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Connie Richmond-Shoals

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Connie Richmond-Shoals Obituary

Connie Ramona Richmond-Shoals

Resident of San Jose

Jan. 27, 1958-Oct.16, 2010

Connie passed away of Pancreatic Cancer, at El Camino Hospital with family and friends by her side. Preceded in death by parents Lindsay and Fannie Mae Richmond, sister Rosa J. Richmond-Blevins, nephew Matthew Blevins and sister In-law Estella Johnson. Connie is survived by her daughters Yolanda Shoals, Theresa (Aaron) Wohlgemuth and three grandsons, Declan, Logan and Korben. Siblings; Devon Johnson, Jackie Pope, Trudy-Ann Richmond, Ronald (Virginia) Richmond, Brenda Richmond and Wanda Richmond-Cox. She leaves behind many nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, and uncles.

Connie enjoyed spending time with her family, shopping, gardening, and doing home improvement projects. Connie will be missed enormously by all who knew her; her smile and laughter will live on forever in our hearts.

Visitation/viewing will be on Tuesday October 26, 2010 from 2:30 - 9:00 pm at Cedar Lawn Memorial Park located at 48800 Warm Springs Blvd, Fremont, CA 94539, 1 (510) 656-5565. Services will be at 10:30am on Wednesday October 27, 2010 (same place). Close friends are welcome to attend a gathering with family immediately following the burial services.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Oct. 24, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Connie Richmond-Shoals

96 Entries

Ruth Milliken

October 20, 2024

I will always cherish the memories of Connie. I especially remember visiting the family in San Jose, along with my sister in the 70s.

Ruth Richmond Milliken

Ruth Richmond Milliken

October 18, 2022

Connie will always remain in the hearts and memories of the Richmond family members. I fondly remember spending a week in San Jose along with my sister, many years ago. It was a fun time reconnecting with family.
Ruth Richmond Milliken

Brenda Richmond

October 18, 2022

Hey sis still missing ya and will never forget you
Love you

Ruth Milliken

October 18, 2020

Connie is still remembered fondly by her Richmond family in Maryland, South Carolina, Florida, Texas, Nevada, Ohio and North Carolina. I remember visiting, along with my sister Tut, with Uncle Lindsay, Aunt Fannie and the rest of the family in San Jose. It was a joyful visit!

Ruth Richmond Milliken
Cousin

Ruth Richmond Milliken

October 19, 2019

Connie will always be remembered fondly by the Baltimore, MD branch of the Richmond family.

Brenda Richmond

October 18, 2019

Still and will forever miss ya sis

Denise (Rena) Washington

October 24, 2013

When I said todays date out loud I relized that today marked 1 year. I also relized how much I think about and miss you. We had said we were going to do alot of things with our kids and grand kids in the years to come. I becaome sad when I think about how thats not going to happen anymore. In the end, I smiled when I remembered our last conversation. You were right.(I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. It's still our secret) RIP. Your girls are still moving forward and seem happy. What more can a mother ask for?

October 24, 2013

Another year has gone by Mommy. How in the world have I survived without seeing you or speaking to you in 3 whole, long years. I miss you so much and wish you were here giving me your loving and encouraging words of wisdom. The boys are getting so big. I know you are watching over them and the rest of us. Thank you so much for everything you taught me. We love you and miss you everyday.

Love you Mommy,
Rese

Theresa

October 16, 2012

We love you and miss you so much Mommy. I think of you daily and wish you were here but I know you are in a better place. The boys miss you and talk about you whenever they see you pictures. I'll make sure they never forget you and that Masen knows how great his Grandma Connie was. Love you Mommy. Rese

Patti Wohlgemuth

October 16, 2012

Thoughts of you today, another year has gone by. The grandkids are growing so fast, sending big hugs from us all.

