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Tabitha Stanton Obituary

Tabitha Ann Stanton Born on November 28, 1991, in Hohenberg, Germany was sent to heaven to be with her Min-a-Maw and Gi-Gi Bob on September 19, 2009, in Lansing, Michigan. Tabitha was preceded in death by Delores Bryan, Judy Medlock, Eleanor and Robert Bryan, Ron Romanek and Lawrence and Janine Brown. Words cannot express how much Tabitha will be missed by her loving parents, Todd and Kathleen "Kate" Jo (DeFeyter) Stanton; siblings, Samantha and Zane; KaSandra (Aunt San) and Uncle Scott Ackley; cousin, Jacob DeFeyter. Additional family members; Uncle Ron and Aunt Patty Norman; Mark, Laura and Judy Farone; Jack, Kelly, Trae and Van Norman; Aunt Nancy Romanek; grandparents, Nancy and Emmett Hoyland, and Howard and Sherry Medlock; grandfather, Richard Stanton; Uncle Scott Stanton and cousins, Natasha, Amber and Tyler; The Fabbo Family, Marc, Vickey, Joe and Chloe; the "Hogtons", Paxton, Toby, Derek, Makenna, Parker and Karsyn Hoggard. Tabitha had just begun her senior year of high school at Potterville. She was attending CAHEP classes to pursue a career in nursing after graduating in June 2010, was Class President, fifth grade camp counselor and on homecoming court. Her precious life was taken at the tender and innocent age of 17. To know Tabitha is to love her. More than anything Tabitha loved her family and loved spending time with them. Tabitha was a daughter, sister, cousin, mother to all children and friend to everyone she met. Tabitha made life-long friends during her time playing volleyball and softball throughout the years. Heaven is a better place now that they have an angel like Tabitha. What she has shown us in 17 years takes others a lifetime to learn. Funeral services will be 1:00 p.m. Thursday, September 24, 2009 at Potterville High School with Reverend Rebecca Morrison officiating. Interment will be in Benton Township Cemetery, Potterville, MI. Visitation will be Wednesday, September 23, 2009 from 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. and 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. at Pray Funeral Home, Charlotte, MI. The family would like to thank the Potterville Community for their on-going support and love that they have given the family. If desired, memorial contributions can be made to the Potterville United Methodist Church - Tabitha Stanton Scholarship Fund. Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.prayfuneral.com

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Sep. 22, 2009.

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D.J. Dowsett

October 13, 2009

"My Prayer are with the family, I remember Tabitha coming to most our football practices, running across our stomachs because Coach Stanton was making us stronger" She was always by our side on game night or on the practice field.

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Selena Duits

September 28, 2009

I don't know if you'll read this entry anytime soon or not. The pain maybe too much but you at one point will find comfort in the thoughts of others here. How do I know? Because our family has been through it and continues to go through this life without our daughter who we lost almost 4 years ago next month. Our daughters guest book here on legacy has been active since the beginning and someday you will find comfort in the knowledge that so many care. I would like to reach out to you knowing that it may be sometime before you can respond. We however, unfortunately, have much in common. Our daughters are (I don't like to use "were") alike. Both are volleyball players, beautiful blonds, loving, liked by all, on homecoming courts, etc. We are from the Lakewood community but we reside in the little community of Sunfield where like yourselves the support has been tremendous. We too started a scholarship fund to keep busy and to keep our daughter Emily's memory alive and have a website in her honor (www.emilyduits.com) If you choose to visit it, you may find some comfort there in knowing that you Tabita has a new friend. "Comfort" is a hard word to describe because nothing takes the heartache away. I found that knowing Em had friends that would go ahead of her was somewhat of a comfort along with beloved relatives and of course Heaven itself and Jesus. It's the thoughts of Heaven that sustain us. I could write so much, but even the little things like taking a shower or doing the dishes can be a struggle at this point in your grief. I will simply let you know that I care and I do know your intense pain. I don't know how I've lived this long but we somehow go on because of our family and our other children and to honor our children that are awaiting on the other side. Our hearts are with you more than you realize.

Vickie Fosket

September 27, 2009

I remember Tabitha when she was such a little girl when you lived in the apt next to Vern and I. She always had a big smile on her face and mades friends so easily. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

September 24, 2009

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Tabitha has given you memories, wisdom, and probally her own advice at times. Your family is bonding all the more now...a rich inheritance.
Don Bedes & Family
Perry, Michigan

Bree McElrath

September 24, 2009

My thoughts are with all whom have been affected by the death of this sweet beautiful girl. I seems so unreal. My thoughts are with you my little hometown of Potterville. I was fortunate to know Tabi and i was thankful to know her. She was such a happy girl, always smiling and laughing :) She is an angel now. Take care my Potterville friends. Love to all.. I'm here for you.

Eleni Smith

September 23, 2009

I know a lot of people will remember Tabi in so many ways. I'll always remember her. She's the one who yelled at me for not being on the sidelines cheering. Tabi always smiled and was so smart. I miss her so much!

Kathy Stimer

September 23, 2009

Todd, Kate, Samantha and Zane - I love each of you and will pray for you everyday to heal from the pain of losing your precious daughter/sister Tabby. She was beautiful and I enjoyed the days she came over with her group of friends and made us all laugh. She is truly God greatest Angel! Love to you all!

Jamie and Russell Scott

September 23, 2009

Our hearts go out to your entire family, especially Kate and Sis. You are in our thoughts...

