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Joseph Barilla Obituary

Joseph M. Barilla
Joseph M. Barilla, 54, of Coopersburg, PA died Monday, November 18, 2013, after fighting a courageous battle with Esophageal Cancer. Born in Levittown, PA. Joe was the son of Charlotte (Bossard) Barilla of Lehighton and the late Richard Barilla. He was the husband of Lynn W. (Weidlich) Barilla for 28 years and the loving father to daughter, Megan of Warrington, PA and Jacob of Coopersburg. Joe was a graduate of Lehighton Area High School and attended Williamsport Community College. He worked for Sysco Food and his passion was food and cooking. Joe was known as the Wingman for the great food he cooked up at the Southern Lehigh High School sporting events. You could always find Joe working in the garden, or making homemade wine. He was a member of St. Joseph Catholic Church, Coopersburg, where he ran the parish center for four years. He was a member of the Nis Hollow Hunting Club, Lehighton and was also a member of the Coast Guard Auxiliary. Survivors: Wife, daughter, son, sisters, Debra wife of Brad Doll and Kathy Millen wife of Nik Millen both of Lehighton. Services: A Mass of Christian burial will be held at 10:30 a.m. Saturday in the St. Joseph Catholic Church 5050 St. Josephs Road, Coopersburg. Call 9 to 10:30 a.m. in the church. Arrangements by Stephens Funeral Home Inc., Allentown. Please share on-line condolences at www.stephensfuneral.com. Contributions: In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Esophageal Cancer Awareness Association, P.O. Box 55071 #15530, Boston, MA 02205 or the Lehigh County Humane Society, 640 Dixon St., Allentown, 18103.

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Published by Morning Call on Nov. 19, 2013.

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David and Linda Eisenhauer

November 13, 2023

We fondly remember Joe and the family and enjoyed our time together. We hope things are going well for the family.

Eisenhauer

November 16, 2022

We fondly remember our times with Joe and his family
David & Linda & Keaton Eisenhauer

David & Linda Eisenhauer

November 13, 2021

Time passes and we continue to miss our times spent together with both of you. Best wishes to you and your family

David & Linda Eisenhauer

November 14, 2020

We think of Joe and your family every time we ride by your home remembering the friendship and fun we shared there together and the times shared coaching our children athletics together

Twila Heckler

December 18, 2013

Joe was a very wonderful man with a huge heart. It was my pleasure to have known him during his career at Sysco. I am proud to have worked with him.My heart goes out to his family.

Shelley Roecker

December 17, 2013

I'm so sorry to learn this news. Joe was a good man, kind in spirit and deed. He was one of the few people I really liked the 7 years I lived in Nis Hollow, always happy to see him coming up the driveway. Rest in Peace, big guy.

December 5, 2013

Lynn, Megan, Jake
I am truly sorry for the loss of your husband and dad. I just found out and I am so so sorry. I didn't know. my heart breaks for your loss. please know that he will be remembered fondly. Mary Lynch and family

Anne Maus

November 30, 2013

Lynn--we just heard and we are so sorry for your loss...you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers...Anne and Wayne Maus (Spinnerstown Hotel Customers)

November 27, 2013

Lynn, Megan, & Jake we are at a loss for words. Joe was a great person. We are so sorry this happened. We just learned of this and want you to know if you need anything please give us a call. David & Linda Eisenhauer

November 24, 2013

7C is thinking and praying for you all.

November 22, 2013

Lynn, Megan and Jake,We are sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you always, Scott an Jill Lutz

Lisa Schmalzried

November 22, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers for your strength and comfort.--Lisa Heine Schmalzried

Robert Weidlich

November 21, 2013

Guys,
We love you so.
Uncle Bob and Bobby

john Caricari

November 21, 2013

Joe was a good man. A fun guy to be around. God bless

LuAnn McKee

November 21, 2013

I was so sad to hear about Joe. We ALL loved him in the MPA. No matter how bad he felt he was a pleasure to be around and he fought hard. My sincere sympathy to all of you!!! Love LuAnn (MPA nurse)

Amy & Char Peters

November 20, 2013

Lynnie, Megan and Jake,
We can't begin to express how badly we feel for you all as we can't even express our sadness and we know your's is so much more. We lost a BEST friend and you lost one of the best Men we all have ever been SO lucky to Love. Just know this- we LOVE all of you so so much. Char, Amy, Justin, Callie and Joe's Godson Robert. All the people that knew him lost a wonderful and irreplaceable piece of their heart this week. Hearts, puddle jumping and whipping up a meal with, well, anything.

