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for RICHARD DILLARD
Aaron and Shakira Tucker
August 7, 2022
Our condolences to the Dillard family. Truly a blessing to me and my family to have had Rick in our lives. We were neighbors on Gibson but he treated us more like family. Such a wonderful and loving individual. Gone but certainly not forgotten.
George L. Lewis, Jr
January 21, 2022
Rick was infact my dearest friend. He will forever be missed by me. His hand made gifts and music will forever reside with me
Wayne Schrier
May 6, 2011
My prayers are with the Dillard Family. Rick was a team mate on the swim team at Drury. He was supportive and kind to all within and without his circle of friends. He never had an unkind word for anyone and led an exemplary life true to his nature.
Corey Trinkler
January 13, 2011
Rick was there threw several difficult times in my life, He always offered his help, and made me laugh when i needed it, and honest when i didnt want to hear it! i am truly happy i got to be in his life, even if for a short time.
K Morris
December 6, 2010
I met Rick just after his notorious Goodness was Outed by Vital Voice, telling of his trash-to-treasure Chairs he auctioned each May for EFA. Re-reading the Article, I knew a SoulFriend when I read about one. We each lived in the City, and had Dumpster-Dived for Curiosity, Amusement, and later "The Plan", or at least, in his case. I phoned EFA, spoke directly with the then-young Italian multisyllabic Director named . . . I forget. He agrreed to put Rick in touch with me, and next thing, Rick was over here on Chippewa loading a truck-full of chairs, nick-nacks, and, finally, a good number of vintage Windows, Doors, and . . . Snow Shovels. A few days later I told my son, then 23, of my remarkable meeting with Rick. His Energy, his Spirit. Long story much shorter -- my son checked out EFA, wound up working with them and introducing/protecting a number of services for our HIV-Poz citizens, after serving on the AIDS FOUNDATION as their youngest-ever Board Member. Now he is National Director of Development for theCountry's Oldest AIDS Service Org. -ASO- , and is crossing the Country with L.I.F.E., a multi-decade research-based Curriculum which helps those with AIDS to Live full and productive lives, and, statistically, a full 22 years Longer than 'Back In The Day'. Rick and I spoke often of his most valuable link in this cycle of growth, renewal, and I knew him to be more than Humble, even in accepting a Grateful Mother's simple words.
Janie Fox Wilson
September 10, 2010
I just leaarned of Rick's passing. I will remember him from high school as a very happy, caring and talented person. My thoughts are with his family.
Angie Dombrowski
September 5, 2010
When our son Evan was born, Rick made a chair for his "Nemo" themed room and gave it as a gift to Evan. It is the best thing in his room and we still have it and love it so much. It saddens us to hear about Rick. We will miss getting that special package at Christmas of his greeting card creation for that year. His letters with the cards were so inspirational. We treasure all the memories of you and all you did to help our friend Al in the end of his days. We know both of you are in heaven and are our guardian angels. Who ever knew you will always have that special light in there heart in your memory. We will miss you.
Love, Aaron, Angie, Evan and Gemma Dombrowski
Drew Stitzer
August 28, 2010
My prayers and sympathy to the Dillard family. I just learned of Rick's passing today, and am heavy hearted at the loss of this wonderful friend. God's peace to you.
Keith Mosier
August 25, 2010
All of us at Food Outreach were saddened to hear of Rick's passing. He was a terrific supporter of our mission, and we always looked forward to getting one of his wonderful chairs for our annual fund-raiser. His warmth and creativity were inspiring. We'll miss him. Our sincere condolences go out to Rick's family and friends.
Keith Mosier
Food Outreach, Inc.
Sue Clarkson
August 18, 2010
With deep sympathy. Our prayers to Rick's family and friends.
AARON & SHAKIRA TUCKER
August 18, 2010
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE DILLARD FAMILY. THERE ARE NO WORDS TO DESCRIBE THE TYPE OF PERSON RICK WAS. RICK WAS A WONDERFUL, FUNLOVING, AND OUTGOING NEIGHBOR. OUR FAMILY STAYED NEXT DOOR TO RICK FOR 10 YEARS AND FROM DAY ONE HE MADE US FEEL WELCOMED. YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED. (AARON & SHAKIRA TUCKER & THE BOYS)
August 18, 2010
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Dillard family and friends. Rick had me addicted to crossword puzzles the first time I flew with him. He was amazing and a beautiful person. Rest in peace,Rick.
