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Paul Graver Obituary

Graver, Paul Age 84, a lifelong resident of Plainfield, IL, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 17, 2013 at Lakewood Living Center, Plainfield. He was born on May 12, 1929 in Joliet, Illinois. Paul is survived by his loving children, Cathy (Charlie) Crews, Vicky (Kevin) D'Arcy, Paula (Chuck) Thayer, Doug Graver and Denise (Tim Lakota) Duncan; his cherished grandchildren, Casey Crews, Courtney (Scott) Walton, Jim (Teri), Brooke and Andrew D'Arcy, Paige and Derrick Sibley, Shawn (Meredith) and Christopher Thayer, Mandy (Grover) Keltz, Gretchen and Grant Duncan; his great grandchildren, C.J. and Zachary Walton, Grayson Keltz and Calvin D'Arcy; and his special angel, Audrey (the late Myron) Pennington; as well as many nieces and nephews and a lifetime of great friends. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 54 years, Thelma "Lou" Graver in 2003, and his parents, Roy and Audrey Graver. Paul grew up on the family farm in Plainfield. He was a graduate of Plainfield High School, class of 1947. He proudly served in the IL National Guard and the US Army during the Korean Conflict. He was a fearless entrepreneur from an early age. He operated many of his own businesses including Graver Implement and Graver Ready-Mix. He also operated his own school bus (#10) for the Plainfield School District, sold Winnebago's at the Plainfield Lawn & Fun Shop and was the founder and developer of Graver Country Estates. Paul dedicated over 63 years to the Plainfield Volunteer Fire Department in many capacities, including Chief. He was also a member of the American Legion Marne Post #13, Plainfield Masonic Lodge #536, the Plainfield Moose Lodge #2491, and a die-hard Cubs fan. The family would like to extend their deep appreciation to the nurses and staff of both Lakewood and Joliet Area Community Hospice for the loving care they showed him in his final days. Paul will be deeply missed and his memory will live on forever in the hearts of those he loved. For those who would like to leave a lasting tribute to Paul's life, memorials to the Plainfield United Methodist Church or Joliet Area Community Hospice, 250 Water Stone Circle, Joliet, IL 60431 would be greatly appreciated. Visitation will be Thursday, June 20, 10:00 AM until 12:00 Noon at the Plainfield United Methodist Church, 15114 S. Illinois St, Plainfield. Funeral Services will be held at 12:00 Noon in the church. Interment with military honors will follow at the Plainfield Township Cemetery. Overman-Jones Funeral Home & Cremation Services Corner of Routes 30 & 59, Plainfield, IL 60544 (815) 436-9221 or www.overman-jones.com

Published by Herald-News on Jun. 18, 2013.
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I am sorry to read of the passing of your father... You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jennie Watkins

June 21, 2013

Dear Vicky, Cathy and all the family,
We were so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. He was just such a great man with a great attitude. Please know that you are in our prayers.

Perry & Selina Brown

June 20, 2013

Dear Cathy, Vicki, Paula, Doug and Denise, I just found out about your dear dad's passing away. I will have to be with you in spirit. I want all of you to know in this moment when the loss of a loved one comes and with whom we had dependence on, it can feel like we cannot go on. We must and my prayers and Masses will be with all of you and let us accompany your dad with our prayers until we are sure he has made it home with "mom" in Heaven. Fr. Dean Stasell, LC Arcadia, CA.

June 20, 2013

To the entire Graver family - I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I will be unable to attend the services on Thursday but you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jan Brown

June 19, 2013

Dear family, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Your father, grandfather and great grandfather was a wonderful man! You are all so blessed to have had him in your lives. God rest his soul.
All our Love, The Bloughs

June 19, 2013

I was saddened to hear of Paul's passing, but know he is in the arms of Jesus and reunited with his beloved Thelma. I will be praying for all the family. Love, Wilma Williams, Class of '47.

Wilma Williams

June 18, 2013

R.I.P. BROTHER GRAVER...SO MOTE IT BE.

BROTHER JERRY

June 18, 2013

I send my love to you and hugs to each of you, Cathy, Vicky, Paula, Doug and Denise, and families. Sorry I cannot be there this week. Three days before he left us, in a phone conversation, he told me about seeing Myron and Vera about once a week when they where kids. And when I asked about Korea and his R&R in Japan, he said it was 5 days long and that they were well taken care of. Steak, good food, every day! I will remember his voice! Sweet uncle!!

Janine Marthai

June 18, 2013

The Graver Family
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Paul and my Father Bud Rossmiller both drove Plfd district 202 buses, Dad was bus #2. He and my Mother were friends of your parents. God Bless all four of them!!
George Rossmiller Rakar & Jim Rakar
Casa Grande, AZ 85122

June 18, 2013

Dear Vicki, Paula & Family...Our deepest sympathy. Thinking of you all. Mark & Kathy Ratkovich

June 18, 2013

Dear Paula and family
You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Take care
Bobbye Irvin

Bobbye Irvin

June 18, 2013

To the Graver family, sorry for your loss, your family is in our prayers.

Bobbi (Jesonowski) Johnston

June 18, 2013

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