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Shirley Arena Obituary
Born Nov. 15, 1938, in Enfield, she was the daughter of the late Leon and Rosalie (Miner) King. Shirley raised her family in Enfield and resided in Windsor Locks for the past 21 years. She was employed for more than 30 years at Cooper Crouse-Hinds before her retirement. Shirley's family was everything to her and time spent with them was what she cherished the most. Hugs from her grandchildren made her smile, and her unique sense of humor and wit sparked their imagination. Shirley found great joy in crocheting gifts and passing them on to others. She loved baking for her family, as well as taking long car rides with her husband. She also enjoyed her online socializing with family and friends.
Shirley will be greatly missed by her beloved husband, Thomas; her five children, Kim Zaine and her husband, Frank, of Enfield, Thomas Arena Jr. and his wife, Cindy, of Ellington, Penny Moler of Enfield, Michael Arena and Pamela Fowler of Enfield and Wendy Lee and Michael Jodoin of Ludlow, Mass.; her 12 grandchildren; John, Rebecca, Melissa, Adam, Stacey, Jennifer, Amanda, Alex, Shane, Brenton, Jennifer and Michael; and eight great-grandchildren; her extended family, John Moler and Charmaine Arena; her brother James King and his wife, Ann, of Florida; her two sisters, Viola Landry of Enfield and Mary Schultz of Stafford; a brother-in-law, Frank Arena and his wife Carol; and a beloved sister-in-law, Bonnie Arena; and several loving nieces and nephews. Besides her parents, Shirley is preceded in death by four brothers and one sister.
Relatives and friends are invited to a gathering at Windsor Locks Funeral Home, 441 Spring St., to remember and share memories of Shirley's life on Saturday, Dec. 7, from 2 until 4 p.m. A funeral service for Shirley will immediately follow at the funeral home at 4 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family will accept donations to be used for a memorial bench in Shirley's name at the Winhall Brook Campground for future generations to enjoy.
A memorial fund has been established in Shirley's name at 360 Federal Credit Union, 191 Ella Grasso Turnpike, Windsor Locks, CT 06096.
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ken & sue stanat
December 19, 2013
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Kevin Montemagni
December 9, 2013
Kim and Tom,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. I am sure she was a wonderful person. Always in my prayers.
December 7, 2013
So sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful person. Love Jackie
Bob and Teresa Hebebrand
December 7, 2013
We are sorry for the loss of your mother, you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
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December 6, 2013
My condolences go to the family, your in my prayers.
Shirley Banning
Rick Klaus
December 6, 2013
To the Arena's:
My deepest sympathy for your loss. Kim always spoke of her with fondness.
Tony Gebhart
December 6, 2013
Kim and Tom,
I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 6, 2013
Kim and Tom,
I am very sorrow to hear of the loss of your mother. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tony Gebhart
December 6, 2013
Kim and family, so sad to hear this news. I have wonderful memories of your mom, she was a wonderful person who always made everyone feel special!
You are in my thoughts & prayers
Kathy (Gregson) DeVall
John McCartan
December 6, 2013
Tom and Kim and your repective families I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother always remember the good times you had.
Cheryl Sodano
December 6, 2013
Sorry for your loss Penny. We will keep you and the family in our thoughts and prayers through this time.
Kris Balukonis
December 6, 2013
Kim,
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Pauline & Gerry White
December 6, 2013
Kim and Tom... So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom
Mark Bratter
December 6, 2013
Kim and Tom, my deepest sympathies for your loss.
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