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Barbara Ann Romero
July 17, 2025
My precious boy living in my dreams and forever embedded in my heart and soul, you are missed, you are loved, and you are channeled through our precious Mavis. We keep your memory alive talking about you and remembering the many things that you are and did stamped infinitely in our beings.
Christie Bambery
July 17, 2025
Always in your family´s heart Matthew. Wish I had met you sweet boy. Sending love to your mom and sister!
Mary Ulmer
July 18, 2024
Your pain is unbearable, your love immeasurable and your memories never ending. Love, thoughts, and prayers.
Barbara Ann Romero
July 18, 2024
Fifteen years and my heart holds you eternally. Your face, 29 years, electric mind, observation and energy, incredible wit and quick take humor flood me a remembrance that despite your short years with me, you are ever present. I love you with all my being.
precious boy wit
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Christie Bambery
July 17, 2024
Sending Matthew heavenly love and my forever love to your family. Always in our hearts.
Lindie Hoot Merritt
July 17, 2024
As always, Barbara and family are in my thoughts today...
Christie Bambery
August 12, 2020
I wish I had known you. Your mother and sister, and your brother in law are doing great. You will be an uncle soon. Perhaps it has already happened? I think your mom is in CA with your sister, awaiting this magical moment in your family. Know that you are loved beyond words! Sending you all my love.
Christie Bambery
July 19, 2019
Sending love and prayers to you and your family, dear Matthew.
George King
September 29, 2016
Man oh man.. Its been quite some time.. Was looking thru some pics and came across a bunch of them. We had tons of fun man. Crazy to sit and think of all the stuff we used to do haha. Miss ya brother.. Until next time..
George King
November 21, 2014
Thinking of ya bro!
George E. King II
April 17, 2013
Miss You brotha!
Andrea Blackman
November 13, 2011
Still miss u so much Matty
Barbara Romero
October 2, 2010
As time pases, I want to keep my baby's memory alive.Please contact me on facebook;BarbaraRomero,Miami,Fl or at [email protected]. I am so grateful for any contact with memories,experiences or encounters with Matthew. October1,2010
Christopher Ware
May 28, 2010
Barbara, Paul, and Amanda
We only just now saw this and are so very sad at Matthews passing. We have such great memories of he and Christopher together. They were glued to each other. Cutting each others hair at 5 years old, Fishing at Troutdale, Matty's Birthdays party in the park and of course at your home on Dumetz. Matthew was a wonderful child and all of you were so kind and such grat people. Please accept our belated condolences and our prayers are with you as always. Not go by when Christopher doesnt think of Matthew, and all of us think of your family often. So many years since the "New Baby" Amanda...
God Bless You All
Katie & Jason Navarrete
February 26, 2010
Hello,
I was a close friend of Matt's . It was very shocking news. Its sometimes still hard to believe, but he is now with his dear friend Ian who himself left us to early as well. my love to them both. and to the family.
George E. King II
December 31, 2009
Matt and I were very much alike.. In the same situation and same issues.. We went to Hawaii together and had a blast out there.. I have had manyyy Good times with matt.. He stayed with me in my condo in laguna for awhile.When i lived in California.
He will be missed but i know is looking down on all of us.. Things happen for a reason. Sometimes we can accept and understand.. Somethings we dont.. Its the way of life.. My heart goes out to matts family..If you ever need anything you let me know..U can find me on myspace too..
Pat Swata Minton
August 14, 2009
Barbara, I'm so sorry to hear about your son. You and yours will be in my prayers, thoughts, and heart. God bless you.
Candace Blake
August 14, 2009
Dear Barbara and Amanda,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you. May the Lord comfort you always. Candace Blake+family
kelly
August 14, 2009
My sincerest condolences for Matt's family. I knew Matt and always had so much fun with his charming personality and warm heart. He will be greatly missed and it saddened me to just hear the news of his passing.
REST IN PEACH MATTY ( i still owe you a new gucci chain)
Vivian Toscano
August 13, 2009
Dear Barbara we were classmates in NDA., I just heard about your son's pacing and I don't have any words, just to let you know that my thoughts and prayers will be with you for your son and family. Vivian Toscano , Miami, FL
Jim & Marta Nolan
August 9, 2009
Our hearts are with you & Amanda. Please know that we are always here for you & love you.
With love, Aunt Marta & Uncle Jim
Cece Bullard
July 29, 2009
To Barbara and Amanda,
We think of you every day and have you and Matthew always in our prayers. Thank you for so many wonderful memories of happy times. We love you always,
Cece, Kim, Katy and Madelyn
Laurie Lembo
July 29, 2009
I never had the privilege of meeting Matthew in person, I only knew him through stories that his mother told me and from the pride that lights up her face whenever she speaks of her children. There are no adequate words...I can only pray that when Barbara returns to us, I can play some small role in her healing, whether it be through prayers or listening to her favorite stories or laughter through tears, but I promise that I will do whatever I can.
