MAI Ernest Herbert "Ernie" Mai, 88, passed away August 29, 2016 at Shawnee Mission Medical Center, surrounded by family. Ernie was born June 14,1928 outside of WaKeeney, Kansas. Ernie graduated from Trego Community HS and from Baker University. He was a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon. He married Nina Heidt of Raytown in 1954. Ernie was an insurance adjuster and a general building contractor for most of his adult life. In semi-retirement, Ernie greatly enjoyed working as a security guard and a courier for Gear for Sports in Lenexa, KS. A deeply devoted churchgoer, family man, friend to many and a US Marine, Ernie's love of life is best summarized on a plaque he displayed at home: "God, Family, Country". Survivors include his wife Nina; his children Kay (Miami, FL), Dan and wife Maria (Ballwin, MO), David (Manchester, MO); brother Palmer and sister-in-law Beverly (Kirkwood, MO); sister Helen (Shreveport, LA); his grandchildren Spencer and wife Tori, Shelley, and Mitchell; and several cousins, nieces and nephews. Memorial Service will be held at 2:30pm on Sunday, Sept. 18 at Prairie Baptist Church, 7416 Roe Ave., Prairie Village, KS 66208. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Prairie Baptist Church, Baker University and Alzheimer's Association (alz.org). Assistance by Funeral Advocates. Arr: Signature Funerals, 816-214-5174. Signature Funerals Offering Cremation & Traditional Funeral Care; Caring for Kansas City.

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Published by Kansas City Star on Sep. 11, 2016.

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Dick Rees

September 17, 2016

To the Mai family:

It has been an honor to have known Ernie and to have lived on the same street with Ernie and the family for 44 years. Nicer people are unknown. The many Ernie stories will sustain us for the rest of time. Nina and children, you will find strength in your faith, family and friends. I'm sure Janet is already guiding a tour for Ernie. Best wishes, Dick

September 13, 2016

Ernie, you opened many doors for me in Kansas City just because we had the same last name and we were relatives. You also turned out to be a wonderful friend. I'm grateful that you chose to join us during our recent family reunion. I'll miss you greatly, but I have many "Ernie Mai" stories that will make me smile each time that I think of them or when someone else who adored you shares their special Ernie Mai story. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Tom & Jane Mai

Jeanne Boyer

September 11, 2016

I remember Ernie from working with him at Gear. He was a delightful ray of sunshine every time I saw him. He always greeted you with a smile, and always took time just to visit a bit. I am very saddened, and sorry to hear of his passing. He was such a dear sweet man. God bless you Ernie. My thoughts are with your family.

Tom Tuchband

September 11, 2016

RIP, Ernie. Your friendship and lame sense of humor as well as driveway conversations will be truly missed. As you promised you met your goal of being a "Piano", sharing the number 88.

The Piper Son (Tom)

September 11, 2016

God rest your soul, Ernie....enjoyed working with you at Line-Mai construction company. Also, you were a fun neighbor to have around! Peace be with you.

Bob Purinton
Rancho Mirage, California

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