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Jeffrey Wraight Obituary
Born in Hartford, the son of the late Frank and Maureen (Lintner) Wraight, he was a lifelong resident of Vernon. Jeffrey was a graduate of Rockville High School, Class of 1969. He earned his undergraduate degree from St. Anselm College in Manchester, N.H., Class of 1973. He was presently employed by Pharmerica. He was previously assistant president for Crestwood Products before becoming a partner in a commercial plastic bags company. Jeff was known not only for his amazing generosity and extreme thoughtfulness, but also for his witty humor, infectious laugh and predictable corny jokes. A classic lesson in logic involved explaining why fire engines were red. In his rare free time, he loved to be with friends and visit the beach while enjoying a good lobster dinner. Collecting "collectibles" was a passion, giving each precious item a completely detailed history. His most recent pride was submitting pictures and information highlighting his family history for a publication about the history of Willington. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus.
Jeff is survived by his sister, Darby Schwartz and her husband, Marty, of Mansfield Center; his niece, Brigitta; and two nephews, Andreas and Byron, whose deep love for him has always been obvious with each encounter.
A celebration of his life will be held at his sister's house Sunday, Oct. 6, at 2 p.m.
Interment will be private in St. Mary Cemetery.
Memorial donations in his memory may be made either to St. Anselm College, Alumni Association, 100 St. Anselm Drive, Manchester, NH 03102; or Hockanum Valley Community Council, 29 Naek Road, Suite 5a, Vernon, CT 06066.
Ladd-Turkington & Carmon Funeral Home in Vernon is caring for the arrangements.
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Steve Harney
November 9, 2013
"Sticky" (Jeff) my good St. A's friend I will never forget you. Sorry
you had to go so soon. Thanks for the memories: Hawaii, Cape Cod, New Years parties with the "boys"- ah! those were the days. You will live on forever with the St. A's guys! Rest in peace.
God Bless,
Steve ("Doc") Harney ( St. Anselm class of 1974)
October 8, 2013
I heard today about Jeff's passing. Both Dick and I are very sad to hear this. You really captured Jeff in your write-up. He was a unique and fun spirit and a nice, sincere person.
Our best to all his family.
Pat and Dick Mather
Ms. Robin Addison McAllister
October 8, 2013
I just found out this morning about Jeff's passing. Darby, my sincere condolences go to you and your family. Jeff was one of a kind. I will never forget his sharp wit and intelligence. My mom especially loved him like a son. I will never forget him.
Sonny LaPointe
October 7, 2013
Always a good friend and fun to be with
He will be missed. All my love to his family
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October 7, 2013
Hello Darby
As you know, the "stickman" lived life to the fullest. He got his money's worth. He drove us away in his car at our wedding and will love him always.
RIP Bro !
Chris and Kathy Keller
October 7, 2013
Darby and family,
I was so sorry to here of Jeff's passing. He was a true friend and St A's classmate. We will have a remembrance for Jeff when we all gather for our annual ST A's golf tournament. Our prayers and thoughts are with him and sympathy to you and your family.
Paul, Karen and Michael Healy
George Lee
October 7, 2013
Will always remember Jeff from RHS and band. A truly great guy who was a friend to all. We shared an off-the-wall sense of humor, sometimes to the dismay of Sam Goldfarb in band.....but I think we cracked him up too most of the time. Jeff will be missed by all who were fortunate to know him. May he rest in peace.
Sharon O'Bara Sandler
October 7, 2013
So sorry to hear of Jeff's passing far too soon. As a fellow graduate of RHS class of 69, may he R.I.P.
Sharon O'Bara Sandler
October 7, 2013
So sorry to hear of Jeff's passing far too soon. As a fellow graduate of RHS 69. May he R.I.P.
Annette Browning
October 6, 2013
Darby and family, I was so sorry to hear that Jeff had passed away suddenly. I was in the RHS class of 69 with Jeff. I have many wonderful memories of the plays that we acted in together especially The Man Who Came To Dinner. Jeff was an amazing talented actor and was admired by all for his kindness, humor, and thoughtfulness. He will be dearly missed. May fond memories of Jeff comfort you in the difficult days ahead and bring you peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I know Jeff will always watch over you and protect from above.
