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Sponsored by Becky's cousin Tim.
Becky & little Abby, Two of my favorite chicks. <3
Tim
January 5, 2014
Cindy Davis
March 8, 2012
Becky was not only a great nurse but she was my reading budding - we exchanged books quit often. She will be missed by all of us and you and your families will be in our thoughts and prayers.
From Cindy Davis and Interim HealthCare Office Staff
Jodi Kinniburgh
March 7, 2012
I am so sad to hear about this Tonja. May the Lord comfort you and your family. I wish I could be there on Thursday for you. I have another funeral at the same time. With Love and Prayers, Jodi Kinniburgh
Delynn Nelson
March 7, 2012
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tim Troyer
March 6, 2012
"Grandpas are just overgrown little boys"...
So my fondest memories of my sweet cousin Becky are from when we were kids. We visited at each others house, or played together with other cousins at our annual family reunions in Hennessey. Out on the farm, Becky and i would have adventures exploring the "treasures" of the old barn and other out buildings... We would take excursions to the pond, searching for giant bull frogs. We would go swimming in Hennessey on Memorial Day, the first day the pool opened for the season.
Other years we had our reunions at Maple Grove school house down the road.... the one room school that Aunt Faye, my Daddy and the rest of the sisters attended. We would imagine what it was like to have gone to school there... when life was simpler.
While visiting her at her house in Wichita, i remember being amazed at the spiral staircase Uncle Fonnie built. It was like climbing up into a treehouse with Becky.
As life happened for all of us and got more complicated, and as distance separated us, our time together was less. So i fill the vacuum with those wonderful memories of childhood escapades.
i will miss Becky, my cousin...
i will miss her smile at our family reunions...
i will miss the mischievous sparkle in her eyes...
i will miss her sense of determination..
i will miss her, but only for a while.. she and the others are saving seats at the table for those of us who remain behind... We will catch up with her in our time....
...Even so, i want my Becky back! We have too much playing...too much loving... left undone. But i know now she is no longer hurting. One of God's angels has found her way home...
Yvette Zollinger
March 6, 2012
Andrea and Tonja,
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I have some very sweet memories of my "Aunt Becky". Love and prayers...
Jennifer Gragg
March 6, 2012
So very sorry for your loss. Sending lots of prayers & love, Tonja!
Rachael Werth
March 6, 2012
Do sorry for your loss. Prayers gor your peace and comfort in this difficult time.
Tammy Alexander
March 6, 2012
Andrea & Tonja,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. She and I had kept in contact with each other after grandma Bunny's service. She was such a wonderful person and will be missed terribly. You all are in our prayers.
Tammy & Jerry Alexander
March 6, 2012
Andrea and Tona: I used to work with your mom in the Travel Department at Koch quite some years ago. Your mom was such a sweet and caring lady. I was sad to hear of her passing....You are in my thoughts and prayers. Katrina Davis (Buss)
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