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Austin Bohn
June 1, 2024
I am 27 years old now, the age Alexis would have been if she were still with us. Today I found myself alone in my parents' house, thinking about growing up, the people in my life now, and how much has already changed in my short life. I grew up going to school with Alexis. I remember my seat assignment being next to hers for much of our fifth-grade year in Mr. Hogue's class. We painted our picket fence snowmen and pieced our paper mosaics together while our teacher read the book *Swindle* by Gordon Norman out loud. I remember storing our math and social studies books in cubbies along the lower part of the front wall of the brand-new classroom. Blossom Hill had just finished construction, and we had been in little portable classrooms for the past two years. Our cubbies were next to each other. From what I can remember, they were alphabetized, as many things were in elementary school.
Throughout our elementary school years, if we were ever in the same class, we were always next to each other during fire drills, school assemblies, field trips, and other activities. When you are that young, elementary school seems like your whole life, and at that point, it really is. That's all we had really experienced up until then. After school, I would practice my stick skills for lacrosse against the wall of the school, and I would watch the softball teams play in the back corner field in their black and teal uniforms. I always thought it was cool that I got to sit next to the pitcher, the leader of the team.
Alexis was always soft-spoken and incredibly kind. I always viewed her as one of my friends. Although it has been a number of years, I still find myself thinking of her. It is difficult to impart my memories into this memorial, but they still pop into my mind now and again. She was taken from us far too soon, and I cannot help but wonder where she would be if she were still with us now. Part of her memory lives with me, and I feel its weight every time I think of her. Life is not fair. Her absence is still felt by many. Alexis will always be missed.
Daniel Snyder
March 31, 2022
I was at Blossom Hill school today (3/31/22) and noticed one (and ONLY one) sycamore tree with full green leaves. All the others were bare. I looked at the base, and found the plaque erected by Troop 10 in memory of Alexis.
Something very special is making this tree brighter, greener, and leading its peers. I felt her presence.
David Forbes
August 23, 2016
My older daughter played in Alexis' tournament twice. I'm excited that my team will play in it this year. As I read Alexis' obituary, I couldn't help but draw a few parallels to my sister Linda's battle with pancreatic cancer: courage, grace, family, true knowledge of what it really means to live. We lose great inspirational people who have left us way too early, but have touched so many lives. I find it beautiful, powerful, and comforting that we remember their lives and the examples they set with how they faced adversity, gave back, and lived. We never forget them, we think about them daily, and their influence continues to impact our lives and spread like a ripple in the water to touch people who never knew them. We carry their memories and our love for them in our hearts.
Lois Moore
July 25, 2015
It is amazing that six years have passed since Alexis left this world. While I know she is in a place where she has no more pain and is happy and whole once more, yet I remember her often and still miss her. She and your family have been on my heart and mind a lot these past few weeks. Alexis and Alexandra were baptized together, and as Alexandra grows, I think of the things Alexis would be doing. Next month she would be off to college. Kay and Kael, I will always remember Alexis, and you will always be in my prayers.
Kyla Rienhart
October 13, 2013
I've never met Alexis but I've played in her softball memorial tournament many times. I play on magic, the same team Alexis played on. We wore pink bows in our hair in her honor and we all kept thinking of her. It's amazing that I can miss someone I never even knew so much. Hope you're having fun playing softball from above Alexis. We all miss you.
I wanted to give this to you Alexis, but I guess I missed my timeslot.
Natalie Mercik
December 9, 2012
Even though I really only knew Alexis because of Annika, I feel like I have known her forever, like she she was my best friend. I have had Kael as my coach on the Magic and in rec. As I know your family has been prospering even with this terrible loss. I remember when a few years ago I was lucky enough to have Kael as my coach. We had just played in our first fall tournament and we had won the whole thing. Kael did the most beautiful thing, when he got to the number 3 when we were handing out trophies, he held up to the sky and told Alexis what a great job she had done. Like she was still here, because it definitely felt like it
I love you Alexis and miss you very much. AJB #3 forever in our hearts!
