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Mary Stachura Obituary

Mary (Kapinos) Stachura, 87, of Middletown, wife of the late Stanley Stachura, Sr. died Sunday September 15, 2013 at Water's Edge Health Care. She was born in Middletown, daughter of the late Stanley and Steffie (Zawisa) Kapinos. Prior to retirement, Mary worked at Pratt & Whitney Aircraft. She was a lifelong communicant of St. Mary of Czestochowa Church. Mary was a member of the Polish Knights Auxiliary, the Ladies Guild and St. Mary Senior Club.
Mary is survived by three sons, Stanley Stachura, Jr. and his wife Debra of Cromwell, Edward Stachura and his wife Karen of East Haddam, Robert Stachura and his wife Ellen of Middletown, grandchildren, Erica, Brennen, Darryl, Stacy, Kate and Bobby; great-grandchildren, C.J., Mason, Charlie and Adeline and numerous nieces and nephews. Besides her husband, she was predeceased by her brother, Edward Kapinos and sister, Stella Miazga.
Her Funeral Liturgy will be Wednesday (September 18th) at 11 a.m. at St. Mary of Czestochowa Church, Middletown. Burial will be in Calvary Cemetery. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to Blessed John-Paul School, 87 South Main Street, Middletown, CT 06457, Xavier High School, 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT 06457, Mercy High School, 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT 06457 or to the Alzheimer's Association, 279 New Britain Avenue, Kensington, CT 06037. Biega Funeral Home has care of the arrangements. To share memories or express condolences online please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Middletown Press from Sep. 16 to Sep. 17, 2013.

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J. Natalyia Kremski

November 21, 2013

Dear Stanley, Ed, Bobby and your families. Memories of your dear parents are of warm visits, Polish food and customs, many laughs. Their warm, engaging friendliness made me and my family feel like adopted family. Our daughters also enjoyed having 'cousins.' Mary's interests and talents and energy were an inspiration and the love and bond between your parents was an example.
With warm memories and love,

Debby Kremski-Mastrianni

November 21, 2013

Dear Family of Mary, I have so many wonderful memories of Mary.

Her love of polkas, her love of cooking, sewing,knitting, how excited when she got her huge machine to do everything that she desired to do with her crafts,all of us kids and Mary, Stanley Sr. we had so much together as a group...... I will miss her....Love, Debby Mastrianni Kremski

Debby Kremski-Mastrianni

November 21, 2013

Dear Stash,E.J.,Bobby, to all of the family members, My family and I have very fond memories of when we were All much younger, and with a light heart of many times shared.

With Mary and how she loved to cook, sew, her vitamins,to polka dance, laughter, her work ethic, sense of famiy and honor.....I will never forget......Always, Debby

September 29, 2013

Stanley - Sorry about the loss of your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Heather & Bill Montanile

Patti Kratochvil

September 19, 2013

Stan and Family - My deepest sympathies . . .

Bill Howard

September 19, 2013

Stan ans family please accept my heart felt sympathy

Ed and Elaine Murphy

September 19, 2013

Stan and Family, we are very sorry to hear of the passing of your Mother.

Marianne Pogoda-Rosa

September 19, 2013

It is with sadden hearts to learn of the passing of Mary. Stan, E.J. and Rob, we remember so well of the times that our families spent together so many long years ago. Your Mom and Dad were such good people. I remember going to Middletown when we were kids and visiting your family ocean beach house. And when you all came up to St. Catharine for a visit, we all went to Niagara falls. My parents Stan and Jennie loved your parents. We will always remember those times. May God bless Mary's soul..
Marianne (Pogoda) Rosa and Jennie Pogoda along with Adele, Carol and Eddie from Canada

jim misenti

September 19, 2013

Stan
Very sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom...

Danny Pogoda

September 18, 2013

Our sincerest sympathies on the loss of your mother. May she be in peace and may you all draw comfort and strenght from your memories of her.
Danny Pogoda and the Pogoda family from Canada

Monica Zapatka

September 18, 2013

Stan and family I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Beth Biega

September 18, 2013

She was a beautiful woman and will be missed. Love you Ciotka Mary

John Robinson

September 18, 2013

Stan & Family,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of your loving mother. May the good Lord be with the family at such a time as this.

Robin Harvey

September 18, 2013

Sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom Ed. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Rob Milardo

September 17, 2013

Stanley and family,
My prayers and thoughts are with you through this difficult time. Its times like these, the closeness of your families will help each other through this loss.

Richard Marino

September 17, 2013

Sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom. We remember your Mom and Dad and family at the bakery. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Always Rich and Dorrie Marino.

Don and June Hansen

September 17, 2013

Our thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. Memories will keep her alive, laugh, cry and share her life!

Enzo and Elena Marino

September 17, 2013

Stan and Debbie and Stachura family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Elena and Enzo Marino

Evelyn Taggart

September 17, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with all the family. She was a special lady.
Love,
Evelyn

John & Linda Latronica

September 17, 2013

Bob, Ellen & family,
It's the little things, the small, everyday occurrences that you'll remember. The laughs, the stories, the smiles. And even though it seems like you can never recover from your loss, it is these very memories that will help push the pain away and bring back the smiles.
John & Linda Latronica

Gail Scranton

September 17, 2013

To Bob & family
Sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Stan Koba

September 16, 2013

Stanley & Eddie and the rest of your family, may your mom rest in peace. My deepest sympathy for your loss.

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