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Mary C. McBride

1944 - 2014

Mary C. McBride obituary, 1944-2014, Shorewood, WI

Mary McBride Obituary

McBride, Mary C. Dr. Mary C. McBride, recently honored by administrators of the Arlington County Public Schools and her colleagues at the Hoffman-Boston Woodlawn Secondary Program for 45 years of distinguished service as a teacher - administrator, died suddenly on May 26, 2014. The daughter of John (Jack) McBride, a Wisconsin state legislator and federal magistrate and Claire Bannen, a homemaker, Mary was born February 14, 1944 in Milwaukee. She attended St. Robert School and Dominican High School, Trinity College in Washington, DC, and Santa Clara University in California where she earned a BA degree in 1966. While teaching at Shaw Junior high school in the District of Columbia, she studied for an MA degree in American history at Georgetown University. When she applied for a history teacher opening in Arlington, the interviewer worried about her small stature, but she assured him that she was a veteran of Shaw and ready (he regretted his question for years). Mary began her professional career as head-teacher at H-B Woodlawn in its first years and helped shape its development into a special alternative public high school program, providing quality education in a setting that encouraged student creativity and initiative. Her dissertation for her doctorate in Education Administration at the University of Maryland explored the programs of alternative public schools in the Eastern states. Mary served on important Arlington School committees on diversity, curricula, and standards. In the community she volunteered at the Arlington Food Assistance program and often appeared with a casserole on the doorstep of an ailing colleague or new parent. A highly skilled tennis player (Wisconsin Girls Doubles Champion in her teens), she moved on to golf and swimming more recently. A successful administrator despite her deep sense of humor, Mary McBride was above all a master teacher. Her ability to make history live, her concern and respect for her students, and her ability to remember them years later have made her a legend in Arlington. Indeed, many old students remember her jokes and kindnesses as well as the New Deal. Her brothers John, Dennis, and sister-in-law Tracy, and niece, Kathryn Taubert predeceased her. She is survived by her sister, Anne Taubert , brother-in-law Bruce , sister-in-law Colleen, Othello McBride, and several generations of nieces and nephews. She will be missed by her close friends from grade and grad school, her friends in the Safeway checkout lines, and by her colleagues and students. In celebration of Mary's life, family and friends should gather at Holy Cross Cemetery in the West Chapel (7301 W. Nash St., Milwaukee) on Thursday, June 5, from 10:30 AM until the time of a Catholic Prayer Service at 11:00 AM. Interment at the cemetery will follow. In loving memory of Mary, contributions appreciated to the Mary McBride Scholarship Fund, c/o H-B Woodlawn School, 4100 Vacation Lane, Arlington, VA 22207. Shakespeare wrote not of Hamlet but of Mary McBride when he said "She was a woman, take her for all in all. I shall not look upon her like again."

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Jun. 1, 2014.

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Mary Carroll

June 1, 2023

I will always remember Mary with great fondness, and a great big dollop of her wonderful sense of humor, which always was accompanied by a hearty laugh. I just can´t believe she´s been gone for so long...Mary Carry

Micki Toal

May 26, 2020

Thank you, Mary McBride for always, and in all ways...authentically "being" ...Mary McBride."

June 19, 2015

A kind message from Ireland from Mary C Mc Bride in Ireland in memory of Mary C Mc Bride in America

June 29, 2014

To Anne whom I had the pleasure of meeting at Mary's retirement party: I am still in shock over this unexpected event, as are we all. But I was so glad to have spent the time chatting with you and Mary -Mary and I always had a great time working together when I was at H-B. A whole lot of laughing -- I'll never forget her terrific spirit and joy for life. Mary Carroll

Albert Van Thournout

June 23, 2014

Mary, I drove to Baltimore to have dinner with Neal and Jane last week and felt like a widower the entire drive. I can't remember a time before when you were not in the passenger seat for our happy times in Baltimore. It's almost a month since you've gone You are on my mind every day.

June 17, 2014

RIP Mary I'm sure you're amongst the Angles, your presences around the track will be missed.
Jill Arlington VA

Elizabeth Bayliss

June 10, 2014

Mary was my grandmother's (Margaret Stevens) best friend and I grew up sharing vacations, holidays and laughs with her. She was such a fun and witty person and I know she will be truly missed. The world needs more people in it like Mary Mcbride.
I am so so sorry to hear of this news. My sincerest condolences to her family.

