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Michael J. DeSola

1944 - 2013

BORN

1944

DIED

2013

Michael DeSola Obituary

DeSola, Michael J.

Michael J. DeSola: Simply one-of-a-kind. Loving husband, devoted father and grandfather, beloved friend, Michael J. DeSola, of Yonkers, NY died on Wednesday January 23, 2013. He was 68 years old. Born on October 21, 1944 in Brooklyn to Michael and Winifred DeSola. Mr. DeSola was founder and long-time Chairman of DeSola Group, a management consultancy. He served in the Marines. A graduate of Regis High School, Yale University, and Pace University Executive MBA Program. He was a Knight of Malta, served on numerous business and non-profit boards, and was an active contributor to his local community, including over 20 years coaching Annunciation Grammar School and Hillcrest Lakers Community Club where he will always be remembered for lots of life lessons, numerous championships and one special motto: "Make Magic!" His love continues to live on through his wife Florence Calderhead DeSola; one daughter, Michele DeSola Moyna of Yonkers; four sons, Michael Jr. of Yonkers, Damian of Readington, NJ, Thomas of Brooklyn, NY, and Ryan of New Rochelle; 9 grandchildren, James, Macklin and Mackenzie Moyna; Damian, Aidan, Lucy and Lyla DeSola; Desmond and Luke DeSola; his sister and brother-in-law, Wynne and Pete Diomede; and daughter-in-laws, Mary DeSola and Aisling DeSola. He was predeceased by his parents, his brother Thomas, and sister Marguerite. Friends are invited to call at the Fred H. McGrath and Son Funeral Home, Cedar at Kraft Avenue, Bronxville on Saturday, January 26 from 4-7pm and on Sunday, January 27 from 2-5pm. Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Monday, January 28 at 10am at the Church of the Annunciation, Crestwood. Interment will be in the Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Valhalla.

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Published by The Journal News from Jan. 25 to Jan. 26, 2013.

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Mauricio Maldonado

January 19, 2020

My deepest condolences to all.

February 9, 2013

Dear Michele and family, We only met your dad a few times, while in the neighborhood when my daughter, Nicole was selling Girl Scout cookies. He was always very gracious and very kind and one of her best customers! We will keep you and your family in our prayers. God bless all of you. With deepest sympathy, Valerie and Nicole Frascati, Annunciation parishioners, Yonkers, NY

Pam and Tony Ajello

February 2, 2013

We are very saddened to learn of the passing of Mike. He will always be remembered as a loving, devoted man who cherished his wife, Florence, his children, grandchildren and the many children of the Crestwood community whom he so lovingly and diligently mentored. He will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. God bless all of the DeSola family!

Kathleen and Timothy Pickering

February 1, 2013

We were very saddened to hear of the passing of Mr. DeSola.

Raymond Price

January 31, 2013

Michael was a one of a kind gentleman who was both friendly and decisive and I know will be missed very much. God bless his wife and children.

Nilka Morgan

January 29, 2013

My sincere and deepest sympathy to the DeSola Family. I have had to pleasure of working with Mike D. at Desola for 7 years. Through those years,I learned about the structure and nature of the business but more importantly, about the man who put his all into it. Mr. D treated his employees and clients as if they were family.

Mike was definitely a man of character who exemplified dignity, respect, and empathy along with a host of other wonderful qualities that defined him. He also had a great sense of humor. He will truly be missed.

My prayers goes out to the DeSola family.

Anne Haerle

January 28, 2013

I had the pleasure of working at the DeSola Group for almost a decade. Mike was an astute businessman, but more importantly, a great mentor to those who worked for him. My deepest sympathies to the entire family. Mike will be missed.

Chris McFadden

January 28, 2013

To the DeSola Family,
You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your husband and father. He was a great man who had a great and postive impact on so many people. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sue Madonna

January 28, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. What a great man! His presence would light up any room he entered. Prayers, strength, and love to you all xo

Nadira Chilelli

January 28, 2013

Mr. D, I will always honor you and all things that you have taught me...still. Thank you and your family for letting me be a part of the DeSola Group family.

January 27, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Florence and family. Mike was a wonderful man and a great influence on the young boys he coached at Annunciation. My boys admired and respected him greatly. He will be missed by all. Ann O'Brien

amelia palazzolo

January 26, 2013

My deepest condolences he was truly a fine man

amelia palazzolo

January 26, 2013

My deepest condolences he was a fine man

Mike & Rosanna Doherty & family

January 26, 2013

Dear Mrs. DeSola, Michele, Mike, Damian, MaryKay, TJ, Ryan, Aisling & all the grandchildren,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. May your sorrow be comforted by the fond & loving memories you will always have of your husband, father & pops. Thank you all for having given us the pleasure of sharing & knowing him. We will always remember Mr. Desola as a generous, funny, kind, loving & devoted husband, father & friend. May he rest in peace & continue to be a devoted guardian angel to all of you.

