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Peter Gibbons-Neff Obituary

Peter Gibbons-Neff age 67, on January 20, 2013, of Rosemont. Son of the late Florence Mitchell Chance and Morton Gibbons-Neff, Jr. Beloved husband of Deborah Shafer Gibbons-Neff of 30 years. Father of Stephanie "Stevie" (Andrew) Boulden of Radnor, PA, Polly (John) Ortlieb of Annapolis, MD, Lyndsey Ann of Newport, RI, and 2nd LT Peter, JR, USMC of Carlsbad, CA. Brother of Morton, III "Tony" (Donna), Mitchell Chance (deceased), and Henry Gibbons-Neff. Loving grandfather of four children and cherished uncle of six nieces and nephews. Born in Bryn Mawr, his early years were spent in Devon at Clovelly Farm. He attended The Haverford School and graduated from The Gilman School in Baltimore. He was a 1968 graduate of the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania. Upon graduation, he entered the USNavy as a LTJG and served at sea for two years. After a position at General Electric, Peter began his career as a stock broker in 1973. Serving many individual and institutional clients over the next 40 years, he was associated with investment firms including WhiteWeld, Wertheim, DLJ and most recently, RBC. Joan Bertino Juliano, his dedicated, capable administrative partner, worked with him throughout his entire career. Peter was Treasurer of the Whitehall Foundation, former Trustee of Sea Education Association, past Port Warden of the Independence Seaport Museum, Past President of the Radnor Educational Foundation, Past President of The Corinthian Historical Foundation, and former member of the Radnor Township Civil Service Commission. He was a member of The Corinthian Yacht Club of Philadelphia, the Cruising Club of America, the Mill Dam Club, and St. David's Golf Club. A Gibbons-Neff family tradition, sailing was Peter's life-long passion. His love of sailing developed in Little Egg Harbor, NJ as well as on the Eastern Shore of Maryland. He raced in the biannual Newport-to-Bermuda Race 12 times, the Annapolis-to-Newport Race 10 times, and raced trans-Atlantic from Bermuda to Copenhagen. Additionally, he cruised waters stretching from the Caribbean, to the Chesapeake, to Newfoundland. He was a Commodore of The Corinthian Yacht Club of Philadelphia and a Rear Commodore of the Cruising Club of America, Chesapeake Station. Peter conveyed a love of sailing to his entire family and to many young people including, most recently, the members of the Villanova University sailing team. He will be remembered most of all for his love of family, friends, country, and of course, sailing. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, January 26, at 1:00 pm in the Chapel of St. David's Episcopal Church, 763 S. Valley Forge Road, Wayne, PA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Corinthian Historical Foundation, P.O. Box 366, Essington, PA 19029 or to Sea Education Association, P.O. Box 6, Woods Hole, MA 02543.

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Published by Main Line Media News from Jan. 22 to Jan. 23, 2013.

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ELIZABETH BUTTS

January 16, 2020

I still think of Peter often - he is missed!

Tom Bullock

January 16, 2020

Peter, we will soon hold the trap handicap program named in your honor, and will recall the days with you, and your charm, intense focus, and fellowship. You were a model to those who had the opportunity to receive your attention. Tom Bullock, and he CYC trap gang.

Ron Goldstein

September 2, 2013

Dear Debbie and family, we just heard of Peter's untimely passing. I was remembering the time he and I spent together at F&M when we were freshman almost 50 years ago. And our visits with you while we were living in Philadelphia. He is missed by all who knew him for his charm and wit and exuberance for life.
Ron and Maryann Goldstein

John Silverstein

August 21, 2013

Pete was my roommate at the Gilman School in Baltimore. One of our classmates just wrote me with the sad news. We kept up through our college years, but in an era before the Internet, we eventually went our separate ways. Next year will mark the 50th anniversary of our graduation. I was already looking forward to hopefully seeing Pete in Baltimore next year. Pete was solid in many ways, and he was tough as nails, as exhibited by his play as a lineman on the football team. My deep regret is reading about his lifetime accomplishments before he could tell me about them himself. I hope his family finds comfort in knowing him best.

