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Thomas Goetz Obituary

Goetz, Thomas J., 17, Bishop Carroll Catholic High School junior, football and track athlete and diehard Seattle Seahawks fan, passed away Sat., Sept. 29, 2012. Rosary, 7 p.m., Wed., Oct. 3; Funeral Mass, 10 a.m., Thurs., Oct. 4, both at St. Jude Catholic Church. Preceded in death by grandfather, James Goetz. Survivors: parents, Michael J. and Mary C. (Zoglman) Goetz; siblings, Christine Stearman (Matthew), Michelle, Matthew, John, Katie and Joe Goetz; grandparents, Henry and Nathaline Zoglman and Marilyn Goetz; nieces, Julia and Keira all of Wichita. In lieu of flowers, memorial established with St. Jude Catholic Church High School Fund, 3030 Amidon, Wichita, KS 67204. Downing & Lahey Mortuary West. www.dlwichita.com

Published by Wichita Eagle from Oct. 3 to Oct. 4, 2012.
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Your family is in my prayers. Carol (Day) Gatschet

October 17, 2012

Mike Mary and family you are in our
hearts and prayers.

Edddie Karen Goetz

October 7, 2012

Mary Goetz and Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Tom, but my Aunt did and I know how tough it can be. You all will be in my prayers. No body should ever have to go through that. I knew that Tom was just a life-loving person and did not deserve this at all. Just know that he is still with you; just not physically.
I am so sorry.

Kylie Harris

October 7, 2012

Mary and Family I am so sorry about hearing about your loss. I will keep you in my prayers at this difficult time.

Denise (Kerschen) Coyan

October 5, 2012

Mike, Mary & Family,
May the Love and Prayers of all those around you, carry your family at this special time. You are true examples of Living the Faith.
Always,
Tim & Rebecca Silke

October 4, 2012

Mary Goetz & Family: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart and prayers are with you all.

Susan Kennedy

October 4, 2012

Our deepest condolence to your entire family! You will be kept in our daily prayers. Tom is now the "Angel" watching over the "Bishop Carroll Football Team". Winning "State" will be for you Tom #38.

Ms. Lori Hernandez & Jalen #25

Jalen Hernandez

October 4, 2012

Christine & the entire Goetz family - You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. My son, Joseph (BC Senior) played football with Tom and was quick to tell me what a great guy he was. And my daughter, Kaitlyn, (BC sophomore) knew Tom as well. I am so sorry for your loss. I will continue to pray for your family.

Kim Frangenberg

October 4, 2012

After learing of the tragic death of your son from my 16 year-old boy, I hugged my son twice;once for him and once for Thomas. My the Holy Spirit surround your family and comfort you in your jouney ahead.

Alethea Herman

October 4, 2012

I wish there were words I could say to bring your family some kind of comfort, but I just dont know that those words exist right now. I did not have the pleasure of knowing Tom, but please know his story has impacted my life and that people that do not know your family, myself included, are praying for you all daily. Lean on each other and God and take everything a day at time.

October 4, 2012

May Thomas Rest in Peace with Our Lord.

Greg & Susan Reed

October 4, 2012

He is walking walking with our Lord and no more demons.He climbed the highest mountain. May God bless all and find comfort in him.

Linda Farha

October 4, 2012

To the entire wonderful Goetz family,
May God grant you a Peace that passes understanding. You have all been an inspiration. We are praying for you and will continue to pray....may God walk tenderly with you.

Vickie Hardiman-Prince

October 3, 2012

Mike & Mary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.
Mark & Karen Klein

October 3, 2012

Dear Goetz family, we are so sorry to hear the loss of your remarkable son Thomas. We never had the pleasure of meeting him but felt we got to know a little bit from your selfless act of sharing your story. I knew Mary long ago, during our school days riding the bus and rural neighbors. When I look at the photo of Thomas, I see how much he resembles Mary, especially that kind smile. We are praying that God wrap his arms around your family and comfort you through your devastating loss.

Leah Hopper-Cunningham and family

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary, and family, We are so sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Carol(Seiler) and Larry Denno

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary and family,

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Thomas. Know that you are in our hearts and prayers. May our Lord be with you in this difficult time.

God Bless,
Ron, Louise, Amanda, Brendan and Tanner Cody

October 3, 2012

Im so sorry for the loss of your child. I can't imagine how painful that would be but I will ask God & the Blessed Virgin Mary to give you comfort & strength during this difficult time in your lives.
Jeannie

October 3, 2012

We have a 17 year old grandson who plays football and can't imagine losing him. Although we don't know you, your story has affected us deeply. Tom and all of you will be in our prayers. God bless.......

Larry & Jo Hess

October 3, 2012

May God be close to you now at this time of loss and always.

