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Dr. Thomas J. "Doc" Carleton

1924 - 2014

Dr. Thomas J. "Doc" Carleton obituary, 1924-2014

BORN

1924

DIED

2014

Thomas Carleton Obituary

On the evening of January 21, Thomas Jerome Carleton peacefully closed the next to the last chapter of storied life. Born to Adrian and Gertrude Carleton of Palo Alto April 28, 1924, Thomas was the oldest of three siblings: Richard, Jack and Claire. After graduating early from high school, Thomas attended UC Davis before going on to serve his country as a B-17 flight instructor. Following the war he transferred to Kansas State where he pursued a doctorate degree in Veterinary Medicine. It was in Kansas that Tom met the love of his life and soon to be wife Donna Jeanne Schrum. Shortly after graduation in 1951 Tom, Donna and their first of three children, Mary moved to Lodi to open a veterinary practice (Lodi Veterinary Hospital). In subsequent years Patrick and Michael were born.
So proud of his family, Tom is survived by his wife, three children (and spouses) 15 grandchildren, 11 great grandchildren and two great-great grandchildren.
Tom was active in the county, state and national Veterinary Medical Associations serving as president at one point. As for the community he called home, he wanted to make a difference by serving on the Lodi Unified School Board from 1974 through 1978, on the governing board of the California/Nevada Teen Challenge, starting the Lodi Teen Challenge (a place to help troubled teens) and was a member of the Rotary to name a few.
For his leisure he cherished his time with family and loved sailing, skiing, taking long bicycle rides, reading, gardening and his time basking in the sun.
Tom's daily dose of medicine for a long and happy life and what he always said with a smile, a chuckle and a wink, even hours before he closed his eyes: "I feel great!"
A celebration of life will be held at Westside Assembly Church in Lodi, Saturday, February 1, at 1pm.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lodi-News Sentinel from Jan. 29 to Feb. 5, 2014.

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Patrick Joseph Carleton

January 27, 2025

My father was the smartest man, the corniest joke teller and the biggest trickster of gullible children ever.

Patty Zielske-Spencer

February 3, 2014

Dear Donna,
My deepest condolences to you and all of your family. I remember with great fondness, the times that I spent with you and Dr. Carleton at your home and at the Veterinary Clinic, lo, these many years ago. I have always appreciated the times that Dr. Tom spent trying to train a very young and inexperienced me to do part time work at the clinic. What a rich and rewarding life he has had. May you all be comforted by the many happy memories you have had together.

Patrick Carleton

January 31, 2014

Dad.You taught me the core values of life,how to enjoy the outdoors and of course the seldom seen side-hill cows, of which I have tried to pass on. You will always be the smartest man I've ever had the privileged to know and am honored to be your son. Our time on this earth is so short but I know we will embrace in heaven one glorious day in the near future. I love you DOD.

Joe and Mickey Bewley

January 31, 2014

To the family of Tom; We are sorry for the loss of your loved one. Our prayers are with you. Fondly, Mickey and Joe Bewley

January 30, 2014

Our prayers go out to the family. Please know that if you need anything we are here for you and your family. God bless you and keep you during this hard time in your lives. Love Sis

Bruce Salisbury

January 29, 2014

Have a good flight Tom and remember those who went before and those who will follow. There are only about 1 million WW II Veterans still living and they will receive a flight plan themselves one day. Happy landing Tom!

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