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Sharon Drost
May 26, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
May 24, 2016
We first met Nancy in early 2015 at a time of huge family sorrow. She assisted us in making funeral arrangements in a most caring and professional way. Even more importantly, her friendliness, compassion, and humor helped us thru a very difficult time. She will be missed and remembered, and we extend our sincere sympathies and condolences to family and friends. Ken and Jo Kollar
May 23, 2016
I am owner of Luther Florists and my meeting of Nancy was unusual. I was delivering flowers one morning and Nancy was standing near two arrangements delivered by an "unnamed florist". She said something about how disappointed the family would be and that the other florist said they could not get there to fix anything. I told her I was a designer and I would be glad to do what I could to re-do them. She was so grateful and it only took me a few minutes to create one decent looking arrangement presentable for the service. From that time forward we were friends. She gave me her cell and I gave her mine. She welcomed me to call if she was not there and I needed to make a delivery--I never took her up on that offer but it was very kind of her. Nancy did countless favors for us when we had a special situations. She was always so cheerful and whenever I delivered there, I looked for her to say "Hello". She was a very special person and I know she will be missed by her co-workers and her family. See you in Heaven, Nancy!
Bonnie Luther-Hayes
Terry Parsons
May 23, 2016
Nancy and I worked together at Horst Graphics. Nancy's positive nature was the thing I most from that time.
Nancy was getting handed some tough blows in her personal life at that time, but she always looked on the bright side. She would always greet everyone who walked through the door with a big smile and a little joke.
I saw her a few times since then. Once again, always smiling. Wish I would have seen her more. Very glad she found Kevin.
As far as U2. At that time, she was always trying to calculate when they would reach "Classic Rock" status, so they would be played on 101 the FOX.
Well, she has the ultimate backstage pass now. Enjoy the show, Nancy.
May 20, 2016
Dear Nancy,
When I look at you, I see the smile on your face,
I realize then, that you have that special grace.
And as I reflect on what you have done,
I know then, we all have won.
With all the people's lives you have touched,
I know why it is that I love you so much.
Your kindness, your compassion and such a big heart,
for me and all others it will be hard to part.
We all must leave and say our goodbye,
for me I know that my heart will cry.
Thank you for filling my life with your gracious love,
for I know you will be smiling on me from above.
I thank God for the time we have had,
I will try not be too awfully mad.
For he has given us all a special gift of you,
and we are all a better person, just because of you.
Please remember there is no final goodbye,
because I'll see you again one day, above the big blue sky.
With all my love,
Your Favorite Cousin
Steve Binderup
May 20, 2016
Nancy was my Sixth grade girlfriend. I did not know her much past the Sixth grade but back then she was a very sweet girl and to my in-experienced face a very good kisser.
May God bless and keep you.
May 20, 2016
My sister's and I met Nancy this past September when she assisted us with our mother's funeral arrangements. She was warm and caring at a very difficult time; she sent us a beautiful e-mail supporting and complimenting us on the choices we made. Our love and prayers go out to her family.
Candice S. (Kansas City, MO)
Judi King
May 20, 2016
I'm sorry I didn't know Nancy; she sounds like she would have been a good person to know! My sympathies to all who did know her--sounds like you all were blessed to have her in your lives. Peace & hugs to you all.
Pam Hendrickson
May 20, 2016
Nancy and I were really good friends in high school at Shaenee Mission West, and had so much fun together! We lost touch over the years, but watching the photos brought back so many memories! It made me happy to see that there was a photo of us together in her photo gallery, the one on Santas lap. I remember Nancy's smile, and all the silly good times we shared. I will always treasure her friendship, she was a very special and kind person. I am so sorry for your loss of Nancy. I can only imagine how much she'll be missed by all.
Claudia & Jerry Jones
May 19, 2016
We met Nancy at McGilley she handled the arrangements for my Sister Audrey S Klein in January this year. She was terrific at her job and made everything so easy for the family. She will be missed by all, our deepest sympathy to her family! Heaven knows they have a keeper for sure, she will keep everyone busy.