Jessica Ormsbee (CAHEP Class)

September 23, 2009

Dear Stanton Family,
I didn't know Tabitha for very long, but she change my life in so many ways. She was always smiling and making everyone in CAHEP laugh. She was such a happy person and knew how to keep a smile on everyones face. She made me relize that no matter how you dress or act if you try you can get along with everyone. She wasn't judgemental and she got along with everyone. I wish I could've gotten to know her better. She was defintly a well rounded person and always tried her best at everything. I will miss her dearly and I will always have a place for her in my heart.

September 23, 2009

My family offers it's deepest sympathies to you and yours. May your memories help you find some peace in this terrible time.

The Richardson Family: Laura, Dylan Zack and Rianna #12 JV volleyball

September 23, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Willis family potterville mi

Angie S

September 23, 2009

Although her time was too brief with you, the love she shared with everyone will forever live on. Tabitha was an angel here on earth, and now your guardian angel in heaven. You will meet again one day, and I hope you find comfort knowing she was so adored by so many. May the knowledge of how blessed you are to have her in your heart help to carry you through till you meet again.

Mark, Cheryl & Kaitlynn (#11) Brooks

September 23, 2009

To Tabitha’s Family,
Our families have never met but on many occasions we have sat in the same bleachers watching our daughter’s play volleyball against each other. Our hearts are truly saddened by the loss of Tabitha and pray that your family and the Potterville community will find healing and comfort in knowing that others care.

With deepest sympathy,

Kelly Konietzko

September 23, 2009

My most sincere sympathy to the Stanton family at this most difficult time. I don't know you , but I was compelled to write a note to let you know that even people who never met you are praying for you and are holding you in the light. It sounds like Tabitha was an amazing young lady. May God comfort you in these most trying times. My heart breaks for you and I am so very sorry for your loss.

Wendy Tomaszewski

September 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Zachary Medler

September 23, 2009

Tod and Kate, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tabi will always be the little girl that was at football practices when Tod and I coached together. She always had a smile on her face and brought out smiles from others. She will be deeply missed.

Raquel Cole

September 22, 2009

Kate & Todd,
You are in my thoughts and my heart, my prayers are with you..

Michelle Brown

September 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with and your family during this time. My heart goes out to all of you. May your happy memories of your beautiful niece/daughter/cousin/sister bring you some comfort.

Deborah Jackson

September 22, 2009

To the family of Tabitha,
Although we have never met, I can't begin to tell you how much Tabitha & her family cross my mind. Her picture is breath-taking & I can't even begin to imagine your loss. My daughter is a 5th grader at Potterville & she came home with a blue bracelet on in memory of Tabitha. She has never met her but told me how sad she felt about it. We are praying for you. Deb & Lexie Jackson (Potterville, MI)

Tammy & Dale Hosford

September 22, 2009

Kate & Todd,
Our hearts go out to the two of you. We cannot even begin to imagine
the pain you are feeling. We hugged our daughters extra long, and told them how much we loved them when heard of Tabitha's passing. You're all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jenni & Kirsten Nongueskwa

September 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

September 22, 2009

We only knew your beautiful daughter as the opposing softball catcher and as a tough competitor, but she was a great sport and a great ambassador from the Potterville community. Our thoughts are with you in this very sad time. Alan and Lorie Culham, Dansville, MI

Rhonda Whiting

September 22, 2009

we are so sorry to hear what happen . our hearts and prayers are with you. Tabitha was a wonderful girl from the fisrt time i meet her i loved her . if you need anything please call we love all of you. Rhonda whiting mason

Linda Sammons

September 22, 2009

We are so sorry to have heard about the Tragic Vehicle Accident that Tabitha was in. Our prayers and Our Hearts go out to her Family. I lost both of My Parents in seperate Vehicle Accidents Three Years apart of each other some Years back and that was real hard on me. And still is. We are so, so sorry for your loss of a Wonderful Girl.
Sincerley Mrs Tony Sammons and Family

September 22, 2009

Sending our deepest condolences during this difficlut time. Try and take comfort in knowing Gods arms are around your beautiful daughter tabitha.

Mary Shaw

September 22, 2009

May the love of your friends, family, and the community carry you through your grief. Tabi was an exceptional person, full of life and spunk and always had a smile on her face. She will ALWAYS be remembered and dearly missed by everyone whose life she came in contact with.

Joye Cochran

September 22, 2009

Words can not express the sorrow for your loss. I hope that the thoughts and prayers of others will carry you through this time that most of us can not fathom, imagine nor empathize with. Todd, Kate and Sis my thoughts and prayers will be you and your families. My heart breaks for you. God Bless you

Jessica Whipple

September 22, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to you & your family i their time of need. I know your memories will live on.

Leila Swint

September 22, 2009

Todd, Kate, Sam and Zane,
Tabi was such a beautiful and sweet person and I feel lucky to have known her. I am so deeply sorry for the loss that you have experienced. Keep your memories of her close and never forget the love that she gave to everyone around her. If there is anything that I can do please let me know.

September 22, 2009

To know Tabitha IS to love her...and her family. Kate~Todd~Sam~Z~Aunt Sis~Uncle Scott and to the rest of the family, we love you so much. Michelle&Chad Ackley Family

Dee Dorian

September 22, 2009

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Carmen M.

September 22, 2009

I did not know her but I was driving on 96 highway the day of the crash.
I saw the car and instantly started to pray for the person who was taken to the hospital. I didn't see anything because I was far down the highway. I pray for her friends and family. Take care. Carmen

Joe Pray and the Staff of Pray Funeral Home

September 22, 2009

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