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Robert Lee Ray Sr.

Robert Lee Ray Sr. obituary

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Robert Lee Ray Sr. LUBBOCK-Robert Lee Ray Sr., Poppa Ray, 87, passed away on Friday, Nov. 2, 2012. Born on Feb. 4, 1925, to the late John and Zadie Ray in Obeland, Okla., he was reared in Haskell and Littlefield, Texas, prior to moving to Lubbock in 1945. He attended public school in Littlefield, business school under the GI Bill, and later attended Texas Tech University. He served in the US Army from May 1943 until December 1945 as a medic, receiving the Good Conduct Medal, American Campaign Medal and WWII Victory Medal. He was a member of Post 88 American Legion. Robert served faithfully at Ford Memorial C.O.G.I.C. and finally at Agape Temple as a deacon. He served 40+ years as Sunday school superintendent. Robert worked in the building trade as a licensed carpenter retiring after working for several major contractors like McMillan & Co., Pharr & Pharr and Lee Lewis. After carpentry, he worked for Lubbock Regional MHMR and retired in 2007. Robert was preceded in death by his parents; his first wife, Virdie Mae; his son, Robert L. Ray Jr.; three sisters; and two brothers. He leaves to cherish his memories his wife of 17 years, Minnie R. Ray; three daughters, Gwendolyn Titus, Jacquelyn Porch and Karen Anderson; son, Michael E. Ray (Stacey); one sister, Ruthie Randle; seven sons, Totsey (Shawanda), Rickey, Anthony, Jeffery, Thomas and Myron (Pamela); one daughter, Sara House (Jim); 24 grandchildren; 32 great-grandchildren; three great-great grandchildren; along with a host of nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. Celebration of life services will be held on Friday, Nov. 9, 2012, at Agape Temple C.O.G.I.C. at 11 a.m. Interment will follow in City of Lubbock Cemetery under the direction of Griffin Mortuary. Visitation will be held today from 1 to 6 p.m. at Griffin Mortuary.

Published by Lubbock Avalanche-Journal on Nov. 8, 2012.
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Jackie May God keep you in his prayer always. Nancy and John Lucero

Nancy Lucero

November 13, 2012

Michael and Stacey ,
We are sorry to hear of the passing of
your father.
It is our prayer that God grants you daily strenght to accept his will being done .

Danny & Maple Brown
Huntsville Alabama

November 9, 2012

May you find more peace and strength with each passing day. I extend my deepest sympthy.
~Blessings,

Bettye Gant-Wilson

November 9, 2012

Jackie:
My thoughts and prayers go out to your and your family upon the death of your father.


Mary Bryant

Mary Bryant

November 9, 2012

We will always love you and Miss you Papa Ray...Now you'll have the best seats in the house at Tech Games!!!

Myron Alexander

November 9, 2012

To the Family,
We have lost a great solider. Mr. Ray remind me of the song we use to sing as kids,in Qween City, We are Soliders in the army, we have to hold up the blood stain banner,we have to hold it up,until we die. He did just that. Continue to trust in the Lord.

Evelyn Hicks

November 9, 2012

To the family: My thoughts and prayers are with you as you celebrate the homegoing and life of your father. Mr. Ray was such a kind and patient person. I will always remember how Nippy would lock him out of his car, and the only way she would open the door was he had to promise to take her to buy potato chips. "She Loved Her Some Mr. Ray". You can rejoice because he lived 87 good years. Be Blessed

Bobbie McCormick-Wilson

November 9, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Gloria Onoh

November 8, 2012

May you take comfort in knowing a very special Angle is watching over you. My prayers to you and your family.

Melody Heiat

November 8, 2012

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.

Yanira Viera

November 8, 2012

Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of your loved one. May God give you strength

Community Baptist Church

November 8, 2012

I'd like to extend my sincere and heartfelt condolences to the family and especially to my Dear Friend, Ms. Gwendolyn Titus (my mentor)...may God comfort your through this time of loss.
Pamela Fountain

November 8, 2012

To Gwen and Your Family
Ms. Gwen I will always remember taking my mom to the doctor and seeing you and Mr. Ray there. It was always a joy to see you and Mr. Ray! I will continue to pray for comfort and strength for you and your family. I know God is with you and your family. May God continue to bless your family.

Lisa Tates, Huey

November 8, 2012

To the Family,
You have my love and sympathy will always cherish Poppa Ray's memories.
Lots of Love

Elnora Jones

November 8, 2012

Gwen, my prayers to you and your family. If you need me I'm just a phone call away. Veda Wright

November 8, 2012

My prayers are with the Family. Be strong in this time of need.

Susie Mendoza

November 8, 2012

Mr. Ray you will be missed. I never really knew you personally but I got to know you through your daughter Jackie. My condolences to all the Family, all of you are in our prayers

November 8, 2012

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