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for Fern AROESTY
Sponsored by Keri Aroesty- Daughter.
January 8, 2015
In 1966 at Parthenia Street school Miss Fox was helping me pronounce Rs and Ss. One day I had a breakthrough, and was able to correctly say Fern Fox. Thank you.
Elena Semper
April 29, 2014
Very sad to just learn this. I didn't know Fern well, but she was always a ray of sunshine. We met through my neighbor. Later I'd come to her condo and taught her how to use her computer. She was a quick learn, and joy to hang out with. Prayers to her and her family.
Joy and Len Efron
January 19, 2013
Dear Keri and Ray,
Outrageous! Uninhibited! Fun-loving! Multi-talented! These were our first reactions to Fern, seeing her do a belly dance at Esther Meyer's retirement celebration. She was 'bigger than life' and celebrated life. Many knew and loved her as a hiker, dancer, skier, artist, and warm, supportive friend. Her professional side was also impressive. When I had a serious question about speech pathology, the fun-loving, humorous Fern became serious and gave me superb advice. Fern was always giving--giving--giving. Politics didn't matter; we had service men and women overseas and they needed support. Of course, Fern was involved.....always helping and supporting people as well as celebrating the joys of life. Oh, how she is missed but high energy acts of selflessness perpetuate her memory.
Love,
Joy and Len Efron
November 28, 2012
Dear Keri,
Your mom will always be alive because her beautiful spirit and energy is always with those of us who love her.
Keri, you are wonderful and thoughtful as was your mom.
Love,
Linda
Diamond-Klopert
Ray Grieshaber
November 27, 2012
Fern....my dear sweet love.My life moves on but, oh my! what memories you have left with me."Angel"is what fits best.One day I hope we meet again.Fern, "You" is what life is about.........Keri,live life to it`s fullest as did your mom.
With my love for you and Fern,
Ray
Esther Meyers
November 26, 2012
Dear Keri,
Floyd and I recently returned from Bagnaia, Italy. While there, we visited with Vittorio and Rosella, two of Fern's many great friends. Of course, we met them because of Fern but the story goes further than that. A number of years ago, Fern called to invite us over, she was having a little party in honor of her Italian houseguests, Vittorio and Rosella. Okay, I said, and by the way, i asked, where do they live in Italy? When Fern said Bagnaia, I almost started to cry. And when I explained why to Fern, she started to cry too. Bagnaia is a tiny village north of Rome. It was the place where I lived as a baby in a Villa that had been converted into a Displaced Person's camp. My mother talked to me about the beautiful people of Bagnaia who brought us food and clothes and helped us stay alive when we were refugees there, survivors of the Holocaust. Imagine! We all know that Fern collected people from everywhere, but that she found a beautiful couple from Bagnaia for me was a wonderful surprise for both of us. During our visit, we spoke many times of Fern and how we both missed her and felt like she was really with us, and smiling that she had connected us. Keri, your mother continues to be a powerful force for good! Love, Esther Meyers
Peter Mitchell
November 26, 2012
Fernie, I miss you; your wonderful smile and zest for life was a gift to others.
Hope some of the photos I took will be value to all.
Peter
November 26, 2012
Keri Nice day Just got back from my 3rd annual trip to Florence Italy for art classes at Michelangelo Istituto I was there when Fern passed away and I went to Santa Croce Church to say a prayer and light a candle One of the reasons I went to this famous Church was because the architect who designed the front in the 17th century was Jewish and got the clergy to OK the star of David at the top of the facade (You can google a photo of the front) I entered the small Chapel on the left of the main Sanctuary and there low and behold was a huge marble statue Of MOSES holding the 10 comandments in HEBREW I knew I came to the right place to honor Fern's memory and each time (the 3rd ) I go back to Italy I goto Santa Croce Church to light a candle for a very good friend... Ciao Bella,,,,Macey Lipman
Cathy Segal-Garcia
November 26, 2012
I knew your mom more as a acquaintance, a dear friend of Judy Barret's. She would come to our jazz functions. She embodied warmth, always...smiling, dancing, laughing, kind words. When she was in the hospital I came to visit and sang to her...she liked it, and I like the idea that music and voice helped her ease into the next realm. Fern is a true and beautiful spirit, and I for one, am so very very glad that she blessed us by being with us on this planet!
Nadia Azouz
November 25, 2012
She is reallly missed, I think about how active, pleasant, loving& outgoing
she was.When she had a client she would work and keep me busy with her all day just to make everyone trip safe and confortable.