The Spears family
October 14, 2012
My twin girls just played in the Alexis Briski 2012 tournament this weekend. Our hearts go out to the Briski family. We are deeply sorry for your loss.
andie jue
September 17, 2012
The hardest part about selling our house next to yours was the fear that we would forget all the funny things that happened there. All the sleep overs, forts, four square games we played i will never forget. Alexis you taught me what friendship is, and what it's like to have a sister. I will never be able to replace you or find anyone that could come close to you. I love you so much.
Kathryn
September 12, 2012
I can't express how much you've made a difference in my life. I miss Alexis everyday. I remember playing at the pool before she went to the doctor and I remember her joy and courage everyday. She inspired me in so many ways. Thank you.
Felicia Daily
August 8, 2011
in memory of Alexis
The Lord saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be,
So He put his arms around you
And whispered, Come with me.
With tearful eyes, we watched you suffer
And saw you fade away,
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
A beautiful smile at rest,
God broke our hearts to prove
He only takes the best.
Its lonesome here without you
We miss you so each day,
Our lives aren't the same
Since you went away.
When days are sad and lonely,
And everything goes wrong,
We seem to hear you whisper,
Cheer up and carry on.
Each time we see your picture,
You seem to smile and say,
Don't cry, I'm in Gods keeping,
Well meet again someday.
Sandi Ellis
June 23, 2011
My two granddaughter's play softball with the Carmel Stingers. One is a pitcher like Alexis and one plays 3rd base. My heart goes out to your family. I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose one of my beautiful granddaughters. Every moment is precious. At one of the Los Gatos tournaments I bought Alexia braclets for all of us and to this day I have it close at hand to wear during softball. Our whole family was touched deeply by her story. Alexis was an amazing little girl with so much courage and a lesson to be learned by all of us. May all the wonderful memories of her remain in your hearts forever. God Bless you. Sandi Ellis of Pacific Grove
May 3, 2011
My goodness another year has gone by but it still hasn't gotten any easier.
Andie and Alexis truly loved one another. We miss her every day. Alexis taught Andie what friendship is and if she ever finds another friend that is half as great as Lexis she will consider herself very very lucky. We love you guys all very much.
Susie Fiedler
Sydney Tucker
April 14, 2011
Me and Alexis Briski were so close.... She was an amzing friend and was so fun to be around. When i heard that she got cancer it blew me away. I knew that she was a strong and independent woman. I knew that she could handle this experience. Knowing that she passed away was really hard for me and my mom. I remebered in the processe of cancer she would come over for dinner and we would play so many fun games. She is the best girl in the whole world. She is fun to play softball with and just has such a big heart. She is always going to be with me. Not only beside me but in my heart:) I love you so much Alexis Briski! I will never forget u.....
Sydney Tucker (a freind and softball teammate forever)
June 16, 2010
Happy Birthday Alexis... We love and miss you dearly..
Teamate
May 10, 2010
It has been almost a year since you passed, and although you are gone forever, i cant help but wish you were here with us today. i PLayed softball with you for many years and we visited you for the last time the day before my birthday, you passed away three days after. I will always remember you and honor you, you are such a hero to me and many other people. I truly love you.
Lindsey Philips
March 18, 2010
Alexis was 1 of my best friends. It still feels like she is here but she is only in my heart. She never gave up. Everyday I think of her about how she is doing without me and her friends. Alexis I Rly loved u<3 your daughter shined a kind and caring light on every1's day. I hope u r doing well briski family and mr.briski the speech u made about the saintbaldricks day made me cry tears of joy just like I am now.
Montana Sprague
September 20, 2009
Dear Briski Family,
My name is Montana Sprague and I am 11 years old. My softball team (the Carmel Stingers) was going to play in a tournament in Seaside, but then we heard about the tournament for Alexis so we're going to play there for her instead. We never heard of Alexis before this week, but then I looked at her pictures and I remember playing against her team last year. Now I can't stop thinking about her. We are the same age, she was a pitcher and infielder like I am, I love to go to the Monterey Aquarium, and my younger sister, Anika, and I were the flower girls on a Monterey beach when our parents renewed their wedding vows. I never even met Alexis, but I feel like we would have been best friends. I wish I could have known her.
