a great energy. To stay there for a weekend is to feel one almost knows 'Jane'. It just speaks of her grace, her beauty, her generousity. Thank you Dear One for all you have given us. May you rest in Peace. You will be in the hearts of all who visit New Harmony now and for generations to come.

Nancy DeFries

July 6, 2010

We moved to New Harmony in 1995. It didn't take long to hear about Mrs. Owen, & the many things she did for & in the community. It took longer to hear about the good she did in the wider world.
My mother-in-law,Virginia, moved to town in 1997, and she & my daughters Katie & Lora became docents at the Cathedral Labyrinth. That meant getting to know Mrs. Owen, too. She would drop by to visit Virginia, bring her flowers, and sit & visit awhile.
Many years later, our families merged, it was my priviledge to spend more time with her & get to know her better. We discussed New Harmony, families, religion, cats, attended functions, picked flowers, enjoyed golf cart rides, shared meals, and much much more.
As I read her obituary, I learned so much more about her. But, the person I learned to respect, and treasure is the grand lady that shared time with me, and set an example of how to live life fully, be generous with a gracious heart, determination, and caring.
She told me to wear a hat because it protected the skin, and because "...then you don't have to worry what your hair looks like."
While she appreciated the many accolades her efforts reaped, she wasn't fond of taling about them. Above all she loved her family & God.
When I sometimes avoid the news because I find it depressing, she would still go over to view the evening news at another house because she didn't have a TV in her home. She wanted to stay current and informed. A lesson I will try to emulate.
I still have trouble talking about her in anything but the present tense. I know that New Harmony will miss her; but I know her fondest wish would be for New Harmony to contiue to blossom & grow.
To her daughters, grandchildren, extended family, many friends, and all that admired her, I extend my condolences at the passing of a wise woman born of a gentler time, with her eye on the present,& with the ambition to make tomorrow brighter for many.

Sincerely, Nancy Shepherd DeFries

Y York

July 6, 2010

I last spent a moment with Jane at New Harmony in May. It was hot and I was walking, she was in the golf cart and making a breeze. She picked me up and enlisted my aid with flower arranging. Company was coming to stay in one of the old houses. We parked, opened the doors and windows for airing and set about finding appropriate vessels for the flowers. I offered up a small ceramic pitcher from the shelf in the kitchen, but Jane shook her head. “The pitcher must stay where it belongs.”
As I separated the sweetpeas from the larger lilies, Jane added the water to the vases and we arranged, putting pots of flowers here and there, adding life and color to the still air of the shuttered house, making it welcoming.
Outside, Jane stared at an abandoned bicycle with disdain. “It’s been there two days.” Her expression said, “whatever shall we do about this, Y?” She twinkled with the absurdity of this rusty bicycle betraying her lovely path. She didn’t ask, but we both knew I would spirit the bike to its proper place. As I pushed it toward its rack, Jane rode away to spread beauty to the stillness.
She was 80 when I met her, 95 when I last saw her. Tall, beautiful, serene and calm, a model for any who fear the ravages of the long tomorrow, or anyone inundated with messages of perpetual youth. Jane wore her age like a halo, a beacon saying: come one, come all, witness this model for living: grace, giving, care, humor, industry.
I am sorry she is gone from my life, and I extend the deepest sympathy to you who knew her long and loved her well. I am grateful I had the privilege.

My best to the friends and family of Jane Owen.

Y York

Maggie Rapp

July 6, 2010

The name "Jane" will forever personify this gracious lady who loved the simple beauty of life and nature. Her love for New Harmony will live on in the legacy she left here.

Carol Niederlander

July 6, 2010

I first met Jane Owen at a Ropewalk Conference in 1995, when I developed an infection and was, I guess, walking unsteadily. Jane was driving by in her golf cart and stopped to check on me. She took me home, gave me some home remedies, brought me back to the inn, and breaking off a branch of blossom by the door handed it to me, saying, “This will complete the cure.” It did, and we remained in touch ever since. I treasure the little hand-written notes I have from her, the week I spent at the Poet’s House at her invitation, and the dinners I shared with her at the Red Geranium on visits to New Harmony. A more generous, benevolent, supportive, and deeply spiritual person could hardly be imagined.

I had dinner with Jane last fall, when she spoke of her hope to be in New Harmony in 2014 for the 200th anniversary of its founding. That would have made her 99, and she seemed so strong that I thought she truly would make it. I’m so sorry it was not to be.

Jane was committed to the political goal of universal understanding, but it seems clear that she was also all about plain beauty-- in nature and all the arts. Many of my own ideas about how the spaces we inhabit ought to be shaped come from visiting New Harmony. The rooms of the inn have ever been clear and serene, with wood floors, good light, and original art. The gardens and walkways are invitations to rest and thoughtful meditation.

