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Allen Richard Derr

1928 - 2013

Allen Richard Derr obituary, 1928-2013

Allen Derr Obituary

Allen Richard Derr
1928 ~ 2013
Allen Derr
Few can say they changed the world. Even fewer can say they changed the world for the better, but Allen Derr can and did.
Allen passed away on June 10, 2013 with his wife, Judy Peavey-Derr, sister Jane Betts, and close friends Jesse and Harriet Walters, by his bedside. He was born in Sandpoint, Idaho, on April 5, 1928 as the first son and second child of Alfred Morley Derr and Hattie Catherine Allen Derr of Clark Fork, Idaho.
A small man in stature, but big in thought, deed, and spirit, Allen fought for justice and peoples' rights from an early age. The first was leveling the playing field for his younger brother, Jack, who often told the story about getting into fights with classmates and having Allen finish the fight for him. His older sister, Beverly (Bev) recalls the day when he had had enough of her antics and turned the tables on her; she never got the upper hand again. Jane, the last sibling, and complete surprise to Allen who was 17 and out of the country at her birth, was always protected by her big brother.
Allen's father, a 5 term Senator from Bonner County and Democratic nominee for Governor of Idaho in 1958, brought the family to Boise for the session each year. Too often the Derr farm kids received unwanted attention from authorities and others for various acts such as roller skating in the capitol or staging fights at Hotel Boise where crowds would gather and throw money which was later used for ice cream.
As Allen's interest in the legislative process grew so did his desire to become a page. Eventually he served with his soon to be life-long good friend, Lou Cosho. Lou, prior to his own passing, sent Allen a clipping of an article and picture he had saved for years regarding Allen's killing of a bear at the age of 12 on their ranch in Clark Fork. No small feat for a young boy, but Allen told the story of that day's events as if it was nothing at all.
At age 16 Allen wanted to join the WWII effort. His parents resisted and promised him if he felt the same way at 17 they would grant their permission. He did and they did. He joined the Marine Corps (semper fi) and was sent to China in 1945. He returned to Idaho and graduated from high school in his dress uniform. He reminisced about his time in the Marines saying he had "been scheduled to be fodder on the beaches, but major events outside of his control changed his fate." To the end, always faithful, he approached fellow marines to pay respect to them for their commitment to duty. A few years later after his high school graduation he would sign up with the Air Force to serve in the Korean War.
He was accepted at several colleges, including Stanford and Harvard but chose the University of Idaho. He majored in Journalism, pledged the TKE fraternity, served as the editor of The Argonaut and was involved in many of the campus traditional hi-jinx including but not limited to the WSU cougar, and TKE bell. Allen and his friends on several occasions traveled to Clark Fork from Moscow for the weekend, unannounced, expecting food and a place to sleep. Hattie, his mother and Idaho's first female State Senator, was always prepared with a warm home cooked meal and plenty of laughter. With all of his extra activities he still managed to graduate with honors in 1951 and received many awards for his writing.
Upon graduation Allen worked as the editor for the TKE National Magazine in New Augusta, Indiana. The job was perfect for him. He got to write, travel the nation, visit Cuba before Castro, and meet many interesting people. With a smile he always claimed Hugh Heffner stole his idea for the Playboy center fold from him as he originated TKE's International Sweetheart Contest first judged by Former President and TKE member Ronald Reagan. He loved saying "It's a great life if you can TKE it!" After 4 years he decided to become a lawyer. He said when asked about this career change, "I went astray."
During these years Allen met and married Miriam E. Ross Larson, started law school, was a correspondent for the Lewiston Tribune, Spokane Chronicle, and Spokesman Review. For one year he was a reporter and assistant sports editor for the Lewiston Tribune and no doubt it was during this time he developed his life-long love for the Yankees. In addition to going to law school Allen and Miriam were Proctor and Hostess at Upham Hall surviving many pranks by Tom Kerr, a resident of Upham Hall at the time and former Valley County Commissioner, now retired.
His first job upon graduating from law school in 1959 was as Assistant Attorney General for the State of Idaho with the bar number of "911". One year later he opened his private practice, eventually practicing with brothers, Jim, and Jesse Walters.
Divorced, he met and married Helen Evans. They were married for 28 years when she passed in 1992. It was during these years that Allen argued the Reed v. Reed case, the first successful sex discrimination case in the history of our country in the U.S. Supreme Court, authored articles on law, journalism, and courtroom photography, was a speaker and lecturer, Master of Ceremonies, and radio and television panelist and past interviewee. In 1967 he became one of the Founders of the Idaho Trial Lawyers' Association, was a long time Director of the Idaho Press Club, and was selected by the Idaho Statesman for their "Portrait of a Distinguished Citizen" award.
