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Gerry Abbenhuys Obituary

ABBENHUYS , Gerry
Dec. 21, 1977 - Aug. 17, 2007.
Gerry passed away suddenly of an undiagnosed heart ailment. Often described as a bright light, he had a contagious laugh and a genuine thirst for knowledge. He worked at Ernst & Young, in Los Angeles, CA.
Gerry is survived by his mother, Bianca Putters; his brother, James Abbenhuys; his stepfather, Louie Putters; his aunts, Lori Hlad, Leticia Apalategui and Sylvia Saputo; his uncle, Rick Apalategui; his beloved grandmother, Lupe Apalategui; and his girlfriend, Alejandra Zooby.
Services will be held at 12:30 p.m., August 24, 2007,at Forest Lawn Hollywood Hills (800) 204-3131.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Los Angeles Times on Aug. 22, 2007.

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October 31, 2009

Sylvia Saputo

October 31, 2009

Gerry,

Over two years have passed since we had you with us, and some days it just does not seem possible. I forget that you are gone, and then it hits me and the grief starts all over. My solace is prayer for your happiness in heaven, and prayer for God to give me strength. It comforts me to know that you are watching and guiding us from heaven, and that God and Grandpa are with you.

We all love you so much,

Your Aunt Sylvia

Daniel Gillis

October 4, 2008

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I only wish we had more time. You had a great impact on my life. I think of you and your brother often and I hope to see you one day. I always had a smile when you talked, and I knew with you by my side my day will be O.K!!!!! I'll MISS YOU

Jimmy- I wish I had more to say but you and your brother has always been close to my heart. It was a pleasure growing up with you and Gerry and an honor to know both of you. I hope you and your mother is doing well.

Jacqueline Maria

January 2, 2008

Condolences to Gerrys mother, family and friends. May Gods presence help you through the hard times.

Tamzin Horswill

December 5, 2007

Gerry is a wonderful man. May he rest well.

Lori Hlad

November 21, 2007

One year ago today Gerry we were watching the Rolling Stones concert. I miss and love you so much. Happy Thanksgiving Ger Bear.

We think of you, miss you and hold you in our hearts every single day...and will forever. Aunt Leticia, Uncle Mark and Jackson

September 11, 2007

Bill Behrens

September 2, 2007

Gerry was a terrific person with a laugh and spirit I will not forget. I feel blessed for having known him. I extend my deepest condolences to the Abbenhuys family. All of you and Gerry will remain in my prayers. Your Gerry was one of the best.

lena gonzalez

August 31, 2007

when i needed someone you were there..so grateful God let me see you once more...love you Gerry-lena!

Jeff and Dedee Gorelick

August 27, 2007

Gerry,
We are going to miss you more than anyone really knows. You were like the brother I never had. Between me, you and Albert, we were the 3 amigos that were inseparable and will remain that way forever.

I love you and will miss you!!!

Ariel Felman

August 27, 2007

Gerry,
I will always miss you. Not a day goes by that I dont think of you. I have shared some of my most memorable times with you and I will never forget you. I have dedicated the upcoming high school soccer season to you.

Love,
Ariel Felman

Ariel Lellouche

August 27, 2007

Gerry, I will never forget you. You were a brother to me, so much more than just a great friend. You really lived life to the fullest and are an inspiration for so many to follow. Love you bro

Sylvia Saputo

August 27, 2007

Gerry,

When you left this world you took a bright light with you that cannot be replaced. I love you so much and our grief is endless. God has one of the most beautiful angels with him now.

Your Aunt Sylvia

James Abbenhuys

August 25, 2007

I love you Ger, and will never forget you. You were the best brother I could ever have had. I am going to miss you.....

Love,
Jim

Ernst & Young Valuation - Los Angeles

August 25, 2007

We will miss Gerry's amazing smile and infectious laugh, his restaurant recommendations and recipies, and his solid contributions to our valuation practice. He has touched the hearts of many.

Karim Jinnah & Brenda Joseph

August 23, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Lori Hlad

August 23, 2007

My baby Gerry, I love you and I'm so proud of the man you have become. You are with God, that I know.

Love,
Lori

Marc Blackwood

August 23, 2007

His friendship, enthusiasm, and laughter will be missed.
RIP, my friend.

August 22, 2007

so young... my deepest condolences

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