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Mary Riehm Obituary

RIEHM, MARY JOAN, 62, died Sunday, January 20, 2008, after battling pancreatic cancer for many months. Joan was born June 17, 1945, the daughter of Charles E. and Katherine Grigsby Riehm. After graduating from Sacred Heart Academy and Ursuline College (now Bellarmine University), she received two master's degrees, in journalism from Northwestern University, and in community development from the University of Louisville. Joan's distinguished career in communications, public service and civic affairs spanned more than three decades - beginning as a journalist at Louisville's Courier-Journal and culminating in her serving for 15 years as deputy mayor of the city of Louisville. She worked for The Courier-Journal from 1968 - 1973 as a reporter covering religion and urban affairs, and as editor of a weekly environmental section. She worked as a news editor for two weekly newspapers in the U.S. Virgin Islands before being appointed to serve as press secretary to Louisville Mayor Harvey Sloane from 1974 to 1977. When Mayor Sloane left office, Joan became director of communications for the Kentucky Department for Human Resources, then served as manager of government relations for Humana, Inc., from 1979 through 1985. In 1985, then-newly-elected mayor Jerry Abramson appointed Joan the first woman deputy mayor of the city of Louisville, a post she held through 1995 and, again, from 2003 through 2006. In her first eleven years as deputy mayor, Joan oversaw economic and community development, human services and educational initiatives for the city. She was also the driving force behind a variety of mayoral initiatives, including downtown, waterfront and neighborhood development projects and the creation of programs like the Urban Workshops and Operation Brightside. She left city government in 1996 to become a consultant specializing in public issues management and communication. Her many clients included the Downtown Development Corporation, Jefferson County Public Schools, Greater Louisville Inc., River Fields, Inc., Louisville Area Workforce Development Council, Louisville Water Company, Louisville Community Development Bank, the City of Louisville and a number of area universities. Excited by the opportunity to help develop a new metro government after voters approved city-county merger in 2000, Joan decided to return to local government. She was invited by Mayor Abramson to co-chair his merger transition team in 2002, and then to join his administration as a deputy mayor and chief point person for government reorganization and implementation of the mayor's strategic plan. Joan became recognized nationally as an expert on local government reorganization. She was also a leader in regional development efforts, serving as founding director and coordinator of the 23-county Regional Leadership Coalition and as chair of the Alliance for Regional Stewardship, a national organization promoting regional development across the country. In recent years, she traveled to dozens of cities across the country, educating leaders about Louisville's successful government merger and regional cooperation efforts. She also co-authored A Guide to Successful Local Government Collaboration in America's Regions, published by the Alliance for Regional Stewardship and the National League of Cities. Joan was a vibrant, dynamic community leader throughout her life, with an abiding love for the City of Louisville and a commitment to service for the public good. She was particularly passionate about women's issues, education, the environment and the beautification of Louisville. Joan was one of the driving forces behind Benchmark 2000, a community-wide effort to document the status of women and girls in Jefferson County at the millennium, which led to the creation of Women 4 Women. She served on the boards of Operation Brightside, Norton Healthcare, Louisville Central Area, Inc., Louisville Planned Parenthood and the Jefferson County Air Pollution Control Agency. She also served on the board of overseers for Bellarmine University and on the advisory board of the University of Louisville's College of Business. Her leadership and mentorship as an alumna of the Leadership Louisville program led to the board's recent creation of the Joan Riehm Women's Leadership Fund. She was also a cofounder and board member of the Leadership Kentucky program, and founder and chair of The Louisville Store, a non-profit venture to sell Louisville-related products. Joan was widely respected and admired for her wisdom, integrity, optimism, incisiveness, determination and masterful organizational skills. She was named one of the 50 most powerful people in Louisville by Louisville Magazine and Most Admired Woman in Politics by Today's Woman magazine. She received a number of prestigious community awards, including the Jack Paxton Award for Service from Leadership Kentucky, the Jefferson Award for Community Service from Jefferson Community and Technical College, the Order of Merit Award from the University of Louisville Alumni Association and the Tower Award for Women Leaders from Presentation Academy. She was named Alumna of the Year by both Sacred Heart Academy and the University of Louisville College Of Business, and an Outstanding Catholic School Alumna by the Archdiocese of Louisville. Joan had a great capacity for friendship and was famous for sending unique handmade greeting cards with poems and messages she collected and wanted to share. She loved her garden, and traveled extensively with her husband Mel. Joan greatly appreciated the many cards, flowers and mementos that her legions of friends sent her during her long illness. Joan was preceded in death by her parents and by a brother, James Dennis Riehm, M.D. She is survived by her beloved husband of 21 years, Dr. Melvin E. Greer, chairman emeritus of the University of Louisville's Department of Philosophy; a stepson, Boyce Greer, his wife Anne and grandchildren Tessa, Cory and Riley; a sister, Louisa "Weda" Riehm; two brothers, Charles E. Riehm, Jr. (Edith H.), Atlanta GA, and John G. Riehm, M.D. (Rose S.); a sister-in-law, Janie May Riehm, Bowling Green, KY; twelve nieces and nephews: William, Katherine, and Amy Mapother; Chuck Riehm (Kathy), Steve Riehm (Margaret), Eric Riehm, Cathy Riehm, Julie Riehm McGuffey (Keith), Jonathan Riehm, Rachel Riehm Hawkins (Curt), Amelia Riehm Cook (Ryan), Jordan Riehm; and 11 great nieces and nephews. The public is invited to celebrate Joan's life and legacy at a memorial service to be held at The Olmsted, 3701 Frankfort Ave. Wednesday, January 30, 2008 at 5:30 p.m. Her family has requested that expressions of sympathy take the form of a donation to one of Joan's favorite charities: Brightside ,c/o Louisville Metro Department of Neighborhoods, 400 S. First St.,Louisville KY 40202; The Louisville Free Public Library Foundation, 301 W. York St., Louisville, KY 40202; Joan Riehm Women's Leadership Fund Leadership Louisville Center, 732 W. Main St., Louisville KY 40202