We really miss you
Elinor Kriegsmann
November 25, 2012
Hi Keri and Ray,
I sit here thinking about the one and only Fern. Fern and I became friends in l963 during my very first job as a speech therapist with the L.A City schools. She was so "L.A."-full of adventure and laughter and I was quite the opposite- rather quiet, 'serious' but where ever I lived in the world-Europe, New York, Seattle- Fern would show up and lead me into Fern adventures- believe me I have seen more belly dancing clubs than I ever imagined. Once in Seattle, when the dancing had not started by 11pm- Fern just started dancing by herself, laughing in the spotlight on the dance floor. I just shook my head and drank more wine. My last visit with Fern was here in Seattle-when Ray and Fern stayed with me on their way to a long planned cruise to Alaska. A three day visit turned into nine days(missed the cruise) because Fern and Ray both had some medical complications. Fern because she was water skiing and the ski went one way and Fern the other-she got off the plane with a very swollen leg. One day because she was hurting, I took her to a nearby hospital where I happened to be director of the speech program. Fern had been on couch before we left- wearing a tiny little pencil strap nightgown looking thing. I told her she needed to get dressed because we had to leave. She said she was dressed (ahh- L.A. again) so we proceeded to the clinic-- where I kept my head down as not to run into my staff with this half naked beautiful smiling friend. So many memories- many of which include how proud she was of you Keri, how much she loved you, how happy she was with Ray. Hope you both are doing well. Love Elinor
Vittorio Maculani
November 25, 2012
Every day i remember My american family
Norma St.Michel
November 24, 2012
You are really missed, but I know your up there still cheer leading. You filled this earthly world with so much love. You have such a warm spirit and heart. We will meet again someday. I think about all our good times and I know we will have them again. Until then, you are thought of quite frequently and know you have left your imprint here with Keri. She is such a wonderful person, as you were. Feel proud.
Rona Amichai
November 24, 2012
Fern, you lit up every place you walked, and touched so many lives. Your flame still burns strong, and you are so missed. Keri, what a beautiful idea to allow us to read and share these beautiful stories and memories of your wonderful, amazing mom
Alex Sakkas
November 21, 2012
I miss her
I think of her every day
September 18, 2012
Every day My Fernie is driving me to be the person I should be. She is the light and I have made my powder room, once gain, a living shrine with all her letters, pictures, angels and paintings. Always in my heart and will never stop as Fern is my light. Her little Laurie loves her
Norma St.Michel
September 18, 2012
Fern was such an amazing person who deeply loved and cared for her daughter, Keri. She had such a great spirit and I believe that her spirit lives on within your heart. Feel her around you always. Share her stories with your friends and family. She is always with you. You can talk to her and she will listen whenever you need to.
Craig Glick
September 17, 2012
I always enjoyed talking with your mother.She was so full of life
Patty Archer
September 17, 2012
Dear Keri, your mom was such a fun loving spirit, I remember her at the sorority events. She always made us laugh and smile. You must miss her terribly. A mother's love never ends, she lives on in your heart everyday. Live your life to the fullest. Much love, Mrs. Patty Archer
Vittorio Maculani
August 31, 2011
I never will forget your Mom
August 30, 2011
dear Keri, I just had a dream about you and your Mom and had to call her. So sad to hear this news. She was the greatest! We live in seattle washington and I had not kept in touch with her. Remember all the great times we had with you, and your mom and Dad. Let me know what you are doing and where you are living. With Love, Joyce, Doug, A.J and Natanya Maskart email at [email protected]
Laurie Schwent
December 25, 2010
I have made a special bright red guest bathroom (painted five times to make it bright) as you still are. I have paintings, candles, leters in frames and everything except the tea cups that I cherish so much in the Fern, let it burn bathroom... Your sister in life now for eternity. Blowing you a big one; only you know what I mean. Laurie Schwent
Marc Doerner
December 18, 2010
Fern was a very dear friend to me. She touched my heart and soul is so many ways. She was so full of life and vitality and expressed that in everything she did. She was a mentor to my son with her caring ways. She was passionate for everything including dance. To this day I'm still taking dance lessons because of her. My son and I will truely miss her, but her memory and presence is constantly with us.
Kari- Your Mother spoke of you often. She adored the grounds you walked on. Her wish for you was for true happiness and to live your life to it's fullest. Not only were you her daughter but also her best friend.
Zachary and I will be planting a tree to commemorate her life.
Marc and Zachary Doerner
Bonnie Bomse Lewis
December 16, 2010
Keri, we never met, but I knew your fun-loving mom since we were roommates at UCLA. We didn't see each other often enough after I left LA, but you probably know that she was my houseguest on 9/11. We had planned to tour Lower Manhattan that morning. Needless to say, we never got into the city, and your mom saw much more of the suburbs than she had planned. But she was a bright light for my husband and me during that terrible week. In the ensuing years, we emailed about her coming back to visit at a calmer time, but sadly, I never had the pleasure of entertaining her again. It is my great loss.
