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Jeremy Theriault Adler

1985 - 2014

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Jeremy Adler Obituary

Jeremy Theriault Adler Nov. 17, 1985 - Dec. 4, 2014 Resident of Oakland Could a person be too good to be true? Not if you knew Jeremy Adler. An East Bay native, Jeremy was an attorney, musician and unrivaled Cal fan. He had a boundless curiosity and blade-like wit. His intellect threw off light. But what defined him more than any of that was his loving and generous nature. There was an unfailing goodness about Jeremy that lifted everyone around him, starting but only starting with his family and friends, who adored him. Kindness came easy to Jeremy, as did a heart-melting laugh, but some things did not. His means were modest and he endured a rare medical condition throughout his life. But Jeremy's brilliance and hard work brought great accomplishments. Jeremy was honored with both the Regents Scholarship to UC Davis and the Incentive Awards Scholarship to UC Berkeley. He chose to join his twin brother Pierre his best friend at Berkeley, and all things Cal became one of Jeremy's many passions. He played in the Cal Marching Band, wrote for Berkeley Political Review and The Daily Californian, and served with the Berkeley School Volunteers. While compiling a nose-bleed GPA, he held after-class jobs at the Bancroft Library, San Francisco mayor's office, Social Security Administration and In-N-Out Burger. In 2008, Jeremy graduated from Berkeley with a degree in political science. The legal arena eventually captured his imagination, so he earned a juris doctorate in 2013 at Northwestern University School of Law, and spent much of his free time in Chicago on charitable efforts. He worked for the Kirkland & Ellis firm in San Francisco. At the time of his passing, Jeremy was engaged to be married to Rachel Pringle, his soul mate since their years together at Berkeley. The family that Jeremy made complete includes Pierre; their parents, Charlene Kibby and Richard Adler; stepfather Anthony Kibby; stepsister Jillian Kibby; and a cherished clan of uncles, aunts and cousins. For all his strengths, there was something overwhelming about the world that Jeremy, in a vulnerable moment, could not quite conquer. We will never know what that something was, only that it caused Jeremy to leave us. We are bereft. We are lost without him. But we are forever richer in having known and loved him, and being loved by him in return. A service celebrating Jeremy's life will be held at 1 p.m. Thursday at Sunset View Mortuary, Colusa and Fairmount Avenues, El Cerrito. Afterward, a reception will be held from 3 p.m. into the evening at the Faculty Club on the Berkeley campus. For directions and parking information, please visit www.berkeleyfacultyclub.com and click Visit the Club. Jeremy didn't just give back he gave first. In that spirit, his family and friends plan to create a scholarship fund in his name for Berkeley students. (Go Bears!) We hope that, in lieu of sending flowers, you would consider contributing to the fund once it is established. For more information, please visit www.jeremyadlerscholarship.org. We miss you, Jeremy. You were good and true.

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Published by Inside Bay Area News on Dec. 9, 2014.

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A. H.

December 16, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

David Umberg

December 13, 2014

I was honored to know Jeremy, even if for a short time. May he rest in peace.

Patricia Campbell

December 13, 2014

My love and prayers are with you Charlene and Richard, Pierre, Rachel and families at this very, very difficult time. I can remember Jeremy & Pierre growing up with my grandson, Ben Fallah, and being at all the birthday & other parties at Ben's, the concerts at school -- being a huge part of Ben's extended family of friends (since age 6). You will always be in my heart and prayers. -- Ben's Grandma, Pat Campbell

Emily Hill

December 12, 2014

Peace and comfort to you, Jeremy. We miss you at K&E. It rained and poured on the day of your services, which seemed about right.

To Rachel and Jeremy's family and friends, may you be granted the strength to get through this time in your lives. Deepest condolences.

Guru Singh

December 11, 2014

I never knew Jeremy but I attend Northwestern Law; as a member of the larger NU community, I extend my condolences to Jeremy's family and friends.

December 11, 2014

Charlene, my prayers and love are sent your way. I am deeply sorry to hear this news. I know your boys are your world. May Jeremy's soul rest in peace and may the Lord surround you and your family. Love, Bernadette and Jaime Solórzano

Mary Kogut

December 10, 2014

Rest in peace, my friend, and know that you are dearly loved. You are a joy and an inspiration. You will forever be in my heart - and the heart of all that have known you.

July 4, 2014

Michelle Cataldo

December 10, 2014

Jeremy was a beautiful, gentle soul. Rachel and Pierre have captured so much of what made it a special privilege to know him in their loving tributes. I'm an Adler by marriage, and honored to be part of Jeremy's family, which has come together so strongly to mourn and honor him. We are all especially holding Pierre and Rachel and Charlene and Rick in our hearts. Jeremy will never be forgotten, always remembered with love.

Elma Kastning

December 10, 2014

My heart goes out to Jeremy's loved ones. I had the honor of knowing and working with Jeremy at Kirkland, from when he began as a secretarial trainee to most recently when I assisted in translating on a pro bono case that Jeremy was involved in. I cannot express how much it means to me that I was able to know Jeremy and have many conversations with him about different subjects (including Green Day). Jeremy was not only one of the nicest young men I've ever known, but definitely one of the coolest. Godspeed, Jeremy! Siempre Vida! Love and blessing to all.

Stanley Chow

December 9, 2014

I've had the pleasure of knowing Jeremy, particularly after high school. What I'll remember the most is the summer following graduation, when he would kindly host our group of friends for poker and video games nearly every evening. Together with his brother Pierre, they formed one of the most entertaining duos I've ever met. One thing that we could always relate to was our love for sports. And Jeremy was never out of reach as he was one of the original members of our high school fantasy football league back in 2008 and was still a team owner to this day. His sudden passing was felt all the way from China. To say that this tragic news shocked me is an understatement. However, he did not pass without making an amazingly positive impact as a friend, a brother, a son, and a fiance. Jeremy will never be forgotten. Every time I watch a Cal Bears game, I will always think about Jeremy Adler. RIP

courtney damm

December 9, 2014

Hi To the Alders, the kibby, & to Rachael Pringle I'm sorry for your loss I went to Pinole Valley High School with both Pierre & Jeremy Adler I knew them from around the campus they were really nice people. My thoughts & prayers r with U & your family at this time. Sincerely Courtney Damm

P.S. Jeremy will never be forgotten he will always live on in the memory of those who knew he & got the chance to meet him while he was on this earth he will always be in our hearts 4EVER.

December 9, 2014

Zhuanjia Gu

December 9, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. I had only known Jeremy for a short time, but he was one of the most genuinely sweet and kind people that I have ever had the privilege of meeting. I cannot fathom the depth of your sorrow, but please know that Jeremy's presence was like a ray of gentle sunlight and it was an honor to have known him.

Take care,

Graduation from Pinole Valley High School

Mary Fallah

December 9, 2014

Inseparable friends at the senior Disneyland trip

Mary Fallah

December 9, 2014

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