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Mary Aves Obituary

Mary Ellen Aves (Claflin) Lansing Mary Ellen Aves (Claflin), of Delta Twp., born May 8, 1932, passed away May 8, 2010. Mary was adopted by Alfred and Mable (Jenkins) Claflin at age 6, who gave her all the love a child could want. Her birth parents were Garrett and Esther McKrill. She was preceeded in death by her parents; brother, Robert Claflin; and son-in-law, Darwin Pettit. She married her Sexton High School sweetheart Laverne Aves in November 1951. They were blessed with 58 years together. Her life work was advocating and working with Special Needs Citizens. Mary enjoyed a trip to Scotland to see her family's castle followed by a trip to Finland to meet her lifelong pen pal for the first time. She is survived by her husband, Laverne; children: Susan Pettit and friend Patrick Outman, Diane (Steve) Peake, Burton Aves, Janet Aves, and sister, Nancy McKenzie; grandchildren: William Pettit, Renee (Craig) Rice, Jennifer Peake, Stacy Peake and friend Brandley Lantrip, Kelly (Gary) Langin, Val Luka and Emily Aves; great-grandchildren: Jared Knight, Makell Thomas and Olivia Langin. Funeral services will be held Wednesday, May 12, 2010 - 11:00 a.m. at the Trinity United Methodist Church, 7533 W. St. Joseph Hwy., Lansing, MI 48917, with Rev. Rae Franke officiating. Interment will follow at Delta Center Cemetery. The family will receive friends Tuesday 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. at the Peters & Murray Funeral Home, Grand Ledge. Memorials may be made to McLaren Hospice, Chosen Vision Inc., or charity of choice. Online condolences may be made at www.petersandmurrayfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Lansing State Journal from May 10 to May 16, 2010.

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Duane & Dar Gilroy

May 11, 2010

Steve & Diane
Our deepest sympathy to you & family
sorry we won't be there for the funneral but you will be in our thoughts and prayers
May you find comfort & strength in this difficult time through faith family & friends,will be calling you soon
Love Ya
Duane & Dar

Joyce Combellack Sempert

May 11, 2010

I will miss my long time friend! With love,

Ann & Todd Dixon

May 11, 2010

So sorry to hear of your mother passing. If there is anything we can do please let us know. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Love,
Ann & Todd

Kristen (Lee) Offutt

May 10, 2010

I am very sorry to hear of Mary's passing, she was my mother's (Grace McKrill Lee) sister and therefore my aunt. I wished I could have gotten to know Mary better. My condolences to the Claflin and Aves family and friends.
Kristen K. (Lee) Offutt
123 Linden Blvd.
Mason, MI 48854

TAMARA J KRUEGER

May 10, 2010

LAVERN,
YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL BE IN OUT THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
THE HARRY AND MARIE SHERMAN FAMILY

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