Anne Rinaldi
May 19, 2016
I didn't know Nancy, but I am also a U2 fan, who often bursts into song (not just U2), and I'd like to think that makes us friends and sisters-of-a-sort. My condolences on your loss of someone who must have been a really awesome woman. Thank God and Bono for memories.
Lisa Bailey
May 19, 2016
My coworkers on Wednesday 5/18 were talking about this obituary that was like none they had ever read before. They were telling the rest of our staff to check it out because it was so humorous. Thank you Nancy and Kevin for the wonderful obituary memorializing Nancy's life. You have inspired many at my office.
John Bernal
May 19, 2016
Loved the warmth of this woman whom we came to know! She coordinated the funeral home preparations for my mother, sister and nephew over these past 2.5 years. She was genuine, compassionate and very caring. She went out of her way to make sure our family members were taken care of. Very personable and empathetic. We were shocked to know she had passed this week and never knew she had cancer. For her, it wasn't all about her, but for those she was responsible for. I know Nancy is singing for the Lord and her joy is indescribable I'm sure. Lord, your servant Nancy has done well here on earth. God bless her family during this difficult time.
May 19, 2016
Nancy was indeed a kind and committed friend and servant of all the families that she had the privilege of assisting at time of need.
She will be enormously missed by all of us that knew her. Nancy's wit and her heart tell her life story. We will remember her, miss her and honor the time we could spend with her as friend and co-workers. Keep the Angels laughing, Nancy.
With Warmest Regards,
Linda McGilley
Martin Brown Family
May 19, 2016
In early April, Nancy helped us plan a burial for my mother-in-law and we didn't even know at that time that she was ill. With her expert help, we were able to give our loved one a beautiful ceremony and burial, and from that moment on, she became "family." Nancy was one of the most efficient, professional, and personable people we have ever met. She included even the finest of details and we will never forget how much she helped us in our time of need and sadness. She was such an asset to McGilley and an asset to mankind. Thanks again, Nancy, for all you did for our family. You will definitely make heaven a more organized and wonderfully fun place to be! RIP.
Linda S
May 19, 2016
God blessed this woman's family and friends! I think Nancy and I would have been great friends. In death she has inspired me to write my own obituary so no one screws it up with sadness.
Brian & Patty McManness
May 19, 2016
I had the great pleasure of seeing Nancy every day when she worked at Horst Graphics. Talking to her was absolutely the highlight of my working day! You had to be ready to laugh and smile because she brought that out in even the saddest Eeyore!
She was an absolute joy in my life and the world needs more people just like Nancy D. (As in Dog) Conley!
May 18, 2016
I send my condolences to Nancy's family. Nancy squeezed everything, and more, out of each day GOD gave her. She was truly a wonderful woman. My prayers are with you.
Lea
Ed Kendrick
May 18, 2016
I watched the memory photos hoping to recognize someone who knew Nancy to hear their stories. I recommend the song "Release" by Afro-Celt Sound System. Nancy has only left her body. Blessings ...
Donna Wood
May 18, 2016
I did not know Nancy, but I wish I had. She has inspired me, at the age of 72, to write my own obituary while I still have my wits about me. I love her!
Kristy Mizener
May 18, 2016
To all of Nancy's family, I send my sympathy. She was one of the funniest and sweetest people I had the pleasure to get to know. She brightened every room with her smile and her attitude. The obit was exactly what I would have expected, for her it was perfect. My life is better having known such a wonderful person. Much love to the Conley family.