It will be an honor to play in her tournament next month.
Sincerely,
Montana
Emma Moser
June 15, 2009
I was on a soft ball team with Alexis. I even remember havingg Mr. Briski as a coach. I am 12 now. I know she was caring and thoughtful. I heard about this on yahoo messenger from my friend. I couldn't stop crying. I am very sorry Briski Family. I have said prayers for the departed every night since. I helped Alexis' English teacher send balloons filled with notes and helium up to heaven for her. We all hope she got them.
Jackie Clessuras
June 2, 2009
Dear Briski Family,
We have only spoke a few times in church, but your family has always been so kind and positive given all that is on your plate. You are truly an inspiration to all families and Alexis who gave so many strength when she needed it for herself. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we will miss her dearly.
Cristina Wagner
May 30, 2009
Sending you prayers from Houston,TX
We have never met you but I know of Alexi through Lu Ann and Natalie. Please know that your family has been in my thoughts and prayers.
Lifting you and yours
Cristina
(Houston TX)
Mary Gasgonia
May 30, 2009
To the Briski Family,
I feel so blessed to have met Alexis during her treatment. She is a very good girl and patient. I have very nice memories of her that I will always keep in my heart. I can feel your loss as she is not just a patient to me but like a daughter too. I know she is up there in heaven hiking with all the angels. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rose and Al Denzer
May 29, 2009
To the Briski Family,
No parent should have to bare the loss of their child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Bev Manzano
May 29, 2009
To the Briski family,
We are deeply touched and saddened by your loss. Although we have known Alexis and your family for only a short while, you have been in our thoughts and prayers for the past year. We feel blessed to have met Alexis, a kind, unique and beautiful person. Our hearts go out to you at this very difficult time.
Bourke Family
May 29, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. Please allow God's word the Bible to provide you comfort during this difficult time.
Kathy Villarreal
May 28, 2009
On behalf of the North County Raptors 10U team and the North Monterey County Youth Softball Association,we offer condolences to the Briski family. While Alexis only had a few years on this earth, they seem to have been definately fruitful years,being an inspiration to those who knew and loved her.The ability to touch the lives of others, as Alexis has, is truly a gift from God that will continue to guide and inspire others! May you find strength and comfort in the upcoming days, knowing that your sweet Alexis is pain free, and forever smiling down upon you.
Erika Barrier
May 28, 2009
I only knew Alexis for a short time. I enjoyed her presence and am very sorry for her family. My dad told me that now I don't have to text her anymore, I can just talk to her whenever I want to. I miss her a lot and still pray for her and her family.
Gerri Hodson
May 28, 2009
I'll always remember Alexis as she proudly showed off her new baby sister Emily. She was so maternal and sweet. I also think of the big day we met when she was on her way to get the hated braces off. Joy is such a perfect name for her.
Laurie Miller
May 28, 2009
While I only knew the Briski family for a short while when I taught in Matthew's class at Grace Preschool, I wanted to let you all know how much Alexis' journey these last few months has touched my life. I wish you all peace...and a special hug to Matthew from "Mrs. Miller".
Heidi Hagler
May 28, 2009
To the Briski family, your path has been an inspiration to all of us with children. Alexis' wonderful spirit has touched so many people. You are in our thoguts and prayers. With love from the Hagler Family.
The Bohns
May 28, 2009
Dear Briskis:
We are so sorry for your tremendous loss. Austin considered Alexis to be a special and unique friend and will miss her dearly. Our hearts go out to you and cannot even imagine being in your shoes.
Alexis and your family have handled this absolutely terrible situation with such courage and grace and are models for us all. Your daughter was such a fighter and had a great spirit which she was able to share with others. In her short time here, she touched many lives.
Thank you for sharing your daughter and her journey with us. We can all take life lessons from Alexis and your family.
