Edward Tluck Obituary

Edward E. Tluck, 50, of Hebron and formerly of Manchester, beloved husband for over 27 years of Joan E. (Cartwright) Tluck, continued his journey into heaven, Saturday, Oct. 13, 2012, at his home with his family at his side after an inspirational fight against brain cancer.

Ed was born Oct. 18, 1961, in Manchester, son of Margaret (Gally) Tluck of Manchester and the late Andrew Emil Tluck. Ed attended Verplanck Elementary, Bennet Junior High, and was a 1979 graduate of Manchester High School. He went on to earn his bachelor's degree in business management from the University of Connecticut with the Class of 1983. Ed's 26-year career as a mortgage loan officer had him working for several banks and mortgage companies and most recently with Webster Bank. He was well respected in his field and owned his own mortgage company for several years as well.

In addition to his wife and mother, he is survived by and was a loving father of three: twin boys, Alex C. Tluck and Connor E. Tluck, and daughter, Kayla M. Tluck, all of Hebron. He also leaves his sister, Linda Ott, and her husband, Richard, and their children, Dean and Eric Ott, all of Manchester. Ed also leaves two sisters-in-law, Patricia Daniel, and her husband, Dean, of Coventry and Judy Calvert, and her late wife, Leslie MacLeman, of Vernon. He also leaves a brother-in-law, George Cartwright of Florida. He is survived by several loving and loved nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews. "Uncca Ed" will truly be missed.

Ed had countless close friends and neighbors whom he treasured. He enjoyed time spent with friends, meetings with "The Wildcats," traveling, camping, skiing, biking, campfires (the bigger the better), and mostly recently became a devoted runner who completed a 5k just this past Aug. 5. Ed was an active and faithful member of Gilead Congregational Church, where he was affectionately known as the one and only "Chef Ed." He served on the Board of Deacons and was chairperson for a number of years. He was also instrumental in starting a Men's Fellowship and served as chairman and co-chairman for many years. Ed loved every minute coaching his children in basketball and baseball in their younger years.

Funeral services will be held Wednesday, Oct. 17, 2012, at 11 a.m. at the Gilead Congregational Church, 672 Gilead St. (Route 85), Hebron. Burial will be private in the church's Garden of Remembrance. Calling hours will be held Tuesday from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Holmes Funeral Home, 400 Main St., Manchester.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Team Tluck Educational Fund, P.O. Box 711, South Windsor, CT, 06074, or to the Gilead Congregational Church Garden of Remembrance Fund, 672 Gilead St., Hebron, CT 06248.

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Published by Journal Inquirer from Oct. 15 to Oct. 19, 2012.
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To the Tluck Family, My husband and I just heard of Ed's passing yesterday and are so sorry for your loss. Ed was so wonderful in helping our family through a difficult time, and we will be forever greatful for him.

November 9, 2012

Dear Joan and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Ed met his illness with such grace and humor. His attitude was truly amazing. You were all impressive caregivers who were completely dedicated to each other. Thinking of you.

Kathy Burns

October 19, 2012

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I thoroughly enjoyed having the kids in class at Gilead Hill, and know how hard this has hit the family. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Marcia Eaton

October 18, 2012

Dear Joan and family, we're sorry we never got to meet Ed. Did meet his sister at a Round Table reunion. We are so sorry that you all had to go through so much this last year. I prayed Ed would have a miracle and recover, but I guess his miracle was his life with you and your kids.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time. I wish there were better words to give you comfort. As someone else said, you have a new angel watching over you all.
Sincerely, Bob and Rosemary Perry and family

October 18, 2012

Joan and Family
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends

Betty Cyr @ WebsterBank

October 17, 2012

Dearest, Sweet Joan and family, I never look at the obituary but felt the need to on Tues. and was shocked to see Ed's picture! I'm so sad for you and the kids and my heart goes out to you. I will always remember the great times we had skiing in Killington, biking all over the place, going on vacation in Myrtle Beach. We had some AWESOME times that I will NEVER forget. I remember Ed singing 'It's my birthday and I'll cry if I want to..." at his 30th!! He always had us laughing. Such an amazing, caring, loving man and father. I'm so grateful that you two were such a big part of our lives. So sorry we lost touch but I want you to know that I have always adored you both. Be strong and hug your babies tight!! Love Always,

Kara Dayton

October 17, 2012

Thinking of and praying for you all. Never met Ed personally but have heard so many wonderful stories and you all are such a strong and inspiring family. xoxo -Monika

Monika Tutinas

October 17, 2012

Joan, I'm so sorry for your loss and so sad for you and your kids. Love to you all! Alison Lentocha

October 17, 2012

Joanne and family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ed was a great friend and wonderful man and I have such fond memories of him while growing up in Manchester, while in Bennett and at MHS. We all now have another Angel watching over us. His strength will carry you through. Bev.

Beverly [Dowd] O'Brien

October 17, 2012

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Ed. My daughter was lucky enough to be coached by Ed one year in basketball. He had some wonderful words to say about her at the end of the season. He was a true class act.

J Marinelli

October 17, 2012

Thoughts and prayers to all of you at this difficult time. Uncle Ed is smiling down on everyone and watching over you guys. Cherish the memories xoxo

Kristen Desrosiers

October 17, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I grew up with Ed, from middle school through H.S. graduation. He was always such a great guy. To his children...always be proud. To his wife...you were blessed. Godspeed Ed.

