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Patricia Molter Obituary

Patricia Lynn Molter

Patricia Lynn "Patsy" Stevens Molter was called to meet her heavenly Father on Wednesday, July 18, 2012. Patsy passed away peacefully in her home with her loving family by her side.

Patsy was born June 11, 1959 in Jacksonville, Florida to the late William Robert Stevens of Lafayette and Mary Jane Stevens of Kentland, who survives. She grew up in Kentland, Indiana and graduated from South Newton High School in 1977. After high school she attended Indiana State University. She married Michael E. Molter at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church in 1980. They made their home in Lafayette and have been parishioners of St. Mary's Catholic Church. With the help of, or many may say in spite of her husband, Patsy raised two fine sons, Zachary Michael Molter of Lafayette and Nicholas John Molter of Muncie, Indiana, who survive. Her stepmother Mary Stevens of Lafayette and her dearest friends and sisters, Melinda K. "Mindy" Molter of Monticello, Jane Molter of Lafayette, and Margaret "Marcy" Molter of Westfield also survive.

Patsy was an employee of Furrow Building Materials where she worked in the accounting and management office for 15 years. Patsy and Mike formed Twin City Collision Repair Inc. in 1992 where she worked part time for three years and then full time since 1995. Patsy's skills, dedication and unwavering commitment have been the driving force in her company's growth. She and her husband own two collision centers in Lafayette and a third is currently under construction in Fishers, Indiana. She has held many positions within the company and was always eager to jump in wherever and whenever needed. Her preference, however, was always to work behind the scenes and her unassuming way of getting the job done while giving praise and credit to others was remarkable. Patsy is loved by everyone she worked with.

Patsy was involved with many Tippecanoe School Corp. activities including McCutcheon Football and Cross Country and was founder of the McCutcheon AIM program. (Adults Involved in McCutcheon) where she volunteered every week for nine years. Patsy promoted and contributed to Breast Cancer Awareness, the YWCA Women's Cancer Program, The American Cancer Society, Riley Children's Hospital and the March of Dimes. The Twin City Collision Repair Swing for a Cure Classic golf outing has always been unofficially held in her honor. She has been a volunteer at the Lafayette Urban Ministry and the Community and Family Resource Center. Being a Mother, Patsy cared deeply about all children. In 2001 she traveled to Montana and personally met with Mr. Harry Granader, a McDonald's franchisee from Detroit and founder of Camp-Mak-A-Dream, a children's oncology camp in Gold Creek, Montana. After a tour of his ranch and the children's camp with Harry and his wife, she went to work. Through her efforts with them and the National Auto Body Council she helped raise over $500,000 to build an on-site Medical Center so that children with cancer could attend a summer camp while continuing treatment. The medical center was completed in 2003. She was recognized for her work in Atlanta, Georgia and received the 2002 National Pride Award from the National Auto Body Council, the only one awarded to a collision service professional that year. But true to form Patsy declined the trip to Atlanta to receive the award in public. She needed no award and sought no credit for her work. She saw those kids and wanted to help, that's all there was to it. Patsy was one of those rare, special individuals that truly believed in service to others. She was always quick to help and to give and never asked for anything in return.

Patsy battled cancer since 1998 and did so the same way she lived her life, with amazing strength, courage, dignity, determination. Those who know her best, including her doctors and nurses, will never say that cancer beat her. Patsy "kicked cancer's ass" for over 13 years. Through her business and charitable work she has touched countless lives. Lives of people she knew and many others she will never know, and she remains an inspiration to us all. We are all better for having known her and the world is a better place for her having been here. In addition to her work, she enjoyed caring for her family and her dogs; she enjoyed reading, cooking, movies, traveling, fly-fishing, Purdue basketball, and "Football Saturdays" would find her at Ross-Ade Stadium enjoying friends and cheering on the Boilermakers. From the time she was a little girl, her favorite movie was "The Wizard of Oz" and favorite song "Somewhere Over the Rainbow". And we know that's where she is now, in Heaven, somewhere over the rainbow. When you see a rainbow please smile, say a prayer, and believe. Her light is shining on us still. Patsy will be deeply missed but shall remain forever in our hearts.

