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Carolyn Stieber Obituary

East Lansing

Died on September 12 due to congestive heart failure. She was 92. Born in Cincinnati, Ohio, on July 6,1923, to Felix and Alice Friedman, both immigrants from Hungary, Carolyn graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of Chicago in just three years. During World War II, she served as a position classification analyst for the U.S.Navy and also worked for the Veterans Emergency Housing Program. She met her future husband, Jack, in Washington DC; they married in 1947. She did graduate work at the University of Minnesota and the University of Pittsburgh, earning a master's degree in political science. Soon after moving to East Lansing in 1956, when Jack was hired by Michigan State University's new Labor and Industrial Relations Center, she joined MSU's Political Science Department; she was its first (and only) woman faculty member for a decade. Her students included a future governor and a future U.S. senator. In 1974, she was appointed the university's second ombudsman; she served for 17 years in that capacity under four MSU presidents and was a mentor to many others in that field. She helped to found the University and College Ombudsman Association and served as its third president; she was active in international ombudsman organizations as well. She authored a book on Michigan politics as well as numerous refereed articles. The State News designated her the 1986-87 Spartan of the Year. Carolyn and Jack traveled worldwide and enjoyed sabbaticals in Scotland, Switzerland, Belgium, England, and Australia. A talented cook, Carolyn was known for her dinner parties. She was a regular patron of the Wharton Center and a passionate reader who was always "trying to catch up on The New York Times."

Carolyn was predeceased by Jack in 2011. She is survived by her daughters, Allison, of Somerville, Massachusetts, and Joan, of Washington, DC. She is a donor to MSU's Willed Body Program. A celebration in honor of her life will be held at a future date.

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Published by Lansing State Journal from Sep. 16 to Sep. 20, 2015.

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Mary Cameron

October 2, 2015

As Carolyn Stieber's graduate assistant in the MSU Ombudsman's office for many years, I regard her as the best mentor one could ever have. An exceptional woman. My condolences to Allison and Joan.

Lisa Molnar

September 29, 2015

Dear Joan and Allison,
My heart goes out to you at this very sad time. I know how much your mother meant to you and I know how appreciative she must of been of all you did and how much she loved you. Please know you are in my thoughts. Lisa

September 23, 2015

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Dear Allison and Joan, Carolyn was a wonderful person and we will miss her very much. Jack and Joanne Bass

Terry Grady

September 19, 2015

A remarkable woman in every way

Joe Isaac

September 18, 2015

A lovely friend who carried herself with dignity, warmth, charm and modesty.

Laurie Foreman

September 17, 2015

Mrs. Stieber was a wonderful woman. I had the pleasure of knowing her for over 25 years by being her hairdresser. She was kind,gratuitous ,warm,private,and a bit stubborn. I had the utmost respect for her preservernce in any situation from her losing her sister,her beloved Jack,and her love and concern for her girls Allison and Joan. I adored her and will miss her and am a better person for knowing her. Rest in Peace

Renée Russell

September 16, 2015

Dear Allison and Joan,
There you must be in Michigan, tending to your Mother's end of life issues. I know how very important your parents were to both of you. I pray for each of them and for you both. I trust that you had done the best you could in the last few years. Your Mother will be missed in this world. She and your Dad made you uniquely qualified to carry on after passing. It will always be difficult to be without them. Your love and devotion will not be forgotten. Please feel my presence with you at this time. May Carolyn rest in peace and be remembered always.

Reese Ramos

September 16, 2015

On behalf of many in the Ombuds community we send our condolences to the family, friends and colleagues that were touched by Carolyn's life & legacy.

We, as a profession, owe much to Carolyn. Carolyn wrote many articles on the profession, was a past President for UCOA (one of the precursors to the current International Ombudsman Association)and served her institution for many years.

May those that were touched by her life find comfort and peace in memories of Carolyn.

Reese Ramos
IOA Board President

Ferman Badgley

September 16, 2015

A wonderful lady, I was privileged to be one other students, in addition I had the pleasure of interacting with her in her position as ombudsman. She was one of my favorite professors and always fair minded and very understanding as the University Ombudsman. She will be missed and was a wonderful lady. I will always grateful for having known her.

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