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Sylvia Minickene Obituary

MINICKENE, SYLVIA (SARTORI) Sylvia Agnes Joan Sartori Minickene passed away peacefully in the early morning on November 28, 2013 as her daughter Laureen Minickene Coppolelli was telling her stories and holding her hand. Sylvia was an amazing woman, mom, grandmother, aunt, sister and friend. She radiated a beauty, kindness, compassion and grace we were all lucky to have known. Born in Cincinnati on August 2, 1941 to Angelo John Sartori and Mary Vicino Sartori, she moved to Brooklyn, NY in her early years, Queens, NY in her teens, and moved her family to Portland, CT where she lived with her family and lifelong friends for over 35 years. Sylvia went from being a full-time mother of three to working part-time at Draghi’s Orchards in South Glastonbury to working as a newsroom clerk and writing her own cooking column called Sylvia’s Kitchen at the Hartford Courant in Middletown for over 20 years (although many of her co-workers said she was and did much more than that). She retired over 6 years ago and made the most out of every day she could with her family and close friends. Although she traveled some and vacationed a little, she was most happy in life when she could sit across the table from you, break bread (gluten-free), have a cup of coffee and talk. Lunches with the very best of friends, holidays surrounded by her immediate and extended families, or even a Del’s lemon ice at Beavertail in Jamestown, RI, she treasured every moment with all the people she loved so dearly. Sylvia was predeceased by her father Angelo Sartori, and is survived by her mother, Mary Sartori, 99 of Port Jefferson, NY, sister Joan Sartori Longinotti and her husband Robert of Southampton, NY, ex-husband Gennaro Minickene of Venice, FL, daughter Laureen and son-in-law Mark and grandson Brandon Coppolelli, son John and daughter-in-law Melissa and granddaughters Faith and Eve Minickene, son Buzz and daughter-in-law Alessandra and granddaughters Samantha and Nola Minickene. Her angels on earth were her grandchildren and she lived, loved and cherished every minute with them. Sylvia had many great friends and extended families, but her touchstone throughout life was and always will be Patricia Kracunas of Cromwell, CT. Our entire family would like to sincerely thank the entire Middlesex Hospital 7th floor Nursing, Administrative, Volunteers, Palliative and Hospice staff. There aren’t words we know to describe in our hearts how thankful we are to have had our mother being taken care of by you. You are truly, collectively, incredible people that held us at our toughest moments when we needed it the most. Her Funeral Liturgy will be held Thursday (Dec. 5th) at 10 a.m. at St. Francis of Assisi Church, Elm St., Middletown. Friends may call at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St., Middletown on Wednesday (Dec. 4th) from 5 to 8 p.m. All who have known Sylvia, whether it be 5 minutes or 50 years, she affected so many of us and all are welcome to attend and celebrate her life. In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Middlesex Hospital 7th floor Hospice/Palliative care, c/o Sylvia Minickene. She would’ve wanted to help families and friends like hers in their time of need.

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Published by middletownpress from Dec. 1 to Dec. 2, 2013.

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Kathy (Faxon) Carbone

December 7, 2013

Dear Minickene Family,

Even though I hadn't seen Mrs. Minickene in many years, I have always considered her to be a lifelong family friend and neighbor. My parents absolutely adored her and I enjoyed hearing my mom's stories about their "Michele Drive luncheons".
May your family find comfort in knowing she was loved by so many people.

Joann & Carl Ricci

December 5, 2013

My Mom (Jennie) has another friend in heaven. So sorry for your loss we knew your mom through my sister Pat, she was a great person and loved our mom as my sister loved your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. JoAnn and Carl Ricci

Richard Kamins

December 4, 2013

12/04
I first met Sylvia when the Middletown Extra came into existence and she certainly became a friend quite quickly. We chatted about family, food and then about family again. Though I was only a free-lancer, she quickly made me feel like family, was always helpful and understanding.
Good people create good memories and Sylvia was one of the best.

