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Sharon Bourke Obituary

Sharon Hannaford Bourke, 56, of Windsor Locks passed away peacefully on May 25, 2013, at her home, surrounded by her loving family, after a short and courageous battle with cancer.

Sharon leaves behind her two sons, Logan Bourke and his wife, Samantha, of Portland and Torin Bourke, serving in the U.S. Coast Guard stationed in New Jersey.

Sharon was born Jan. 22, 1957, to the late George H. Hannaford and Mildred (Wherry) Hannaford. Sharon graduated from East Windsor High School, class of 1975, and continued her education at the University of New Haven, earning a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology. After completing her education Sharon began a career in public safety as a police dispatcher, the first five years with the South Windsor Police Department and the last 18 years with the East Windsor Police Department. Sharon was always known as a loving, caring, generous person, willing to help anyone at any time. Sharon always gave of herself to others with no expectation of anything in return, this being evident in both her professional career and personal life. Sharon will always be remembered for her sense of humor.

Sharon adored her family and friends, especially her sons and twin sister, Kris, enjoying every moment spent with them. Sharon loved animals of all types, especially her beloved cat, Harley, and her three cherished dogs, Sadie, Riley, and Teddy. In addition to her two sons, Sharon leaves behind her twin sister and best friend, Kristen Hannaford Baker and her partner, Deborah Laduke, of Windsor Locks; brother, Michael Hannaford and his wife, Melanie, of Windsor Locks, and brother, Richard Hannaford and his wife, Lempi, of Vernon. She also leaves behind her beloved nieces and nephews, James Baker, Jessica Baker, Jessica's daughter, Emily Jeffers, whom Sharon always had a special place in her heart for and whom she truly adored, Jodie Baker, Michael Hannaford, Andrew Hannaford, Janice Hannaford, Alan Hannaford, Helen Benton, Nathan Benton, Drew Benton, and Harry Benton. Sharon is also survived by her ex-husband, Donald Bourke of Windsor Locks, whom she remained very good friends with, Donald's father, Edward Bourke, and Donald's sister and brother-in-law, Dr. Diane and husband, Dr. Robert Benton, of New York. Sharon left behind a second family, that being the members of the East Windsor Police Department, whom she truly respected as colleagues and friends. The members of the department were very supportive of Sharon during her battle with cancer. Sharon thanks those who sent cards and flowers and who took time to visit her at both the hospital and her home. Your show of unity and support shall never be forgotten.

Sharon's family would like to thank the 6th floor nursing staff at St. Francis Hospital, Dr. Jaykmur Thumar of the hematology and oncology department at St. Francis Medical Group, and Masonicare, with special gratitude to Lisa Spencer, Sharon's hospice nurse, for their care of Sharon during her illness.

Relatives and friends may gather with her family during calling hours on Wednesday, May 29, 2013, from 5 to 8 p.m. at Bassinger and Dowd Funeral Home, 37 Gardner St., East Windsor.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, May 30, 2013, at 10 a.m., at St. Philip Church, 150 S. Main St., East Windsor. Burial will follow at the Springdale Cemetery, Main Street, Warehouse Point.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to any animal shelter/rescue facility and/or cancer research/hospice facility of the donor's choice.

For online condolences and more information, visit

www.bassingerdowdfh.com

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Published by Journal Inquirer from May 27 to May 31, 2013.

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Kris Bowsza

May 21, 2024

Always remembered. Always loved.

Dave Morton

May 21, 2024

I stopped by not long ago and there is going to be a clean-up during April, but I'll go back and make sure it's done properly soon. The plaque you made for me is still in a place of honor in my home and always will be.

Jenn Olko

May 21, 2019

Not a day goes by that I dont think of you. I love and miss you something silly....

Dave Morton

May 21, 2019

My camper buddy always....many places unshared because of the time. An eternal smile and a good laugh. My friend and a lady I still visit.

Kat McCormick Kevin Lovett

June 19, 2013

Sharon, I didn't sign my June 2 entry...I want you to know how much you are missed and loved every day...

Barbara Stears-Clisby

June 19, 2013

I just recently heard of Sharon's passing and I still in shock to this day. We met by chance as strangers, and will always be friends. You were there for me at a difficult time in my life. I am very thankful for that time and will cherish it forever. May you rest in peace! Another angel has gotten their wings. May you sore forever more! Love You and Miss You Already!