Much love and prayers to her beloved daughter and family as well.
I love you, Barb!!
Patricia Nolan
July 29, 2009
Dearest Barbara and Amanda,
My heart goes out to you for the very sad loss of your beloved son and brother, Matthew. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I send you a strong embrace of love and peace.
I love you very much,
Cousin Tricia
George King
July 29, 2009
damn man... matt and i had alot of good times together.. we went to hawaii together and man brah! you will be missed dogg!!save a spot for me at the bar!
Teresa & Kurt Barensfeld
July 27, 2009
Dear Barbara and Amanda,
So sad to hear of the loss of your dear Matthew. We love you and are with you in spirit. We're keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Graves Fuller Families
July 27, 2009
What a void we are all left with in the deepest reaches of our hearts. Matthew is remembered by a fantastic Mother and Sister, plus the numerous friends and family across the globe.
Much love and our feelings of loss are also at the forefront of prayers and thoughts. Imagine an embrace from us all until the real thing can happen between us.
Love from Puerto Rico
Laurel
July 26, 2009
Dear Barbara and Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. My prayers and love are with you now and forever.
Barbara, you are a great friend and a wonderful person. I am here for you!
Ellen Christopher
July 26, 2009
Dear Barbara and family, I am so sorry for your loss, words cannot express what I feel for you and yours and hope that time will heal your wounds -- the sorrow never goes away!
Barbara Uedea
July 25, 2009
Dearest Barbara &Family, There are no words that come to mind that can heal you, but know that you & your precious family are in my thought & prayers ALWAYS! Love Barbara
Barbara Romero
July 24, 2009
Memorial for Matthew in Fullerton
Monday July 27 7pm
Cantina Lounge
2736 E Nutwood Ave
off the 57 near the 91 next to Cal State Fullerton
Amanda Danihels
July 24, 2009
Thank you all for your love and support. I know that my Mom and I are so grateful for the time and love we had with my brother while he was here. He was an angel from God and someone we will miss everyday. May you Rest in Peace Matty Ratty.
virginia serra
July 24, 2009
Matt i'll always remember your smile and your deep eyes. you were always full of life......may you be in a happier place. RIP. Love Always, Virginia
July 23, 2009
Dear Barbara & Family,
Words of comfort are not easy to find. But I know that the strength you have will carry you. Know that your friends and family are your greatest strength.
Love, Jeanie
Debbie Syde
July 23, 2009
To the Entire Danihels Family,
We are so sad to learn of this very tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
The Syde Family-Debbie, Richard and Sam
Christie Bambery
July 23, 2009
My dear friends, Barbara and Amanda, and to all of Matthew's family: Your sadness echoes across the country and has become my sadness. Know that you and Matthew are prayed for and loved from the deepest recesses of my heart. "What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others." -Pericles
July 23, 2009
Barbara, I have so many happy memories of us with Matthew & Kelly as children at the beach, the San Diego Zoo, The Del! My sincere wish for you & Amanda is that the many many fond memories you have of happier times will bring a measure of comfort...
Gail Taylor
July 23, 2009
Barbara, we are all heart broken for you and your family on your tremendous loss. Please know that we are thinking of you and are here for you. Gail Goldfarb Taylor
Helen Kulp
July 23, 2009
There are no words to express my sorrow for the loss of Matthew. What a beautiful young man...may he rest in peace. I know he brought so much joy to you and he is watching at you from heaven now, with so much love in his heart. May God give you courage to take one day at a time. I am sending all my love to you, Barbara and Amanda.
Janie Finck
July 23, 2009
Barbara & Family, I am so sad for you & Amanda and your whole family. You have been in my thoughts & prayers constantly since I heard of Matthew's passing. Please know that I send you all my love and prayers at this difficult time & I hope it can bring you some measure of comfort to know that your friends are holding you close and lifting you up. God Bless.
Janie Finck
Lindie Merritt
July 23, 2009
I am keeping your whole family in my daily thoughts & prayers. I have so many happier memories of Matthew:at the beach, the San Diego Zoo, The Del!
My hope is that these and many more fond memories will bring a measure of comfort to all of you.
Michele Jones
July 23, 2009
Dear Barbara and Family,
I am so deeply saddened by the loss of your precious son and brother, Matthew. My heart goes out to you and your family. You have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard this tragic news. May you find peace and sererity through God's love during this sad time.
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