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Elizabeth Shandera Obituary



Elizabeth Jean Shandera

Resident of San Jose

May 23, 1924-October 24, 2010

Elizabeth Shandera passed away peacefully on October 24, 2010. She touched everyone with her positive outlook on life.

Elizabeth Jean English was born in Aberdeen, Washington. She graduated from Hoquiam High School, and from Washington State University. During World War II, Elizabeth proudly worked for Boeing as a mechanic, assembling and installing side gun ports on the B-17; later in her life, Elizabeth enjoyed going to air shows to see these airplanes that she helped build, and always impressed the young men flying and caring for these antique airplanes with her knowledge of how the aircraft were manufactured. After the war, she worked in retail as a buyer for Wolff's Department Stores in the Pacific Northwest, travelling all over the country. Later in life after raising her children, Elizabeth returned to retail for a time, working for Bergman's Department Store on Lincoln Avenue in Willow Glen.

Elizabeth was an enthusiastic volunteer worker for politicians and causes she believed in. She was a dedicated supporter of strong women candidates for office and was proud that she worked on the campaigns of California Assemblywoman Leona Egeland and of San Jose Mayor Janet Gray Hayes, the first woman to be the mayor of a major US city. She was an active member of the American Association of University Women, serving as chapter president, and was a lifelong supporter of education for women. Elizabeth believed that women should have successful and exciting career opportunities, and was very proud of her own accomplishments as well as of the women in her family who succeeded in banking, medicine and other careers many years before career women became more common. She volunteered for Head Start and other programs involving education. Elizabeth supported many causes and was particularly devoted to civil rights and women's issues, supporting gun control, opposing legislation which would limit women's rights to choice, supporting gay rights, supporting environmental legislation and other causes which she felt were important for the liberty, fairness, and happiness of her fellow Americans, and particularly American women. Many people fondly remember Elizabeth rolling her wheelchair in marches and demonstrations supporting these causes.

At home, Elizabeth was an enthusiastic gardener, an inveterate puzzle solver, and an insatiable reader of any book she could get her hands on, fiction or non-fiction, current or classic.

Elizabeth is survived by her sons Kirk Flatow of San Jose and Bruce Flatow of Santa Cruz, her sister Irene Street of Aberdeen, Washington and her sister-in-law Alma English of Seattle, Washington. She was preceded in death by her brothers Sam English and David English, both of whom she loved dearly and missed daily. Elizabeth would happily and proudly recount the adventures and achievements of her family to anyone.

Elizabeth was also profoundly grateful to her long-term caregiver and friend Miliame Qoroya, who made Elizabeth's last years more full and joyful.

Friends and family are invited to a service at the Stone Church in Willow Glen at 1937 Lincoln Avenue in San Jose at 2pm on Friday, November 19. In lieu of flowers, donations in Elizabeth's name are appreciated, to either your favorite charity, or to the Northern California MS Society 1700 Owen Street, Suite 190, San Francisco, California 95158, phone 800.344.4867, web http://www.nationalmssociety .org/chapters/CAN/index.aspx.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Jose Mercury News/San Mateo County Times on Nov. 10, 2010.

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10-26-2008 Concencration Sunday @ Stone Church

Dan Raby

November 13, 2010

November 11, 2010

My husband, Mike, and I have lived on Jonathan Avenue for over 30 years and saw Elizabeth working in her garden almost every day. I first met her when she worked at Bergman's Department Store on Lincoln Avenue in Willow Glen. We will surely miss this wonderful lady who always had a bright smile and a happy greeting.

She invited us into her home one afternoon a few weeks before her passing when we were walking in the neighborhood. She showed us the beautiful flowers she received from friends and loved ones and shared with us information about her illness. She was not doing well. I was at a loss for words but I am thankful that I had the privilege to squeeze the hand of this lovely woman. She will be missed by us.

Linda and Mike Julian

Cindy Turner

November 11, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear my neighbor, Elizabeth has passed. When I would walk my dogs she would call me over or I would go over to her to say hello. She always had something very interesting to say and she was one of my main resources on how to keep my garden looking good. I will certainly miss those conversations and seeing Elizabeth around the neighorhood. Jonathan Avenue is not going to be the same without her. My deepest condolence to her family and especially to Miliame who was always there with her.

Cindy and the three dogs

Caryl Westerberg

November 11, 2010

On October 3 the Stone Church High School Group planted a vegetable garden in Liz Shandera's backyard. This had been a long standing request from Liz. She love to garden and wanted her backyard to bloom.

Several days before we planted, Liz ended up in the hospital for a couple days. I stopped by her house after she returned from the hospital to check on planting the garden. A neighbor had stopped by and Liz explained that she wasn't doing so well. The neighbor asked if Liz would be moving to a nursing home.

She said "No, I'm staying here."

I said, "That's right! We're putting in a garden in your backyard!" I still remember how she grabbed my hand and looked into my eyes and said, "Thank you."

That garden was a bright spot for Liz in her final days. The last time I saw her, I had turned on the garden hose and handed it to her. As I left, she was sitting in her chair watering the garden.

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