Mom & John

Buzz Minickene

December 4, 2013

Mom & Laur

Buzz Minickene

December 4, 2013

December 4, 2013

To the Minickene family,
Our condolences.

Bruce, Tori, Colby, Katrina

December 4, 2013

Laureen, Buzz, and John,

We are so very saddened to hear the passing of your Wonderful, Beautiful, Mom, Lots of amazing memories living next door on Michele Dr..Your families are in our prayers..She wil remain in our hearts forever..Frank and Diane Kelly

December 4, 2013

Laureen, Buzz and John,
Our sympathy to you and your families. Your Mom was a very special lady, one of the best. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

John and Judy Benson

December 4, 2013

Laureen,
I am sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. My heartfelt condolences to you and yours.

Ruaidhrí O'Conbhuidhe
Richard Perry
Orlando, FL

Sue Griffin

December 4, 2013

Dear Ale, Buzz , Samantha and Nola, I am thinking of all of you as you remember your very special Sylvia. Reading about her has brought tears to my eyes. How lucky you are to have had her! Please accept my hesrtfelt condolences over such a loss.

One of our recent Michele Drive gals' lunches.

Jackie Rich

December 3, 2013

David and Linda Faxon

December 3, 2013

Laurene, Buzz, John

Having a friend like your mom for over 40 years was a privilege. She was the most genuine person we have ever known and what you saw was what she was all about; never putting on airs or trying to pretend she was something she was not. She instilled that in her children also.I remember when I was worried about what people would think about the color I painted my front door , she looked at me with an absolutely straight face and said "get over it. That was the essence of Sylvia. Those who knew her well will know just the look she gave me.She was also very proud of her Italian roots and made a mean gravy". It took us a while to realize she meant her spaghetti sauce. She was greatly loved by so many and she was everything anyone could hope for in a friend. We are heartbroken she is gone. David and Linda Faxon, Glastonbury Ct.

David and Linda Faxon

December 3, 2013

Laurene, Buzz, John

Having a friend like your mom for over 40 years was a privilege. She was the most genuine person we have ever known and what you saw was what she was all about; never putting on airs or trying to pretend she was something she was not. She instilled that in her children also.I remember when I was worried about what people would think about the color I painted my front door , she looked at me with an absolutely straight face and said "get over it. That was the essence of Sylvia. Those who knew her well will know just the look she gave me.She was also very proud of her Italian roots and made a mean gravy". It took us a while to realize she meant her spaghetti sauce. She was greatly loved by so many and she was everything anyone could hope for in a friend. We are heartbroken she is gone. David and Linda Faxon, Glastonbury Ct.

Gram & Noles

Buzz Minickene

December 3, 2013

Gram & Sammy 2010

December 3, 2013

December 3, 2013

To all Of Sylvia's Children, I go back a long way with your mom When you were all were young and attending St Augustine We all had great time with mom, Pat, Judy, Maryanne and all the gals from the Alter Guild and the fun working the Church Fairs She teased me because I also came from Brooklyn, later on our group would do lunches and talked about our children I was the oldest in the group I loved Sylvia and her sense of humor Of course with time we all went our ways as our kids grew up. Mom and Pat Kracunas and Elaine Carella were great friends and it was fun being with them Know that she is in heaven cooking up one of her specialties You all had a great mother and that alone should bring you comfort My love and prayers to and your families She was one special mom and friend. Kay Hinchey So Glastonbury CT

Shelli Nolan

December 3, 2013

Sorry For Your Loss

Lea Salafia

December 3, 2013

Sylvia's family, my heart is broken for you all. There was never a more fun day than visiting Patty in Portland and finding Sylvia in the kitchen; the love and laughter was amazing. Being Patty's cousin, I had many an opportunity to share in those special times with Sylvia. Surely her love and smile will be remembered by all. May God Bless you all and may time help to heal your broken hearts.

