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Fox, Norman Chandler
July 15, 2010
Norm Chandler Fox was removed from life support on Thursday, July 15, 2010. He is survived by longtime Significant Other and best friend, Loreen Arbus; his older brothers, Philip Fox (Carole) and Stanley Fox, and a multitude of lifelong friends and acquaintances all over the world. Besides his immediate family, Norm leaves his brother-in-law, Richard Stone. La Jolla, CA; Avery Stone (Allyson Stone) of Hong Kong; Mitchell Fox (Ruth Fox) of Seattle, WA; Adam Fox, Mill Valley, CA; and niece Dana Fox of Ashland, Ore. He is preceded in death by his father, Samuel Fox; his mother, Mary Elaine Fox; and his twin sister, Jeri Laine Stone.
Norm, a very private person who refused to be labeled and did not want to be pitied, told no one and quietly suffered greatly from many aspects of Parkinson's Disease for over fifteen years. Even when his increasingly compromised condition became more difficult to hide, he lived to the fullest of his ability. A week following an urgent operation to save his eyesight, he tripped and fell in his home, was rushed into neurosurgery, but never regained consciousness.
Norm, a psychology major at Harvard, interned for one summer at a state hospital for the mentally insane, but realized he could not make this field a career because he couldn't confine compassion to a schedule. After receiving his Bachelor of Arts, he earned a Masters Degrees at both Columbia University and The London School of Economics. He developed his passion for traveling during his term breaks in London with extended trips throughout Europe, the Middle East, and North Africa. He later moved to New York City pursuing a career in the advertising agency world, working on major accounts including Proctor and Gamble, Gillette and ARCO, which relocated him to Southern California. The following year, he was hired to write advertising copy for Universal Television and became an associate producer and writer for television, with extensive credits on primetime series and daytime soap operas. He was head writer for the "Quiz Kids Challenge," won a Writer's Guild Award for "Cagney & Lacey," a Humanitas Award writing nomination for Fame, and helped produce the NBC TV movies "Brave New World" and "Tail Gunner Joe." Norm began writing travel columns for Los Angeles Magazine where he became a contributing editor. He subsequently wrote for The Hollywood Reporter, Travel & Leisure, Food & Wine, Bon Appetit, Pleasures of Japan, Bel Air, Westways and was Travel & Dining Editor of Performing Arts Magazine. He became a syndicated travel columnist for the Copley News Service with two weekly columns in 400 newspapers nationwide reaching 6 million readers. In 1984, his book, "The Trivia Challenge", published by Simon and Schuster, was cited as a top performing title of that year. He also co-authored, with Bob Chandler, "Violent Sundays", published by Simon and Schuster. Norm co-authored, with Steve and Pat Zifferblatt, "The Better Life Institute Family Health Plan."
Norm also hosted "Travel Talk" on KTMS-AM in Santa Barbara and concurrently had a weekly feature, "Traveling", on KCRW-FM in Los Angeles. He was hired in 1994 to host a two week travel talk show on KMPC-AM in Los Angeles. In early 1995, he was promoted to host "Traveling with Norm Fox", a two-hour weekly call-in show on sister station KABC-TalkRadio. When Norm left KABC in 1998, he was the only person hosting two consecutive two-hour shows on food and travel. His weekly travel show was a pioneer in satellite radio on Command Audio.
Norm donated his time volunteering for the Braille Institute of America and served on the board of the Los Angeles Chapter of the Israel Cancer Research Fund. He had an encyclopedic knowledge of art, music, opera, world history and cultures, literature, film and television, gastronomy, enology, languages, and so much more. He memorized every line of his favorite film, Truffaut's "Jules and Jim", which he saw over a hundred times. A self-taught painter, he had several art gallery shows. Norm cared deeply for animals, especially for his beloved dogs. The yearly canine birthday party always had a clever alliterative theme and was much anticipated by both four-legged and two-legged friends with about twenty-five of each attending after the first decade.
He always rejoiced in and supported Loreen's business successes as a television network executive, producer/writer, and author. He was extremely proud of her prominence the world-over as a professional Argentine tango dancer and choreographer for theatre, television, and film, as well as in her extensive commitments to and work with nonprofit boards and organizations.
A graveside service will be held Sunday, July 25, 2010 at 10 AM in Los Angeles followed by a Memorial Service at another location. The family respectfully requests an RSVP to [email protected] or FAX to 323. 930. 0186. Information regarding the location of both will be provided. The family respectfully requests no flowers and no gifts. If you wish to make a donation in Norm's honor, he would have profoundly appreciated your help to rescue and adopt animals, and support medical research to improve the lives of animals and people. Memorial Gifts can be made to Kady's Fund in Pasadena, CA, The Rescue Train in Studio City, CA, or the American College of Veterinary Internal Medicine Foundation located in Lakewood, CO.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Jul. 24 to Jul. 25, 2010.

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Gerry Furth-Sides

July 18, 2024

...still find myself talking about this unique, elegant brilliant, humble and generous friend. Norman´s the world a better place and he elevated me in it. I am thankful I knew him because he chose to know me.
We met as reporters and became friends.

Gerry Furth-Sides

July 18, 2023

I miss Norm with such pangs at the start of every winter holiday season when he brought such joy, and so many other times when something or someone triggers a memory of a time together... and they including wishing he was still here. Such a brilliant and generous talent and such a humble guy... just still miss him.

GERRY Furth Sides

July 18, 2021

How wonderful to read the extraordinary achievements of this dear, humble man. Miss him still and can´t believe it´s been a decade.