In 1993 Allen, a long-time Democrat and Past State President of the Young Democratic Club of Idaho whose Grandfather had also served in the Idaho Legislature as a Democrat, married Judy Peavey, a long-time Republican, precinct committee person, and with strong family ties to the Republican party. It was the equivalent marriage in Idaho to that of James Carville and Mary Matalin. It seemed odd to some people but it was perfect for them. A discussion between them of current events took on a different perspective every morning and night during the news broadcasts. They did a routine one Friday several years ago for their Boise Exchange Club describing how they each read the morning paper and discussed the events of the day with one another.
They were fortunate to travel and fulfill many of their bucket list dreams, visiting many foreign countries, even retracing Allen's journey throughout China and Asia when he was a Marine. Many of their travels were usually in the company of good friends Ann and Joe Vollmer. Allen managed to find the will to travel one last time to Alaska at Christmas to see the grandsons and ingrain upon them as he did to all of the grandchildren the importance of saying "Cheers" when taking a drink, and the annual trip to Hawaii in February with Ann and Joe.
His real determination and perseverance was recognized when fishing the Kenai Peninsula in Alaska in 2009. At age 81, he hiked into the fishing hole, sat in the river in a lawn chair so he didn't get swept away by the current, and although cold and shivering, landed a sockeye salmon (This was his first salmon caught on a fishing pole, although he had lassoed one as a child).
A year ago during a birthday celebration of a close friend at the Adrian Social Club, Allen was encouraged to sit in as the drummer on a set for a group playing that evening. It had been years since he had played the drums, but at the conclusion of his performance he commented, "Boy, that brought back some fond memories!" He was referring to the days when he and his parents would travel to Noxin, Montana where Allen would play the drums while his mother played the piano in a local establishment. They weren't professional because they didn't receive any "cash" payment.
Over the years he would also cause dinner guests to regale in laughter with his routine of his old and yet still funny jokes used when he performed for audiences during his TKE National Magazine days, playing his harmonica and reciting poems from memory from years ago.
One of his favorite places to relax was on his boat a 26' Fiberfoam, Baja, with a flying bridge on Payette Lake in McCall. When it came time to part with his prized possession he gave it to his son, David, knowing it would be used and enjoyed by him and the granddaughters.
The ACLU recognized him in 2002 with the Idaho Freedom Award, the Idaho State Bar honored him with the Professionalism Award in 2002, the University of Idaho bestowed upon him the Alumni Association Hall of Fame award in 2005, and he was featured, along with his client, Sally Reed in the book DAYS OF DESTINY CROSSROADS IN AMERICAN HISTORY in which America's greatest historians examined thirty-one uncelebrated days that changed the course of history. The chapter examines the Reed v. Reed case 92 S.Ct.251 (1971) in which the U.S. Supreme Court, for the first time in its history, declared a state law discriminating against women violative of the U.S. Constitution's 14th Amendment's equal protection clause.
Allen will be remembered by friends, family, and associates as being one of the most kind, gentle, gracious, and caring men to grace our presence. That alone would be enough to claim a life well lived but he has also left a major legacy for women and their families.
He is survived by his wife, Judy Peavey-Derr; children, Sandra Delanoy (Russell), David Larson; Brian Peavey (Elisa), Jennifer Joanis (Lance); sisters, Beverly Shields and Jane Betts (Bill); brother, John Derr (Dotty); grandchildren, Amanda Larson, Alyssa Larson, Taylor Peavey, Bella Peavey, Emi Peavey, Gabriel Joanis, Jacob Joanis; sister-in-law, Betty Derr; and numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his parents, sister, brother and former law partner, Jim, little sister, Marietta, and wife, Helen.
While Allen was a Vandal until his death, he did cheer for and held season tickets for years to the BSU Broncos football games. His final request was he hoped friends and family would put aside the rivalry just this once and support his favorite program at the University Of Idaho College Of Law (for "pro bono program"). Address: P.O. Box 442321, Moscow, ID 83844-2321. He believed with all of his heart that more young people studying law needed to understand that it isn't always about making money; sometimes you just have to do the right thing for the sake of justice and your client.
A celebration memorial will be held at the Barber Park Event Center Wednesday, July 31, 2013 from 7 - 9:30 PM. Arrangements are by Summers Funeral Homes, Boise Chapel. Memories and condolences may be shared with the family on Allen's memorial webpage at www.summersfuneral.com.