Suzanne M Kessler

June 4, 2014

Mary and I have life paths that have crossed beginning in the summer of 1954 as 10 year old campers at Catholic Girls' Camp in Central Wisconsin. Others have already mentioned Mary's consistent method for entering a swimming pool. I'm willing to bet it's the method ingrained in all of us at CGC…! Mary and I next saw one another in 1958 at Dominican High School as classmates (class of 1962). Finally, Mary did her student teaching in the first semester of 1966 at Whitefish Bay High School. It's where I was hired as a teacher in September, 1967 and taught for the next 45 years. When Mary's mentoring teacher and several of the students with whom she'd worked realized that I knew her, they wanted to share their memories of her – all filled with her humor, intellectual prowess, common sense and empathy. “I have loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night” (Sarah Williams) This seems one way to remember Mary but what's missing in remembering her with this thought is ALL that she loved so passionately and profoundly: people, music, Othello McBride, teaching/mentoring, sports, knitting, etc. …it's an incredibly long list isn't it? Mary's gift to me as well as many others = her invisible touch which continues to share unconditional love and encouragement each of us gets to receive as well as share. “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal.” Thanks, Mary. Suzy (Wills-)Kessler

Catherine Catalane-Bury

June 3, 2014

The Catalanes have laughed so hard with this dear woman over the years, it is unimaginable we won't be able to do it anymore. Our family simply adored Mary. Everyone did. She had such an enduring charm and Irish wit, and she was so kind and intelligent. We were blessed to know her and call her friend for so many years. Our hearts are truly heavy at the sudden loss of such a dear woman and friend, but we are rich with cherished memories of one of the most delightful, wonderful people on the planet. We'd better see you again somewhere, someday, Mary. The laughing isn't really over, it's just on hold.

Ann Cherlow

June 3, 2014

Mary made early swims at Yorktown High School's pool more fun. She always started with a shallow dive into the pool, falling over the edge, head first, from a spot near the "No Diving" sign. She then swam for a short time, graciously ceding her lane to arriving swimmers. In the locker room she 'dove' into conversations, frequently pointing out the facts of current events, usually in an amusing way (even when those facts described a world that was anything but amusing). We Splash Girls (her fellow swimmers) have not stopped talking about her, and we can't quite believe that she won't be showing up any more.

Caty Weaver

June 2, 2014

One looks back with appreciation to the brilliant teachers, but with gratitude to those who touched our human feelings. The curriculum is so much necessary raw material, but warmth is the vital element for the growing plant and for the soul of the child. ~Carl Jung

Thanks and love to Mary McBride, who was brilliant AND touched our human feelings.

Libby Garvey

June 2, 2014

Mary: I will miss your good cheer, encouragement and thoughtfulness. Thank you for everything you did for my children and so many children. Your positive influence will live on in your students for a very long time.

Anne Catalane

June 2, 2014

Mary McBride has been my friend since we were in the 4th grade at St. Robert's.
60 years through thick & thin.
All I can say is that there will never ever ever ever ever ever be another
Mary Claire McBride.
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Ellen Bartlett

June 2, 2014

Before her years at HB-Woodlawn, Mary taught at Wakefield High School in Arlington, beginning in 1968, and many of us first knew her there before she moved on to Woodlawn in 1972. That was a long time ago -- but Mary never forgot anything, and while I didn't see her often after that, it was as if it had been just recently in all she remembered and asked about. She was truly a dedicated educator -- to the point that I understand she was ambivalent about her upcoming retirement . . . which now she won't experience. I'm sure God has better plans for her!

June 2, 2014

Mary touched many, and though memories of her will last long, the ripples felt from her life will last even longer.

Thank you, Mary, for what you have done for all of our kids. Ty (Arlington parent)

Ellen McBride

June 2, 2014

I will always remember the day Mary came over to say good-bye to my father. In our kitchen on Newton Ave she boldly said "Peter, I don't know that you'll be here when I get back in the summer and I just want to be able to say so long face to face." That must have been the spring of 1978 and my father passed away just a few months later.
I am sorry that I did not have a chance to say good-bye to Mary. Her great sense of humor and down to earth style will be truly missed. Watch down on us from above Mary!!!

Peggy Gaines

June 2, 2014

I already miss our knitting time together! AND..... correcting or covering up mistakes with flowere of love. I will always remember how you leave each of us with a word of encouragement. Thanks for walking into my life. This is a better world because you were a part of it.

Vcki Lyons

June 2, 2014

I will miss Mary's honesty and her intense interest in people that made each person in her presence feel special. And her sense of humor could really catch you off guard. Godspeed, Mary.

June 1, 2014

We will always remember her kindness and generosity when my children lost their dad. Mary's support meant so much to us. We are saddened by her passing. Lynn Spencer, Max and Emma Rava

June 1, 2014

I will miss Mary's genuine care and kindness, Regardless of the passage of time that may have passed between seeing Mary it was as though those years were" yesterday." Mary had the gift/ability to share her life with you as she genuinely listened to you as you answered her questions about you, your life. Simply stated, Mary cared about and for others .
Most of all I will miss the comfort and peace it brought just knowing Mary C. McBride graced our world, particularly that of the McBride family

Micki Toal, Appleton, Wi

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