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Julie Laughlin Obituary

September 15, 1954 - November 23, 2013 Julie Ann (Benkovic) Laughlin passed away on November 23, 2013, at Cedars Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles, California. Funeral Mass and services will be held at 9:30 a.m., Wednesday, December 4, at the Chapel of the Risen Christ, Holy Cross Cemetery, 5835 West Slauson Avenue, Culver City, California. Visitation will precede Mass from 8:00 until 9:00 a.m., at the Holy Cross Mortuary next to the Chapel. Memorial contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to Loyola High School of Los Angeles, 1901 Venice Boulevard, Los Angeles, California 90006. Julie was born in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, on September 15, 1954, to George M. Benkovic, Sr., and Julia Smey Benkovic. She grew up in Steelton, Pennsylvania, and graduated from St. Peter's Grammar School in Steelton and from Bishop McDevitt High School in Harrisburg. She received her B.A. degree from The Pennsylvania State University. She was a long time resident of Los Angeles and had been active in her parish, Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Beverly Hills, and in her children's schools, Good Shepherd and St. Martin of Tours in Brentwood. She was a strong supporter of Loyola High School in Los Angeles. Julie was preceded in death by her daughter, Lisa Catherine Laughlin, her brother, George M. Benkovic, Jr., of Steelton, Pennsylvania, and a niece, Jennifer Linnell. She is survived by her husband, Gary Michael Laughlin, her daughter, Kelly Michelle Laughlin, her sons, Ryan Mark Laughlin and Kevin Andrew Laughlin, and her stepson, Joshua Evan Laughlin, all of California; her parents, George and Julia Benkovic, her brother and sister-in-law, Robert and Cheryl Benkovic, and her sister-in-law, also Cheryl Benkovic, all of Steelton; her brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, William and Virginia Laughlin of Madison, New Jersey, Linda and Stephen Linnell of West Palm Beach, Florida, Timothy and Susan Laughlin of Brookfield, Connecticut, and Patrick and Allison Laughlin of Austin, Texas; 14 nieces and nephews and eight grandneices and grandnephews. Julie was a wonderful and kind wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunt and friend. She will be greatly missed by all who were fortunate to have known her. Condolences may be left online at www.holycross.tributes.com.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Dec. 3, 2013.

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December 9, 2013

Dear family,
Julie was one of my best friends in high school; I think we took nearly every class together for four years. We were always talking, sharing, and pushing each other academically. I thought she was wonderful! Our contact lessened during college and beyond but she did tell me how much she loved California and I knew she wasn't coming back to PA. I am so sorry to hear of her death. I can just see her so clearly in my mind and remember how happy she always was. Your entire family will be in my prayers; it sounds like she will be deeply missed. Mary Toone Vieth

December 5, 2013

you are forever in my thoughts and prayers. cheryl benkovic

Margie & Rick Metka & Family

December 4, 2013

Aunt Julie, Uncle George, Bob, Cheryl and family, and the Laughlin family.

We cannot know the grief you are feeling right now for such a wonderful daughter, wife, mother, sister & friend. Please know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers and may your memories of Julie Ann help you through this difficult time. May God bless all of you.

Bill & Ginny Kelly & Sons

December 4, 2013

Dear Aunt Julie, Uncle George, Bob, and family . Gary, Kelly, Ryan and Kevin.
Our hearts are broken over the loss of Julie. May the good Lord Bless you through this time of sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We will always cherish all the great fun and memories we had with Julie.
Rest in Peace my dear cousin!

Jim Day

December 3, 2013

Julie, you were a wonderful, and beautiful person. Your outgoing personality always shined, no matter where you were. We didn't see you very often because of the distance we were apart, but it never seemed to matter, you were always warm and loving. I ask that God blesses your family, and offers some loving comfort. My heart aches for them. I know you will be greatly missed by everyone who knew you. By God's grace, we pray, that someday we will all be together again.

Your cousin Jim, and his wife, Karen.

Rita Melnick

December 3, 2013

Julie was a friend in high school; a kind and fun person to know. I am shocked and saddened to learn of her untimely passing. My heartfelt condolences to all of her family.

Jessica Wolford

December 3, 2013

Laughlin Family, it pains my heart to know that we were both at Cedar-Sinai Hospital at the same time, and I was unable to offer a hug or a prayer to your family. My mother, Jessica, who knew and loved your mother, passed the night before Mrs. Laughlin went to be with the Lord. I trust that they are together, and watching over all who loved them so much. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Mr.& Mrs. George Benkovic

December 3, 2013

Dear precious daughter;
The pain and suffering is over and
you're now in a better place.This doesn't make the pain we're feeling any
easier.
You were the best daughter any parent could ever ask for. You made us so proud to be a part of your life.The memories will live on forever.
We'll miss the phone conversations,
but you'll be in our thoughts and
prayers as will your family.
I cannot imagine the pain they are feeling right now.
May our Lord give them comfort in the months and years to come and may he hold you and Lisa in his loving arms.
Peace and Love,
Mom and Dad

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