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Edward Barry Obituary

Edward Daniel Barry of East Haddam, husband to Joan (Krauth) Barry, who was born during the blizzard of 1933, on March 21, passed away peacefully during the blizzard of 2013, on Feb. 9, at Chestelm Health Care and Rehabilitation in Moodus. He was 79 years old.

Born to Edward and Edna (Danielson) Barry, he grew up in East Windsor and graduated from Ellsworth Memorial High School in 1951. He served proudly in the United States Air Force, during the Korean War, from 1951 to 1955. After his service, he worked for 20 years as an insurance agent for Metropolitan Insurance Company until he went to work for the State of Connecticut in 1973, where he was a veterans aid investigator until 1985. From 1985 to 1987, he served as the assistant administrator for the Soldiers', Sailors', and Marines' Fund and then became administrator in 1987 until his retirement in 1999. Even after retirement, he served as a volunteer representative, helping veterans in need.

Ed was very proud of his service and others who served for this country. He joined the American Legion Post 156, where he served as department commander from 2001-2002, and was a member for 45 years. In this capacity, he would tend to veterans in need and cook at the monthly breakfasts. He was also a member of the East Haddam Lions, where he played Santa Claus at Chesthelm Health Care and Rehabilitation for decades, a member of the Knights of Columbus, a third-degree member of VFW Post 3336 and a member of ERIECO Women's Post 1586 A.L. Men's Auxiliary.

Ed loved to be outside in his yard, especially gardening, and had many beautiful vegetable gardens at his home. He was incredibly knowledgeable in American history and loved to share stories with people, and he was always reading an American history book. Living in the country of East Haddam, he enjoyed cutting trees and splitting firewood for his wood stove.

He was predeceased by his sister, Aileen Brown; and leaves behind his five children, Kathleen Barry Twigg and her husband, Harry, of Rockville, Daniel Barry of Moodus, David Barry of Moodus, Aileen Barry King and her husband, Donnie, of Vanzant, Mo., and Elizabeth Barry Hahn of East Hampton. Also, he leaves behind four siblings, John David Barry and his wife, Glenna, of East Windsor, Thelma Pease of Broad Brook, Elizabeth Wheelock and her husband, Ed, of Broad Brook, and Ann Madsen and her husband, Edward, of Spring Hill, Fla. He leaves behind 10 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

We would like to extend a very special thank you to Dr. Robert Dwyer of Essex and the entire staff at Chestelm.

Friends may call at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St., Middletown, on Friday from 5 to 8 p.m. Burial with military honors will be held in the spring at the State Veterans' Cemetery.

There will be a celebration of remembrance this Saturday, Feb. 16, at 1 p.m. at American Legion Post 156 on Neptune Avenue in Moodus.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, KS 66675; and St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal Inquirer from Feb. 14 to Feb. 18, 2013.

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Eileen Matthews Dolan

February 9, 2022

I have such fond memories of dear Ed Barry and his buddy Jim Matthews, my dad. This time of year, I think of them preparing the "Sugar Shack" to make maple syrup. An article and pictures of the two of them were given to the East Haddam Historical Society Museum. Rest in peace, friends.

February 25, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.

February 25, 2013

Dear Joan & Family,
I was sorry to hear about your husband passing. All my love and sympathy to you.
Patty Neville Murphy

Warren Bellows

February 19, 2013

Ed gave so much to his country, his community, and to the civic and veterans organizations he belonged to. I was honored to know him, and will miss him at the school programs and convalescent home visits that he would always support. I salute you Ed, for all you have done.

meghan mullarkey

February 15, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the Barry family. Mr.Barry was a great man.

Robert Hurd

February 15, 2013

Joan, Kathy and family,
Lorraine and I were saddened to learn of Ed's passing. He was always so full of life. We wish all of you our sincere condolences.
Lorraine and Bob Hurd

Don Camden

February 15, 2013

Thank you sir for your service to our Country and to our comminity. Rest in Peace. Your service is done. Stand down.

February 15, 2013

Joan-Ray and I were so sorry to hear of Ed's passing.He held a special place in the hearts of the Parady's and will be greatly missed.The American Legion will not be the same without him.Nobody could sing an Irish Jig like Ed.
Our sincerest sympathies to you and your family.
Theresa and Ray Parady

Laurie Neudecker

February 15, 2013

I am so saddened to hear of Ed's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. He will be missed by many!

Laurie Neudecker

February 14, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the Barry family. He will be missed by so many!

N Jefferson

February 14, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

February 14, 2013

Dear Joan, Bev and I were sorry to hear about your losing Ed. Ed and I, and later the four of us, enjoyed many enjoyable times over almost 70 years. We wish we had been able to see more of you recently. Our thoughts are with you and the entire Barry family. Bev and Bob Raymond Winter Park, Florida

February 14, 2013

Dear Joan and Family
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time. God Bless Bub & Arlene Williams

February 14, 2013

I was so very sorry to hear of Mr Barry passing away. I only knew him through the joy he gave to my Mother when she was in Chestelm. She caught on, after a while, who "Santa" was, but never let on. After my Mom passed my sister had to go into Chestelm and he brought her many happy moments as well. He was really a wonderful man. My thought and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Sincerely, Nancy Worthington

Matthew Cashman

February 14, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

February 12, 2013

I will never hear the first verse of "America" without hearing Ed's voice. He began every Lion's meeting with it. -- Lion Tim Cahill

Nancy Geysen

February 12, 2013

Dear Joan, Beth and family,
All my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very sad time. May warm, wonderful memories help you get through this very difficult time and give you peace. Bless you all.

K. Robert Lewis

February 12, 2013

To Ed's family and to his friends-
Reggie and I send our deepest condolences at Ed's passing. Ed made a lasting impression to everyone he met and made a difference in the lives of those who were honored to call him friend. Edward Barry loved life and lived every minute of it with vigor and zeal. We will miss him dearly and are consoled by the knowledge that he continues his conversations with old friends, free from suffering. He probably has a favorite pub already.

February 12, 2013

Dear Joan and Family:
We will always have Ed in our hearts. My memory of him will be that terrific smile and his enthusiasm for life. My Dad - and all of us - will miss him.

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