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Gerry Furth-Sides
July 18, 2024
...still find myself talking about this unique, elegant brilliant, humble and generous friend. Norman´s the world a better place and he elevated me in it. I am thankful I knew him because he chose to know me.
We met as reporters and became friends.
Gerry Furth-Sides
July 18, 2023
I miss Norm with such pangs at the start of every winter holiday season when he brought such joy, and so many other times when something or someone triggers a memory of a time together... and they including wishing he was still here. Such a brilliant and generous talent and such a humble guy... just still miss him.
GERRY Furth Sides
July 18, 2021
How wonderful to read the extraordinary achievements of this dear, humble man. Miss him still and can´t believe it´s been a decade.
Peter Eliades
October 28, 2010
Dear Loreen,
It somehow feels as if Marie and I and you and Norm were like ships passing in the night in terms of the time we spent together as couples, and when we left Southern CA for the north, we all lost track of each other. But both Marie and I have fond memories of the few times we shared each others' company, and we were both so glad we got a chance to see him again and actually sit with him for a while at the Harvard reunion this year. Our only disappointment was that we did not get to see you there and get reacquainted. I read of Norm's passing in the Harvard magazine yesterday and my heart sank at the news. Please accept our sincere sympathy for your loss and know that our prayers are with both of you. There is an expression in our Greek Orthodox faith which says, "May his memory be eternal." So be it!
August 4, 2010
Norm's luncheon salons are featured on my best memories reel. He was a generous, intelligent, and BIG fun guy. RIP, pal.
~Dubin
Gerry Furth-Sides
August 4, 2010
Dear Loreen,
It is with such sadness and shock that I heard the news about Norm this evening,and now I understand why the hesitation he had about driving far to meet up. The elaborate dinner where we met 15 years ago paled in comparison to his lively and gentle personality that led to his support that never wavered for a minute and I could only accept as a gift. We saw each other at many events after that and seeing him was always the highlight. I can still see in my mind's eye the evening we all watched you do a dance performance and how proud he was of it. And I can hear his voice talking about his beloved pets. He was one of a kind and, as a professional, was the last of a generation to impart such a grace note of intelligence and warmth to our field of journalism and communication. I am so sorry and will miss him so much. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
August 3, 2010
Dear Loreen,
So sorry to hear about Norm. I worked with him on some shows as a free lancer. He was a real mench in every way.
Hindi Brooks
August 2, 2010
Dear Loreen, My most sincere condolences for your loss. I remember Norm as one of the most gentle men I have ever met. You are in my prayers. Peter Dunne, Los Angeles, California
Robert and Toni Holt Kramer
July 26, 2010
OUR WONDERFUL FRIEND, NORM CHANDLER FOX, WILL BE FOREVER MISSED. OUR LOVE AND SYMPATHY REACH OUT TO EMBRACE HIS SIGNIFICANT OTHER, THE BEAUTIFUL LOREEN, IN THIS TIME OF STRESS. OUR LOVING THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. ROBERT AND TONI HOLT KRAMER
July 26, 2010
Dear Loreen,
I remember Norm as being gracious, intelligent and entertaining when the two of you attended events in L.A. which I also attended in the 1980s. Perhaps Norm is having a nice conversation with our other friend, Stella Zadeh, at this very moment.
My heart goes out to you and my prayers are with you.
Kathleen Mackay
geri wilson
July 26, 2010
I worked frequently with Norm when i did travel public relations. He was one of my favorites because I could always count on an intellecutally fun time and that his story would be beautifully written. I hope you can take comfort in all the wonderful memories you must have of Norm Chandler Fox.
July 25, 2010
I went to East High School with Norm and was good friends with him. I loved everything about him and will miss him.
Gail Mosko
Mark Goulston
July 24, 2010
Dear Loreen,
I am so sorry to hear about Norm's passing. Please accept my deep sympathy and condolences for your loss of such a kind and gentle spirit as Norm.
Mark Goulston
Paul Matsumoto
July 24, 2010
Dear Loreen,
Faye and I send our deepest sympathy over your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Paul and Faye Matsumoto
July 24, 2010
Dearest Loreen,
Barbara and I are thinking of you at this time.
In sympathy,
David Streets and Barbara Lazaroff
Mark Blu Wakefield
July 24, 2010
Please excuse my verbosity, Norm left us unannounced, perhaps without knowing just how important he was, to each and all of us. And I wish he was here to help me with my grammar because this is one of those moments where I would have asked for his sage advice. Norm was just so much more than a Stately Presence, Wise Counsel & Interesting Friend to me. In the short two years in which we met professionally once a week, Norm became a connection to those other aspects of being a Man, that are frequently overlooked, or overdone; deep refined gentleness, genuine & engaging heartfelt interest in the welfare & success of another man, a compassionate, always nurturing soul. Norm was so open about & interested in so much & yet mysterious. To discover only after his passing that the subterfuge was meant to hide his Parkinson's Disease initially hurt me deeply. As I am sure many others whom if we had known, would have wanted to add more of ourselves to Norm's daily life, in order to enrich ourselves with the essence that was Norm. But Norm had a Larger Plan all along. Although we were Kindred Souls to begin with, once a week Norm Fox taught me how to give even more of myself, to another, in service of the bigger equation, the development of our own Humanity. During the second appointment we shared, I bought up a poem that I have always lived my life by, Invictus. And by golly, Norm recited it line for line with me. For me that moment became Vintage Norm but always begged the question; how could a Distinguished Gentleman like Norm, from a prosperous Colorado family, an esteemed Harvard Graduate & a Man of Letters, understand the trials & depths that William Ernest Henley must have experienced, in order to write that poem in 1875. Henley by all current standards of that time, was cast off by society & crippled by Tuberculosis, Countless Barbaric Surgeries & Amputation, but went onto become an Oxford Graduate and to live a very full, engaging, active life. In Latin, Invictus means, Unconquered. I don't know if Norm with his encyclopedic knowledge & scholarly background encountered Invictus when he was vitally healthy & unaware of his encroaching Parkinson's, or, if he adopted the words as his Staff once the disease was diagnosed but whenever is unimportant, instead I know from my own, limited audiences with Norm, and evermore so in the new knowledge that everyday he struggled with daily activities we take for granted, that he truly embodied each and every line of a poem that I, in perfect health, can only wish to aspire to ...
INVICTUS
Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
Thank you Norm ... Mark Blu Wakefield
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