May 21, 2012

Hey Sis,

Woke up this morning for the first time as an official "Empty Nester". We always talked about who would get there first, I guess I win!! Yep, JuJu-Brett moved out this weekend to their first Apt, I'm really feeling lonely now w/o you to hang out with and share my feelings with. I'm sure you're seeing it all from Heaven and you'll walk me thru dealing with things. You're with me always and I hope I'm not burning your ear off too much talking to you every day. Londa and I have been hanging out a little lately, it's just like old times w/you. I miss you so much Connie and I will always LOVE you, you should have 2 new arrivals to listen to up there, Donna Summers & Robin Gibb checked in this weekend, they had their "Last Dance" here with us and now they get to keep on singing for all of you in Heaven. Well, 'till we talk again - keep smiling Sis (say hey to the family).

Love you,
Sister Trudy

Patti Wohlgemuth

May 19, 2012

Thinking of you, it's just one of those days we just have to stop and think of all our family here and there. Miss you and hugs from us and the grandchildren.xo

Barbara Shoals

February 9, 2012

Connie, you are still in our thoughts. Love to family and friends. She will be missed by us all for years to come. Praying for strenght and understanding.

brenda richmond

January 28, 2012

Ok I'm a day late and a dollar short, as fannie used to say. I thought about ya all day long yesterday. Well I know you had a good day as you do everyday up above all the drama.
Anyway Lov ya and miss ya everyday.
Sundae says hi and is keeping an eye on me :-)

Trudy Richmond

January 27, 2012

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Connie, I want to let you know that I'm thinking of you today on your special day. I miss you so much since you left. It still feels as if you left yesterday, the pain is still fresh as I know it always will be. Everyone is still lost trying to figure out why you had to go. I know it was the best thing so your pain would go away. I prey that you are pain free forever now. I love you & I'll continue to watch out for your girls just as I promised.

Love you Forever,
Sister Trudy

Yolanda Nerio

November 6, 2011

Dear Connie, Couldn't make it to your resting place on 10/16/11 but my love and prayers were included in the flowers I sent. Again, thank you for being a friend and helping me get back on the path to Faith. Been praying for you at Church every Sunday, girl. Luv ya and miss ya lots...Yolie

Barbara Shoals

October 25, 2011

Hey, Connie, just wanted to let u know you have been missed by the Shoals family. Also, my sister just made her arrival up there. Her name is Veronica. She is very sweet just like you. If u see her let her know she is missed also. We love you and will see you on that great day.

October 24, 2011

Hey Sis, as the deadline approached for your legacy book to close you know I just couldn't let that happen. It's like loosing you all over again. We are not ready to close the chapter of your life so I'm renewing this book so that anyone who wishes can continue to post memories of you. The first year was tough and it hasn't gotten any easier. You are in my thoughts daily and on my mind constantly (I'm sure know this). I still feel your presence close by and it comforts my. I keep your spot open next to me each Sunday in church & I know you are there with me. I miss you more than you could ever imagine. I love you forever and a hole is in my heart w/o you next to me. I'm sure you know you have grandson #4 about to make his arrival (Reese was hoping for a mini you) but you were one of a kind (smile) and can never be replaced. I miss you, but the Lord had a job for you upstairs. Show him how special you turned out ok. Until we get to hang out together again, keep 'em in line and laughing.

LOVE & MISS YOU FOREVER - Sister Trudy

October 19, 2011

Connie was one of the sweetest people I have known. My thoughts continue to be with your family. May the Lord give your comfort as you remember the loss of your beautiful sister and friend. Jacquelyn Young

brenda richmond

October 12, 2011

Sis, as the days get closer to the date that was one of the saddest days in our lives, I’m feeling as if I’m missing you even more. The pain has not stopped and I don’t believe it will get any easier to be without you. I know you have seen all that I have because you are watching over me (keeping me safe). This weekend will be rough but we will handle it as we do and get on with our business.
LUV ALWAYS

June 15, 2011

Patti Wohlgemuth

June 15, 2011

Your in our thoughts today. You will always live in our hearts. From one Grandma to another here are your hugs from the boys xo...
We miss you...