Robin Mattarelli

October 16, 2012

Tluck Family,
My deepest sympathies to all. I worked with Ed. a few years ago. He always had a smile. God Bless.
Louise Fitzgerald

October 16, 2012

Deepest sympathies in this time of sorrow. The Irwin Family

Krean Irwin

October 16, 2012

Our deepest sympathies.You will always be a part of our team. Paul Steiner and the RHAM Baseball program

October 16, 2012

It's been a while (20th reunion??) since I saw Ed last but remember many fun times at Bennett and MHS. Seems like he never changed and was still as fun-loving as ever. So sorry for your loss. Nicole (Bourgoin) Tedford

October 16, 2012

Joannie and family, very sorry to hear about Ed, he was such a great guy. Love Janet and Joe Lovell

janet lovell

October 16, 2012

To The Tluck Family,
My first and vivid memory of Ed was at Verplanck School cafeteria. I had lunch duty and was the playgound aide. He was a great kid, and he brought in Chocolate cake with chocolate icing that his Mother made. He shared some with me, and from that day on when he brought her cake in, he would always offer me some. Funny how some little things stay with you forever. I did get to talk with him when his twins came along, and he still was that nice kid from way back when. I am sorry for you loss. Try to remember the good times. God Bless you all.
Shirley Schoeneberger

Shirley Schoeneberger

October 16, 2012

My prayers are with the Tluck Family during this time. I will miss Ed and our twice a year luncheon's. God Bless you Ed!

Alice Patz

October 16, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers have been, and will continue to be with you and your family. Ayla misses you. And she prays for you also.

the Coulombe family

October 16, 2012

Dear Joan and family,
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Ed's illness and passing. We have been apart for many years and I have many memories of little Eddie and wrestling matches and since I am 11 years older I hd a slight edge. I know e grew up to be a loving and good man. Maryann and I both have appointments and Weds. that must go to. Due to my disability I driving short distances or call the mini bus. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless Hank and Maryann Klein

October 16, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Ed's passing he has touched so many lives and will be remembered for his bravery and strength throughout the long battle as well as the immense love for his family. I am praying for all of you.

Diana McNamara

October 16, 2012

I'll always remember Ed as one of those great guys from high school, one whose intelligence, kindness, and sparkling personality left an everlasting impression on those who knew him. My heartfelt sympathy to you, Joan. The journey continues in Heaven.

October 16, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about Ed's passing. I worked with Ed back in the early 90's at Northeast Savings Bank and I remember him as the nicest and most caring guy and someone who adored his family very much. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family during this difficult time.

Bobbi Hansen

October 16, 2012

I was so saddened to read of Ed's passing. I knew "Eddie" growing up as I was his sister's best friend through Junior High and High School. Eddie was a sweet and loving brother, and a lot of fun. I know that he grew into a wonderful man who will be missed by many. He is not gone, he is beyond the wall where we cannot see him but know he is growing still in the light of God. Blessings to his family.

Cindy (Dodson) Kiesewetter

October 16, 2012

Dear Joan and family,
Regrets, I have a few and one great one is that I never saw Ed during his fight. At 60, I'm still learning that business should not take precedent over dear friends but I trust that Ed understood that I knew he will always be close to my heart as we have too many great times to cherish. I am holding your heavy hearts as you begin to walk life without him but trust me when I say he will show his presence to you in a song, a bird, a penny - something that will make you aware that he's right there.
"Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday. Unseen, unheard but always near, still loved, missed and very dear".

God is with all of you as He was and is with Ed. He will not let you down. Someday you'll look back on this journey and wonder how you all got thru it. HE was holding you up the entire way. I know your faith will sustain you in the days ahead.

All my love,

Chris

Chris Benson Rose

October 16, 2012

Mrs. Tluck, are thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You are an Awesome Person, Teacher...We love you lots..Love Rielly Mortimer...Bowers School....

Shannon McIntosh

October 16, 2012

You're in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

Louise Gerber

October 16, 2012

Dear Joan and Family
I am out of town and will be unable to attend to honor my dear friend Ed but I am thinking of all of you and praying for you at this very sad time.

Joanne Breen

October 16, 2012

Joan and family-I was so deeply saddened to learn of Ed's illness and passing. I have such fond memories of Ed from our MHS days. Please know I am thinking of you and praying for you. Much love.

Kathy Link

October 16, 2012

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

Holmes Funeral Home - Manchester

October 16, 2012

Tluck Family,
Our hearts our heavy and our thoughts have been with you and the kids. Though we have lived away for sometime now I kept updated throught the Caring Bridge and all your wonderful friends who let us constantly know how you were doing. We were saddened to recieve the news of Ed"s passing Sunday morning. Much love and peace to you all while you make your way through this part of the journey.
The Kluza Family

Gina Kluza

October 16, 2012

Uncle Ed was such a great man! Always so caring, funny and truly inspirational. He will always be missed and never forgotten! XoXo love u

Casey Calvert

October 15, 2012

Dear Joan & family
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at the passing of such a great & funny man! So glad we had a chance to see him one last time this summer. Rest in Peace Ed you will never be fogotten!

Tom & Laureen Mainville

October 15, 2012

The Tluck family are in my prayers at this difficult time...R.I.P. ED

Donna Bilodeau

October 15, 2012

Dear Joan, Alex, Connor, and Kayla,
Your devoted and loving husband and father was a selfless friend to all of us. His legacy will live on through all of you. Cherish each and every moment spent together. Holding the four of you, all of your extended family, and all who were fortunate enough to know him close in prayer.
With all of our love and sympathy, Daniel, Alison, Liam, Travis, and Camille Pape
Love, The Pape Family

Alison Pape

October 15, 2012

The "Can do Man" his time in this life was short, his impact everlasting. Happy to have worked with your Husband & Dad respected & admired by all.
condolences. Patricia Konturas/Liberty Bank.

October 15, 2012

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