While Alexis will be missed dearly and never forgotten, we can take comfort that she is now in a better place, whole, happy and pain free. She will be waiting and preparing a place for all of us to join up with her again someday.
We love you guys.
The Schoenbein Family
May 28, 2009
We only knew Alexis through our granddaughters eyes. What a special young lady she was. We are so sorry for your loss and our loss. Now like you said we have gone from and Angel here on earth to an Angel in Heaven. God Bless your whole family.
Olga Whitman from ACOR
May 28, 2009
Dear Briski Family;
My heart is breaking for you and I am so sorry about your loss , I wish there was something I could do or say to take that pain away.
Alexis is a hero in my eyes , having seen my own daughter go through osteosarcoma treatment I know that Alexis is a hero that fought with courage and determination to the very end.
May you all find the strength and courage to get through the next few months as best as possible.
May 28, 2009
To Kael and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember you coming into the LeTip meeting after Alexis was born and the pure joy on your face. Know that she is with the angels now and that her pain is gone. She will always be watching over you, Kay and her siblings.
May God Bless you during this very difficult time.
Sofia and Bob Widgren
Brett & Cici Sutton
May 28, 2009
Kael,
Just wanted to let you know that Alexis and your family are in our prayers and thoughts at this time. Sorry we can't be there in person but know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Robin Stern
May 28, 2009
We'd like to express our deepest sympathy for the loss of Alexis. We knew your family at Washington Open and were always impressed by Alexis' sweetness and kindness with our daughter Zoe. Your family has always been so strong and kind, and we wish you peace.
Nori (Wood) Jabba and Family
May 27, 2009
Kael and Family,
What a sad day and what a beautiful obituary. Alexis touched many hearts and will be remembered even by those she never met. (I knew Kael as a child in Los Altos.)
Anonymous 12 year old
May 27, 2009
i have known alexis and have always admired her passion and love for just about everything. she was an amazing girl and i am extremely sad for our loss of her. i have been seeing councelers to help the grieving and have learned that the spot in my heart for her will never be filled with someone else...but to me she is not gone. she is still with us and we have nothing but good memories of alexis. i love her so much and will never let her leave my heart. my love and thoughts to the briski family....let us all remember that alexis was not only a person, but an angel. her message to us was to live life fullest until the last moment, and alexis did just that. she was always so happy and had an amazing attitude and courage. i will never forget her and she is my role model. forever and always....alexis.
Maris Whitney
May 27, 2009
Dear Briski Family, Please accept the condolences of another Los Gatos Saratoga Softball League family. We never met your daughter, but she sounds like she was a beautiful girl, in body and spirit. May God be with you during this time of loss and help you with your grieving. Sincerely, The Whitney Family
Anne Forsythe
May 27, 2009
I am so very sorry. There is really nothing more to say. I am weeping with you.
A Peer
May 27, 2009
I can't say I knew Alexis that well, but I know she was courageous, and kind, and sweet. After reading this, I can feel like I knew her, and all of her beauty.
Anonymous 12 Year Old
May 27, 2009
Although I did not get the chance to meet Alexis, my peers and friends always spoke highly of her talents and attitude. There were many great things said about Alexis; her love of Softball, her kind and gentle heart, her compassion and love for all things. My deepest condolences to the Briski family. May Alexis's amazing spirit live on forever.
Ivy Wang
May 27, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Alexis is a great inspiration to Fisher kids, she will be missed.
May 27, 2009
Dear Briski family-
Our daughters play softball for Almaden Lightning and we were alerted to her passing via the Morgan Hill Pride tournament being hosted this weekend. As a parent and fellow softball mom I felt compelled to extend our deepest sympathies. In looking at the photos of Alexis on the LGSGSA website I see my own girls in her and cannot imagine your immense loss. We play the Magic on Saturday and we intend to honor Alexis at our game.
