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Mary Costello Obituary

Mary J. (Carcioppolo) Costello "Nanee" Lansing Our beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother passed away peacefully Tuesday, April 13, 2010 at the age of 83. She was born January 27, 1927 in Lansing to Salvatore and Juiseppa Carcioppolo, who along with her beloved sister, Rosalie and ex-husband, Angelo preceded in her in death. Surviving are her five children, Angela (Tom) Hunn, Joe (Sandi) Costello, Rick (Lillian) Costello, Tom Costello and Perry (Nanette) Costello; 13 grandchildren, Tony (Shelley) Costello, Dionne (Scott) Underhill, Tina (Justin) Wichman, Joe (Julie) Costello, Alissa Costello, Gabby Costello, Gino Costello, Kim Costello, Jason Costello, Justin Costello, Charlie Adado, Ann Marie Adado, and PJ Costello. Also surviving are 13 great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. Mary attended Lansing St. Mary High School and St. Lawrence School of Medicine prior to entering the work force at several health care facilities. She retired from Administrative Procedures in 1994 before becoming a nanny to several local families until 2006. A life long active member at St. Casimir Catholic Church, Mary enjoyed sewing, crocheting and gardening, but her greatest love was attending her children's and grandchildren's athletic events, cheering them on with her trusty cowbell. Nanee will be missed by all that knew her. Celebration of the Funeral Mass will be Saturday, April 17, 2010, 1:30 p.m. at St. Casimir Catholic Church with Rev. Fr. Bill Lugger as celebrant. Interment will follow in St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery. The family will receive relatives and friends, Friday, April 16, 2010, from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. at the Palmer, Bush & Jensen Family Funeral Home, Lansing Chapel where a rosary will be prayed at 6:30 p.m. Memorial contributions can be made to The Mc Ree House in memory of Mary. Condolences can be sent to the family at www.palmerbush.com.

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Apr. 15, 2010.

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Paul Keast

April 25, 2010

Angela, Joe, Rick, Tom, Perry,
So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing in to the welcoming arms of Almighty God. She was loved by all and always treated me like one of the family. My mother Donna will be waiting for her to go over all the ball games. Love to all your family.

MARK FARHAT

April 20, 2010

TO THE COSTELLO FAMILY,IT HAS BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I SEEN YOUR MOM BUT REMEMBERING HER SHE WAS A NICE PERSON.MAY GOD BLESS YOUR MOTHER AND FAMILY.MARK FARHAT

Bobby Wilcox

April 18, 2010

Joe, much time has passed since we last saw each other. I'm very sorry in learning of your Mom's passing. You kids hold on tight together, and find your comfort in one another. She has left a wonderful legacy, and her spirit will shine forever. Many blessings to you all.

Nan Farhat

April 17, 2010

To the entire Costello Family,

I have very fond memories of your Mother. I loved watching her at the wrestling matches at Catholic Central. I use to smile just watching her move just like the wrestlers on the mat. She was a very loving woman and will be remembered fondly. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Vicki (Schneider)Dahlke

April 16, 2010

I remember "Mrs. Costello" as the wonderful, happy lady that lived on "the other side of the fence". I have many fond childhood memories of her.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bob-Gerry Schafer

April 16, 2010

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kandi Lefkowitz

April 16, 2010

Perry, Nannette and PJ, We were very saddened to hear about the loss of your Mother and Nanna. May Gods Blessings fall upon all of you during this sad time and carry you through.
God Bless
Kandi Lefkowitz and family

Bill Castellani

April 16, 2010

To Joe and Rick and Tom and Perry and Angie and all of your families: I am so sorry to see your Mom's passing. Like my parents, she was in the old gurad of that generation of the Lansing Italian community that was so proud and so fiesty.
We loved growing up down the street from the Costellos: always sandlot football game, baseball game or pom-pom to be found with them.
I recall your Mom from the years that she drove us in the carpool: always a lot of laugher and a love of life. Like all of you, I will miss her and rememeber her total dedication to all of the Costello athletes.
My thoughts are with you today.

Katherine Cusick

April 16, 2010

Perry and family,

Very sorry to hear of your mothers passing. May you find comfort in your memories. Our thoughts are with you. The Cusick Family

April 16, 2010

Dear Costello Family~ I was so sorry to hear about your Mom passing away, I also lost my Mom last June so I certainly feel your pain and you are all in our prayers and thoughts. Mary was always such a friendly and sweet person, I remember her coming in Dad's store and seeing her at church :) she will be missed~ MaryKay,(Hufnagel) David, Matt & Macy Hannah (Lansing, MI)

Marchele Matherly

April 15, 2010

Dear Family,
I was saddened to hear of the lose of aunt Mary. She was my God-Mother and was a lovely woman, the last time I saw her was in 1999 and I was given a crochet Angel for my tree. I will cherish memories of her always. Marchele R Matherly (Pete Costello's daughter) Shelley Costello

Lisa Scott (Biergans)

April 15, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. She was a very special woman and will be greatly missed by all that knew her. It's not often someone can bring a smile to your face just with the thought of them, Mary could do that. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Sue (Shaver) Underwood

April 15, 2010

Joe and Family, I am sorry to read about your mom's passing......it is especially hard when both parents have made their transition.
I worked for "Mary" at BaryAmes Cleaners (many moons ago!).....she was a "perfect boss" God Bless!

Denise Sullivan / Nancy Logan

April 15, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. Mary will always remain a piece of us and to all that knew her. She was loved by many. I will never forget her sense of humor and her spit fire personality. We always loved how honest and caring she was. Mary helped me with my wedding dress and some of the bridesmaid dresses. She made me a special garder out of the left over material. I know everyone keeps special things from their weddings but I will always treasure that piece she put her heart into. She not only was a great neighbor but a great friend. We love her very much! She is in a better place watching over all of us.
Remembered with love!

Joye Cochran

April 15, 2010

Perry and Nanette and PJ, Our sincerest sympathies. Please accept our condolences on the loss of your mother/grandmother. Scott, Joye and Taylyr Cochran

Rose Cousin

April 15, 2010

Perry and Family, I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She was such a kind, gentle, beautiful spirit. I will miss seeing your Mom at church with her beautiful smile. I will keep you all in my prayers and may she rest in peace. Rose & Frank Cousin

jill rassizi

April 15, 2010

One of a kind,special soul.She cared about others more than herself.A great loss to our familia. She will be remembered with love.

Dave Akerly

April 15, 2010

Mary was our "Mrs. Doubtfire" and we could not have asked for a more wonderful person to care for our children. It was almost like they had another grandmother and there were a lot of tears when we heard of her passing. She was so down-to-earth and cheerful and what a wonderful cook of the old school good stuff. There will never be another Mary Costello canolli, and what's more...there will never be another one like Mary Costello. Riposi in pace,

Tammy Fillmore

April 15, 2010

Wow are we going to miss her beautiful smile and her sense of humor. She would always have us rolling with laughter at every visit here. Our prayers are with you. Dr Lopez and Tammy Optimum Health Clinic

Jamie Mayes

April 15, 2010

We loved Mary very much! My children, Jordan and Chloe, had the honor of having Mary be their nanny from the time they were born until they went to school, they were actually the last kids she took care of. Mary will always have a special in their hearts and ours. Chloe had just recently talked to Mary and they were going to get together and do puzzles. Mary was always telling me about her family. She was very proud of all of you. Rest in Peace Mary. . . and thank you for helping Lance and I raise such wonderful girls!!
God Bless!
Lance, Jamie, Jordan and Chloe Mayes

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