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Published by Courier-Journal from Jan. 22 to Jan. 23, 2008.

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Casey Kimball

February 17, 2008

What a wonderful and amazing woman to be so remembered for her extraordinary talents which, although I have never met her, I'm sure are absolutely accurate.

With my deepest condolences

Virginia Duffy

February 3, 2008

If anyone ever bloomed where they were planted, it was Joan. Her intellect and personality would have achieved success far from Louisville but she stayed and we'll be harvesting benefits for years to come.
My memories are from high school and later, when I returned from college and worked alongside her for several years. In high school Joan always had the best, and weirdest, show-and-tell assignments and together we staged the first presidential debates ever held at Sacred Heart.
Mel, Weda, and all her family and close friends, please accept my sympathies but also my envy for having been so intimately involved with one of God's special creatures. Gini Schoo Duffy

Kenny Karem

January 31, 2008

The loss of multi-talented Joan Riehm, former deputy mayor of Louisville, stretches across the entire metro region, extending across the Ohio River to the Falls of the Ohio State Park Interpretive Center in Clarksville, Indiana.

Joan was a member of the original Falls of the Ohio Foundation (formerly the Clarksville Riverfront Foundation), lending her enormous energy and expertise to the funding, planning and construction of the Falls of the Ohio State Park Interpretive Center. Her enthusiasm was contagious as she represented a key link between all the Falls Cities communities in helping fulfill a special dream — a place to educate everyone about the wonders of the Falls of the Ohio National Wildlife Conservation Area and State Park.

That energy even included her enthusiastic participation in a tour of the outer fossil beds at the Falls, crossing streams, marshes, muddy stream banks and limestone outcroppings.

Her contribution to the Falls of the Ohio Interpretive Center is one of many reasons why the Discover Louisville book was dedicated to this inspirational dynamic community leader.

Fred Pfeffer

January 31, 2008

To the family of Joan Riehm,
My parents and Joanie's were old friends. They were members of the old Richmond Boat Club and very good friends. We would visit them and sometimes Joanie would be there. She was always friendly and fun to be around. My family expresses our condolences to Mel and his family as well to all the Riehms. She will be greatly missed. Fred Pfeffer

David Thornburgh

January 28, 2008

One of the great pleasures of my tenure as CEO of the Alliance for Regional Stewardship was the chance to know and work closely with Joan Riehm, our Chair. Even as her discomfort persisted and increased she showed herself to be relentlessly positive, encouraging, generous and optimistic. She was a great gift to her community and to all who were touched by her presence.

Al Smith

January 27, 2008

Forceful, with a bright,
decisive mind, but caring,
with a warm and idealistic
nature, she was one of the
most impressive figures in our
public life. Kentucky has lost
a leading lady, and the lights
are dim in those important
spaces where she used to
shine.

Marie (Yuhr) Kimball

January 26, 2008

Hard to understand why a person who bought so much happiness to all who knew her, would have to leave so soon. When I stopped by briefly after Christmas, she greeted me with that winning smile. A loss for us, but for her it was a relief from so many days of suffering. Never realized how mcuh she did over the years, doing so much to help the community. There will be an emptiness, but memories of the happiness she brought to those who knew her. We send our prayers and condolences. Marie

Linda Janes

January 24, 2008

Joan was one of a kind. The years we worked together in Louisville government made me respect her as a leader and like her as a person. It is hard to imagine she is gone. She will be sorely missed.

Kathleen Riehm Brown

January 23, 2008

To my Second Cousins, Weda, Johnny and Charlie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and, of course, with Joanie. I will always remember her having your mom's smile and a sparkle in her eyes like your dad had. May she rest in eternal peace and may God bless all of the Riehms, those gone before us and those of us left who will always love and remember them.

John Riehm

January 23, 2008

I had no idea the number of people Joan touched in her life...it is simply amazing!

She will be no longer my SISTER, I am her Brother - the honor going to her.