Visitation from 5-8 p.m. Friday, with Rosary at 4:45 p.m., at Hippensteel Funeral Home. Mass of Christian Burial Saturday, 10 a.m. at St. Mary Cathedral. Lunch and memories after Mass at the St. Lawrence Social Hall.

In lieu of flowers please make a contribution to one of Patsy's favorite charities, the YWCA Women's Cancer Program or Camp-Mak-A-Dream. Patsy would have liked it that way. That was always her way…giving to others.

Share memories and condolences online at www.hippensteelfuneralservice.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal & Courier from Jul. 18 to Jul. 19, 2012.

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I have always looked up to you and hope that I can learn to be as loving and strong as you. I love you and miss you so much.

Mandy Molter

July 24, 2012

Kathy Martin

July 21, 2012

Patsy was a great lady and a wonderful example of courage. She will be truly missed.

Don Schuster

July 21, 2012

Mike, the Molter and Stevens families, Although we are long way from you our thoughts and prayers have been with you for the past years. Mary Jane and family have kept us updated on the extreme fight Patsy put up for so many years. Hopefully time will heal everyone by remembering the love that Patsy had for everyone. Uncle Don and Aunt Maren.

Lisa Mithoefer

July 20, 2012

Mike, Zach and Nick, I am so sorry for your loss. I have known Patsy for a long time and she never failed to amaze me with her courage, strength and willingness to keep fighting. Truly a determined person! I am glad to have known her. My thoughts are with all of you!!!

Jaynetta Robertson

July 20, 2012

I meet Pasty through the Parent Network at McCutcheon. She make me feel welcomed, and we worked together on projects. She was a great lady, she will be missed.

Larry Arel

July 20, 2012

Mike, Nick, and Zach,
Megan and I are very Sad to hear the news of your loss. Patsy Was an amazing person, our thoughts and prayers are with you

Larry and Megan

Jacky Wroblewski

July 20, 2012

I am truly so sorry for your lost. Pasty made my whole family feel so welcomed in Lafayette. She helped me fine the best relator, school system, and if it wasn't for her i'm sure I would have gotten homesick and words can not express how this move was the best thing that happened to my whole family.. Pasty was a true and kind person. I will always remember, and yes every rainbow I see will make me think of her smile and kindness.. With love, Jacky Wroblewski

July 20, 2012

I had the fortune to teach both Zach, and Nick, thus allowing me to meet Patsy and Mike. They supported our school, Cole El. and are well thought of. I am saddened about your loss, and know that you will carry her legacy forward. Ginger Erickson

Diana Ritchie

July 20, 2012

Nick, My sincerest condolences. You know you can talk to Kendra anytime, she can completely relate to your situation.

Kendra's Mom, Diana

Becky Chase

July 19, 2012

We were blessed to know Patsy through the joy of watching her children, Zach and Nick at our Home. Our thoughts and prayers are with Mike, Zach, and Nick.
Don, Becky, Kyle, Missy, and Cody Chase

chad allen

July 19, 2012

You and Patsy taught me a lot about family and business. Patsy will be greatly missed. She was a great person, mom and friend.

Chad and Tami Allen

Julie Pepple

July 19, 2012

Mike, Zach, & Nick,

Joel & I are so very sorry for your loss. We feel so lucky just to have gotten to know her. Patsy will be greatly missed.

Julie & Joel Pepple

Jeff Snethen

July 19, 2012

Mike, Zach, & Nick,
Rachel and I are so blessed to have had known Patsy for the past 20+ years. She was a great Christian, mom, wife, friend, and humanitarian. She will be truly missed.

Jeff & Rachel Snethen

Tom & Teresa Pearson

July 19, 2012

So sorry to hear about Patsy, Our thoughts & prayers go out to Mike and family.

Jan Nielsen

July 19, 2012

The light in our world has dimmed with Patsy's passing. Our loss is definitely God's gain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Mike and family.