Shelli Nolan

December 2, 2013

Sorry For Your Loss

December 2, 2013

Dear Laureen, John, and Buzz, Your mother was a dear friend. Here's a link to my tribute. http://lizpetry.com/2013/12/03/goodbye-my-friend/
Love, Liz Petry

Karen Guzman Greenwood

December 2, 2013

Sylvia was a welcome friend to everyone who worked in the Hartford Courant's Middletown bureau. I worked with her and have such fond memories. God bless.

Annabella Mammi Figliomeni

December 2, 2013

I will miss my friend ...I will cherish the memories of chatting and just passing quiet time together jarring tomatoes in September at Buzz's, lazy days in Rhode Island by the pool, barbeques and shelling seafood at the kitchen table for hours with my adorable baby Sister Ale, Buzz-the Pillar of the Minickene Family and fun loving precious Sammy and Nola... thank you Ale and Buzz for sharing your life with all of us and blessing me with a true friend to whom I will always admire -love you always, always, always...Annabella.

Kevin Faxon

December 2, 2013

Buzz, Laureen, and John

So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. "Mrs. M" was always a larger than life presence on Michele Drive, and had endless patience for the annoying young Faxon brothers down the street. I can still hear that wonderful booming voice!! She was part of the magic of what made growing up in the neighborhood so special.

Janet Mosher

December 2, 2013

I cannot believe my friend is gone from us. My dear dear friend how I will miss you and our lunches. Not a kinder friendlier person did I know. My sincere condolances to the whole family. May her spirit always be with us. I know she will always be with me. We were all so lucky to have had her in our lives. God bless.

Colin Poitras

December 2, 2013

Laureen, John and Buzz - I am so saddened to hear of your mother's passing. Sylvia was such a wonderful lady, so kind and caring to all of us who worked with her at the Courant. The outpouring of sadness that I am seeing as word of her passing spreads is a testament to the many lives she touched and the many friends she made. She - and each of you and your children who she loved so dearly - will always hold a special place in my heart. My condolences.

December 2, 2013

I was a reporter in the Middletown bureau when your mom started with us. Many years later, I was the editor of The Middletown Extra and it was my joy to have your mom's love of cooking be a part of our little section. She so loved writing her column and readers loved it! I was lucky to have lunch with her and another dear Courant friend a few years ago, and got to see all the grandchildren photos. Remembering the smiles and the fun, and may the angels welcome you gently, dear Sylvia. My love, Amy Nixon

Sophia MacGillis

December 2, 2013

Heartbroken. I will always remember your genuine kindness and bright smile. It was a true pleasure knowing you.
Sophia, Rob & Kyle MacGillis

Jackie Rich

December 2, 2013

My life was truly richer having had Sylvia, Mrs. Minickene to my sons, as a very dear neighbor for nearly 30 years, and as a very dear friend for some 40 years. She was so sincere, so genuine and so loving. You will always hold a very special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with Laureen, Buzz and John, and their families, at this very difficult time.

December 2, 2013

Buzz (and family)
I would run into your mom from time to time and she would proudly keep me up to date with you and your family. I am so very sorry that she has passed so soon. What a truly wonderful woman.

Sandy (Salvatore) Favale

R King

December 2, 2013

I just read with Sadness of your passing. It has been years since going by by your desk and you asking how my little girls were doing..... Now, 20,18, and 15. You would be glad to know I now have 2 boys, 7 and 5.
You were always such a pleasure to speak to and work with. RIP my old friend from The Courant.

The Blewitt Family 7/2013

Jill Blewitt

December 1, 2013

Sylvia, "Mrs. Minickene", My former Portland neighbor, always welcomed me into the Minickene home with a smile,kind words,great food,& loving family! I remember spending many special times with you & your family (especially at Christmas). My husband, Eric, grew to love you too. You and Minickene Family will always be near to my heart. You are now in God's hands enjoying your Eternal Life. We hope to see you in Heaven someday. Love, Jill, Eric, Audra,& Collin Blewitt

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