Vittorio Maculani
December 16, 2010
I'm so sorry becouse I lost my American family.
She will be forever in my herth.
Keri, please, be strong.
December 11, 2010
Dear Keri
Although I never met your Mother (who is a distant cousin via the vast SHTEINGAUER family,
I was in touch with her over the last few years, and she always seemed to be so bright and vivacious (even in her emails) and I would so much have liked to have met her. But this was not possible.
I know you are going through a very difficult time, but knowing how much your dear Mother was loved I hope will give you some comfort and support.
Love from your Downunder cousin,
Lorraine Bertelsen
Boho, Victoria, Australia
Hikers share good times
Alicia Delaney
December 11, 2010
Dearest Fern,
You are an inspiration to me. I remember hanging out with you and no matter where we went, whether it was hikin, a dance, dinner, a party or just shopping, you would be so friendly and concerned about people and instantly strike a conversation. Those were wonderful times where we shared much fun and laughter. I especially loved our trip to Sedona where you introduced me to your high school friends. We toured,took pictures, meditated, danced, laughed and ate the most delectable vegan food prepared by Dawson and his friend. Thank you for the fun and joy you brought into my life. You are always on my mind. Alicia
Muriel Redoute
December 10, 2010
My dear Fern, I wish we could have gotten together much more often. I only met you about 4 years ago but at least I got to know your talent as an artist, your fun personality and how wonderful as a woman you were! It's hard to beleive last time you came to our house was only about over a year ago, on my son's bday and on our housewarming, you were, as always, so lovely and smily, all covered up with gifts! You were truely a character and I trust you're in peace wherever you are. Bisous, -muriel & family
Jorge M. Soto
December 10, 2010
On my recent trip to L.A.,in July, I had the unforgetful experience [again] of spending some time with my querida Fern,and as always, every moment was full of fun, laughter, and enjoyment to the fullest of all the activities we shared. She was VERY dear to me and I will forever have very fond memories of her grace, energy, sweetness, and sense of humor. CON MUCHO AMOR.
nanci mancinelli
December 10, 2010
fern, i will never forget your spirit and zest for life. you were an inspiration for all.
Sophie Elbaze
December 10, 2010
Sophie Elbaze
December 10, 2010
Lori Miller
December 9, 2010
Dear Keri, Your mother was truly a very brave lady.. She came to visit my husband, Ned, last year while he was dying of lung cancer. A very selfless person she was
Jan & Bill Quinn-Weyant
December 9, 2010
Everytime we think of Ferm we remember her joy and zest for life, for love, for art, for music and for dance. Everytime we remember Ferm there is a smile on our lips because her beautiful memory lives in our hearts.
Janis Holcman
December 9, 2010
Even though Fern and I lived miles apart we became very close. She was the first person I would call when I knew when I was coming to LA. When we bought a condo here, we did lots of fun stuff together. Fern was always there for me and my family. I was always comforted knowing Fern was in town with my kids, when I couldn't be. Holidays were always enriched with her presence. I will miss her dearly.
Sandi Villelli
December 9, 2010
You left us too soon, Fern. Your legacy of friendship and enthusiasm for life will remain. You will be missed.
Peter Mitchell
December 9, 2010
Fern was always the first person we invited to any of our parties; she helped us at our annual July 4th event and other events; she was always happy, full of energy, loving, and kind.
Fountain Theatre
December 9, 2010
Fern was a passionate theater goer and theater lover. She was a longtime friend and supporter of the Fountain Theatre, and will be deeply missed by her Fountain Theatre Family.
Alex Sakkas
December 9, 2010
I can't believe she's not with us anymore.She's been a wonderful person and I will always be thinking of her.And I guess we will all be missing her,forever...
Lynn Lampert
November 20, 2010
Mrs. Aroesty was my speech therapist when I was a little girl at Carpenter Avenue...I remember her as a fun patient and caring woman who helped me and always made me laugh before the dreaded "She sells sea shells by the seashore",,,,she was a wonderful person...I only wish I had gotten the chance to thank her for all the help she gave me as a child...I will never forget her...
Diane Jubelier-Light
November 11, 2010
Lucky me, I met Fern in 1958, when I became an SDT at UCLA. So we were friends for 52 years. How fast they went.