July 19, 2012

Mike,Zach and Nick our thoghts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. uncle larry and aunt betsy

Pat and Cassie Hayes

July 19, 2012

Mike
Our sincere condolences to you and the boys.You and Patsy did so many wonderful things together.We feel blessed that we got to know her and for your friendship. We will raise our glasses to Patsy everytime we see a rainbow! :)

DIRK &SUSAN ABBOTT

July 19, 2012

MIKE, ZACH, AND NICK:
EVERYONE THAT PATSY EVER MET WAS TOUCHED BY HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE AND LOVING WAYS. THERE ISN'T MUCH WORSE THAT THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE, BUT OUR CONTINUED PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND MARY AS YOU CONTINUE TO GO DOWN THESE NEXT FEW MONTHS AND YEARS AS IT NEVER GETS ANY EASIER. WE ARE SURE THAT SHE AND BILL ARE HAPPY TO BE WATCHING OVER US ALL FOR THE REST OF OUR DAYS, TAKE COMFORT IN THAT AS YOU CONTINUE YOUR JOURNEY AHEAD, KNOWING YOU ARE NEVER ALONE.

DIRK, SUSAN, BRITTANY ABBOTT & DANIELLE & ISAIAH RAMOS & FAMILY

Tom & Dianna Molter

July 19, 2012

Life can be so hard sometimes and We're sorry to see you hurting. The tribute to her was so special. Our sympathy and warmest thoughts are with you and your family now.

Sonia Martinez

July 19, 2012

Mike, Zach and Nick,
My thoughts are with you all. I send you my deepest sympathy.

Tammy Oswalt

July 19, 2012

Mike, Zach & Nick,
Very sorry to hear about Patsy. She will always be remembered for so many reasons... My prayer is that you find peace and comfort in Christ at this time, as He can heal the heart.
Blessings on each of you,

July 19, 2012

Mike and Family........ So sorry for your loss. Thought I would reach out and let you know you are in our prayers
Jim and Angie Schneidt

Ina Heide

July 19, 2012

Mike,Zach,Nick... We are so sorry for your loss we will keep you in our prayers. Aric and Ina Heide

July 19, 2012

Mike, Zach, & NIck,
We are so sorry for your loss. Patsy will be missed by so, so many.
Your family is in our prayers.
Brian & Heidi Myers

Susan Schuyler

July 19, 2012

What an amazing story. Patsy was an awesome lady...no doubt about it. Blessings and prayers to the Molter family. With love, Tom and Susie Schuyler

July 19, 2012

Patsy has been such an inspiration to all of us who knew her. Great lady with a pretty smile and always a kind word. You are already missed.
Kim and Deb Lafuse

Tom Brown

July 19, 2012

Mike and family... please accept our family's condolences. I know Patsy fought a long and good fight. God bless you all in this time of sadness.

Jill Molter

July 19, 2012

Aunt Patsy you were the best of us. Your strength has inspired me and forced me to reevaluate the care I take with my life. Your unforgettable light will shine forever in my heart. I love you.

Donett May

July 19, 2012

We are so sorry to hear of this Mike. May your aching heart rest in the peace of our Lord. -Eric and Donett

Jackie Zimmerman

July 19, 2012

Mike and family,

Praying for your family. Patsy was an amazing woman who is an inspiration to all of us. We were blessed to have known her and lucky enough to be related to her. I will forever think of Patsy when I see a rainbow. Hugs to you all!
The Zimmermans,
Michael, Jackie, Jill, Drew, Ben, Jonathan and Brayden

Kim Mendenhall

July 19, 2012

Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. Patsys light will shine on forever for all the great things she did in life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today and in the days ahead.

Kym Hussong

July 19, 2012

Mike and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Patsy was a courageous woman and will be missed by all.

Jeff and Patty Lawrence

July 19, 2012

She was a beautiful lady.Our prayers are with you and your family.

July 19, 2012

Mike and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Craig Meador

Mike Molter

July 19, 2012

Thank you for shining your light into my life. I love you always.
Michael

Mike Molter

July 19, 2012

I love you Honey Always and miss you so much.

Marsha Theobald

July 18, 2012

Sorry for your loss, you will be missed by all.

Marion Welsh

July 18, 2012

Heavy hearts this evening....our girls always enjoyed being around Patsy....I will miss seeing the joy in her eyes whenever she spoke of Nick and Zach.

Duck & Linda Sullivan

July 18, 2012

Mike & Boys,
What a wonderful tribute to Patsy with her obit. She was a wonderful person and we were happy and proud to call her our friend and cousin. We will miss her too.
Love
Duck & Linda

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