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Michel Laroche
April 8, 2019
Dear Val and family,
Tom is still in our heart today, we miss him too.
Kind regards, Michel and Marie-Odile
April 18, 2014
Valerie, Brian and Terry
What an accomplished individual...he is a great loss not only to you but to the world at large
Our thoughts are with you
The Tyrrell's
April 17, 2014
Dear Valerie, I am so sorry to hear that you have lost Tom. I was thinking of both of you just a few days ago, and remembered all the wonderful times we have had together at conferences.
Sammye Haigh (Oxford, formerly Elsevier)
Michel Laroche
April 17, 2014
Dear Valerie, Brian and Terrence,
Marie-Odile, Philippe-Gabriel, Geoffroy-Thibault and I are very fortunate to have known Tom and to have his company and friendship for all these years. We will always remember him as a very kind and thoughtful person. His visits to Montreal were always a great occasion to exchange and have a good time together. We also remember our great time in New Orleans with all of you and also seeing Tom in Shanghai in 2012. We all looking forward to seeing you in person and talking about our good memories of Tom. Again our sincere condolences to all of you.
Karen Kennedy
April 17, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. When I was a new assistant professor at UNO, Tom was a good friend as he would share ideas, approaches or just help me become aclimated New Orleans and to the world of academe. I will always be appreciative for his thoughtfulness and guidance.
Mickey LeBoeuf
April 17, 2014
Dear Val, Brian, Terry, Sue:
It's with great sadness that I learned of your loss of a terrific husband, father and sibling. Tom was a great faculty colleague and wonderful friend during my years at UNO. When I think of Tom, these words come to mind: Very bright, funny, practical, great teacher, extremely well-versed on many subjects and a super guy. All of us who had the pleasure of knowing Tom are richer for the experience. While I know your loss leaves a huge void, it's important to remember that the people we love never really leave us. We just no longer have the pleasure of their company. My thought and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Leigh Schmitt
April 16, 2014
I am so saddened to hear of Dr. O'Connor's passing. He was my favorite professor at UNO, and served as a major inspiration in my own academic career. He would tell us all kinds of anecdotes in class based on his travels and experiences, and somehow, those stories would sneak the course information into our brains and keep it permanently registered. His legacy as an outstanding teacher and researcher will never be forgotten.
Lonnie Ostrom
April 16, 2014
Valerie and Family, Please accept my deepest sympathies on Tom's death. We had so much fun during our doctoral program at the University of Alabama. It was a special time in our lives and we needed each other. He was one of the best and I will always remember those times. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lonnie Ostrom ,ASU,Tempe, Arizona
April 16, 2014
Dear Val,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sorrow.
Still remember our times on Crystal Street.
Charmaine Morel Thionville
James Bentley
April 16, 2014
Valerie,
My condolences on Tom's passing. I remember saying hi to him just a few weeks ago n my way to class at UNO. It is hard to believe that I met Tom 44 years ago while a graduate student at UNO. I remember our Friday after class unwinding sessions at local watering holes and a shared love of science fiction stories. May the perpetual light shine upon him.
James Bentley
MBA 1971 from UNO
Bruce Anderson
April 16, 2014
So sorry to hear of Professor Tom's passing. I haven't spoken to him in several years, but I cherish the memories when he would visit my store and offer me some friendly advice. He was truly a good friend and a wonderful human being. Thoughts and prayers to the entire O'Connor family. He will be dearly missed.
April 16, 2014
Suzanne
So sorry to hear the loss of your brother. My prayers are with you and family.
Mickey(Gurley Al.)
April 16, 2014
To Valerie, Brian and Terry, We were so sorry to hear of Tom's death.
Our prayers are with you all, I don't think the boys will remember us as they
were so young when we watch them, back in East N.O.. The Hayes Family
Joseph Ewell
April 15, 2014
To the O'Connor family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. Dr. O'Connor was one of my most memorable Professors when I was a graduate student, and was always willing to share words of wisdom with me as a new Adjunct Instructor. I will pray for your family.
Marie Dennette Farwell
April 15, 2014
Val: Tom was a wonderful neighbor and friend who will be greatly missed, My heart and prayers are with you. Please let me know if I can help with anything. Tom was the center of your life, and he knew your great for him, and of son Brian's.
.Dennette
John Benz
April 15, 2014
It saddened my deeply to learn of the passing of my old buddy and fellow band member at McGill Institute. Tom and I had many good times together and I will always remember him. Valerie, I pray God's grace will sustain you and the entire family in this most distressful of times.
April 15, 2014
My sympathy goes out to the family during your time of grief. May God's loving-kindness comfort you and help you through this difficult time. (Psalm 119:50,76)
Leisa Reinecke Flynn
April 15, 2014
Dear Val, I am so sorry to hear of Tom's death. He has been a real presence in my life and it was always such a pleasure to see both of you at meetings. Tom was larger than life and I know that many many students will always remember his classes. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your sons at this sad time.
Dick and Barbara Allison
April 15, 2014
Suzanne, Val, Brian and Terry,
So sorry for the loss of your dear Tom. I know you will be comforted by fond memories and the support and love of friends.
Jim Logan
April 15, 2014
Valerie, Terry and Brian
Ann Michele and I offer our deepest condolences at the loss of Tom. I worked 26 years with Tom and always enjoyed talking to him, and his viewpoint on life in general. He was a valued colleague and a good man who we will miss very much.
Helen Webb
April 15, 2014
Thinking of all the family with love and deep compassion
Waite & Doris Todd
April 15, 2014
The loss of this life that was so special to family, friends and colleagues is so sad. However, a beautiful mind and spirit lives on with those who loved him...he will always be cherished. May you find comfort in lovely memories.
Debbie & Steve Dawson
April 15, 2014
Val,
We are saddened by the loss of Mr. Tom. Steve has fond memories of Tom from his childhood that will last forever. Our prayers are with you and the boys at such a difficult time. Sincerely,
Sandra Alsup
April 15, 2014
Val, Brian, Terry, and Suzanne,
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
April 15, 2014
Suzanne, we are so sad to hear of your loss. We send our deepest sympathy. Please know that we are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Bill and Janet Sholes (Huntsville, AL)
April 15, 2014
Sad to hear about the passing of Thomas. Gianfranco (Germany)
Mary Smith
April 15, 2014
Val, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Tom was so good to me always, helping me with my cart. I will miss him terribly. May God Bless All of you.
April 15, 2014
To Tom's family:
I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Tom was a kind, genuinely caring and humble man. It was always lovely to see him and Val at our conferences. I am so sorry for your loss. Tom will be remembered and missed by many people, including myself!
Sharon Beatty, University of Alabama
April 15, 2014
With heartfelt sympathy,
Theo Kintzonides
Old friend from LSUNO and Metairie neighbor.
Milt & Ana Pressley
April 14, 2014
Val, Brian, Terry and Suzanne: Please rejoice that Tom is watching us from above, free from pain and any discomfort. While we will all miss him terribly, may the memory of all the wonderful times we shared live in our hearts until we join him and renew his wit, wisdom and wonderful ways. May God Bless him and all of you.
Milton & Ana Pressley
Jeanne Pedigo
April 14, 2014
We are very sorry for your loss. Please accept our condolences. Our prayers are with you in this difficult time.
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