August 18, 2010
Rick i can't fine the words to describe you and give you ,but there one i can say EXCELLENT. You gave me years of love,laughter,joy and that smile. I just want to say thank you for showing me so many wonderful things and sharing your friends with me as well. Your light will forever be with me and no matter how much the wind blow no one can take your light away from me. Love .....Darrell
Rose Worthington
August 18, 2010
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Dillard and Family,
Rick was truly a shining star in our TWA Family. It was always a pleasure working with Rick. I don't know anyone who didn't like/love him.
I'm certain God had a 747 waiting just for Rick. Final destination ~God's heavenly kingdom~
Kevin Chapa
August 17, 2010
My heart goes out to Rick's family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Rick was a wonderful person who became a good friend not to just me, but to everyone he encountered. He was one of the best at TWA and was loved by everyone there. He was an angle on earth, and now one in heaven. You will be missed by all.
Scott
August 17, 2010
What a sad day for us all. The loss of such a light in a world that seems to be filled at times with such darkenss. I am so sad about this loss. So many lives touched...so much light given to this world.
It seems so dark today.
Andre Davis
August 17, 2010
It's not always easy to meet genuine people; however Rick was just one of those. We weren't the best of friends but when we crossed paths it almost felt that way. He always gave off such positive energy. May you rest in peace.
Owen Martinez
August 17, 2010
So glad to have known you, Rick. You will be missed.
August 17, 2010
Ricks family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers today. He was such a great guy, always there to help those in need. My favorite memory of him was when he invited me to Cliffs 40th birthday bash. He will be missed by all who knew him, but his memory will live on in our hearts.
Baby Dee
mickey kenny
August 17, 2010
It was a privilege to have known Rick. He was such a talented artist, devoted friend to so many, and a compassionate human being. I will miss his smile and wonderful sense of humor. The world lost an amazing person. I am so sorry .
Lesley (Harding) Wallingford
August 16, 2010
My sincerest sympathies to the friends and family of Rick Dillard. I saw Rick's picture and name in the paper and immediately recognized him as the same "Ricky" Dillard that I used to play with on Red Barn Lane in Wichita, where my family lived until we
moved in 1963. Even in those tender years I recognized how kind and sweet a little boy he was (he never pulled my braids, and I'll always remember my "first kiss" presented to me when I was suspended upside down from the swingset bar). It is apparent from all the wonderful things I have been reading on this site that his nature has been such all along. I feel honored to have known him, even for such a short while and such a very long time ago. I, too, know the pain of loss and my heart aches for you who grieve. I pray that you will soon find peace within your soul - God bless you all.
Susan Prater
August 16, 2010
My prayers are with the family at this time...I will miss his Christmas candy, he was always faithful to send to my Mom, with my brother Cliff. I know he did him proud today. Cliff's sister from Shawnee
August 16, 2010
Rick was in my TWA Breech Training Academy class. He was such a thoughtful and generous person who will be greatly missed by many. My prayers are with his family and friends.
Beth Hailicka
Overland Park, KS
Keith Baugh
August 16, 2010
I will never forget you my friend.
George Lupascu
August 16, 2010
I feel so fortunate to have known Rick and lucky to have had the opportunity to work with him, rest in peace my friend, the world was better with you in it.
August 16, 2010
You are in my prayers... Nelma Groves (Clifford Smith's mother)
J.T. Woodruff, III
August 16, 2010
My prayers are with Rick's family and friends.
I met Rick 35 years ago when we were brothers of the Kappa Alpha Order at Drury College.
Rick always had a positive attitude and was well liked by all. He will surely be missed by all who had the privillege to know him.
tony cole
August 16, 2010
i been thinking of him everyday since i found out the same day it's not beleivable but it is and hard to accept may god have him in his arms and guide him may he find peace
Maud Essen
August 16, 2010
My sincere condolences not only to the Dillard family but also to Rick's dear friends, including Pam, JIm, and neighbors Clifford, Marcus, and Don.
Everyone who knew him has so many memories of Ricky's great kindness, generosity, and good cheer. His chairs will be a constant reminder of his creativity, talent, skill, and dedication as an artist and contributor to the St. Louis Effort for AIDS.