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Published by Idaho Statesman from Jun. 14 to Jun. 16, 2013.

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November 21, 2013

Blessed Prayers and thoughts. I knew Allen Derr back in the 90's working for the Juvenile Court. I highly respected him as an Attorney. May you rest in peace for all eternity.

Kathy Erickson

November 21, 2013

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Lamar/Dixie H. Robinson

July 22, 2013

Allen, was a true gentleman and scholar. Our sympathy on his passing to his wife and family. We met him a couple of times and will never forget what a class-act he was. May he rest in peace.

June 26, 2013

Judy: Know that the Andersens and Whipkeys are thinking of you and Allen. It is always such mixture of feelings when someone passes, with Allen the feelings are so positive. We always felt Allen was such a gentleman with soul and heart that We enjoyed everytime we saw each other. Professionally he was at the top and it was nice to know someone of his caliber was at your right hand whether he was working for you individually or his public service. He will be missed.
Rudy and Pat

Brad Watkins

June 26, 2013

I only knew Allen for a short time, but what an impact he and Judy made. I remember asking Judy 'Where's Allen?' as we moved them into their apartment. She said ' He still goes to work everyday.' What an amazing, dedicated, superstar of a man! After listening to only ten minutes of highlights of his life, I remember wishing that I'd only taken a few more short moments to experience his presence. R.I.P. Allen. You are Legend

Betty Richardson

June 20, 2013

To Judy and all Allen's family: You have my sincere condolences on Allen's passing. He was a hero to many, including me. I hope you find comfort in your memories of this wonderful man and in the certain knowledge that he left a great and lasting legacy. I will always cherish his friendship, and I will miss him very much.

Steve Alexander

June 20, 2013

Judy: I only met Allen once...in the airport, I believe, but he must have been a wonderful man! A good Democrat which this state in particular will miss profoundly! I'm sincerely sorry for his passing!

Charlotte Cannon (Valentine Family)

June 17, 2013

Mr. Derr was a dear friend of my grandparents. I am honored to have had the chance to meet him,and also listen to his valuable advice on many occasions. You will be greatly missed.

Chad Valentine

June 17, 2013

He was a great man, and did so much for my family. I thank his memory and will remember him forever.

Christina Valentine

June 17, 2013

Dear Judy, and all of Allen's family, my deepest sympathy for your loss. Allen was a good friend to my whole family, the Carrol and Charlotte Valentines. He was kind, intelligent and a man of high integrity, who always was there to help. He will be greatly missed.

June 16, 2013

Dear Judy and family,
I am so very, very, sorry for your loss
of this kind, gentle man. His loving, calm manner will be remembered by many
of us. I am so glad I got to know this
wonderful man. He will be missed by all
of us.
Love, Patty Hirai Inouye

Robin VanLeer

June 15, 2013

Allen was my familys attorney 4 generations representated by him! He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed. Our condolennces to those who loved and will miss him.

Sandra Lea (Derr) Larson-Delanoy

June 15, 2013

Allen was my father. I can't imagine life without his presence but I hope he will remain always with me--in my heart. He was such a quiet and unassuming man. You would never have known what a full and meaningful life he led but he seemed to know people everywhere he went and people seemed to gravitate toward him. He just had a calming effect on people. What a gift he had! He was a great communicator and a defender of the people--regardless of their gender or lot in life. He once told me he hadn't really thought of himself as a woman's rights activist, he just agreed that Sally Reed had been treated unfairly by the Courts and THAT was why he took on her case. The national interest just picked up steam as the case progressed. It was the whole principal of the situation that got to him! Several attorneys had turned her down before she came to my dad. Noone knew it but, Sally Reed was left alone in her final years. She had no family to see or visit her. My dad made sure to visit her in the nursing home every week to make sure she was okay until she died. He did it because he cared about her. Not because he thought anyone was watching THAT speaks volumes to me about the kind of man he was.