July 19, 2013

Debbie, we are only finding out about Peter's ultimate departure from the dock of life on July 19th. I was reaching out to him to find out if he wanted to participate in the 2nd Annual Wounded Warrior Sailing Regatta this September. You and Peter were such great supporters of the inaugural event last year that we greatly looked forward to having you both on Upgrade again this year as our Committee Boat. Please know that Elizabeth and I are deeply saddened by the news and wish you the very best. Please feel free to call us if you want to come and visit in Annapolis. With our deepest sympathy, Bo & Elizabeth Bollinger

February 26, 2013

Dear Debbie, Lindsey and family. I keep thinking about what a sincere, caring husband, father and friend Peter was, and how much you must be missing him during these gloomy winter days. Take care of yourselves. Danna Nehrbas

Ana Bessellieu

February 14, 2013

Holding Peter's family close to my heart on Valentine's Day. Much Love, Ana

Beverly Galloway

February 1, 2013

Dearest Deb and family,
Lu and I are so saddened by Peter's passing. He will be remembered for his love of family and generosity to all. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Bev

January 29, 2013

Debbie and family,
Craig and I wish to extend our sympathy to all of you. The service was touching. You are in our prayers. Jill

January 26, 2013

Dear Debbie, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jim and Chris Riley

David & Carrie Grau

January 26, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Merritt Butts

January 26, 2013

Dear Debbie and family,
I will never forget what a great "big brother" Peter was to me - he will be missed so very much. My thoughts are with all of you during this sad time.

The Ill Family

January 25, 2013

Debbie, Stevie, Polly, Lindsay, and Peter,
The Ill Family sends all our love to each of you. Peter was a wonderful father, grandfather, uncle, and friend. We had so many fun times on the water and off. I hope you find comfort with all the wondeful memories of all the good times. Much love to all of you from all of us.

Nancy Doeller

January 25, 2013

Dear Mrs. Gibbons-Neff,
Memories of that night at The Corinthian Yacht Club when it was announced that the new Rear Commodore was Peter Gibbons-Neff make us smile. During his "watch" as Commodore, Mr.Neff(as we called him) always came back into the kitchen to thank Rudi and me for the meal and to ask how we we doing. We will always remember your husband Mr. Neff fondly. We sincerely send to you and your family our sympathy over your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely, Nancy and Rudi

Jeff Dunn

January 25, 2013

Debbie
Linda and I are sad to hear of Peter's passing. We will cherish our memories of sailing, more recently shooting, and always sharing stories of our children at Hobart.

Please pass our thoughts to the children

Always, Linda and Jeff Dun

Denise Rinear

January 25, 2013

Debbie,
I just saw the notice about Peter. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

January 25, 2013

Dear Debbie and Family,
We were both deeply saddened at the news of Peter's death. So many memories will not be forgotten. Recalling those early house parties in Virginia, before you were even married! Many earlier sailing memories with the Barclay family at LEHYC. Just this past Fall on the CYC cruise....Peter's, hearty, fun loving voice rings clear in our ears! With Love , Admiration, and and Prayers for Peter and all of you. Carol and Jack Barclay

January 24, 2013

Dear Debbie,
I remember Christmas time in your kitchen with ladies you were trying to teach to create amazing center pieces as gifts for the RHS office staff and Peter walking through saying hello and taking his leave with dignity. He shared your home for many PTSA efforts with such generosity even if it might have been an imposition.
He was also so supportive in the infancy of the Radnor Girls Crew Club. I remember looking up to you all as my daughter entered the program you both created and lives as a legacy today.
He will be missed and please know, we all appreciate the large footprint he has left on this community.
Our deepest sympathies are with you all.
Love,
Pete, Chris, Kyle, Ian, Seamus, Duncan and Phelan Kingsbery

January 24, 2013

Debbie and family, you have our deepest thoughts of support. It is an honor to have been able to associate with him for these last, too-few years. He was a hero to all who knew him. Tom and Kim Bullock Greenville, DE.

Albury "Bo" Fleitas

January 24, 2013

What a tough loss. Peter was a remarkable man with a personality to boot! I can only imagine the laughs he's having with those who set sailed before him.

Harry & Sue Morgan

January 24, 2013

Debbie:

He kept a weather eye out for us all and rose above the storm around him. He left us much too soon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 24, 2013

Dear Debbie and family,
Our sincere condolences for your loss.
Sincerely,
Dianne and Ed Carmody - SPPA
Matt 20/'13 - USNA

January 24, 2013

Dearest Debbie and family,
What wonderful memories we have. May the Lord bring you peace and may he rest in peace. Jill and Craig TenBroeck

Allison Miller

January 24, 2013

Our family is praying for all of you. We will miss Peter and his big beautiful smile and his visits to our boys as Santa! All our love, The Miller Family

Dawn & Joe Lally

January 24, 2013

Debbie and family, our heartfelt condolences to you all. I always enjoyed seeing Peter at REF meetings, the Gala, and around Radnor. He was a true gentleman whose humor and insight will be missed.

Nicole McCormick

January 24, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. May God provide you with the strength to manage during these difficult times. All of our love. The Chambers/McCormick Family

Margie Rosenberg

January 24, 2013

Debbie, my condolences to you and your family on the loss of Peter. You and I worked together for the REF and I appreciated meeting you and Peter. May your memories sustain you during this very difficult time.

Ned Stone

January 23, 2013

Thinking of you Polly, and your family. Much love coming to all of you from the Wasatch Mountains.