Rick was such a beautiful man, both inside and out. How wonderful to have known him, and how much we will all miss him!
Susan Gump-Watkins
August 16, 2010
Rick had all the qualities we covet: charm, compassion and humor, among others. I can't think of Rick without smiling--so sorry that he was in such torment at the last, but his spirit and memory will endure. Susan Gump-Watkins
Steve Rulon
August 16, 2010
Rick was a wonderful person. He will be greatly missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time of grief.
Steve Wilson
August 16, 2010
To the Dillard family my deepest sympathy. Rick was one of the nicest and most helpful person I know. Always willing to go the extra mile to make anything just right. I know he was very talented and giving, he will be really missed, he was such a kind soul.
Cathy Kline
August 16, 2010
Rick was such fun to fly with and such a becon of light in the world. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time of loss. May Rick's love and beautiful memories remain forever in your heart until that glorious day you are re-united. Rest In Peace sweet friend!
Joyce White
August 15, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Linda Maloney
August 15, 2010
Rick was a pleasure to fly with, a true gentleman and a gentle man. My sympathy go out to his family & all his many friends.
Lisa Youngdahl
August 15, 2010
So much joy, love, intelligence, creativity, humor, compassion, empathy, sophistication, taste, class, pragmatism, and enthusiasm in one wonderful man. He lit up a crew briefing and every flight was more fun, more professional with him onboard. We are all feeling a loss and I extend my deepest sympathy to his family.
Joanne Bettencourt
August 15, 2010
Starting a new career in a new city was not an easy adjustment for me. Rick was always kind, helpful and encouraging. He was a wonderful human being and will be greatly missed.
Nancy Poole
August 15, 2010
Rick was a wonderful man, friend and flight attendant. My daughter Lauren and I send our sincere condolences to the Dillard family.
doug pew
August 15, 2010
We first knew Rick as a part timer working at CWE Nautulus in the West End. During those years we were lucky enough to have a llittle piece of Rick in our lives and what a delight he wlways was.
Rick kept us involved a little by keeping us posted on the Effort for Aids organization after we moved to Connecticut and now, Florida. His generousity, caring soul and warm friendship will be missed and remembered by many.
Our sincere sympathy to his family and closest friends.
love doug pew and don croxton
Orlen Gunderson
August 15, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to Rick's family and his dear friends.
jason gates
August 15, 2010
I didn't know rick well either.. only knew him out and about and at the gym.. was always a nice and very understanding man.. I was very suprised to hear of his passing only just yesterday. I sure will miss seeing him around.. my sympathies to rick's family as well.
jason
John Campbell
August 15, 2010
Rick was one of my best friends in St. Louis. He always made you feel welcome, he was warm hearted, who was open and honest about who he was and what he stood for! He was a dear friend to both of us for years. Our deepest sympathies to his family. Rick, you will be sorely missed, you already are! We love you and will see you again! John and Rich
Carl R. Neal
August 14, 2010
I pray for peace in the Dillard family and friend's Carl R neal
Daryl Stubblefield
August 14, 2010
To the best friend, deepest sympathy to his family. We will see you again. Good night sweet prince.
Muriel Foco
August 14, 2010
To Rick's Family: You have my deepest sympathy. He was truly a wonderful person who cared so much about what he was doing. I know you all have good memories to carry you through the difficult days ahead. Bless you all and God speed Rick. Another TWA Angel!
Gina Lee Borchert
August 14, 2010
My deepest sympathies to the Dillard family. How proud you must be to have raised a son who was so kind,talented, loving,funny,honest,joyful,respectful and giving. Plain and simple,he was one of the most wonderful human beings I've ever met. He was a joy to work with as a flying partner and we both shared a common interest selling our "great finds" from our antique booths. His passing brings much sadness to all the people he so warmly touched throught his life. I feel so honored to have known him.
Rodney Cook
August 14, 2010
I didn't know Rick very well, but every time I saw him either at the gym or at an event, he was always very nice and warm. I am sorry to hear of his passing and loss.