I think we were among each other’s biggest fans. She encouraged me in my singing endeavors, came to as many of my shows as she could, found jobs for me, had me sing in a movie, at her wedding, retirement, Keri’s Bat Mitzvah, Art Show at Palisades Library, and at our house when she and Les had an art show. And I greatly admired her many talents. She was a great dancer, talented water color painter, sculptress, athlete, speech therapist, party giver, poetry writer, travel agent, and she was very charitable.
She had a gift for meeting people, making them feel at ease, and having fun. And she cared about her friends and family. Almost every time we were out somewhere together we’d run into someone she knew.
We went through many ups and downs over the years, had many “heart to heart talks,” delighted in each other’s successes and tried to help each other when we had problems. Even if she was “on the run” she would take time to be of help.
In summary I’d like to read a little paragraph that my poetic sister, Janet Papkin, wrote Fern when she was ill:
“My memories of you go back over so many years, always the vision of you as the wild, beautiful, artistic woman. If there was music, you were dancing. The vibrant colors of your paintings are like your personal exciting aura. You personify energy and enthusiasm. You are like the sun with an orbit of friends who love you”
We’ll miss you dear friend and inspiration.
Muriel Redoute
November 8, 2010
Dear Fern, I only got to get together with you only a few times since we met on a plane to Puerto Vallarta several years ago but I surely miss your voice on the phone, your talent as an artist and your beautiful smile. Be in peace wherever you are. -muriel & family
Huntington Gardens, CA 2008
Eileen Spiropoulos
November 5, 2010
Dear Keri,
Your mom swam into my life 20+ yrs. ago in the spa Jacuzzi at Bally’s – shortly after my husband’s passing. I have no doubt that God sent your mom to me during this dark time in my life…as she filled my life with adventure, and it was always fun!
Quickly we shared lots of interests: bike riding, sailing club, windsurfing, horse-back riding, hot-air ballooning, hiking, NYC and LA walking tours, taking turns driving to museums, operas, theatre, concerts…even travel buddies through the U.S. & Europe.
That’s my story and life with my wonderful friend, Fern.
Fernsie, you will be in my heart always…till we meet again…and
Keri, I know you’ll take your mom’s spirit with you…and I believe she’ll be watching over you from above.
Sophie Elbaze
November 1, 2010
My dear Fern was a great friend, dispite of the distance, language or any other difference, she was close to me. I loved her very much as a family member. She had always nice words to me and our friendship was strong. I will always think of her with love and souvenirs full of joy.
Linda Lessing
November 1, 2010
When you know you can depend on her to be there for you no matter what, no matter where, when she knows she can call you any time of the day or night if she needs to cry or share a special moment in her life,you have a best friend for life. That's what I had with Fern. I loved my dear friend Fern;losing her leaves a tremendous void in my life. I cherish all the wonderful memories we stored over 40 years of girlfriend time, couple time, and family time; we shared every interest and activity, having everything in common from the day we met skiing 41 years ago. I even took her to her first Greek dance lesson and that started a whole new chapter in her life.
Our girls grew up together and we were family,doing the holidays together, always planning ahead. Fern always wanted to know what she was doing two months ahead of time.
Fern was so giving, so loving, so accepting of everyone and collected friends like people collect recipes, tasting first and keeping the ones that made her feel good-and they were many, as evidenced by the huge turnout to say goodbye to a unique individual that will never be forgotten.
Dancing on the Mountain top.
Barbara King
October 31, 2010
Teaching the hikers to belly dance
Barbara King
October 31, 2010
Cathy Segal-Garcia
October 31, 2010
Fern is a being who will never leave us, and lived life fully and loved! A great spirit, uplifting...a sweet heart! I will always thing of Fern with love....
Dusty Antos
October 30, 2010
Fern was a jewel and truly full of bubbly laughter and fun. I will always remember her at our Club Halloween party of 2009. She came as a belly dancer and performed for all of us. Fern got up on the table so we all had a great view. That's what made her so special. Making people happy. It was remarkable for me to see her so full of energy and joy. I will truly miss her "sparkle."
David Spence
October 29, 2010
I met Fern over ten years ago and have enjoyed being her friend and having fun with her at the many parties and functions that she attended, always with a smile and tons of energy, I thought I was a good dancer but When I danced with Fern she would wear me out and move right to another partner and proceed to wear him out, where did she get all of that energy, we will all miss her and I am happy to have known her.
Marian Lavin
October 27, 2010
I did not ski, swim, draw, dance or hike; but I always heard from Fern; a warm and funny email and everytime I received one it made me happy. Fern always made one feel included.
Love, Marian Lavin
Bunny Haverick
October 27, 2010
Fern was such a ray of sunshine. When she walked into a room everyone knew she arrived with her loving attitude, great smile and jest for enjoying life to the fullest. She was always positive, happy, and upbeat and always said kind words about everyone.