Kristy (Conley) Mizener
Lindsey McFall
May 18, 2016
Nancy was the funeral director for my infant son's funeral almost five years ago. I didn't envy her job-his death was sudden, and we were complete messes-but, she did her job with grace and compassion. Nancy cried with us and put together a memorial service fit for a king. She was truly perfect at her job, and I suspect that she was as perfect at dealing with the living as she was the dead. I know she must leave a big hole where her obviously hilarious presence once was, but I hope that peace is with her family and loved ones as they remember and honor her. I can't even begin to guess at how many lives Nancy has enriched, but I feel so blessed to have been one of them.
May 18, 2016
I always read the obits in the KCStar.....but Nancy's took me to my knees....oh how I wish I would have known her ! I loved the follow up story in the paper today regarding her obit and where she worked......hearing about her was SO uplifting ! Nancy, you dork, RIP !!!!!
Matt Kelsey
May 18, 2016
My condolences to Kardi McCullough, my co-worker and friend, and to all of Nancy's family. I worked as a newspaper editor for 10 years, writing and reading thousands of obituaries in that time, and this is the most beautiful obituary I've ever read. I will be making a donation in Nancy's name to my local liquor store this weekend.
J H
May 18, 2016
Like so many on here, I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Nancy.She sounds like a very wonderful, very funny person.RIP.
Heather Harves
May 18, 2016
To Nancy's family and friends, I send my condolences. Like many others, I did not meet or know her, but, her obit was quite humorous. She sounds like someone I should have known. I only hope to leave a fun legacy for people to read like Nancy.
Preston McDaniel
May 18, 2016
Nancy always put her families first by paying attention to the smallest details. She went above and beyond to make each service she directed "a Celebration of a life well lived." I picture Nancy checking in at Heaven's Gate dragging a large bag of "good deeds" behind her. She inspired many by her servant heart.
Freddi Parker
May 18, 2016
She was a wonderful lady...wish I had met her. She is singing with the Angels. Prayers to her family. Great obit.
Shannon Casey
May 18, 2016
I, like many others here, wish I had had the opportunity to know Nancy, and feel blessed to have seen a bit of her shining soul in this most superlative obituary. Condolences to all who shared her life; she lives on in your hearts, and undoubtedly in many, many stories!
Bill Mcavoy
May 18, 2016
Did Nancy go to sm west 1979 graduate?
Bo
May 18, 2016
I did not know Nancy, but after reading her obituary, I am so glad for the people who did. The testimonies I'm seeing about her give us all something to which to aspire. A humanity and a sense of grace. Thoughts and prayers for her, her family, and her friends.
Nancy Baalman
May 18, 2016
Wish I had known her. She sounds like a wonderful, happy, sharing, caring, joy to be around. God bless her and her loved ones.
May 18, 2016
Dear family I am sincerely sorry for the loss of your loved one May you find comfort in the hope that you will see your loved one again Acts17:31 L.k.
Janette Boehm
May 18, 2016
Can't believe I'm saying an obituary made my day but when I read Nancy's I had to send it to my honey and print it for future smiles. Wish I d been lucky enough to know her, wish she'd been lucky enough to have the kind of breast cancer I had. Love to all her family. No doubt she'll be missed!
Judy Burgess
May 18, 2016
Very pleased to have known and worked with Nancy for many years. She was the consummate professional. She cared very much about the people she served and took very good care of them. My condolences to her family and friends.
David and Stephenie Bernal
May 17, 2016
Our family was so sad to learn this evening of Nancy's passing. We first met Nancy at McGilley's 2 1/2 years ago during a time of crisis in our lives upon the loss of our dear mama Amparo Bernal. Nancy was kind and patient and so very helpful then, but when we lost our 29 year old son Nathaniel last year, she was truly an angel on Earth! Her gentleness and patience with us through the most difficult days we've ever faced, far exceeded anything we could've imagined. Her continual expressions of compassion and understanding were just what we needed to help us through those initial days of shock, sadness and grief! She was absolutely amazing in every way possible, and we know we couldn't have successfully navigated through his services without her by our side.