Brian Saemann

January 26, 2013

Not everyone gets the chance to meet a man like Mr. DeSola. I am thankful that I did. In that short time he helped to shape my ideas of what it means to be a good man and a good person in ways that he could not have known. I know he will be missed and my condolences go out to his family and all those who knew and loved him. May he rest in peace.

Gene Genkin

January 26, 2013

My sincerest condolences to the entire family. I had the honor and pleasure of working at Desola Group for almost 10 years. To me Mike Sr. always was and will be the icon of the leadership and I'm fortunate that I had a chance to see him make the magic over the years. This is a great loss.

Gene Gallagher

January 26, 2013

Mike was a real leader and he will be truly missed. Our condolences to Florence, their children and grandchildren. We'll all treasure the memory of Mike at the podium at the Special Olympics award ceremonies at Schultze field (Crestwood)- it was his project and he truly loved doing it and we loved him for doing it. Thank you Mike.

Bob\Julie Martin

January 26, 2013

To Florence and the entire Desola family.
Please accept our deepest, and heartfelt, condolences. Mike was a true friend since we first met as neighbors all those years ago and we will miss him dearly.
"While one may have left this mortal coil no one really leaves until the last person that knew them cannot remember their name" I for one know that Mike will be around for as long as we are.

Deanna Garen

January 25, 2013

To the DeSola Family,
I only had the pleasure of meeting Mike Sr. on a couple of occasions. Each of those meetings were memorable and I am so grateful I had the opportunity to get to know him. He was truly a man of character, and I am deeply sorry for your loss. Each of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

January 25, 2013

Florence, Damian, Mary Kay and Family,
Our sincere condolences and thoughts and prayers are sent your way from the Sullivan Family in Cleveland. We are grateful for the few but happy memories of time with your family.
Love, Patricia

Edward Curry

January 25, 2013

Growing up with Macklin, I got to know the grandfather or as mack and kenzie called him pops.He was always supportive of the family and was often seen at our basketball games.I am going to miss seeing him driving around in his porsche like he so often had done.My deepest condolences go to the family .rest in peace.
Edward Curry

Patricia O'Brien Brazill

January 25, 2013

To the DeSola Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sorry for your loss.

January 25, 2013

DEAR MRS DE SOLA AND FAMILY
I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF YOUR HUSBAND AND FATHER. HE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE FOR ME AT DR. ANNES'S OFFICE. I WILL REMEMBER HIM IN MY PRAYERS.
CAROL FROM DR. ANNES'S OFFICE

January 25, 2013

To Michele and the entire Desola family, we send our deepest condolences on the passing of your father, husband, grandfather and a true gentleman he will be missed.
Maldonado family

elisa & eric probst

January 25, 2013

Damian & DeSola Family,
I am sorry to heard of your loss. We never had the pleasure of meeting him personally. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Guy Diomede

January 25, 2013

Our Deepest Sympathy to the Desola Family. With Love Guy, Gina and Boys.

January 25, 2013

To the Entire DeSola Family - such an incredible loss to everyone! My heart grows out to all of you.
With love,
Rosemary Weintraub and family

Tom Feledick

January 25, 2013

Deepest condolences to the entire DeSola family. Your are in our thoughts and prayers.

January 25, 2013

My deepest sympathies to Michele and her family on the passing of her father, a wonderful man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Linda Fedrizzi, Crestwood

January 25, 2013

It is with great sadness to read of the passing of beloved Michael DeSola. May I offer my condolences to the Family.
I have had the pleasure of knowing and working with Mike for over 40 years. He will be missed.

January 25, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Your father was a wonderful man and I have such clear memories of him throughout my childhood. Handsome, beautifully dressed and always gracious. He will be missed. Regina Conlon Pacicco

Leslie Walstrom

January 25, 2013

I had the honor and pleasure of working with Mike as a client of the Desola Group. He was a true delight and this is a great loss. My thoughts are with the entire family.

clara Rossilli

January 24, 2013

My deepest condolences to the entire family. I have fond memories of Mike riding in the limo with him on our way to Gen's wedding.
No one tells a story like
Mike. You'll be missed by all especially by Aunt Wynne.

Phyllis Micillo

January 24, 2013

My sincerest condolences to Florence and her wonderful family, to his sister Wynne and my brother Pete. Michael was a "one of a kind" man who will be sorely missed.

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