Peter Eliades

October 28, 2010

Dear Loreen,
It somehow feels as if Marie and I and you and Norm were like ships passing in the night in terms of the time we spent together as couples, and when we left Southern CA for the north, we all lost track of each other. But both Marie and I have fond memories of the few times we shared each others' company, and we were both so glad we got a chance to see him again and actually sit with him for a while at the Harvard reunion this year. Our only disappointment was that we did not get to see you there and get reacquainted. I read of Norm's passing in the Harvard magazine yesterday and my heart sank at the news. Please accept our sincere sympathy for your loss and know that our prayers are with both of you. There is an expression in our Greek Orthodox faith which says, "May his memory be eternal." So be it!

August 4, 2010

Norm's luncheon salons are featured on my best memories reel. He was a generous, intelligent, and BIG fun guy. RIP, pal.
~Dubin

Gerry Furth-Sides

August 4, 2010

Dear Loreen,
It is with such sadness and shock that I heard the news about Norm this evening,and now I understand why the hesitation he had about driving far to meet up. The elaborate dinner where we met 15 years ago paled in comparison to his lively and gentle personality that led to his support that never wavered for a minute and I could only accept as a gift. We saw each other at many events after that and seeing him was always the highlight. I can still see in my mind's eye the evening we all watched you do a dance performance and how proud he was of it. And I can hear his voice talking about his beloved pets. He was one of a kind and, as a professional, was the last of a generation to impart such a grace note of intelligence and warmth to our field of journalism and communication. I am so sorry and will miss him so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

August 3, 2010

Dear Loreen,
So sorry to hear about Norm. I worked with him on some shows as a free lancer. He was a real mench in every way.

Hindi Brooks

August 2, 2010

Dear Loreen, My most sincere condolences for your loss. I remember Norm as one of the most gentle men I have ever met. You are in my prayers. Peter Dunne, Los Angeles, California

Robert and Toni Holt Kramer

July 26, 2010

OUR WONDERFUL FRIEND, NORM CHANDLER FOX, WILL BE FOREVER MISSED. OUR LOVE AND SYMPATHY REACH OUT TO EMBRACE HIS SIGNIFICANT OTHER, THE BEAUTIFUL LOREEN, IN THIS TIME OF STRESS. OUR LOVING THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. ROBERT AND TONI HOLT KRAMER

July 26, 2010

Dear Loreen,
I remember Norm as being gracious, intelligent and entertaining when the two of you attended events in L.A. which I also attended in the 1980s. Perhaps Norm is having a nice conversation with our other friend, Stella Zadeh, at this very moment.
My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you.
Kathleen Mackay

geri wilson

July 26, 2010

I worked frequently with Norm when i did travel public relations. He was one of my favorites because I could always count on an intellecutally fun time and that his story would be beautifully written. I hope you can take comfort in all the wonderful memories you must have of Norm Chandler Fox.

July 25, 2010

I went to East High School with Norm and was good friends with him. I loved everything about him and will miss him.

Gail Mosko

Mark Goulston

July 24, 2010

Dear Loreen,
I am so sorry to hear about Norm's passing. Please accept my deep sympathy and condolences for your loss of such a kind and gentle spirit as Norm.
Mark Goulston

Paul Matsumoto

July 24, 2010

Dear Loreen,

Faye and I send our deepest sympathy over your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Paul and Faye Matsumoto

July 24, 2010

Dearest Loreen,

Barbara and I are thinking of you at this time.

In sympathy,

David Streets and Barbara Lazaroff

Mark Blu Wakefield

July 24, 2010

Please excuse my verbosity, Norm left us unannounced, perhaps without knowing just how important he was, to each and all of us. And I wish he was here to help me with my grammar because this is one of those moments where I would have asked for his sage advice. Norm was just so much more than a Stately Presence, Wise Counsel & Interesting Friend to me. In the short two years in which we met professionally once a week, Norm became a connection to those other aspects of being a Man, that are frequently overlooked, or overdone; deep refined gentleness, genuine & engaging heartfelt interest in the welfare & success of another man, a compassionate, always nurturing soul. Norm was so open about & interested in so much & yet mysterious. To discover only after his passing that the subterfuge was meant to hide his Parkinson's Disease initially hurt me deeply. As I am sure many others whom if we had known, would have wanted to add more of ourselves to Norm's daily life, in order to enrich ourselves with the essence that was Norm. But Norm had a Larger Plan all along. Although we were Kindred Souls to begin with, once a week Norm Fox taught me how to give even more of myself, to another, in service of the bigger equation, the development of our own Humanity. During the second appointment we shared, I bought up a poem that I have always lived my life by, Invictus. And by golly, Norm recited it line for line with me. For me that moment became Vintage Norm but always begged the question; how could a Distinguished Gentleman like Norm, from a prosperous Colorado family, an esteemed Harvard Graduate & a Man of Letters, understand the trials & depths that William Ernest Henley must have experienced, in order to write that poem in 1875. Henley by all current standards of that time, was cast off by society & crippled by Tuberculosis, Countless Barbaric Surgeries & Amputation, but went onto become an Oxford Graduate and to live a very full, engaging, active life. In Latin, Invictus means, Unconquered. I don't know if Norm with his encyclopedic knowledge & scholarly background encountered Invictus when he was vitally healthy & unaware of his encroaching Parkinson's, or, if he adopted the words as his Staff once the disease was diagnosed but whenever is unimportant, instead I know from my own, limited audiences with Norm, and evermore so in the new knowledge that everyday he struggled with daily activities we take for granted, that he truly embodied each and every line of a poem that I, in perfect health, can only wish to aspire to ...
INVICTUS
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

Thank you Norm ... Mark Blu Wakefield

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