December 15, 2010

Jacquelyn Young

November 3, 2010

My heart missed a beat when I read that Connie had passed. I remember her wonderful smile and great personality. Although we had loss touch with each other in recent years, I often thought of her and Trudy with a smile. I pray that the Lord provides you with comfort during this time. Let me know if there is anything I can do.

Yolanda Nerio

October 31, 2010

Connie: During Sunday Mass this morning, in remembrance of All Souls Day, I lit candles in your honor and for all of our loved ones that have passed on before us. Rest in Peace, with the Lord. Luv ya and miss ya...

The Pumpkin Patch

Patti Wohlgemuth

October 29, 2010

Connie we are thinking of you today. Your grandchildren and nephews went to the pumpkin patch and found their pumpkins for halloween. The kids share a pumpkin with you. Rest in peace

Andrea Bruton

October 29, 2010

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Ruth Richmond Milliken

October 28, 2010

Hello Cousins. I was so sorry to hear about the loss of Connie. I know you will miss her deeply but you have lovely memories in your heart. My sister, Tut and I visited the family in San Jose when Aiesha was a baby. We stayed with Uncle Lindsay, Aunt Fannie and the rest of the family for about a week. Much love to all of you.

Logan's Birthday 2008

Danny Sanchez

October 27, 2010

Dear Connie,

I have two words for you...Thank You!

In this tough time, I want to thank you for providing me with memories of you. It makes me smile when I think back to time spent with you and your family. Whether it was attending family parties, hanging out at the house, or taking a trip to the mall, I always had a good laugh with you and your girls. I feel so lucky to have known you and to have Theresa and Yolanda as one of my closest friends. You will be missed, but never forgotten because you have prepped us all with wonderful memories that will love on in our hearts forever!

October 27, 2010

My love and prayers to the Shoals family (Terri we love you).
Lena Avery

Barbara Shoals

October 27, 2010

I am so thankful to have known Connie. I will always remember her smiling face. I am also glad that we were able to say our goodbyes on today. I read a poem at her celebration called, A Dash Poem. I hope and pray that all who heard it will take heed.

Giovanni Jones

October 27, 2010

I miss Connie Richmond-Shoals. She was a very nice woman and loved to work at home to do projects.She also love playing games that deal with thinking. She was very important in my life.When i needed something she would figure something out.I miss you.

October 26, 2010

My thought and prayer go out to her daughters and grandsons. May God bless and keep you, Love, Pam Jamison RDH

John (Demory) Lightner

October 26, 2010

I have very found memories of spending the summer with Connie and the family when I was a child. Although it has been many years since I have spoken to Connie I thought about her often. My prayers are with her daughters and grandsons and other family members in this time of sorrow.

Michelle Lightner

October 26, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Lori, Josie and Angelina Steward

October 26, 2010

Brenda, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this time. Know that we are here for you and love you very much. Lori, Josie, Angelina

Brittney Cox

October 25, 2010

"If tears could build a stairway, And memories a lane, I'd walk right up to Heaven And bring you home again." I will miss my Auntie Connie more than words can describe, but I know that I am blessed to have had such a wonderful person apart of my life. I will always remember her gentle smile and one of a kind laugh. RIP Auntie Connie, I love you.

Charlotte Watkins

October 25, 2010

Theresa, Yolanda, Devon, Trudy, Jackie, Ronald & Virgie, Brenda, & Wanda - we are so sorry for your loss. Connie will be sorely missed. I'm so thankful for the time we were able to share together. Be blessed cousins. Love & prayers, Charlotte, Mark & Andrew

Robyn Dudley

October 25, 2010

Connie was not merely one of my closest friend’s sister, she was my friend. Connie was a true sweetheart and always had a smile on her face, even when telling the story of how she severely broke her ankle (and tried to walk on it) while visiting her daughter and her family in Arizona. I will never forget that gentle voice and her ever present smile. My sincere condolences to the family and all of her friends – I know there is an endless number of you. We were all so blessed to have encountered Connie. Until we meet again, I will miss you, my friend.

