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Joseph Whalley Obituary

Joseph M. Whalley
1927-2010
Joseph Whalley, former aerospace engineer, stained glass artist, wine-maker and all around "Renaissance man" died at home October 5, 2010.  He was a Lompoc resident for 45 years. His was a life propelled by lifelong curiosity, a wry sense of humor and a brilliant mind.
He was born in San Francisco, and grew up on a farm in Tracy, California in pre-aqueduct days, when growing crops in the Central Valley was called "dust farming".  Though very poor, books and learning were always important to him.  After high school, he earned his engineering degree at UC Berkeley and served with the US Navy through the end of World War II developing early radar systems.  In later years he worked for Hughes Aircraft in LA, Aerospace Corporation at VAFB and AMF in Santa Barbara, among others.  He was involved in projects as varied as missile design, robotics, remote-controlled fire suppression systems and desalination plants.
Outside of work, he was intrigued by just about everything that came his way.  He took up stained glass and built many large windows around Lompoc, including those at the Seventh Day Adventist and United Methodist churches.  Several residences in Santa Barbara County also feature his windows.  He invented and built electronic games and robots for his kids – long before video games were available.   In later years, he became interested in wine making, and was an early member of the Central Coast Amateur Winemaking Association.  His award-winning wine was wonderful, both grape, and a rare pomegranate variety.  He grew his own grapes and persuaded friends and neighbors to take cuttings - thus increasing his yearly yield!  His vines are in many back yards in Lompoc.  He was an avid cook, made great jams and jellies – and in true engineering fashion, kept his spices in alphabetical order for easier access!
He had one great love, his wife Barbara, who he married in 1952.  She died in 1993 and he missed her every day.  Though raised and practicing Catholicism, he also attended his wife's church (Lompoc Methodist) continuing until the month before he died.  He had many life-long friends of all faiths.
He leaves his son Bill  Haines-Whalley and daughters Elizabeth Lee and Christine Lynch, as well as their spouses Wendie Haines-Whalley, Art Simons and Charles Lynch.  He had two grandchildren, Christopher Whalley and Annie North, and 5 great-grandchildren, and numerous nieces, nephews and extended family. 
Funeral service will be Saturday, October 9, 2010, at 1:00PM at First United Methodist Church in Lompoc.  Viewing one hour prior to service, and reception following.   In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions to the United Methodist Church Missions Fund, or the charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Lompoc Record from Oct. 8 to Oct. 10, 2010.

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Dorothy Turner

October 8, 2010

Dear Bill, Wendie, Christine, Liz and spouses: What a treasure your dad was. I was so blessed to meet him and share that short time with him. I will always wish I had known him better and been able to spend more time. May God bless and comfort you in the coming days and may the angels greet him and lead him to paradise. May he be met by his Lord and his loving wife.

Dorothy Hayes

October 8, 2010

Chris, Liz, and Bill, your family has always had a steadfast presence in my life, and your father will always hold a special place in my heart. I will always remember him for his wit and wisdom, for his clever and creative intellect, but most of all, for the many, many years of friendship and love that he has given my family. When I close my eyes I can see Joe and Barbara reunited in heaven, and my tears of loss become tears of solace. God bless you all.

Wayne Bowen

October 8, 2010

Mr. Whalley was always so wonderful to us when we were kids. In the late 70s, when the King Tut exhibit was touring the US, he made a robotic mummy, with moving arms, eyes that lit up, and strange sounds. Mr. Whalley was a real treasure.

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