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for Candle Townsend
Albert Arjona
August 1, 2010
I am very sorry for the loss to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, Sam.
Amanda Barker
July 30, 2010
Sam and family, my deepest sympathy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tony
July 29, 2010
Hi Guys,
I am so sorry for your loss I told my mom and dad and they are praying for your family! I have always you guys and Candle.
Love, Tony
Gage Terrell and Beth Smith (Gage's mom-Hyde-)
July 28, 2010
We are so sorry for your loss. Candle was an amazing woman and mother. May God give your beautiful family peace and comfort while you struggle through these days.
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July 25, 2010
Janet, Jeffy, Chad, & Coby--
Do you remember Brandy? I know she loved each and everyone of you. I can remember Jeffy coming to the back door and there was Brandy with her little toothy grin so excited to see him. As soon as Jeffy entered the kitchen, Brandy would attach herself to his pant leg. (Jeffy, I really think Vaughn got a kick out of Brandy hanging from your pants. Vaughn has such a different sense of humor.) I know that Candle was as fond of her as the rest of you.
Candle was probably around eight or nine back then. Her shoulders were just a smidge higher than the kitchen cabinet counters. When Candle would come over for an evening of fun, Brandy would be at the back door to greet her. Brandy had that same smile she had for Jeffy. But, Candle was really quick. She would walk over to the kitchen counter and lift herself on top. She would sit there until I got there to cart Brandy off to the bedroom.
We were all really surprised that you never noticed how her upper arms were becoming so muscular. In time Candle might have been able to compete for the U.S. pole vaulting team. Or, maybe even the Canadian curling team.
That was a lot of years ago. Brandy moved to the west side of town with us and I think Candle decided to give up the idea of developing that upper arm muscle. When Candle came in eye contact with Brandy it only took Candle a New York second (not minute) to hit the top of our counter.
The Sink's
Erik and Kara Hess
July 25, 2010
Sam, Ella and Cal: We have been thinking of you and praying for you all week. Candle was so much fun to be around and could brighten any room. She will be missed dearly. Sending you our love and support.
Cathy Hesse
July 25, 2010
Sam, Ella and Cal-We are thinking of you daily . Please know you can call on us for anything at anytime if you need help. We hope you will. We'll see you soon. The Hesse's
Hugh, Ingrid, Grace & Edie Gill
July 23, 2010
The sidelines, bleachers and Hyde pick-up lane will never be the same! Sam, Ella and Cal-our thoughts are with you and when we think of Candle, we smile.
Paul & Gail Bowen
July 23, 2010
Dear Jeff and Janet,
Gail and I can't imagine what you and your family are experiencing. Please accept our electronic hugs.
Paul and Gail Bowen
Carmen Kindling
July 22, 2010
Coby~
Thinking of you. I am thankful for every second of every minute you shared with Candle.
Much Love,
Carmen
Kerry Janzen
July 22, 2010
Sammy, nut covered cheese ball Kerry Janzen here. There are so many great memories I don't know where to start. The memory I choose to recall is Candle laughing and smiling, telling jokes that it brought everyone within earshot to the point of tears. Candle brought and still brings so much joy to the world words do not do justice. Sammy, my thought and prayers go out to you and your family yesterday, today, and in the future.
All my love to you and yours.
Kerry Janzen
July 22, 2010
Ella and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord hold you tightly as you grieve and take comfort in knowing that now you have the most special guardian angel watching over you all.
~ Paityn & Philip -Hyde-
Teri McGaffin
July 22, 2010
Jo and family: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It's always hard to lose a loved one but to have them be so young is tragic. I just want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Reeves
July 22, 2010
Jeff, I still remember the summer days at MTW with Candle sitting at her perch doing her nails, Don sitting at his eating paper...Candle would holler out "Fancy, want to go to Rio for lunch?" and off we would go to Taco Rio! Can only begin to imagine the depth of your loss. So many good memories remain.
Alia Marks
July 22, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss, Candle was such an amazing women. I remember great times we had, she had a beautiful spirit that will live on. May God give you peace and strength in dealing with your loss.
July 21, 2010
Janet,Jeff and family...
It breaks my heart to know you have lost your beautiful daughter. I will always cherish the memories our girls shared over the years, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God give you and your family strength in the days ahead. ~ Cinda (Sara's mom)
Dani Lotton-Barker
July 21, 2010
Candle was a friend to me in junior high -- especially in the tumult of 7th grade. I remember lots of silliness and good times. I am so sad for your loss.
Donna Montgomery
July 21, 2010
Jeff and Janet -
My deepest sympathy in the loss of Candle. Jeff, you and I had many visits about our daughters who were the same age on your daily runs to SHS! I'll always remember how your face lit up when you would talk about your Candle.
