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Matthew VanVelse Obituary

Matthew Richard VanVelse

Of Greenfield entered peacefully into Heaven January 14, 2013 surrounded by his loving family at the age of 33. Matt was a 1998 Graduate of Beech Grove High School. He spent over 10 years with Heritage Automotive Group as a sales manager. Matt enjoyed both playing and watching sports; especially his favorite team, the Indianapolis Colts. But Matt's biggest love was his family, beloved wife and best friend, Carrie, and his dog, Stella. He cherished the moments he spent with them. He will be remembered for his overwhelming generosity and care for others. He will truly be missed by many.

Matt is survived by his wife Carrie Breanne VanVelse; parents Reginald Patrick VanVelse (Nancy) and Marian Rae Cumbarelis (Stan); brothers Mike Brooking (Danielle) and Mark Brooking (Jenny); sisters Allison and Emilie VanVelse; grandparents Bradford and Donna Fitzpatrick, Eveline VanVelse, Carmen Cumbarelis, and Ralph and Edna Watkins; parents-in-law Brenda and Bryan VanVlynen; his dog Stella Lynn; 6 nieces and nephews, cousins, and many friends. He was preceded in death by his grandparents Jan VanVelse and Rosemary Fitzpatrick.

Visitation will be held Saturday, January 19 from 5 to 9 PM at Flanner and Buchanan Washington Park East , 10722 E. Washington St., Indianapolis. A Celebration of Life Service will be held Sunday, January 20 at 3 PM with visitation 1 PM until the time of service.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to IU Simon Cancer Center or to the family c/o Carrie VanVelse.

Friends may sign Matt's online guest registry at http://www.flannerbuchanan.com.

Published by The Indianapolis Star on Jan. 17, 2013.
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I worked with Matt at Red Lobster had a drink with him on his 21st birthday he was truely one of the sweetest gentlemen i have ever met.I am so sorry to hear the loss of such an amazing young man. He always brought the girls Christmas and Valentines gifts he will always be remembered in my heart.So sorry for your lost,Debbie Bayne

February 5, 2013

Rest in peace Matt. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and Carrie.

Brian Cherry

January 21, 2013

Carrie,We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you. Love, Uncle Bob and Aunt Carol

January 20, 2013

I knew Matt as friend of my son, Corey, when they were young boys. What a wonderful child he was and I understand he grew up to be a wonderful man! My heart goes out to his family. The world's loss but Heaven's gain. Will keep you in my prayers.

Wanda (Button) Dobbs

January 19, 2013

Stan,Marian,Carrie....I know what a great man you all lost but we gained another wonderful angel. Stan I love you and will be thinking of you all during this time! I wish for all of you to heal and find comfort in knowing he is at rest.

Kelly Gaskins

January 18, 2013

Carrie, I'm sending prayers for peace during this hard time. My thoughts and condolences to your family. Matt was an amazing man. He was so lucky to have met you. I'm so sorry for your loss

Kara Elston

January 17, 2013

Carrie, we are so sorry for your loss and thinking of you with love.

Debby Scott

January 17, 2013

May Gods merciful love and the love of family & friends sustain you through your sorrow.

(Isa. 41:10)

January 17, 2013

Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

Duane Morgan

January 17, 2013

My very first memory that I remember is when Allison was born and Reggie told him that they named his sister Allison Noelle and Matt wanted to know how they would spell Allison with no "l". I have laughed alot thinking about that. I will miss Matt! Love to the entire family

Joyce Sowers

January 17, 2013

Praying for his wife and family. What a wonderful person. Always had a smile ans was so caring. He will be missed.

Teri Lyte

January 17, 2013

We grieve with you and pray for your family. We knew Matt as he was growing up and he was always very kind and gentle. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we hope God's comfort sustains you. The Hobdy family

January 17, 2013

Sorry for your loss. Condolances. the Witte family.

January 17, 2013

I am truly sorry for your loss Reggie. My wife and I will pray that God gives you and your family that peace that passes all understanding.

Randy Law

January 17, 2013

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