She was a stranger to us at the beginning of the process, but treated us as if we were members of her own family or her best friends. She was truly an example of love in action, showing us such genuine care and compassion, which she expressed through her sweet gentle spirit and her servants heart!
We were unaware of her cancer diagnosis. She responded so respectfully and promptly to a request for information by voicemail and email both, just a couple of short weeks ago, never indicating she was struggling with any health issues of her own. Her recent responsiveness and continued dedication to our family is another shining example of her professionalism and passion for serving others!
We will always remember her goodness and incredible faithfulness in serving our family. She was truly a remarkable lady who we know was sent by God to richly bless our lives when we desperately needed her help and guidance.
I'm so sorry for her loss and express sincere condolences on behalf of the entire Bernal family to Nancy's family. We will never ever forget her, but will remember her fondly always and forever!
Terri
May 17, 2016
Nancy was a "blessing" to my family when we had to plan the funeral for my father this past July. I never imagined that going through the loss of my father and planning his funeral along with my family could be a pleasant experience, but it was and that was because of Nancy. She made it bearable and we even had a lot of laughs. Nancy felt like she was part of our family by the time we left that day and we wanted her to stay even for the funeral lunch. I am very sad of hearing of her passing tonight, but know that she has received a great crown in Heaven for all the love and care that she gave to so many. I also would like to think that she is now talking to my father in Heaven and sharing with him the story of that day that we came to her at McGilley's to plan his funeral. Such a wonderful, warm and caring person she was and may she rest in peace for all of eternity with our Lord. May the Divine Assistance remain always with her and may all the Souls of the faithfully departed rest in peace.
Mary Kay Hogan
May 17, 2016
Like many who have left messages here, I did not know Nancy. I read her obituary and was so moved by it. It sounded like she was a person who knew how to live her life. I wish I had known her. I have cut out her obituary from the newspaper and placed in my daily devotional where I can read it over and over. And I will, as suggested, take away from it the humor and reminder of the brevity of life. Thank you. God bless this family as they remember Nancy, who most evidently lit up their lives with her presence.
Gayla G
May 17, 2016
I did not have the pleasure of knowing Nancy either! She was obviously a lot of fun and enjoyed life! Love a good sense of humor! Amazing ! Here she is still making friends! How awesome is that! RIP Nancy! You have made ally of people smile! Thoughts and prayers out to her family and friends!
Tracy M
May 17, 2016
I too did not know Nancy. When alive she touched and impacted many people that knew her. In her passing she has touched lives of people that didn't know her. Let's all live our lives so that our obits moves strangers to tears and laughter. RIP precious angel.
Susie Adams
May 17, 2016
I didn't know her, but hers is the coolest obit I've ever read. Absolutely, totally great. What a life!
May 17, 2016
I wished I knew her she sounded like a real hoot to be around. RIP Nancy.
Diana
May 17, 2016
I am also someone who didn't know Nancy but saw her obit, I wish she had been my friend. She sounds like a true blessing in her friends and family's lives. God Bless!!
May 17, 2016
Great FUN obit!!! Nancy I just want you to know that we really were blessed to have you to work with in 2010 for our dad and again in 2011 with our mom manny and Pat Blando then again just 2 months ago when my husband Steve passed away -- you wee Great -- we never knew you also had cancer -- so so sad that UGLY word cancer takes too too many before their time on earth here is complete!!
I think you will understand when I mention thart I saw and read your funny and interesting Obit today "TUESDAY AFTERNOON" you know exactly what i am talking about !!!!
Thanks for your kindness-- Steve Williams wife Courtney !!!
Jim Stiles
May 17, 2016
I first met Nancy in the 1980's when she worked at Horst Graphics. Worked with her in the Printing Industry, Played Volleyball with her for many years and have been friends with her since. She was truly a Gem in my life. One of those friends who come along once in a lifetime. I will miss her but not forget her.