Bunny Haverick, Oak Park CA
Fern at Greek Festival, May 2010
Christine Houghton
October 26, 2010
I was fortunate to have been able to spend the day with Fern alone at the May '10 Greek Festival at St. Nicholas Orthodox Church in Northridge, just two weeks before she started feeling poorly. We had a great time and this is the way I will always remember her.
Anne & Arnold Guminski
October 24, 2010
What a sense of loss for all of us that dear Fern is no longer be with us. We were very moved when he heard this news because we had both known her for well over twenty years. Until we moved from California to Boulder in 1993, we very often danced with Fern at many Greek festivals, and in restaurants and at parties. Our friendship was not limited to only social events but flourished in other ways. So we remained good friends after our move to Boulder. It gave us great pleasure when she came to Boulder and stayed at our home for a few days. She joined us in one of our monthly Ragtime tea dances and she enjoyed it very much. Of course, we saw her at one Greek festival or another whenever we could during our annual visits to California.
Fern was so much fun to be with, so full of energy and enthusiasm, taking great delight in dancing and spending time with her friends. It was wonderful to witness how amusing, candid, and sweet she could be—and all at the same time! What a sense of humor she had, so quick to laugh or smile. But she could also be very serious and thoughtful, bringing common sense to her work and elsewhere. She felt very much for people in need and was a very loving person.
After she learned she had lung cancer, she nevertheless retained her zest for life—bravely drawing upon her reserves to ski, travel, dance, and exhibit her art during those last several months during which she had what turned out to be a short-term lease on life. She valued life. So she lived it to its fullest to virtually the very end.
It is very comforting to us that we were with her at the Northridge Greek festival last May, and that afterwards we dined with her at an Italian restaurant in the Valley. We shall miss her so very much. But the greatest tribute we can all give Fern is for us each to live life to the fullest as best we can. She will always be a shining star and have a special place in our hearts.
Jill Linsk
October 23, 2010
Fern will forever be in my heart and soul.
We had many wonderful times together and I am grateful she was in my life for the past 15 years.
Love you Fern, Keri & Ray.....
October 23, 2010
I met Fern on a Delta House Boat Trip. Since then we had enjoyed many parties, activities, and fun times together. I have many fond memories with Fern, us partying together and other friends on Inauguration Day 2010, our Jazz festival trip to Mammoth, her art shows, our dancing the charleston together at a ski club party, and many more. She had boundless energy and I used to get exhausted just watching her. I will miss you Fern, you were a good person and a good friend to everyone!
Claudia Reame
Michael Dennis
October 22, 2010
I met Fern for the first and only time at a wedding in California. We danced through the entire reception and met to tour an outdoor art exhibit the next day. Definitely the most fun I ever had at a wedding. Walk in the light and live until you die.
Emoting at Spring Fling 2009
Tina Brix Alden
October 22, 2010
As we all know, and can read in this guest book, Fern was a very unique and special person. She has touched all of ours lives in such memorable and delightful ways. I worked with Fern as a speech therapist for LAUSD but really didn't know her as well until I started hiking with the group, probably 15 years ago. On one could ever top her for fun, happiness, friendliness, and giving of herself to others. For my retirement 6 years ago, she belly danced in her full costume. And she was terrific. She got me and others up to dance. What fun it was! It was always a good time with Fern. She is an example to all of us, and will be so dearly missed. I hope Keri and Ray find comfort in their good memories, and how many people loved her- a lot!
Love, Tina Brix Alden
Renee Simlak
October 22, 2010
Keri-
I met your Mom for the first time when we all helped out to feed the hungry downtown. I remember thinking about how amazing and strong of a person she was to donate her time and even get others to partipate as well and donate their time. She was remarkable. I know you will carry on in her legacy whereever you go, you have already start to. When we lose our Mothers, they never go far, they are ALWAYS a part of us, and most importantly they are only a thought away.
With love, Renee
Ted & Lill Herr
October 22, 2010
Keri, Ray & Families,
We met Fern years ago at the Greek festivals. She had so much energy, smiles and love for everyone!!! What a fantastic woman your were to everyone you met. We enjoyed all the dances, parties and places where you were. You lit up the room with you smile. We love and miss you very much.
What a fabulous memorial service. Love was in the room and YOU made it happen.
Keri, your Mom loved you and was so proud of you.
Ray, you were the perfect man for Fern. Loved her dearly and made her so happy.
We send our love and prayers. Take care and God bless.
Marilyn Goldstein
October 21, 2010
When I think of Fern, I think of her dancing uninhibited on a mountain top with the sky putting on a sunset show. I will always think of her that way. Colorful, lusty, bigger than life Ferny – how I miss you. Now that your spirit has been set free, dance again, my friend.