Tootie & Dutch Shults

June 15, 2013

Dearest Judy & family, The world has lost a great man who will never be forgotten. He has left a stellar legacy that will last forever. He was such a great husband and grandfather and a wonderful friend. We hope he realized the infinite number of people whose lives he enriched in serving our country. We were so blessed and privileged to have him as our friend. May your cherished, happy, memories of the extraordinary life you shared together help sustain you at this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers always. With our deepest Sympathy,

June 15, 2013

Judy:
I thank God that I knew Allen and could call him friend. He was such a gentle giant of a man. He always had a kind word for me and others. I knew him for years without knowing of his great stature. As I sit and look at my DAYS of DESTINY copy with his and Sally Reed's signatures, I realize how much richer my life is because I knew the "Honorable Mr. Derr," and I could call him friend.
God Bless
Shirl Boyce

June 15, 2013

I remember when you would visit the house at homecoming, etc. You'll be missed.
YITB,
Dan
TKE, Alpha Delta - 878

June 14, 2013

Karin and I first met Allen under a picnic bench at a fundraiser in McCall--in the rain. He was a wonderful, unassuming gentleman with a sharp wit. Only later did we learn about his monumental achievements in the law.
We send Judy and Allen's family our heartfelt sympathy.
Jim and Karin Thompson

Kathleen Simko

June 14, 2013

Judy – my condolences on Allen's passing. He was an amazing man and I feel privileged to have known him.

S Langton

June 14, 2013

I've only worked with Allen professionally and I always found him to be kind, honest, and humble. He was someone I trusted, admired and respected. I am so sorry to hear about his passing. His family, friends, and the legal community lost a great man. He will be missed.

sandy

June 12, 2013

I will leave the light "on" for you, Dad! Happy father's day!!
No more pain or worries for you.
Love always, Sandy (daughter)

Sandra Lea (Derr) Larson-Delanoy

June 12, 2013

Allen Derr was my father. I loved him more than he could know. I knew him to be a kind and gentle man who stood up for what he believed was right. I will never forget him as long as I live.
Rest in peace, Daddy!

Joyce & Bill Brewer

June 12, 2013

Judy, when I think of Allen the definition of "gentleman" comes to mind. Wish we had one more dinner date with you two.

June 11, 2013

Please accept my condolences. Matthew 5:4.

Pete Wagner

June 11, 2013

Judy, I am sorry for your loss. I will forever remember the dinner you invited Hilary and I too when I first met Allen. Our thoughts are with you and the rest of your family.

Cathy Naugle

June 11, 2013

What a dear, inspiring, man. Each time I encountered Allen I came away feeling the richer for it. To his family, I am sorry that he has left you, but what a pleasure it must have been to have him with you all these years.

Tami B

June 11, 2013

I dont think I truly understood the milestone that case really was to all American women. Thank you Mr. Derr! My condolences to his family.

Kim Derr

June 11, 2013

I will miss you Allen.
Kim E. Derr ( Allen is my Uncle).

Barbara Farber

June 10, 2013

We will surely miss you. Gods speed. Are thoughts and prayers are with those left behind.

June 10, 2013

Thoughts of sympathy to each of you for your loss of Allen. May you trust in the God of the living, for they are all living to him. Luke 20:38

June 10, 2013

My thoughts are with you Judy, bless you and your family. Twig

June 10, 2013

I am Allen's 15-month younger brother in Florida. Farewell and take heart in having lived a good and full life.

"Do not go gentle into that good night,
rage, rage against the dying of the light"

John P Derr

Dwayne Bickham

June 10, 2013

in God's care rest in peace

June 10, 2013

Hello Judy,
I am so sorry to hear of Alan's death. I know that you will miss him terribly. My thoughts are with you.

Fontella

Cynthia

June 10, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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