-Jim Stiles
Leslie Nye
May 17, 2016
Nancy handled my mom's arrangements 3 years ago. She was a joy to work with and helped us get through it. Could not have asked for more. RIP Nancy and keep rockin!
Mike&Molly Smith
May 17, 2016
I too did not know her, now I am sad because she would of been my BEST FRIEND! I envy all of you who actually know her. Your blessed in a way you could not even know till now. God bless and RIP your future friend when I get to heaven.
May 17, 2016
Nancy touched many lives. I am so glad we had her as our neighbor, friend and now angel. Kevin and Nancy's family you are in our thoughts and prayers. She told me no crying that is not easy to do. Dance like no ones watching and sing your heart out. Nancy we will miss you.
Dennis and Marsha Murray
May 17, 2016
Nancy was my office manager for 16 years. She was the first person every customer met when they came through the door and they all loved her dearly. She was exceptional at her job and she truly cared about everyone. Rest in Peace Nancy, you earned it.
Guy Horst
Jill McElwain
May 17, 2016
I didn't know you long enough, but knowing you as long as I did was a blessing, you will be missed.
Karen McDonald
May 17, 2016
I'll always remember the great times we shared as kids.
So sweet and loving, the first one to hug anyone.
Until the day we meet again, in my heart is where I keep you cousin.
Miss you and love you.
Condolences to Nancy's family and friends.
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. Author Unknown
May 17, 2016
Nancy,
I'll always remember the great times we shared as kids.
I know your in heaven now lighting the sky with your pretty eyes and sweet smile.
We will meet each other again someday. Miss you and love you.
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. Author Unknown
Cousin - Karen McDonald
Mary C
May 17, 2016
I did not know Nancy; but after having read her obituary, she was definitely loved by many. Here is a poem I love and and I hope it brings comfort to all that knew & loved Nancy.
_____**All Is Well
Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away
Into the next room.
I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way
Which you always used.
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of
Solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Let my name be ever the household word
That it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect,
Without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was;
There is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval,
Somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting,
when we meet again. All is well
by Henry Scott Holland
_________________________
Ben Ortiz, Sr.
May 17, 2016
To have the opportunity of serving as Celebrant for services Nancy directed was always a privilege. She was, indeed, the consummate professional! To know her was to love her.
Jana Collins
May 17, 2016
I didn't know Nancy but I would have loved to. Her obituary made me laugh and smile as I read it. Her humor is surely making Heaven a funnier place now. Can't wait to meet her when I get there.
Joe Blake
May 17, 2016
Mark Twain once said Let us live so that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry. Well done, Nancy. You are going to be really missed by many of us. I have always enjoyed working with you.
Debby Vertz
May 17, 2016
My Condolences to Nancy's family. I didnt know her, but from this witty "obit", I can certainly say I think I would have really liked her!
Ron Hoehn
May 17, 2016
To My Cousins. I can still see her Beautiful Eyes and Big Smile. She is as Sweet and Good as Grandmas Apple Pie! We will never Forget her Beauty and the person she was. She will be for ever missed. Love To One and All. Cousins Ron & Marla Hoehn Lenexa Ks. XOXOXO
Terry Celestin
May 17, 2016
My deepest condolences to you. Nancy was a fantastic lady and a class act. She will be deeply missed.
May 17, 2016
Dear Nancy, You touched so many lives. You will be truly missed by all who knew you. Love always, Patti
Debby V.
May 17, 2016
I did'nt know her....but this obituary makes me wish I did! RIP Nancy!
K.C.KS
May 17, 2016
Wow, I didn't know this lady, but she reads like a blast to be around.
LEANNE NETHERLAND
May 17, 2016
SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS OF NANCY...HAVEN'T SEEN HER FOR YEARS, BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE HADN'T CHANGED MUCH... YOU HAVE SOME GREAT MEMORIES OF HER, AND THIS IS THE BEST OBIT I HAVE EVER READ... LOVE YOU ALL, SENDING PRAYERS.
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