May God be with you and Janet and the rest of Candle's family in the days and weeks to come.
Rhonda Breedlove
July 21, 2010
Jo and family-I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember how your face would light up when you would talk of Sam and Candle. Your family is in my thoughts.
Chance Hulsey
July 21, 2010
Your family is in our prayers so sorry for your loss.
Carol Gregory Jackson
July 21, 2010
Janet, so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to your family.
Verna Wommack
July 21, 2010
Candle and I worked together at Wesley and were reunited when we lived in College Hill. Our daughters went Hyde with her little girl. I am so sorry about your loss. She was a funny and outgoing gal, we used to have a lot of funny conversations and good laughs at Wesley.
Our thoughts are with you during this time
July 21, 2010
Candles family- I have been praying for you constantly. We lost someone and God gained. It is hard for us to think of it that way , but it is true. I didnt know Candle very much. I was Calvins teacher in CDO and I she always brought laughter and was a wonderful mom to Calv. She always managed to smile and make someone laugh.Now, we can smile at all the memories we have of her.
- Know that it is when you are at your lowest toughest moments that God is more present and that he is there holding you.
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Stacie Hrabe
July 21, 2010
Are thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. We did not know Candle well but always left her wanting more of her wit, laughter and kindness.
Love, Kelley and Stacie Hrabe
Luther Ottaway
July 21, 2010
Sam, Ella, and Cal,
We are so sorry for your loss. We've been thinking about and praying for you all over these last several days.
With deep sympathy,
Luther, Emily and Abby Ottaway
July 21, 2010
Warm summer sun,
... shine brightly here,
Warm Southern wind,
blow softly here,
Green sod above,
lie light, lie light,
Good night, dear heart;
good night, good night.
Mark Twain's eulogy to his daughter Olivia Susan Clemens
Candle, I love you always my dear friend
Vanessa
July 21, 2010
Warm summer sun,
... shine brightly here,
Warm Southern wind,
blow softly here,
Green sod above,
lie light, lie light,
Good night, dear heart;
good night, good night.
Mark Twain's eulogy to his daughter Olivia Susan Clemens
Candle, I love you always
Vanessa
Terese, Elizabeth, and Rachel Conrad
July 21, 2010
When ever I think of Candle, I think of front yard chats on Oakwood Drive, and my daughter running in the house with garage sale "treasures" yelling, "look at what Candle gave me!" I pray that with each day that passes you'll find comfort in special memories. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Shirley Clayton
July 20, 2010
Sam and Kid,
So, so sorry to hear of Candles' passing. May God wrap you all in his arms and soften your suffering with memorable times you had with her. You will be in my thoughts and prayers Sam.
July 20, 2010
Sam, Ella, Cal and the Townsend and Craghead families, I want you all to know that Candle will be missed but thoughts of her will always bring a smile to my heart. She always made me laugh and I was so fortunate to have been her friend. You are all in my prayers.
Mark Martz, Phoenix, AZ.
Lisa Foster
July 20, 2010
Dear Sam,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved wife, Candle. I cannot begin to fathom the sadness you are feeling at this extremely difficult time. I hope that you will find strength and comfort in the love that is encompassing you from those close and far. My thoughts are with you, your children, your family and friends and may all of your spirits be lifted by the beautiful memories you created and shared with Candle during her dance in the sun. My hope is for healing and peace for all of you.
July 20, 2010
Peace be with all of you at this most difficult time. Jan and Vicki Jacob
Marla Ciboski Fisher
July 20, 2010
So many wonderful memories of Candle in grade school and junior high, especially. She was a big reason why I had so much fun and laughter during those early years. God Bless, she will be so missed by so many.
John Hummer
July 20, 2010
Janet, Jeff, Chad, Coby and the Townsend family, words cannot express my sympathies in Candles passing. Even though I lost touch over the years with my terrific neighbors daughter Candle, I can still picture her adorable smile as if it was yesterday. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. John Hummer (Las Cruces, NM)
Shawn & Julie Stuckey
July 20, 2010
Jeff & Janet,
Words cannot describe the sympathy we have for you and your families. Please know you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
July 20, 2010
Sam, Ella and little Cal, plus all the Townsend and Craghead families; we want you to know that Candle was truly special. Our son Ryan and his wife Ginger are lucky to have been able to call her a best friend. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Steve and Carolyn Charles
Hootmans
July 20, 2010
My family was all upset by the news of Candle's death. This is truly a sad time for Sam and his children. Know that we will all be there for you Sam! Words are just inadequate now. But our thoughts and prayers are with Candle, Sam and their children.
