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1954
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2014
Neil Schebetta Obituary
July 16, 1954 - June 28, 2014
Resident of Saratoga
A loving father, husband, friend, all around goofball, and collector of all things free. Neil left this earth way too soon. After a gallant 15 year battle with cancer, he is now at peace. A man ahead of his time, a Mr. Mom caring for his beloved daughter, Amanda, and son, Nicholas. He always put his family first, making dreams come true for his wife, Judy.
You could find him every morning sitting on a bench, calling his friends to check in, with his faithful dog, Lucy. His enormous and diverse circle of friends knew Neil as hilarious, kind, optimistic, and he always "knew a guy" that could help them out. Neil lived his life on his terms and enjoyed getting the most out of every day. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date.
Neil, you will forever be missed and loved in our hearts.
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Ken and Jill Gimelli
June 30, 2025
Such a great friend. Think of Judy often and wonder how she is doing. Ken and Jill Gimelli
Ken and Jill Gimelli
June 30, 2023
We think of him often. What a great guy!
Hope Judy and the family are doing well.
John J Schebetta
June 30, 2021
Neil Schebetta, extraordinary gentleman. My brother and I often reminisce about the good times shared with cousin Neil, wonderful memories. Absolutely a renaissance, one-of-a kind fellow.
Hope to see you when I come home to our Lord Neil!
John J Schebetta
July 1, 2020
My cousin Neil, "JR"! So many life lessons I learned from my big cousin Neil. He was watchful over me during the time I lived with him in his home in San Jose. Always good wisdom he tried to share with me; protective but not overly so. And the love of cars we shared. I remember his '63 Impala with reverse chrome wheels, slight rake, glasspacks, and 8-track player - what a treat for me when he would take me cruising. I think of cousin Neil quite often. He will always hold a special place in my heart and for my brother and sisters. He comes up often in our conversations as we riminess. I certainly hope to meet up with cousin Neil when I come home to our Lord.
Ken & Jill Gimelli
June 30, 2020
Here it is 6 yrs. later and Neil's name still pops up often when talking with friends and sharing memories of what a great guy he was. He is missed!
Kevin Mallon
August 25, 2014
I attended Hoover and Lincoln with Neil and was very sorry to hear of his death. He was a guy with a very positive spirit. We talked at the 40th Reunion, and I had no idea that he had been battling cancer. He will be missed. - Kevin Mallon
Patrick Ford
August 16, 2014
Thoughtful, friendly, and fun: Neil was there for all of us. We need more people like Neil. Thank you for showing us how to live and keeping our cars alive.
SCVT
July 10, 2014
Our heartfelt condolences go out to Judy, and to Neil's children. He was such a great guy and a wonderful friend. We miss him and his upbeat attitude even during his fight with cancer. Rest in peace, Neil, and thank you for your friendship. Kenny and Jill Gimelli
July 7, 2014
Rest in peace Cousin Neil…..
Cathy Urzi Minutillo and family
Britt Machado
July 7, 2014
I didn't know Neil personally, but I know he did a lot of good work to help me and my family. May God comfort his family and friends. With gratitude, Britt Machado
July 6, 2014
My deepest condolences to Neil's family. I remember Neil from high school...he was always laughing and joking around. I remember his huge smile! Rest in peace Neil...Cindy Navarrete Vasquez
Gene Cox
July 5, 2014
Neil was a great guy who always had a big smile. His Wheeling and Dealing skills are unmatched. We'll miss you Neil.
July 4, 2014
Neil we didn't know you very long but I liked you the minute I met you. God Bless You!
Carol & Mario Mussomeli
The Jacobsen Family - Ron, Diane, Tyler, and Blake
July 4, 2014
To Neil my childhood friend and classmate, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Every time my phone rings, I will be thinking of you.
Rick Deutsch
July 3, 2014
Neil will be selling car parts in heaven. You WILL be missed.
Santa Clara Valley Thunderbirds
CHET NAPOLITANO
July 3, 2014
SO SORRY
David Urzi
July 2, 2014
My cousin Neil was one of a kind. I can't think of too many times when he wasn't smiling or laughing. You will be missed Bow.
July 2, 2014
We are going to miss "good deal Neil" always a lot of fun and laughs The T-Bird king. Doug Cassetta and Bill Marciano Checkered Flag Classics
July 2, 2014
Neil was so cheerful and full of life. I was sad to hear of his passing. May The Lord give comfort and peace to Neil's family during this difficult time.
Mary Schebetta
CHET NAPOLITANO
July 1, 2014
Good guy my son Chris and will will miss him.May GOD BLESS HIM AND TAKE CARE OF HIS FAMILY .
July 1, 2014
My heartfelt sympathy to Judy and the entire Schebetta Family
for your loss. May you find comfort in family and friends and
in the precious memories you share. Neil was a wonderful friend
to everyone , and he will be missed. I know that Neil will enjoy
his daily walks hand in hand with our LORD in heaven. May he
rest in peace.
Chet Campanella San Jose
Richie T.
July 1, 2014
Neil and I were both only children; I consider him the brother I never had. We spent a lot of time together and I will always cherish those memories. Neil, I love you. I'm going to miss answering the phone and hearing you say "Hi Richie!" Thanks for being my friend.
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