Renee Mehl

January 23, 2013

Deepest condolences to Debbie, Stevie, Polly, Peter, Lyndsey and the rest of the extended Gibbons-Neff family. As one of the many adopted G-N sailors who had the honor and privelege of sailing with Peter, I know we will all miss his great smile, kind heart and sense of humor.

Mark MaGrann

January 23, 2013

Debbie:

My condolences to you and your family. I wish you the best during this very difficult time.

January 23, 2013

Debbie,
I'm so sorry to hear about Peter. I heard via my cousin, Allison Dodge. Please give my condolences to the children. I don't know if they remember me or not.
Judy (Oberg) Lazo

Paul Murphy

January 23, 2013

I'm deeply saddened to learn of the loss of such a great man. For 30 years we've enjoyed his smile, balanced perspective and zest for life.
Far, far too soon.

Tom Barrett

January 23, 2013

A great guy and wonderful colleague. Cheryl and I send our deepest condolences to Debbie and family.

Nick and Pam Hackett

January 23, 2013

Dear Debbie, so sorry to hear this news. Glad we were able to re-connect earlier this year at Gibson Island. Our prayers are with you and the family for peace and comfort during this difficult time.

January 23, 2013

Debbie, and all the Gibbons-Neff family, immediate or extended--He was loved and respected by many people from many venues. He will be greatly missed by so many. A wonderful husband, father, grandfather, friend, provider and especially sailor. A great loss for all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult and very sad time. God Bless Him.
Susan Read

John & Jane Chobert

January 23, 2013

A true gentleman in every sense of the word. A great loss to his family and everyone who had the privilege to know him.

Sue and Jim Rosener

January 23, 2013

Jim and I are so sorry to hear this sad news. We will remember Peter as a true patriot and full of adventure. He had a great sense of humor. Our condolences go out to Debbie and family. Keep him in your heart and he will be with you forever. Cherish those great memories. With deepest sympathy, Sue and Jim Rosener

Howard Lowell

January 23, 2013

Very sorry to hear of this news. A wonderful guy. My condolences to Debbie and all the family.

January 23, 2013

Dear Debbie and Gibbons-Neff family, I keep the image of Peter at the helm, always smiling. My sailing with him was not extensive, but always warm and memorable. I will miss his hugs and wonderful smile, as I know you all will. My prayers are with you all. Love, Marty Myers

January 23, 2013

John & Camille Olinick

January 23, 2013

Our deepest sympathy

Michael & Cindee Holt

January 23, 2013

Dear Debbie and family,
We are very saddened by your loss. Peter was a great guy. I will always remember the warm welcome you both extended to Cindee and I as new members, of the Corinthian Yacht Club. Peter and I would often talk about our former Navy days, and of course boat designs. Peter will certainly be missed.

Jay and Babara Rader

January 22, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time.

Randy, Laura and Salem Maud

January 22, 2013

Dear Debbie, Seeing Peter sailing at the helm, wind in his face, sun in his eyes and smiling. We send huge hugs to you and your family as we make our way forward. We keep you all in our hearts and prayers.

Michelle Tyson-Gottfried

January 22, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time.

January 22, 2013

Dear Debbie and family,
Craig and I send our deepest sympathy. May memories bring us all great joy.
Jill TenBroeck

January 22, 2013

You have my sincere condolences and sympathy.

Betsy Stettinius

Sally Logan

January 22, 2013

We are so very sorry to hear this sad news. Our prayers are with you all. Sally and Frank Logan

Margot Johnson

January 22, 2013

I know I am one of many "honorary G-Ns" and yet that doesn't make it any less valuable. Big Peter was at the forefront of this graciousness, treating me like a daughter when he had three loving ones and numerous adopted ones already. He could have had a much better sailor on his boat than me, but he always offered me a spot. He truly ran a family campaign. Your family is in the heart and thoughts of adopted G-Ns everywhere.

Sue and Chris Dallas-Feeney

January 22, 2013

Dearest Debbie and family, we love you and pray for some peace amidst this terrible time. God be with you. Peter was a good man and will be missed. May he live eternally.
Sue and Chris

January 22, 2013

We loved Peter. He is truly "one in a million". He had a contagious love of life that he shared with everyone who came in contact with him. We loved his smile, his warmth, his sense of humor, the love of his family. Debbie and he were a beautiful and incredible couple. He leaves behind an incredible legacy. He will be missed more than words can say. It breaks out heart that he left us so soon. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We share in your grief and sadness. With much love, Rich and Gerry Jaffe'

Dawn and Bill Morton

January 22, 2013

We will miss you Peter. Your love of life and your wonderful smile will be missed. We send our love to your family and will keep them close to our hearts in our prayers. Dawn and Bill

Patrick & Sarah Ortlieb

January 22, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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