July 20, 2010
Jeff and Janet-
We are so sorry for loss of Candle. The light in your life is gone. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Pat and Rosy Crowley Indianapolis, IN
Jeremy Pauly
July 20, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
July 20, 2010
My deepest sympathies, I am so very sorry for the family's loss. Candle was so sweet. If there is anything I can do, I am just a few doors down.
Toni Raines
Kari Higgins-Lashley
July 20, 2010
Sam,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Words are inadequate at times like this, we will continue to pray for you and your family.
Matt & Kari (Higgins) Lashley
Jordon Williams
July 20, 2010
Ella, You are in my Prayers.
Love,
Jordon - Hyde -
Josh, Rachel, and Libby Davis
July 20, 2010
Sam, Ella, & Calvin,
We are so deeply saddened to hear about Candle. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as you get through this difficult time.
Jennifer Rinn
July 20, 2010
My heart is heavy,I send my deepest sympathy to Sam and your adorable babies. Your loss is unmeasurable and I hope you find comfort in knowing she's watching over you.
Traci Metcalf
July 20, 2010
Sam, Ella and Calvin,
I went to jr high and high school with Candle and in the last 2 years reconnected with her at Hyde. I remember the first time I met Candle in Shop class at Robinson, everytime I had a conversation with her she always made me laugh! She will be truly missed! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Traci Spyres Metcalf
July 20, 2010
To all the family: we are so saddened by the depth of your loss. May God Himself give you grace and comfort. We are so sorry. Keith and Jan Brooks
Rachelle Grady
July 20, 2010
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your children. Your wife was a beautiful woman. Your in my thoughts and prayers Sam.
Ashley Kortkamp, Angela, Victor and Briar Libby
July 20, 2010
May time help heal your wounded hearts. May you all find comfort in your memories of Candle. -East High Class of 1990
Jaime Leyden
July 20, 2010
Sam,
I am deeply saddened to hear about Candle. Your face would always light up in conversation when talking about Candle and the kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Ella and Calvin.
Charlotte Farrar
July 20, 2010
"Sam, Ella, & Calvin"
The depth of your loss is immeasurable and my heart goes out to all of you. Words feel inadequate during times like this. My deepest sympathies.
Stephen Slocum
July 20, 2010
Chad,
I would like to send my deepest sympathy and prayers to your family for the loss of your sister. You are in our prayers. May God Bless you.
Stephen Slocum
casey sigg(beardslee)
July 20, 2010
dear sam...I'm remembering back to when you and Candle began your journey together. I've very rarely seen someone love someone the way Candle loved you. I
too have lost someone suddenly and all I can say is each day, it gets a little easier to get up and only with time does the pain dull. You are so blessed with an abundance of people that love you and the kids so much. Use them as much as possible. They are hurting as well and it makes them feel better to serve you in any way. And last...just remember...and I believe this wholeheartedly....although you cannot see Candle, she is still with you in every way and will spend eternity with you
July 20, 2010
Sam, Ella and Calvin,
Would like to send our deepest sympathy for your loss of Candle. No one should have to go through the pain of losing a member of the family. Candle was a very exceptional young lady that I became to know and like very well. She was funny, happy, bubbly person, And fun to be around, She will be missed by all who new her. May she rest in peace
Please accept our warmest sympathies and be comforted knowing that God is "near to those that are broken at heart, and those who are crushed in spirit he saves." (Psalm 34: 18)
Terry and Donna Heckart
Rose Hill Ks
Kay Volbrecht
July 20, 2010
God bless you and your family Sam.
From, Kay Doug and Tamara
July 20, 2010
Jeff and Janet: Our hearts and tears are with you during this time of anguish. You are wonderful neighbors and friends. Much love to you and all your family. May God give you strength. A J & Glenda Sue Morris
Cathy Howe
July 20, 2010
Candle, heaven is a lot brighter with you up there. Sam, Ella and Calvin, I understand how you feel right now and just know that one day at a time and lots of good memories will sustain you through this. Jeff and Janet, your pain is unmeasurable right now, I watched my parents go through it when we lost my brother, give your grief to God and lean on eachother. You both know what an awesome daughter you raised, together, always remember that!
I'm praying for all of you and will continue to every day!
Kelly Cotton
July 20, 2010
God Bless the Townsend family, you are in our prayers.
July 20, 2010
What a loss to so many! We really can't believe it but who are we as mere humans to decide the fate of ourselves and our loved ones. We are so sorry for your loss of your beloved freind and relative and pray for her husband and children that they may have an abundance of support from eveyone. Just know that God is watching her now and the fact that you had her for so many years was such a blessing to so many people. Remember the body is a mere shell of what truly matters and that is the spirit and soul which will ALWAYS be with you!
Marissa Higinio
July 20, 2010
Sam,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. I remember you talking very fondly about Candle while we were in nursing school together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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