Kitty Hack
October 21, 2010
My Dearest Fern,
You touched my life in wonderful ways. I will cherish our friendship forever Thank you for your inspiration and love always. We shared much laughter and some tears on life's journey as friends. I miss you and am so happy that you lived your life to the fullest. I am blessed and my life is richer because you were in it. I will love you always.
ELBAZE Michèle and Charles
October 21, 2010
Dear Fern,
We met 13 years ago in San Francisco. What a good remember ! You were so full of live and kindness. I knew immediately we shall become friends. The last time we saw you, it was in June in the south of France and as usually having time with you was a gift. We think to Keri and Ray who were so precious for you and send them all our love.
Ma chère Fern tu vas beaucoup nous manquer, on t'aimait sincèrement.
Michèle et Charles (France)
Judy Maller
October 21, 2010
I want to just give a hug to Keri. Your mom was an exceptional woman full of life and a very kind caring soul. She felt strongly about her jewish roots and loved people around and caring for each other. I will miss her joy le vive, her wonderful smile, and off colored stories and jokes. Much love to you at this difficult time. Love, Judy Maller
Naomi Lerner
October 20, 2010
Although I didn't know Fern very well I clearly remember her dancing up a storm during a Brazilian night in Culver City a few summers ago. She was truly a fun, funky,female with an amazing joie de vivre. She was a dear and special lady.
Sally Budd
October 20, 2010
Though I can't say I knew you as well as others, I can say - You certainly left a big impression.
Fondly,
October 20, 2010
Dear Fernie,
Whenever I think of you, which is often, I have to smile. You represent fun!
You always made time to support your friends, their causes, your special causes and of course, to dance.
Thanks for being you...please try not to tire everyone out immediately with all of your energy in heaven.
Love you,
Linda Diamond-Klopert
Doree Goodman
October 20, 2010
Dear Fern, We were together at UCLA and then I moved and we lost touch. But so typical of you a few years ago you made contact and suddenly we were wonderful friends again. Being with you was like a breath of fresh air, like a whirlwind just went by - what's 40 years in between.
Fern, you could touch people and they were immediately caught in your enthusiasm, joy and optimism - like your art and the flowers you painted - bright, blooming and beautiful.
Love and Peace to all, especially Keri and Ray.
Doree Mendelsohn Goodman
Our Fernie at Hiker's Spring Fling
Esther Meyers
October 20, 2010
Dearest Fern,
You have have always been the life of any party you attended, made magic happen whenever you were present, reached out to all in goodwill and friendship. And you blessed so many with your "quiet" acts of kindness, always there first to comfort, to support, to light the way for a friend. I will love you and learn from you always.
Alyssa Spiropoulos
October 20, 2010
Keri, I had to sit with your mom's death for a week or so before I wrote in her guest book. I knew your mom through my mom, and they met and became close friends right after my father died. I believe she was a gift from God at a time that was devastating to her, and to us. Your mom changed my mom's life and she brought adventure and fun: they traveled to Europe, Martha's Vineyard, NY, were in the sailing club, ski club, hiked Sedona, etc...your mom was always DOING & EXPERIENCING!!!!
There are people who dance through life quietly, like a Waltz, and their sweet, graceful presence is felt like a gentle wind blowing against your face. And then there are those who dance through life with a force, like the Rumba, and make a big splash on all they come in contact with. That was Fern.
I will miss your mom's energy and exuberance for life, and I will miss that especially for my mom. Together, Fern and my mom were like 2 peas in a pod. They were like teenage girls with the whole world ahead of them!!
Someone wrote earlier and asked if she was leading a Greek dancing class in heaven. I bet she is!!!!
Annette Mann
October 20, 2010
Fern, You've been in my mind a lot lately. I'm recalling fondly all the wonderful times we shared. My fondest memories are of our trip to Eastern Europe. We had such a wonderful time exploring our Jewish heritage in such beautiful settings and my family really liked you. Also our snowmobiling in Yellowstone stands out as one of my all time favorite days. Taking turns driving, and managing not to turn it over, as others did. The Hannukah parties you gave were so much fun, and such a significant part of my holiday season. Celebrating the High Holidays at the Laugh Factory, and lunching right after at Rosenblatt's became an annual routine. Our Whistler trip, skiing all day and dancing in to the wee hours of the night.
I loved your spontaneity, joy for life, and generosity to all around you.
You lit up every room you ever walked into, and you continue to light up my heart.
You are and will continue to be very much missed.
Keri and Ray, you are so fortunate to have such a shining example of how to live, and you both brought so much joy and meaning to Fern's life in return.