Michael Cox

October 25, 2010

When I heard of Connies passing I started to cry, but all I could hear was her loving and fun voice in my mind. It brought a warm smile back to my face. Though she has moved on to a better place, her thoughts and memories will always be in our hearts and minds. She will be forever missed, but always with us. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. We love you all, the Cox Family.

Janalle Calkins

October 25, 2010

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Connie, your family will have a treasure trunk full of great and wonderful memories.

brenda richmond

October 25, 2010

As we go foward I beleive it is important we do not forget about those who we have loved in the past. A love that is so deep it continues to burn deep in our heart, it sometimes feels like a pain that is there to remind us we should never forget that special someone.

Rob & Patti Wohlgemuth

October 25, 2010

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Jina Thomas

October 25, 2010

Connie will be missed. She was a woman who inspired us all. Now she is in a better place without pain and suffering. she will be the angel shining over us, and the memories will be in our hearts forever.

Yolanda Nerio

October 24, 2010

To Devon, Jackie, Trudy, Dedde, Ronald & Brenda: My deepest condolences for the loss of your sister, Connie. She was kindhearted, funny, and sweet. She is with the Lord now, watching over us. God Bless you all.

Yolanda Nerio

October 24, 2010

To Landa and Rici: Your mother, Connie, was a blessing to all of us; always cheerful (just like the picture)and kind to others. I feel very honored to have met your entire extended family and will always cherise the friendships I developed with you all. My sincerest condolenses for your loss and God Bless you all.

Trudy-Ann Richmond

October 24, 2010

Rest in peace sister, I will love and miss you for the rest of my life. It's going to be lonely here without you. Until we get the chance to hang out again in Heaven, say hello to the rest of the family when they greet you...

Love, forever and always,
Sister Trudy

Trudy-Ann Richmond

October 24, 2010

Connie,

I will miss hanging out with you drinking coffee and shopping for electronics every weekend. I will forever be blessed to have been your sister for all of our lives, save me a seat next to you, until then I'll look out for your girls and your grandson's.

I will love and miss you all the remaining days of my life.

Love your sis...Trudy

Oscar Gonzalez

October 24, 2010

I enjoyed our Sundays with church and brunch after. I remember how Connie would dress nice and ask for eggs scrambled hard and wanted her butter "milted". She was very gentle, even if she was telling us a story where she said "I was so mad" it was in her voice so it seemed like she was not really mad. I will always remember her smiling face.

Sara Hernandez

October 24, 2010

What a beautiful picture of Connie with her luminous smile.
Theresa and Yolanda you are especially in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. May you be consoled by the love of your family and the thought of Connie among the angels in Heaven looking after you and the boys. You know that whatever you need, I am here for you! I love you very much and am so sorry you have to experience this loss too soon. Connie you will always be remembered in our family.

Bethany Smothers

October 24, 2010

My thoughts and prayers go out to your daughters, grandsons, and siblings. Connie was easily one of the nicest ladies I ever had the pleasure of knowing. She will be sorely missed.
Bethany (Smith) Smothers

Leslie Smith-Matthews

October 24, 2010

Connie was a beautiful person and will be missed by so many. I have a lot of fun and fond memories of Connie from our Nortel Networks days. She could always make me laugh, even when she wasn't trying to. :-) The one thing everyone knew about Connie, was how much she loved her family. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers as you get through this difficult time.

Michelle Williams

October 24, 2010

Brenda, Trudy, Devon and all,
I wish there were some wise words of wisdom to help you right now. Connie will be truly missed. Her memory and spirit will live on in all of you.

If there is anything I can do.....

Connie, I will always think of you when I am in Las Vegas!

Mary Williams

October 24, 2010

You are now in a place where you no longer have to suffer. They say only the good die young and you are definitely one of the best.

Kerri Hogan

October 24, 2010

Brenda and family, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Please let me know if you need anything.

Dan,Heidi,Ashley

October 24, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bets Preston

October 24, 2010

Theresa, my sincere sympathy to you and your family.