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Henry Donselman Obituary

Dr. Henry Martin Donselman was born August 11, 1948, in the small town of Milan, Indiana, to Martin Herman and Norma Amelia (née Luke) Donselman. He passed away January 29, 2012, in Murrieta, CA. Henry grew up in Aurora, Indiana, where his father Martin operated a mill. He has an older sister, Dorothy Elizabeth Stringer, and had an older brother, Edward Herman Donselman. Henry graduated from Vincennes University, Indiana State University, and Purdue University, where he received a doctorate in ornamental horticulture, inspired by his grandfather, a botanist.
He married Barbara Jane Longfellow in 1972. In 1976, he accepted a position as professor at the University of Florida. While there, Henry helped introduce many new species of plants, including the now popular Heliconia. In 1988, Henry accepted a position as vice president of Rancho Soledad Nurseries in Rancho Santa Fe and moved his family to Poway. In 1993, Henry began his own palm tree consulting business, which he ran up to his death, except for three years he spent with The Scotts Company.
Henry served on the Board of the Quail Botanical Gardens and was active in the International Palm Society. He was a world-class horticulturalist, listed in Who's Who in Science and Engineering. He also received Interiorscape's grand prize for best project in 1988 for his work on the World Finance Center in New York and a merit award from the American Society of Landscape Architects in 1995 for his work on Palm Drive at Stanford University. Perhaps Henry's favorite project was working on Petco Park, home of his beloved San Diego Padres. Despite his many accomplishments, God and family were always Henry's first priorities, as shown by his involvement in Mt. Olive Lutheran Church in Poway, where he served as vice president and later president, and in his sons' Poway National Little League.
A devoted father and husband, Henry is survived by his children, David, Kerensa and Travis; and the love of his life, Barbara "Jane."
Henry was interred on February 8, 2012, at Mission San Luis Rey in Oceanside between two beautiful palm trees.
Donations can be made to the International Palm Society or Trinity Lutheran Church in Temecula, CA.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Pomerado News from Feb. 9 to Mar. 9, 2012.

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Joan and Doug Buddenhagen

February 15, 2012

My husband, Doug and I met Henry and Jane in Poway when they joined Lutheran Church of the Incarnation, Poway. Our prayers and sympathies go out to Jane and the family. May the Peace of
God's Love be with you at this time.

Jim & carolyn Meyers

February 14, 2012

Our prayers are with the family.Henry was a high School classmate and a genuine nice person.

Dorothy Stringer

February 9, 2012

Thinking of Jane today and wishing her peace. I miss him.

Patty Stringer

February 8, 2012

Henry was the fun uncle who was only 12 years older than me. When I was a kindergartner he did magic tricks for us, which I thought were REAL. A few years later he went to Alaska and brought home fossils, and played the guitar for us when we came to visit. Then he married Jane and they moved to Florida near Disney World. Uncle Henry was so cool! and so special.

Jan Vetrhus

February 8, 2012

Henry and I shared a birthday, so he was a special cousin. I am so grateful that I was able to spend some time with him in Florida and in California. Those memories are special. Mom & Dad and my brother, Jay Wetterhus, all send their love and prayers for Jane, David, Kerensa and Travis.

Tim Clancy

February 8, 2012

My Thoughts and Prayers go out to Henry and his family. His willingness to share his knowledge has been instrumental in my career from the first time I met him at The estate of Joan Kroc in Fairbanks Ranch and the many years that followed when I could pick up the phone and ask a question which he freely answered. You will be greatly missed by those of us who called you a friend and teacher.

Tim Clancy
Cardiff, by the sea, CA

Kevin Klingelhoffer

February 8, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Growing up on Hanover next to Donselman's was a fun and exiting time. Great memories that won't be forgotten.

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John & Linda Neu

February 7, 2012

Barbara,it is with deep sadness that we write in this book tonight. We both want to extend our Sympathy to you and to your Family. We would also like to say that we were honored to know Henry. He was such a nice man and brought joy to so many people. We know he will be greatly missed. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kit Klingelhoffer

February 7, 2012

My deep regrets to the entire family. I grew up in Aurora living next door to Henry and family in my pre-teen and teen years, from the time I was 3 years old. Boy, what great times we had, what childhood memories I have. We formed our own radio station (LUNY), made camps in the woods, fished in the neighborhood creeks, 'corned' the neighbors at Halloween, played in the streets until way past dark in the summertime and on some days, just 'hung out'. Henry and I were not as close in high school as I tended to hang out more with those that I played sports with, but living on westside was and always will be a highlight of my life. We were fortunate enough to have the Donselman's as neighbors and knew Stan and Karen almost as well as we knew Dorothy and Stan. We were a tight-knit group and my sister (Connee) and brotehr (Kevin) share the same memories as I. Although it's been years since I had seen Henry, he sent me an article back in June about the founders of whiffle ball, which we played incessently in the neighborhood. He never forgot.
May you have peace and understanding in this difficult time and may Henry's memory be with us forever.

Kit Klingelhoffer
Bloomington, Indiana

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