Jane Owen’s New Harmony is a testament to the power of the the human hand creating order out of chaos, to Keats' notion that "Beauty is truth, truth beauty." I’m not a traditional believer, but I find New Harmony to be a place of rest and support for the soul. I'm extremely sorry that Jane is gone and extend heartfelt sympathy to all her family. I will truly miss her presence in the world.

July 6, 2010

Jane touched many lives. It was my pleasure to have been her caregiver for a short period of time in New Harmony, IN. before my retirement from Visiting Nurse Plus. Shine on Jane. Heaven always needs a new, bright light. Kathy Burg. Owensville, IN>

catherine baurer

July 5, 2010

A very fine lady that will truly be missed

carolyn (acuff) tolliver

July 5, 2010

She did mot me but I knew of her when I lived in Mt.Vernon she will truly be missed

The Ron Phillips Family

July 3, 2010

Wonderful the day our paths crossed and gracious she was with conversation. We will indeed do as she requested, "keep loving Hew Harmony"...

Jane Dale Owen

June 30, 2010

She will be greatly missed by her family, and many, many friends. No one will forget her joy of life, her boundless energy and her positive attitude that gave us such hope and a belief that all things are possible and that miracles can happen. New Harmony was her greatest achievement, the work of a lifetime, a gift to her friends and family.

Bill Ressl

June 29, 2010

We mourn the loss of a vibrant and gracious friend - but know that she has only begun a new part in her journey of life... in the "eternal now." We thank God that our paths crossed for we have been truly blessed by the times that we shared.

From her friends... her "Tillich scholars and admirers" - fond memories will always remain.

Farewell Jane - until we meet again,

Rev. Bill Ressl and Rev. Penny Taylor
Brookfield, Illinois

Dub Sullivan

June 29, 2010

Dear Annie and relatives all,
I am so sorry to learn of the loss of you dear mother, a marvelous womam & gentlelady for whom I will always carry fond memories. Her old school charm & grace, her energy and genuine interest in others will be greatly missed by the many lives she gently touched. She, and each of you, are in my thoughts & prayers.
Most sincirely,

Jerry Hill Goodpasture

June 28, 2010

I was so very sorry to hear of Jane's death. Running in to her in Paris is one of my fondest memories. She was such fun. You all have my deepest sympathy for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

June 28, 2010

Mrs. Owen was so loved and will be missed. It is hard to imagine New Harmony without her. She was very intelligent, sensitive, a mystic, and I treasure the time I spent with her. She was always about what is good in this world. (Barbara Conrey, New Harmony, IN)

Gervais and Sue Bell

June 28, 2010

A most interesting and vibrant lady.

Barbara Paul

June 28, 2010

Mrs. Owen was an Angel on earth and now is an Angel in heaven. Truly an amazing human being, gentle, kind, intelligent and a great sense of humor! She touched and changed my life forever. I shall be eternally grateful for knowing her. Sincere condolences to Annie, Janie, Abigail, Eric and Ingrid.

Leigh John

June 27, 2010

Mrs.Owen had a true heart of gold, you would be hard pressed to find a better human being! She was ahead of her time always, she is loved and will truly be missed!

Susan Franzheim

June 27, 2010

Jane embodied the quintessential example of how inheriting gushing oil money was turned into a decades-long mega-synergistic endeavor. She truly lived her passion - eschewing the spotlight and gala social trappings. My life was enriched whenever our paths crossed.

June 27, 2010

I'll miss you Aunt Jane. You were always very gracious and nice to every member of my family both young and old. You carried yourself with a grace & dignity that was unsurpassed in this life. You were in fact, larger than life & you dreamed big. If anyone ever gets to sit on the left side of the father almighty, I know in my heart it will be you. It was a honor and privilege to have known you in this life and I do hope we'll meet again in the "next life".
I also wish to convey my utmost sincerest respects, sympathy's and condolences to her surviving family members. Aunt Jane walked with the giants in this life and she now walks with angles in the after life.

Faithfully Submitted!
Mr & Mrs Asche Ackerman.

Raymond Goodrich

June 27, 2010

With our deep sympathy to Annie, Jane and the extended family, we mourn the loss of this extraordinary lady who enriched the lives of countless others by her generosity, courage and foresight. Always gracious and accommodating, we enjoyed reminiscing about her home on Pinewold Drive which my paternal grandparents built in the 1930's and in which the Owen family has lived since 1953. God bless you, Jane Owen, we will miss you.

Kathy Johnson

June 26, 2010

She was a lovely lady.

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