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Henry Griffoul Obituary

Henry Griffoul
Resident of San Jose
May 9, 1922 - June 11, 2011
Saturday, June 11, one of San Jose's proudest sons died peacefully at home, succumbing to the combined effects old age, natural causes, and a life lived completely. At Henry Griffoul's side was his wife Eileene, in the house they had built together in 1947 and in which they had celebrated 66 years of marriage. He was 89 years old. San Jose High School grad, Pearl Harbor survivor, war veteran, self-taught engineer, master machinist, and successful business owner, Henry Griffoul's first priority was always his family and nothing brought him greater pleasure than having his children, grandchildren, and great-grand daughter gathered at the family home in San Jose.
Henry Maurice Griffoul was the child of French immigrants, Henri and Sylvie, who had come separately through Ellis Island and met in the vibrant French community that arose around the mills and fine metal works of Rhode Island in the early 1900's. Shortly after his birth, the family relocated to California where his father, a master foundryman and pattern maker, had an idea for a new way to dry the French plums into prunes. The orchards of Santa Clara County welcomed the young family, and Henry grew up on N. 11th Street and then in early Willow Glen on Newport Ave.
Restless in paradise, Henry was already a year into the Naval Reserve by the time he graduated from high school in 1940. December 7, 1941, found him in Hawaii, making his way back to his ship after a night of liberty, and he was one of the first sailors to witness the attack on Pearl Harbor. His ship, the destroyer USS Phelps (DD 360) was undamaged in the attack and would spend the next four years in the thick of the Pacific war, serving in 12 major engagements that included Coral Sea, Midway, and Guadalcanal. The Phelps' luck nearly ran out in Saipan, June 1944, when it was heavily damaged by shore batteries while providing close fire support to advancing American troops. As Machinist Mate First Class, Henry was tasked with running the engines in the #1 engine room (where, he assured his mother, he was safely below decks and out of harm's way). One of the enemy shells hit the bridge, and another went directly down the blower tube into the #2 fire room, killing its crew and cutting the destroyer's power output in half. Somehow, the ship survived the engagement, but its damages were so severe they could not be handled at Pearl Harbor or in any of the west coast yards. The Phelps made the slow trip to the Brooklyn Navy Yard for a thorough refit and a welcomed respite after 2 years at sea.
It was in Brooklyn that Henry met a young Irish American woman named Eileene Durkin, and by the time the Phelps had completed its refit only a few weeks later, they were married. It would be years before Henry's mother learned that Eileene, a tall good-looking brunette, was in fact not a dancer at Minski's but had actually worked in accounts receivable at Squibb's Pharmaceuticals.
After the war Henry returned to San Jose with his young bride to briefly work in his father's foundry on Pomona Ave. He left that to work nearby at Westinghouse making steam turbine blades, ironically, nearly identical to those in his old engine room. An opportunity at San Jose Steel to join, and then run the fence division in the early 50's continued his professional advancement until 1953, when he and a partner started Alloy Wire Belt Co., a manufacturer of wire conveyance systems that grew from a rented workshop on Phelan Ave. to a multi-building production facility built on property purchased next door. As his company grew, so did his family, so that by 1957 two daughters and two sons filled the house, which had already been added onto three times.
Henry brought to his family life the lessons he had learned aboard ship and in shops. All of his children received unstinting support, whether it be in Boy Scouts, artistic endeavors, or athletic competition. He could rebuild a potter's wheel or a track bike with equal alacrity, and his help was never the stuff of sacrifice; he was just there when needed with a quiet competence and the simple pride of a job well done. Those values of quality, fairness, and responsibility were gifts that, more than any other part of his generosity, enriched his family and made his friends the life-long variety.
Following his retirement in 1980, Henry once again sought to "see the world," this time with Eileene as they enjoyed wonderful tours of the United States and Europe, as well as making a number of return visits to Pearl Harbor. He was an active member of the Pearl Harbor Survivors organization and the USS Phelps shipmate group, and enjoyed "hitting the beach" again with former shipmates in cities all around the country. He also volunteered his professional expertise to SIRS International, and with Eileen provided many hours of service to the Cripple Children's' Society of Santa Clara County.
He is survived by his wife Eileene, daughter Maureene Hay (Rick), son Richard Griffoul (Laura), daughter Michelle Griffoul, and son Matthew Griffoul (Sharon). Each of his four children has two children, a girl and a boy each. Henry enjoyed that accidental symmetry, and especially liked the fact that all his children continue to reside in California.
Funeral service, Thursday 6/16/2011 at 11 AM at Lima Family Santa Clara, 466 N. Winchester Blvd. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the charity of your choice.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Jun. 14, 2011.

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Stephen Jones

June 16, 2011

I was honored to work for Henry at Alloy Wire Belt Co. Henry
gave a smart mouthed kid a chance. Henry taught me that
all American work ethic that has followed me for all of my life. Henry gave me my first good paying job, and the opportunity to buy the house that I raised my daughter in,
and still reside in, where my grandson comes to play. Thank you Henry for everything you did for me and my family. Thank you for your service to our country.
Stephen Jones

Jeff Calhoun

June 15, 2011

I want to join Eileene and all of Henry's family in their celebration of Henry's incredible life. I had the privilege of working with Henry Griffoul for over 2 years prior to his retirement from Alloy Wire Belt in 1982. Henry was honest, a hard worker, and a true craftsman who demanded perfection of all including himself. I learned a great deal from working with Henry that helped me later in my career. While I had not spoken to Henry for many years, I had thought of him often with affection and respect. I know his family and friends will miss him terribly. My wife, Debbie, and I send our thoughts and prayers to his family and many friends with sympathy.

Cynthia Warner

June 15, 2011

I was not fortunate to have meet Henry Griffoul, but if his son Matthew is anything like his father than Henry must have been a great MAN! Life is a privilege and Henry seamed to have lived it to its fullest. My best to his family through this time of loss and fortunate they will have wonderful memories to remember him by!
A friend

Papa told me long ago his heart had a tank in it that ran of of kisses. Here I am, "filling his tank."

Sonja Griffoul

June 14, 2011

Papa was a wonderful man who left me with many memories. We would eat popcies (popsicles), watch Monk or WWE, eat scrambled eggs and toast with quince jam, the morning after I spent the night I would sneak in bed between he and my Mama, listen to stories about how he and she met, or the war, or how much he adored his parents and how he would sing all over the house. Although I am sad to lose him, I am so thnkful for the 23 years I did have him. Papa was one of a kind and I couldn't have been blessed with a better grandfather and role model.

Your Plum,
Sonja

Luke Marden

June 14, 2011

I will never forget the many miles we steamed together aboard Phelps. It was comforting to know that you were in the engine room keeping us going.
Farewell, shipmate....

June 14, 2011

I feel blessed to have known Henry for the past 20 years. He was very honest and always told you the truth. And, he was a great story teller. He led a colorful life with Eileen at his side. Henry I will miss you greatly. Don and Dee Maher.

In loving memory of our wonderful times in Hawaii.

John & Laura McCabe

June 13, 2011

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