Drs. John and Irene Wagner

October 3, 2012

It is the whole Zoglman family I remember so well from my days teaching math at Garden Plain High School. Mary, you were a freshman the year I started there, and I see you as you were in high school so much in your son's smiling face.

I was so sorry to hear of his loss--you will be in my thoughts!
Glenna Stephen

October 3, 2012

Our deepest sympathy to your family. Our daughter Amanda & our son Andrew are good friends with your son John. Our son Andrew plays football with John at DCCC. Please know our family here in Plainville, Kansas are keeping you in our prayers! May God Bless all of you!
Jerry, Karen Jessica, Amanda, Andrew, Brianna, Amy & Jared Casey, & Justin, Megan & Kinsley Casey

October 3, 2012

We feel like we have also lost this son. I remember when Matthew brought Tom to the house to play Nintendo when he was about 8 years old and I told him to be sure to come back again sometime. You all are in our thoughts.

Mary & Randy Pfannenstiel

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary and family: We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He is a wonderful young man will be greatly missed. I know your faith is strong and I know you will find comfort in leaning on our Lord for strength. We are here for you and the kids, let us know if there is anything we can do for you all. Blessings...Joey & Lora King and family

Lora King

October 3, 2012

Although we do not know your family personally, our hearts ache for you. Your family will be in our prayers.

Dan & Julie Schoenberger
Levi Schoenberger (BC Freshman)

October 3, 2012

We may not know one another personally, but my son is Tom's age and he plays football for Kapaun. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May peace find its way into your hearts again.

sarah gilbert

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

James & Sheila Sanders & family

October 3, 2012

Our prayers are with you Mike and Mary and with the whole family. May God be with now and always. Thanks for having the courage to share his story!

Patricia and Eric Sanner

October 3, 2012

To the Goetz family. I don`t know you personally but my heart goes out to you and your family on the loss of your son. May your faith and love of God see you through this time. A mother and Grandmother

October 3, 2012

I was troubled to hear of the loss of Tom, as I found out from my mother. Know that your family is in my prayers.

BC class of 2003

Grant Thome

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary and family,

I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for you all in this difficult time.

Ryan Tittsworth

October 3, 2012

We are sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. May God give you the strength and understanding to get through this difficult time.

David & Nancy Sponsel & family

October 3, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of your family and friends. May God give you the strength and guidance to help you through this difficult time.
David & Nancy Sponsel & family

David & Nancy Sponsel

October 3, 2012

My family and I extend our deepest sympathies. You will be in our prayers.
Tina Boley '84

Tina Boley

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary and Goetz family,

We are praying for your family daily. May the Lord wrap His loving arms around you. We are so very sorry for your loss.

Josh, Aimee, Taylor, Roman and Emelyn Greenman

October 3, 2012

I lived and taught at BCHS for ten years 72-82. I know you will have many fond memories of your son there and the many gifts he left there. I am a very good friend of Gary and Liz Sommerhouser who experienced what you are going through. I am certain they could be a wonderful comfort to you in this journey. I will offer Mass for your family. Hugs. Fr. Leon Kerschen

Fr. Leon Kerschen

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary and family;
You have our deepest sympathy. Tommy was always ready with a smile. Know we are holding you close in prayer.

The Rateliff Family

Jennifer Graham-Rateliff

October 3, 2012

Mike, Mary and Family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thomas and Danielle knew each other throwing the discus and shot. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need.

David, Jacquie and Danielle Hamilton

October 3, 2012

My heart breaks for your family for your loss. I pray for for each of you and for Thomas, his handsome smile shows just how loved he is. My condolences.

October 3, 2012

Mike,Mary and family

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Your family are true examples of the Catholic faith. Our hearts are so sad for you all. Love and prayers!

Randy and Cindy Kreutzer

October 3, 2012

Mike and Mary my son Travis and I were shocked to hear of Tommy's death on Monday. I am so sorry he was a great kid and could make any parent proud. Our prayers go out to you guys and just know Tommy is in a better place..

David and Travis Close

October 3, 2012

Mary & Mike,
You're in our thoughts and prayers as you grieve the loss of your son. You have our sincere sympathy.
Leon & Diane Zoglman

October 3, 2012

Sporting in the stars, your family is in our prayers..bless your hearts

Lane Family

October 2, 2012

I did not know Tom, but had an opportunity today as the role of a therapist, to talk with some of the kids at BCCHS. It was clear that Tom had a great impact in the lives of others. I am thinking about your family at this difficult time.

Michael Baker, LCMFT

October 2, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. Thomas was a great guy and a great guy.

Maddy Probst

October 2, 2012

Our son Will played basketball with Tom at St. Jude his 8th grade year. My husband and I enjoyed visiting with you. We haven't stopped praying for you since we heard about the tragedy.

Patty & Don Smith

October 2, 2012

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