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DAVID CONN Obituary

David Dean Conn, a brilliant, gentle, witty, sharing, rascal of a man passed away in style and comfort on November 24th after a long illness. The eldest son of Dean Conn and Ida Schreiber Conn, David was born in Osborne, Kansas, on March 25, 1947. Possessing a life-long love of music, David's passion was born of the classical radio broadcasts he discovered growing up in Osborne. David was known to dim the lights and lie on the floor as he shook the house with the Mahler symphonies played through the family's Zenith console stereo, an activity often shared with his cousin, Diana. This passion led David to Wichita State University where he earned a degree in music history along with deep, lasting friendships. After graduation, David put his knowledge and personality to work in a 30-plus year career in the music business, first in Wichita, and then from the mid-1970s on in Kansas City, where he was a fixture at both Pennylane Records and The Music Exchange. A customer favorite known for his acerbic dry wit, David measured his words carefully, and could comment quietly with a simple look that spoke volumes. Although he was one the nation's leading experts in recorded classical music, David's humility left no room for snobbery. He loved sharing his knowledge with customers and friends; he was more interested in helping others find their musical path, than in boasting about his own. He also shared his teaching and influence beyond the record store. For years Dave hosted Friday night listening sessions at his apartment, where friends relaxed, learned, and laughed, often until dawn. In the company of his cats and pristine aquariums, these gatherings offered a musical master class not to be missed. Along with his expertise in classical music, particularly 20th century composers, David enjoyed broad musical tastes, including Reggae, Blues, and the Grateful Dead. He was an original columnist for what is now The Pitch, writing about Reggae music, as well as Classical concerns, under the moniker of Davey Dread. For David, music and friends were one and the same; he simply could not separate the two, and it's the way he conducted his life. David had the privilege of spending his final days in the care of the amazing staff at Kansas City Hospice & Palliative Care. They are true angels walking the Earth. Family and friends would like to give a shout out to Kristin, Lisa and Sue for their humanity and understanding at a difficult time. David's legacy will continue as his music collection, along with that of his brother, Dan Conn, will be housed at The Marr Sound Archives at UMKC, for future generations to research and enjoy. David was preceded in death by his mother, Ida, his brother, Danny Conn, and his beloved cats, Heinrich and Rodrick. He is survived by his father Dean and his cousin Diana Klimek, along with a host of relatives and countless friends. A memorial service will be held on Sunday, December 5th at 4:00pm at The Pilgrim Chapel at 3807 Gillham Road in Kansas City, followed by a continued celebration of his life at the Tap Room at Waldo Pizza at 7433 Broadway in Kansas City. Burial will be in Osborne, Kansas at a later date.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Dec. 2, 2010.

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Terry Peters

November 26, 2022

David was my best friend in high school.

Robert Stoskopf

October 4, 2011

I have been so far out of the loop that I have only just now learned of David's passing. Dave arrived at WSU as a music major with zero performance background, yet he embarrassed many of us lifelong musicians with his vast knowledge of classical music. I shared a study area with Dave at the Sig Ep house where he endeared himself to all who knew him with his quick, dry wit and gentle personality. He will, indeed, be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Mark Yates

December 19, 2010

I worked with Dave at the Music Exchange. He always made it fun to go to work. We had an outstanding time behind the counter sharing music. I will miss you!

Michael Kaufman

December 17, 2010

I'll will miss his dry wit & musical knowledge.I bought a ton of records from him & Ron Rooks!I will miss both of you & the knowledge you shared.Michael Kaufman MUSIC LOVER FOREVER.

December 13, 2010

I did not know David well but we are from the same place. I never heard anything but good things about him. He was too youg.

Ann Woolley

George McDaneld

December 13, 2010

I was privileged to know Dave from growing up in Osborne...to spending long hours...enjoying great music from his vast library...in Wichita...Heinrich, his cat supplied additional entertainment. Your generosity in friendship and sharing in the music will be sorely missed...I cherish these memories.

Larry Guinn

December 8, 2010

As another music major frat brother, knowing Dave was a privilege. His wit was unmatched and his smile was infectious, a true Golden Heart.