Eldon Shaffer
October 20, 2010
Though we only connected a short two years ago, you brought a vibrancy and enthusiasm for life whenever we met. I know we'll met again. Until then, you are missed.
Your cousin
Eldon
Lori Miller
October 20, 2010
Dear Keri and Ray, We all know that Fern was quite a special person, so let me tell you about her brave kindness to Ned and I. Ned was diagnosed with lung cancer in June, 2009 and died on Jan 31, 2010. Fern called me often and came to visit us several times. I want you all to understand, she came to see us, knowing that someday she might be suffering like Ned, and yet she came, always with a smile ... bringing things for Ned to see and enjoy. That is a most selfless act and I loved her for it
Lori
Elinor Kriegsmann
October 20, 2010
Dear Keri,
From the previous entries, it looks like many of us were lifelong friends of your mom and have to laugh when we remember our antics with her. She made me do things I would never have done on my own-we learned to ski together at Mammoth, we started our first jobs together as Speech Therapists in the early 60's, we traveled to many places, I sat mortified as Fern belly danced by herself! at clubs she dragged me to in Europe, Victoria,CN, Seattle. Fern loved all sensual pleasures and enriched our lives with her enthusiasm. She was proudest, however, about you Keri- you were the shining star in her life.
Lynda Blivas
October 20, 2010
The beautiful words shared by your friends is exactly the way I feel about you, Fern. You are a shining example of how one should share their life with others. You truly did make everyone feel like they were your best friend. Your warm and loving nature, your enthusiastic vest for life will be missed by all. Your time with us I truly believe was cut short, but we are all so lucky to have shared a part of ourselves with you. I will truly miss you and I will carry your spirit with me, all the days of my life. Keri, how lucky you were to have had Fern as your mom! So sorry for your loss. Your Fiddler on the Roof song, "Do you love me?", which you shared with your mom is a question which you know will always be answered with a resounding, Yes! Your mom shared with everyone, her profound love for you. Take care and enjoy your life as your mom did.
Lynda Blivas
October 20, 2010
Fern, you will be deeply missed. I will always remember the wonderful times and mishaps we had over the past 30 years. The ski trips, the lunches and dinners and all the plays we enjoyed together. Even when things didn't go as we planned, you always dealt with it with laughter and a good sense of humor. You will be in our hearts forever. marva and bill baumgart.
isy Wiefel
October 20, 2010
I loved Fern. We worked together for many years, me as a teacher, she as the speech pathologist at Fenton. But more than that we developed a deep friendship. I considered Fern as one of my "best friends". After I left Fenton we continued to meet for lunch, talk on the phone and continue to be involved in Bar/Bat Mitzvahs and birthday parties. I sat with Fern through Chemo and took her on walks, knowing she's do the same for me. Matzah Ball soup, dinners, and support. She will be missed although I must agree with Keri that she is still here in spirit and will be missed but always present. We love you Fern. Rest in Peace.
October 20, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Barbara King
October 20, 2010
All of my memories of Fern make me smile. She was such a joy to so many people. I met her in the hiking group and always loved hiking with her and hearing her stories about her life and ambitions.
I saw her develop as an artist and during that time she was such an inspiration to me with photography. When at my house for gatherings she always asked to see my latest work. She was my biggest fan.
Fern's enthusiasm for life and living fully, was such fun.
She will be greatly missed by many. My thoughts and love go to Keri and Ray at this time.
Dave Cristofar
October 20, 2010
Fern, you were a true friend, and I will miss you dearly. I will miss the phoen calls, the lunches, the invites, your smile and mostly your energy (even though I know that is still here).
Looking at the photos of Mammoth - jazz, hiking, skiing; Tahoe hiking and rafting, halloween parties, birthdays celbrated together, just one happy moment after another.
You set a real example of living life, every moment and to the fullest.
I know that you accomplished all you were sent here for and more. I wonder what wonderful adventures lie ahead in the next part of your experience. Have you organized a Greek party in heaven yet?
Elissa Morris
October 19, 2010
I have so many wonderful memories of my early childhood years. A big part of my favorite times were our trips to Coronado with our moms (Fern & Diane). It was just us girls spending time at the beach, pool, etc. Thankfully they never caught us pushing all the numbers in the elevators when we were bored. Fern had so much life energy and just hanging around her gave others a pick-up and positive vibes. She made everything fun and encouraged me to try things when I was being shy. Now that I live in Portland, I looked forward to her annual Hanukkah parties where I got to see all my mom's friends from years past and have fun with the gift exchange. You know how much energy she put into having fun and friends and she lived her life to the fullest. She will be missed by us all. We love you Keri and I am so sorry for your tremendous loss.