With great sorrow for your loss-
Almaden Lightning Mom
Dori Gillin
May 27, 2009
We are still trying to wrap our minds around this world of cancer that our family has been thrown into un-expectedly since November. When we first met you it was in December at the "Fantasy Flight" event. We are so sorry for you all and we are shocked and angry at how fast this beautiful little girl with an amazing smiley face has been taken from this world. Our thoughts are with you...
Your friends from 1 north, Pat and Dori Gillin
Hiruni Jayasekera
May 27, 2009
I love you Alexis! I know you are out there looking out for us and over us. We will always love you. Alexis is one of the bravest and strongest people in the world. I remember when she came to school and was telling me how much her arm was hurting, but she still played 2 square with us and pitched at her softball game. She is the strongest and most brave people i know. I love you.
Mark Freschi
May 27, 2009
Kael,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Knowing you, I'm sure that Alexis is every bit as special as her lovely obituary describes. I hope your family comes through this stronger and even more commited to each other .
Mark Freschi & Family
Naomi Bowman (formerly Wood)
May 27, 2009
Dear Briski Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your tremendous loss. We hope that you will find comfort in the memories of this amazing child. My twin sister and I went to Loyola with Kael, who lived not too far from us growing up. May your world be free of cancer and full of Joy.
Keith Larson
May 27, 2009
Our son, Charlie, is in Matthew's kindergarten class and we would like to extend our deepest sympathies to each and every member of the Briski family. After reading this lovely tribute to your daughter, Kael, I'm sure Alexis is telling all the angels within earshot that her little brother, Matthew, is so courageous for coming to school on Tuesday. I never knew Alexis, but this moving prose ensures that her memory and spirit will live in our hearts forever.
Kindest regards,
Keith Larson, wife Aileen, and sons Charles and Henry
Tamara Malik
May 27, 2009
We remember your family so well from Grace Preschool. I remember when Lauren came to Matthew's birthday parties at your house and Alexis always played so nicely with the little kids. We are grieving for all of you on the loss of beautiful Alexis and knowing you are at peace that she is in heaven with our Heavenly Father. With love, Tamara Malik
Linda Yepiz
May 27, 2009
Welcome home Alexis - you are free. What a very special girl you were. Thank you for the text messages and for appreciating my weird sense of humor. God bless you.
B B
May 27, 2009
Alexis Joy Briski a very inspiring life filled with Love & a great Spiritual awareness.I just heard about her on KRTY radio this morning.The DJ was in awe of her story so I felt compelled to read it.She left so much to live by for her loving family friends team mates & all who read her story.My Grandaughter plays softball & I remember the travel teams from Los Gatos.They probably at one point played each other.GOD Blessed you all in having her in your life even for this short time.She lived a full life in a very short time.I know the pain of losing a child as I lost My Sonshine,my first born in 1990 to a tragic accident.He was also loved and inspiring to all that knew him.There is & always will be a void but having such a Beautiful Soul in your life is an eternity of gratefulness.GOD speed to this Beautiful Young Lady & many many Blessings to all she touched.I am in awe myself of this touching loving story.Beautifully written with Pride that truly shines through every word.GOD Bless you all & comfort you all in your journey.It sounds like you are a very tight knit family.Alexis is always with you all but you already know that.My Heartfelt sympathy to you all.Peace & Love to Alexis.
Diana Davis
May 27, 2009
Gary Scott Thomas of KRTY mentioned this morning the passing of Alexis and urged all his listners to read her obituary in the Mercury News to give people a chance to know this wonderful little girl. Reading this gave me a chance to know Alexis. She seemed like a lovely little girl and I am sure she is going to be missed. God Bless you all!
Dayna
May 27, 2009
I heard about your little angel on the radio and had to read her obituary. It really touched my heart.
She is a special little angel watching down on all of us. What a speacial gift you had to know and love her.
What a special gift I had to read about her. Thank you for sharing your beautiful angels story.
She is with God and one day we will all see her again.
God bless you, your family and your angel in heaven.
Jim and Jean Florence
May 27, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We know "Our Eli" and your Alexis are in heaven pitching the greatest ballgame ever.
Jim and Jean Florence
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