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Dorothy Jay Obituary

Dorothy A. (Polak) Jay Okemos Dorothy Alice Jay, age 85, passed away Thursday, December 30, 2010 at Sparrow Hospital with her family at her side. To parents Michael and Leocadia (Lottie) Polak, Dorothy was born October 5, 1925 in Detroit, Mich., and graduated from St. Florian High School in Hamtramck, Mich., in 1943. With her participation in the Cadet Nursing Corps, Dorothy was able to obtain degree from the College of Nursing at Mercy College in Detroit in 1947. Dorothy married the love of her life, Leonard A. Jay, April 16, 1952. They began their lives together in East Lansing, where Dorothy joined Leonard as interior decorator for their home building business, Blue Jay Development. She is survived by her daughters Amy (John) Koestner, Donna (Robert) Crawford; sons, Gary (Bonnie), Brian (Joni), Mark; nine loving grandchildren, Ryan (Barbara), Theodore Jay, and Noelle (Chris) Wegener, Kyle Koestner, Lottie and Sadie Jay, April (Thomas) Erickson, Justin King, and Sara Jay. She is preceded in death by her husband, Leonard A. Jay and her sister, Bernice Stodulski. Dorothy was a devout Catholic and is remembered by those close to her as a loving wife, mother and grandmother, as well as an active volunteer with the Women's Altar Society and the St. Thomas Aquinas Arts and Crafts group. She was an accomplished Tole painter, in addition to participating in various artistic endeavors with her close group of friends fondly called The Clever Club. The Funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, January 5 at 11 a.m. at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church with the Rev. Mark Inglot officiating. Interment will follow at St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery, Lansing, in a private family ceremony. The family will receive friends on Sunday, January 2, 2011, at the Gorsline Runciman Funeral Homes, 1730 East Grand River Ave., East Lansing from 1-4 p.m. and 5-7 p.m., with reciting of The Rosary at 5 p.m. The family will also receive friends one hour prior to the funeral service at the church. The Jay family is forever indebted to the Sparrow CCU nurses Katie, Donna and Sandy for their compassionate care. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made the McAuley School of Nursing at the University of Detroit Mercy, 4001 W. McNichols Road, Detroit MI, 48221-3038, or St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, 955 Alton Road, East Lansing MI, 48823-2785. On line condolences may be made at www.gorslineruncimaneastlansing.com

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Published by Lansing State Journal from Jan. 1 to Jan. 2, 2011.

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Andrew Jay

January 7, 2011

Aunt Dorothy was a wonderful person and a terrific foil for Leonard. They were great together. We were always impressed with her artistic abilities and creativity. For years a table she painted with roses was in a place of honor in our home. (How she found time to paint with 5 children is beyond me!)

She is a thread that ran throughout your lives so her passing will leave a hole. However, I am sure that she and Leonard are together looking down with pleasure seeing their legacy in you children and grandchildren.

Dave Bunting

January 5, 2011

Do not remember yesterday or today but remember and cherish the decades that she was there to lend her love, support and guidence that made the family what it is now and forever will be. She will be missed in body but not in your memories.

Dorothy and Leonard, Elmwood Casino, Windsor, ON

January 3, 2011

From the 1944 "Laurian" (St. Florian High School)

January 3, 2011

Georgia Hausauer

January 3, 2011

I'm sending you my sincere sympathy. May you all be comforted in memories of your life being so blessed with the love and beauty of Dorothy. My thoughts are with you and your family. Sincerely, Georgia (Reese) Hausauer

Bob Celmer

January 3, 2011

Mark,

I enjoyed reading about your mom's nursing background along with her 'clever club'. I wished I could have met her - I suspect part of your sense of humor was hereditary. You have my condolences.

dr bob

Benjamin Smith

January 3, 2011

Dorothy was a loving and caring person. I have many wonderful memories of the Jay household and always felt welcome and comfortable. I was in Okemos about 9 years ago and drove by our old house and decided to see if anybody was at 1937 Navaho. Dorothy and Leonard were home, invited me in and we talked for an hour. They were very lovely people and I will miss them...

Stefano Cerrato

January 3, 2011

Ciao Mark,

as you know we have just passed through a similar experience with my mum Silvana. I just can tell you that Gabriella always told us how gentle and "dolce" was Dorothy with all of you, Gabriella and Sara.

Really sorry for her, you and your brother and sisters, not only from myself, but also from Maria and Ludovico.

Stefano

Daryl Kowitz

January 3, 2011

My heartfelt sympathies to you all.......BJ - I wish I could be there for you my friend....please know, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Dots was truly one of a kind........I only met her on a few occasions, but she made me feel right at home......'another one of my 'moms'!!!

Take care all.....Daryl Kowitz

Sheri Morris Wade

January 3, 2011

Gary and Bonnie, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God hold you close in His arms at this time of grief. What a beautiful article about her and her life. You can take comfort in knowing she is now in a place of peace and she is with God forever. Love and hugs, Sheri Wade

Karyn Federau-Downey

January 2, 2011

Mark & Family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless you and your family.

Mark Ingraham

January 2, 2011

What a tremendous tribute.
And obviously, a tremendous life.
I am sure she appreciates how
you are honoring her.
God Bless you and your family.

Barnhart Family

January 1, 2011

May the many memories of Dorothy be a comfort throughout your lives. Our parents never truly leave us, but continue to guide us & watch over us. God Bless Dorothy and all of her family who so dearly miss her.

Clarice Fasano

January 1, 2011

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

the other "big gare"

January 1, 2011

My sincere sympathy and prayers go out to all of you. I have many fond memories of your mom & dad, (as well as the entire Jay family). They always made everyone feel welcomed into thier "love filled" home. Gary, you are a true friend.

God bless and keep you all.

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