October 6, 2013
I remeber Jeff from Rockville High School. He was always so popular and a friend to all. He will be missed. Susan Grindal Paquette
Valerie Samson Bernier
October 5, 2013
So sad, so sorry for your loss. I remember Jeff as one of the nicest and friendliest in our class in High School. Our prayers are with you.
Ed Clark
October 5, 2013
Darby,
I am so sorry for your loss as I pray for you and Jeff in his young loss. Jeff meant so much to us as kids in Vernon: He was fun to be with, a leader and we were Thespians together. Bless you and your family.
Deborah Bruce-Hamilton
October 5, 2013
I'll always remember Jeff as a leader and a friend with a shoulder always available to cry on. R.I.P. dear friend.
James Conway
October 5, 2013
Jeff was one of the most fun-loving and memorable members of the RHS, Class of "69 but more important he was, plain and simple, a good man.
We will miss him as someone who always kept the spirit of the Class of "69 alive.
Godspeed!
Jeff at the 40th
Debbie Hess Vance
October 5, 2013
Here's Jeff at the 40th reunion, making sure the reporter from the JI got everything right! It is so sad to know that he will not be with us next year at our 45th. Jeff was always there!
Jeff with Sonny and Ed at the 30th
Debbie Hess Vance
October 5, 2013
Here is Jeff at our 30th reunion - having a great time (as usual)!
Jeff on right belly dancing!
Debbie Hess Vance
October 5, 2013
Here is a picture of Jeff at our 25th reunion (he's on the right, learning to do a belly dance from classmate Shelly Numrych). Jeff was always willing to laugh at himself!
Jeff and Beth at RHS Class of '69 20th reunion
Debbie Hess Vance
October 5, 2013
Darby - I wanted to add some more pictures of Jeff from across the years at our reunions. Here's a formal one of Jeff and Beth at our 20th.
Beth McCarthy
October 5, 2013
Darby so sorry we can't be with you at this diffucult time, just know we are thinking of you and your family. Love and prayers coming you way. Rest in peace Jeff you will be missed! With love, Kay, Sue, Beth and family
October 5, 2013
Darby - Love and sincere condolences to you, Marty and your children. Rest in Peace Jeffrey.
Donald Hatfield
October 5, 2013
Sorry for your loss. Jeff was along time friend and co worker.He will be missed
Bob Flynn
October 5, 2013
My sincere condolences on your loss. Jeff was a wonderful guy. He was a standout member of the standout Rockville High Class of 1969. We will all miss him.
Donna Dutton-Cartner
October 5, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss, Darby. I was a classmate of Jeff's and we had many good times and laughs in Thespian Society and band. I still have fond memories of our senior play,"The Man Who Came to Dinner."
Carrie Curcuro
October 5, 2013
To Jeff's family, friends,& coworkers,
He was always a pleasure and very professional delivering for our Retirement Center. He will be missed by all. Thoughts and prayers to Jeff's family. May the fondest of memories bring you all comfort.
Jan Streifer
October 5, 2013
Darby,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have such fond memories of Jeff from RHS band days - so much fun! He was such a gentle soul with an enormous heart!
Jan Kayan Streifer
Jeff in Science lab 1969
Debbie Hess Vance
October 5, 2013
Jeff is so fondly remembered by so many in the Rockville High School Class of 1969. He was one of a kind.
Ed deGroat
October 5, 2013
Darby - You'll find a picture of you, Jeff and me on my Facebook page. It was taken at Sam Goldfarb's Memorial. It brings back fond memories of Jeff.
Ed DeGroat
October 5, 2013
My condolences go to Darby and the friends and relatives of Jeff. I remember his laughter and good humor so fondly. Such a tragedy.
David Lee
October 5, 2013
Jeff's zest for life was contagious. His outgoing personality endeared him to those he met. Thanks for the memories Jeff. I'll miss you.
Mary Sepowitz
October 5, 2013
Jeff touched so many, many lives with his wisdom, wonderful humor and kind gentle spirit. The world is a much better place because Jeff was here. The whole Fairview family will miss your daily cheerful visits. Rest in peace my dear friend.
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