Judy Barrat
October 19, 2010
Fern was here for but a day in the grand scheme of things but in that day she managed to leave a profound and infinite impression on the lives of all she touched – my sister in spirit - we laughed, we disagreed, we argued, we loved - but most of all she made sure that no matter what, we held on to each other for every precious moment. Fern, there will always be a place in my space for your face and your grace. I love you. Keri -- all that your mom was is in you and will live through you. LET IT SHINE!!!!
Antonia Gravink
October 18, 2010
Keri, I have so many wonderful memories of your Mom! She brought such love and laughter wherever she went.. She led the Greek Dancing at my wedding, she even took my father in law in his wheelchair onto the dance floor. I am deeply saddened by Fern's passing. The world lost a very bright light.. But I know heaven has gained a bright, beautiful angel! Fernsie, you were my Mom's very dear friend. And mine too. You are missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you Keri.
Heidi Herzog
October 18, 2010
Fern was my heart and soul for so many years. I have danced many a Greek dance, talked about boyfriends and life, bicycled a good mile before a delicious meal together, and laughed and laughed and laughed. She is a beacon in a topsy turvy world filled with uncertainty---a woman I, we could turn to as a steadfast presence in my life. A woman who gave of her resources, time, and love unabashedly, unconditionally, and uncensored and freely. Fern lives on in her beautiful daughter Keri---a young girl when we first met 22 years ago...a fine strong steadfast woman now.
Fern's smile will always shine down on all of us....urging us to take a risk, be adventurous, enjoy other people's company and gifts...and to love. Love deeply. Love profoundly. Love.
For in the end, all there is for all of us is the love that we have showered upon others, and the love we have let into our hearts.
To my beloved Fern. To darling, sweet daughter Keri. I love you always and a day. Heidi
Jennifer Hebert
October 18, 2010
My apologies for not reaching out sooner, my parents just told me of Fern's passing. I have many fond memories of her as a child, and my condolences go out to you Keri for your tremendous loss. Although I have not personally seen her in years, she had a personality that is hard to forget. My thoughts are with you Keri, and your family.
Laurie Schwent
October 18, 2010
............Far beyond where the horizon lies and the land sinks into mellow blueness ..Oh take me with you......Let me skip the road with you..I can dare myself, i'll put a pebble in my shoe and watch me walk,,,I shall call the pebble dare and I'll take dare from my shoe saying ..meet your new road--Then I'll take your hand --finally glad--that I'am here BY YOUR SIDE!!!!!!!!
Randy and Jiggs Gallagher
October 15, 2010
We loved your memorial service, Fern, and we know you would have loved it too--especially the laughter, and the overflowing room with hundreds of people! You lived a wonderful life and we will miss you.
Lori Roman Kreitzman
October 14, 2010
Fern, you will forever be a special place in my heart, as well as for all of those who loved you. You always warmed up a room and had a hug and love for me that always made my day! From the first hug to the last i will forever miss you~
Northridge Greek festival 2010
Jennifer & Tom Hiltabiddle
October 14, 2010
PEACE to You Beautiful Woman! ~¤?¤~
Tom and I, and many of your dear Greek dancing friends were in a room full of LoVe this morning. Fern, Standing room only for you this day. How Awesome to experience. How Awesome the way you touched, impacted and cheered so many lives. We'll miss you incredibly Babe!
And to your Beautiful family....
Our deepest sympathy.
? PEACE-n-LOVE ?
Liz Casillas-Stergiou
October 13, 2010
Fern,
Since the day I met you you always had a smile on your face. You energy and enthusiasm electrified the dance floor. You never EVER had a bad thing to say to anyone or about anyone. I will miss the hugs and love you offered so freely to us at the festivals. Keep the mandili handy sweetheart, because I know you are going to lead many syrtos in Paradise!
I will never forget you dear one
Derbeh Vance
October 13, 2010
Fern, you lovely wonderful human being! Nobody will ever be able to dance the Syrto quite like you my dear. May you be at peace and rest, teaching the angels a step or two! Memory eternal!
Sarantis Moursellas
October 13, 2010
Fern was my dearest friend for the last 29 years, always a joy to be around her, she was an amazing lady with her positive attitude, and beautiful smiles, her energetic Greek dancing and stamina always amazed me!! She will be greatly missed! Until we meet again, may God bless your soul my dear Fern.
My sincere sympathies to her beautiful daughter and family.
ray grieshaber
October 13, 2010
Ray Grieshaber...............
My happiness was making you happy.
I hope I was successful...Nobody can
match you for living life and loving
everyone you ever touched..sleep my love
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