John(ny)

MS. TAMMY MORTON

January 23, 2008

MARY JOAN RIEHM FAMILY:
DR. JOHN G. RIEHM I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR SISTER PASSING AWAY. I KNOW YOU WILL MISS HER VERY MUCH. EVEN THOUGH I DIDN'T MEET YOUR SISTER BUT I KNOW SHE WAS A SMART LADY TO OUR COMMUNITY& CITY.MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL TODAY ON THE LOSS OF YOUR SISTER MARY JOAN RIEHM.

Nancye Combs

January 23, 2008

Joan was a treasure to our community and we were blessed by her love of our hometown. Her life, well lived, leaves a wonderful melody that will play forever in the hearts of those who loved her. I am honored to call her my friend.

Brandon Baker

January 23, 2008

Mel,

I'm going to miss my favorite VIP customer. I always knew a call from Joan meant a challenge. She was one tough lady, and I know she would never admit it, but she was also one saavy notebook user. She was one special lady that helped me stay positive at work.

Brandon

J. Douglas Nunn

January 22, 2008

So sorry to learn of Joan's passing. We were good friends from her beginnings at the Courier-Journal when I worked there.
We also collaborated ocasionally when I was director of Louisville
Central Area and later when I was director of of U of L's Urban Studies Center.
She was a truly great person who
made Louisville a much better place to live.

Greg Bayens

January 22, 2008

I first met Joan when we were both four or five years old, and we went through elementary school together. She was “Joanie” then. In those early days she was my best friend and playmate. I saw her only a few times after I left Louisville after college, but I will always treasure those early memories of her.

"Kay Kay" Whelan

January 22, 2008

Ah! Growing up, (parted by a shared driveway and 2 garages) next door to “Joanie” and her family was my good fortune. The only girl in the neighborhood near my age, we often walked & talked to and from elementary and high school. Joan had “The Smile” then, as well as that little smile and focused look in her eyes when she was serious and thinking hard about something important. She had a manner that might not be called childlike, if only because she tended to be more “quiet.” Paradoxically, she had a “Great Big” desire to participate in and pursue the activities of a child, and by age 11 she had directed (and produced) a variety show outdoors on the patio with a dozen or so kids who were bored one summer. I suggest that she was recognized by all the neighborhood kids as "good" even then, and considered a little jewel worth protecting. Think of the adjectives attained since!

What a loss for us all, and how grateful I am for the memories and the reality that she is evermore a presence surrounding us.

Katherine Bruenderman

January 22, 2008

Mel: Words fail me in the face of such a profound loss. Please know that you, Weda, and your respective families are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lucille & George Kok

January 22, 2008

We will miss seeing you in the garden at the back fence.

Gwen Mathews

January 22, 2008

Mel, Weda, and the Riehm & Greer Families, What an amazing gift Joan was for not only the City of Louisville, but all of us who got to know her on a personal level. Thank you for sharing her with us. We will miss her!

Hank Blandford

January 22, 2008

grade school with Joanie, even then a beaming, shining light

Nan Parish

January 22, 2008

Dear Joan...gone too soon! I met her when we both worked at Humana. She was an extraordinarily accomplished person; at the same time so genuine, kind and always with her wonderful smile. What a gift it is to have known her.

David and Ona Owen

January 22, 2008

We will dearly miss you Joan, our beloved Trinity Road neighbor and friend.

Brian Jensen

January 22, 2008

I came to know Joan through research I've done over the past five years on city/county consolidation. I saw Joan initially as a valuable and prolific source of information, but in the past several years I had come to think of her more as a friend and colleague. I will miss her intelligence, charm and wit.

Sheila (Foster) Bradley

January 22, 2008

Joan, was a burst of energy! I had the pleasure and honor of working with her on several projects. She was truly a public servant and a very gracious lady!!!! She will be sorely missed! I pray His peace for your family!

Barbara Bloecher

January 22, 2008

Mel, Weda, Riehm and Greer Family: I am so very sorry for the loss of Joan. What a bright light she shined while she graced this earth. She will be missed.

The Riehms- July 2007

Julie Riehm McGuffey

January 22, 2008

Aunt Joan- It seems so ironic that the woman who was always so full of life is now gone. I'm so grateful for everything you did for me; your connections, your advice, your handmade cards, and your big boisterous "Riehm" laugh. I love you and miss you already.

Love, Julie

Delton Kitchell

January 22, 2008

My memories of Joan are from our family reunions each year in Mississippi. I found her to be a very warm, friendly and caring person. She was always thinking of others and relayed through her bubbling personality. It is hard to imagine Uncle Melvin without her at his side. She will be greatly missed.

Karen Bess

January 21, 2008

Even though I had not seen Joan in years, and could never have called her a close friend--I screamed out loud the moment I heard the news of her death on TV Sunday night. The loss of her literally knocked the breath out of me. We worked together in the mid-late 1980's, sharing in the exhilaration and the challenges of Mayor Abramson's first term. Joan's genius was the spreading of joy--she knew so much and could see so clearly, but her secret power was in the joy. What a glorious gift and treasure of a life for us all! Thank you Joan...now follow YOUR bliss!

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