June 2, 2013

Sharon, I love you with all of my heart and will forever miss you. Kevin always talks about how sweet you were when he didn't know anyone at your friends party, and that you talked with him for a long time and made him feel welcome. You always had that ability. I had not known you very long, but your laugh, smile and wit drew me to you. I am happy that we never left each other without saying "I love you". "I still laugh every time I think of your dogs making me be their "furniture", and how much fun we had just having "whine" and cheese...I love you and will always be thankful that I had the opportunity to be in your life. My deepest condolences to your family and friends...

Peter Pierce

May 30, 2013

Sharon is deeply missed. The light of her life continues to shine and always will.

Jim Stankevich

May 29, 2013

Mike, Kris, and Family,

A very sad day when an extended family member passes. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family and Sharon will be deeply missed.

Dave Morton

May 29, 2013

Sharon was my wonderful friend. She enjoyed a hearty laugh and the company of loved ones always. From my house to your homes, my deepest sympathy.

Dave Morton

May 29, 2013

Sharon was my wonderful friend. She enjoyed a hearty laugh and the company of loved ones. From my house to your homes, my deepest sympathy.

Pamela DePaulo

May 29, 2013

My deepest sympathies to Kris and her family. Sharon was like a sister to me. I will never forget all the wonderful times we shared together. You have a special place in my heart forever.

Kris Bowsza

May 29, 2013

Rest in Eternal Peace, old friend. May angels welcome you and may light perpetual shine upon your beautiful soul.

David McNeice

May 29, 2013

Very Sad for the East Windsor Police Department family. My thoughts and prayers go out to family and friends.

May 28, 2013

When I was born I was blessed to have two wonderful sisters, even more special they were twins. Both my sisters watched over me while I grew, both personally and eventually, professionally. Now I have one sister watching over me here and one watching over me from above. Sharon, you were a wonderful, kind and generous sister, whom I will always love. You will be deeply missed. Your brother.

Sandy & Paul Smith

May 28, 2013

To Family, Sharon will be missed greatly but remember all good times and she will always be in our hearts.

Lori Norris

May 28, 2013

Kristen, I am so sorry to hear about your sister. Try to remember the good times and all the fun things you did together and let those memories carry you though this difficult time. Love Lori N.

Andrea Krause

May 28, 2013

I will truly miss this special lady. I only knew her for about a year but I am so grateful to have had the chance. She was sassy, funny, kind, and full of life. She was warm and welcoming to me from the moment we met and I considered her a kindred spirit. All my love to the family and friends left behind, may the good memories be a comfort.

Mark Butterfield

May 28, 2013

I am truly devastated to hear this news. No words can express how truly wonderful you are. I always looked forward to going to dispatch when you were on duty and nobody can replace that thoughtful and sincere smile you always had. Such a wonderful and caring person. You will be truly missed

jenn olko

May 27, 2013

Words cannot express the amount I miss you already. You are one in a million. I treasure our friendship now and for always. I love you.

Jeannette Eagan

May 27, 2013

Our deepest sympathy and Sharon will always be with you in your heart. Our thoughts and prayers go to Logan,Torin,Donald and The Hannaford Family.

Melanie Hannaford

May 27, 2013

My heart is heavy with losing the most caring, loving sister-in-law. You will always be with me!

Melanie Hannaford

May 27, 2013

My heart is heavy with losing the most caring, loving sister-in-law. Love you always and forever!

The Bretons

May 27, 2013

To Mike and Kris, Our prayers and greatest sympathy go out to you at this time of great sorrow.

Doug Humphrey

May 27, 2013

Goodbye my friend

deborah laduke

May 27, 2013

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

May 27, 2013

We send our deepest sympathy. There are no words adequate at this time . Be assured of our continued prayers. May your memories of Sharon one day bring comfort & peace
Our Love & sympathy
Dennis & Ann Bixler

Cindy Urso

May 27, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Skip Bourke

May 27, 2013

We are remembering Sharon on this Memorial Day. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Logan, Torin, and Donald, and the Hannaford family.
Skip and Cindy Bourke

Eileen Pearce

May 27, 2013

I am so sad to hear this news. Sharon's smile always lit up the library when she came in to share book recommendations and talk about her kids. My thoughts and sympathy are will all of you at this difficult time.

May 27, 2013

I'll miss you forever...love, your other half

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