Ron Stinson

December 6, 2010

I first met Dave as a freshman at WSU when I moved into the Sig Ep house. He had the study area next to me, and in a drawer where most of us kept clothes, Dave had his turntable where he always played music. A year later we shared an apartment together on top of an old garage, where we constantly had music playing, including the Friday and Saturday night listening parties. Dave had such an influence on my musical career - he taught me how to listen to music, form , history, etc. I am so sorry that we lost contact. I know that his music continues to be heard.

Scott Stucky

December 6, 2010

Tonight I will play the William Schuman Third Symphony in your memory. Thanks for everything, Dave. I will miss you. Your brother, Scott #170

Terry Martin

December 5, 2010

Dave & I were fraternity brothers at Wichita State. Truly an unforgetable guy. He will be missed.

Terry Peters

December 5, 2010

David and I were close friends in high school in Osborne, KS, lo those many years ago. I cherished going to his house with him each noon hour to listen to the classical albums he had already accumulated even back then. I especially enjoyed listening to the ones recorded after the turn of the last century. It was priceless! I have so many fond memories of this unique soul. He was one of a kind and will truly be missed. Heaven is a much better place now that he has entered in.

Missy Zarda

December 3, 2010

I am so fortunate that I got to be Dave's friend and will always cherish the time we spent together. Thanks to Diana for being his angel. I love you, Dave.

Ramcey

December 3, 2010

I got to know Dave while raiding the Music Exchange's jazz section a few times per week during the early 80's. His knowledge, friendship and kindness were always appreciated and will forever be missed. See you on the other side, my friend. I expect to find you listening to some great music and be to greeted by your sweet smile....

December 3, 2010

Dave and I were fraternity brothers at Wichita State University. He was truly a great guy and a good friend.

Dan Reagan, Wichita, KS

Allen Blasco

December 3, 2010

Another irreplaceable Kansas City music man gone on to the great beyond. My condolences to his friends and family. Well remembered by many for his work at Pennylane and the Music Exchange, he will be sorely missed.

Joe Mika

December 3, 2010

Thanks Dave, for the times you played the cool jazz for me and brother David at the old Oak St. joint and the good conversations at the Music Exchange. My living and music experience in Kansas City is better because of you.

Mike McCoy

December 3, 2010

Thank you for the well-written words for a linchpin in Kansas City music. David had the most acerbic, intelligent wit without any pretense, all based on genuine friendship and musical discovery. He will be missed greatly.

Cheryl White

December 3, 2010

I met Dave in 1978, when he helped us, Classical Westport, with our first order of LPs from Friends' Music Distributor where he was working. He stopped in the store from time to time over the years to enjoy talking about classical music. So, thank you, Dave, for all your encouragement.

Bruce Ward

December 3, 2010

Dave had a true gift in teaching others how to understand and enjoy classical music and we are all richer for his involvement in our lives. I, too, was a fraternity brother at WSU and fondly remember those weekly "listening" sessions. Happy trails and God's speed, Brother Conn.

Jim Oegerle

December 3, 2010

David & I were fraternity brothers at WSU. He really loved his music. RIP Dave.

Bruce Lindsey

December 3, 2010

Dave was like family to me. He was an intregal part of Kansas City record shop lore. There are so few of us "old timers" left. Dave was a great guy and good friend. It was always such a joy to walk into a "record" store and see Dave and Dan. God bless you, Dave, I will miss you.

Tom Laird

December 2, 2010

Dave and I were Sig Eps at Wichita State University in the 60s. I looked forward to the beer, food, and music sessions in his college basement apartment, lasting till the early morning hours. Dave was brilliant, kind, gentle, and diligent in his study and teaching of music. He had a great sense of humor and was loving to family and friends. Thank you, Dave, for introducing me to the beauty of symphonic music. I will miss you.

Nancy Rooks

December 2, 2010

I have no words to express my sorrow at the loss of Dave. He was a quiet soul who touched many lives and will be missed.

allen fishell

December 2, 2010

Kansas City has lost another wonderful man. I will always treasure his wisdom and wit. He would stand back from the conversation and then deliver the zinger!

Jim Lee

December 2, 2010

This is a tender and touching reflection upon David's life. Gentle souls are few and far between, and he will be missed.

Joe Welsh

December 2, 2010

Dave was a lovely man with an easy smile. I have known him since his Pannylane days. I last saw him at the Music Exchange around 2002 or so. He was also very supportive of the local music scene in KC. He will be missed. My condolences go out to those who loved him. Bon voyage

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