Paul Swing
August 14, 2010
I rememberr one summer, at "the pool", this guy had made pride necklaces using hemp string and little plastic beads. There was one bead for each of the pride colors. I don't know how many he made, but he brought them to the pool on a crowded Sunday and walked around the pool and gave one to every person there. It was a very nice gesture, but one that was not appreciated by most of the guys. Some put them on, some didn't, and some smurked as they left them on the ground. Rick put his on. The next day, Rick was still wearing his. Rick wore that cheap little necklace every day at work that summer. Weeks later, I told Rick that was why I loved him... Because he had and wore that necklace. That was Rick. He made everyone he knew feel special. Rick made me feel special. If he didn't know then, I hope and pray that he knows it know just how special he made us feel and how much we all loved him. We all love you Rick! Thank you Rick for all you did! I love you...
Janey Onka Vaughn
August 14, 2010
My sincere sympathy to Ricks family. Rick was my Instructor when I first entered TWA training in Kansas City spring of 1985. I enjoyed Rick very much, his sense of humor and his great impeccable style. Flying with Rick over my 18 yrs with TWA was so nice as you knew your trip would be very smooth, and he would make you laugh. My memories will remain and my prayers will be for Rick as he enters his new life.
Tony Corpus
August 14, 2010
....and remember my sentimental friend,
that a heart is not judged by how much you love,but by how much you are loved by others... Rest in Peace my friend.
Paul Kirkley
August 14, 2010
Rick was a wonderful guy, someone I always enjoyed flying with or seeing out and about the city. Very sad to hear of his passing. Rest well my friend.
Terrie Fisher
August 14, 2010
Rick was the kind of guy who even carried himself with grace. Many lives have been touched by knowing him. A gentle soul and one of the best flight attendants to grace an aisle. Close your eyes and you can still see his smile
GT Rudar
August 14, 2010
My Deepest Sympathy for Rick's Family. Rick was a GREAT GUY and I will never forget my last trip with him before I was let go at TWA/AA back in 2002. We had a blast running around San Fran.
carl neal
August 14, 2010
I feel so much pain in loosing a good man as Rick. I first met Rick in 1980
he litup the room at every apperance. I have not seen him since Thanksgiving 2001 at Jim Lanier's house post 911. He will always be in my memory and prayers . May GOD bless him , and may he rest in peace
Sincerely, Carl R. Neal Jr. at [email protected]
Bob Vice
August 14, 2010
He was a terrific person with a heart of gold. May he shine as wonderful in Heaven as he did on Earth. He will be deeply missed by all whose lives he touched. He was caring, compassionate and a loyal friend for those who knew him well. God Bless you!
Ross
August 14, 2010
Another Tiffany’s Attic alum, here. A favorite memory of Rick was his wonderful dinner parties. On Sept 12, 1977 friends gathered at his Kansas City apartment just up the hill from the Country Club Plaza. After an evening of fine food and laughter we exited to see large vehicles floating like bumper cars through normally dry streets. The flood that night was historic but the memory of it pales in comparison to Rick’s warm and generous hospitality. Heartfelt condolences to his family, loved ones and friends.
robert coombs
August 14, 2010
Sorry for your loss
DJ Lanza
August 14, 2010
My deepest condolences to his family.
Rick's good upbringing was evident, and he was very much a man of principle. He
will be sorely missed by all who were lucky enough to have known him.
Brian Morgan
August 14, 2010
When I would see Rick's name on the crew list, I knew I was in for some fun! We had a blast flying together and I have some great memories and pictures of him that I will cherish always.
Rick and I chatted a few months ago after the passing of 'Designing Women' star Dixie Carter; reminiscing about the time we were working first class together on a 747 to London and had Dixie Carter and her husband Hal Holbrook on the flight; sitting in our section. Of course, Rick pampered and fluffed them all night long and never sat down the entire flight.
I am so glad he was apart of my life and had the pleasure of his company and friendship. I wish I could be in St. Louis on Monday to honor him.
Jason Evans
August 14, 2010
On our tombstone is the day we were born and the day we died,1954-2010 but all of the important stuff happens in the DASH,
Rick certainly filled in the dash, you will be missed by all of whom you shined your bright light on. I am but one.....
Jim Hohmann
August 14, 2010
A true gentleman that will be missed by all. I will always remember his smile! My condolences to his family.
David S
August 13, 2010
I miss you so much.