Wendy & EJ Victor

November 20, 2013

Lynn, Megan & Jake -

Our hearts and prayers go out to you in this time of need. Without fail, everytime he saw us walking Aadan he would come out and talk with us as the dog ran around. Growing up I can remember the vision of him walking up to the school with the dogs...he will be missed. Take comfort in knowing that he touched so many people in so many ways. With deepest sympathy....

Clint & Sue Koch

November 20, 2013

Lynn, Megan & Jake -
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He was such a postive force in the neighborhood. Even the last time we ran into him walking the dogs he was still smiling. If you need anything please let us know.

Lorrie Shelly

November 19, 2013

so sorry for your lose, Joe was always so warm and pleasant to me and my family, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. love, Lorrie Shelly and family

November 19, 2013

He is missed. So sorry for your loss. It doesn't convey enough.

Jim Snell

November 19, 2013

Lynn, Megan, & Jacob,
I can't think of a time that I saw your husband/father that he was not smiling. He appeared to love life as much as anyone I know. And, he was a gentleman. Most recently, Anne and I saw him several times in the infusion lab and he was such an inspiration to us. As always, he was most concerned about others. I can't deny the sadness and deep sense of loss, but I am thankful that I got to know him. We should all be more like him.

November 19, 2013

Lynn, Megan, and Jake,
It was my very great privilege to care for Joe. May God bless all of you at this time. Judi Doyle RN

Cheryl Dorschutz

November 19, 2013

Lynn and family,
My heart goes out to your family at this time. Joe put a smile on my face when he would come in to Rodale. I always appreciated his wonderful happy attitude towards life and good natured personality. He was truly a great man and I hope that all of your wonderful memories will bring you comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

November 19, 2013

lynn,megan,andjake, So very sorry for your loss of a good man.Are thoughts and paryers are with you. Joe,Susan, J.J. McCann

Jason & Audra Doll

November 19, 2013

Lynn, Meg, and Jake:
Uncle Joe will be sadly missed. It wasn't a holiday unless there were bagels & lox & homemade wine! We will miss his delicious wings, deep-fried turkeys and funnel-cakes! His memories will give you the strength to heal. Cherish all of them and depend on each other. We're very proud of the 3 of you for supporting Joe and being there during the most difficult task of your lives. God bless all of you! We love you guys very much!

Don & Sharon Marshall

November 19, 2013

So sorry for your lost.

November 19, 2013

Joe you were a part of business and fast became a great friend you will be very much missed with your smile and humor.
My deepest sympathy to you all in this time. Sincerely, Joseph Armato

November 19, 2013

Lynn, Megan and Jacob,

My heart is heavy and sad for the loss of your awesome husband and father. I had the pleasure of meeting Joe when we played Bunko at your house and Joe was our bartender and "chef". We will all miss his delicious dishes, his infectious smile and his warm personality. May god bless you and your family during this difficult time and may the memories of Joe fill the hole left in your hearts. Love,Dorrit

November 19, 2013

Lynn, Megan, and Jake,

So very sorry for your loss. He was an inspiration to all in so many ways. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Karen (Shadow & Riley's owner)

Maryann Lucadamo

November 19, 2013

Lynn and Family, I am shocked and saddened to read this news. Joe was a great person. So kind, funny, a genuinely great man. He loved his family and life. I met him when I worked at Rodale many years ago. Sending my love and deepest sympathy. May God bless you during this most difficult time in your life.

Maryann Sillers (Hughes)

November 19, 2013

Family of Joe
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. I was schocked to here of his passing, we went to high school together.May he rest in peace.

November 19, 2013

Joey will be missed My heart goes out to you all.

November 19, 2013

Lynn Megan & Jacob there is nothing I could say to make your family feel better but knowing you our in our thoughts & prayers love george & fran

Frieda Weeks

November 19, 2013

To the family of Joseph Barilla:
I am saddened to see another life claimed by Esophageal Cancer. While I never new Joseph, I have had an ex husband and a friend of the family die at young ages from this deadly cancer. My hearts go out to all of you in your time of grief. God bless!!!

Ron Szapacs

November 19, 2013

Joe had a way to keep people smiling and was a friend to every one. He will be missed by so many people, may he rest in a better place !

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