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Bertrand Maynard Cooper Jr.

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April 27, 1942 - July 27, 2014 Bertrand Maynard Cooper, Jr., "Bert," passed away last Sunday in Encinitas, California. Born in Detroit, he was the eldest son of the late Bertrand Maynard Cooper and the late Margaret Elliott Cooper. He is survived by his wife, Sandra Allison Cooper, of Fallbrook, CA, and brother, Robert Cooper, of Pacific Palisades, CA, as well as by his three children and four grandchildren. A graduate of Yale (1964), Bert was a Peace Corps volunteer in Venezuela (1964-1965) and received his JD from Northwestern Law (1968). It was there that Bert met his wife, Sandy, a fellow Peace Corps alum and law student. After completing his law degree Bert moved to Pasadena and enjoyed a distinguished career as a litigator at O'Melveny & Myers in Los Angeles. He wore his professional success lightly; those who were fortunate enough to know him valued his keen legal mind and integrity, but are just as likely to remember his amicable disposition and lively sense of humor. Bert took advantage of all that the West Coast had to offer: he climbed mountains with the Sierra Club, bicycled the Oregon and California coasts, led local Boy Scouts on adventures, participated in car rallies in the Santa Monica Mountains and dove off the Channel Islands. As a child in Lake Quivira, KS, he caught bluegill and catfish and developed a passion for fishing and boating that led to the acquisition of his first boat, a 17-foot Boston Whaler that he and his young children used to fish all over California and Baja. In his 50s, Bert turned from fishing to horseback riding, participating in amateur horse trials with his horse Zen who, like Bert, was as gentle as he was tall. In 1998, Bert and Sandy retired to a farm in Templeton on California's Central Coast, where they looked after a stable of horses and several lucky dogs. A brain injury sustained during heart surgery in 2004 led Bert to San Diego and, in 2009, to Silverado, a facility for individuals affected by memory impairment where he spent the final years of his life. Bert's spirit lives on in those he loved, particularly his wife Sandy; his son, Bert, and daughter-in-law, Lani, of Cranston, R.I.; his daughter, Allison, and son-in-law, Aaron Kitch, of Brunswick, ME; and his son, Joe, of Cardiff-by-the-Sea, CA. His passion for life has been ably taken up by his four spirited grandchildren, Josie and Ian Cooper and Elsa and Beckett Kitch. He will be greatly missed. A private memorial will be held in San Diego on August 22, 2014. Friends wishing to honor Bert's memory are invited to make a contribution in his name to the Nature Conservancy, whose efforts to protect and sustain California's fisheries reflect his love of the California coast: https://www.conserveca.org/donate.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Aug. 1 to Aug. 3, 2014.

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Lauren and Joe O'Neil

August 18, 2014

Bert, Lani and children and all the Cooper family...
our deepest sympathy and our prayers.
Love,
Lauren and Joe O'Neil

Mark Steinberg

August 4, 2014

Bert was the embodiment of the word "class," and he wore that mantle without a hint of ego.

Yale Class of 1964

Anthony Lavely

August 4, 2014

On behalf of my classmates in the Yale Class of 1964, I extend condolences to Bert's family and friends. Bert had many friends in our class and will be missed. We mourn his passing and will remember him on our Class Website (www.yale64.org) and at a memorial service on campus during our 55th reunion in May 2019. Anthony M. Lavely, Class Secretary

August 4, 2014

I'm so sorry for you loss. May your hearts find comfort in reading Matt 5:4.

Charlie Cohn

August 4, 2014

I was lucky enough to fish with this kind gentleman a few times, and my heart goes out to his family and friends.

August 4, 2014

We are very sorry to learn of the passing of Bertrand, but very grateful for his service to our nation as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Venezuela.

Our Condolences,

The National Peace Corps Association

Ginger Yagovane

August 3, 2014

Sending prayers and thoughts to all the Cooper family, as I remember meeting Mr C during the weekend of Lani (my niece) and Bert's wedding in Maine. This is the time when memories become so important. Take care.

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