Tommy & Annie Stever
August 13, 2010
Sorry for your loss
PHEFE LEE
August 13, 2010
REST IN PEACE. YOU WILL BE MISSED
Arlander Yates
August 13, 2010
It is truely sad to hear of the passing of Richard M Dillard "rick"..... he was a man whom i looked up to...... his energy will be sorely missed..... i will remember him as someone who passed my way & made a difference which is all we can ever hope to do in this life.....
Doug Westadt
August 13, 2010
Rick was a great guy. He had a great smile and a wonderful personality. It just wont be the same without him.
Breech Graduation Feb 1979
Art Perry
August 13, 2010
We lost a really wonderful guy. Rick was my roommate at Breech. Caring, giving, someone who listened, is how I will remember him. My sincere sympathy to Rick's family and all who loved him.
Carol and Jim Jacobus
August 13, 2010
Our prayers and deepest sympathy go out to the Dillard family. I loved working with Rick. He was a kind and very talented man who will be greatly missed.
Tom Trtan
August 13, 2010
I worked with Rick at Tiffany's Attic back in the 70's. After all that time I just recently made contact with him again. He was a good and kind person and I hope he has found peace.
Michael DeVault
August 13, 2010
I am very sad to hear Rick has left us. I will remember your smile forever. So long old friend.
Darren Hanley (Uncle Darrwood)
August 13, 2010
Rick Dillard was one of my dearest friends and I will truly miss him and his loving heart. To his family "My prayers go out to you in this great time of sorrow".
Todd J
August 13, 2010
My deepest sympathy to Rick's family. He was a gentle and sweet spirit. He will be missed greatly. I applaud all his work with the HIV/ AIDS community. He helped many, many people...and that, ultimately, is why we are here on this earth.
Brian & Jenny Anderson
August 13, 2010
Steve & Gena: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
mark
August 13, 2010
he had a nice smile
Craig Burfield
August 13, 2010
Rick was my inflight instructor in 1985 at the Jack Fry training center, in Kansas City .He was what every Flight Attendant wanted to be. Pure Class. The world has lost a great and wonderful person. You will be missed.
Kathy Leonard
August 13, 2010
Rick was never to busy to help me - I do public relations for a number of causes, one of them EFA, but also Gypsy Caravan. Rick did several televsion stories for me with the early morning news shows and was always a joy to work with. I will miss his kindness and outgoing personality. To his family, I am so sorry for your loss. Love and God Bless, Kathy Leonard
Curtis Martin
August 13, 2010
We feel very blessed for the opportunity to have known Rick. He was a friend in the purest sense of the word. We will miss him.
Tanya Smith
August 13, 2010
My deepest sympathy to Rick's family and many, many friends. We have all lost a beautiful human being, that touched our lives in so many wonderful ways. I adored you, and you will be missed terribly, but will live in our hearts forever. Rest in Peace.
Max & Peggy
August 13, 2010
Our heartfelt sympathy to the Dillard family and Rick's many friends. We will miss his kindness and warm smile, but the memory of his friendship shall forever make us thankful for having him in our lives. love, Max and Peggyl
Tim Blumentritt
August 13, 2010
My friend Wayne told me Ricky was one of the nicest people anyone could ever know. To his family and friends, I am so sorry for your loss. Ricky sounds like one of those rare people who brought so much good into the world for others.
August 13, 2010
Rick was always a breath of fresh air, when I saw his name on a crew list I knew it would be a great trip. May you fly with the angels. You will be miss
Jamie Parrott Holcomb, Tampa, Fl
Evan & Sue Lassen
August 13, 2010
Dick,Lee and Family,
Sue and I send our condolences. Although we didn't know Richard we do know the pain of loss. He is well respected by those with who he came in contact and his mission in life to help those suffering from AIDs was truly honorable.
May light perpetual shine upon him.
"Butch"
Wayne McKown
August 13, 2010
Feel such a loss and empitness in the World without everybody's Ricky....Sorry for all...Wayne McKown
Nancy McGuire
August 13, 2010
Rick's TWA family is very saddened by this loss. He was well respected and our condolences go out to his family and many friends.
mike mcgovern
August 13, 2010
Richard was a very special guy. He will be missed. When he walked into a room he brought a smile and sunshine with him.
Jerry
August 13, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to the Dillard family. Rick was a great guy with a big heart who would always go out of his way to benefit others. May the angels of heaven embrace him, guide him, and protect him till we all meet again.
Jerry and Tony (Illinois)
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