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Graham Carlson Obituary

Graham B. Carlson, 84, of Portland, passed away on Saturday, July 21, 2012, at Middlesex Hospital.
Graham was born on Nov. 21, 1927, in Middletown, to the late John Aaron and Florence (Strickland) Carlson.
Graham was a graduate of Portland High School, class of 1945. He was drafted into the U.S. Army in January 1946 and served in the occupation of Japan until March 1947. In April 1947, he was hired by the Middletown Savings Bank, now Liberty Bank, in the mortgage department. He worked at the bank for over 43 years, retiring in December 1990 as senior vice president and chief financial officer. During his employment, he was active in both the state and national association of Savings Banks, serving as president of the auditors and comptrollers association of Connecticut and a member of the National Association of Mutual Savings Banks. He was an honors graduate of the National Saving Banks Officers School.
After retirement, Graham spent many memorable days at his cottage on Rogers Lake in Lyme where he loved to boat and fish. He also traveled extensively and spent numerous winters with Mary in Fort Lauderdale, Fla. Locally, Graham was campaign chairman and president of the Portland United Way, as well as secretary and president of the Exchange Club where he was a member for over 50 years. He was an active member of Trinity Church in Portland, where he served as a member of the vestry, treasurer and senior warden.
He is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Mary (Zappulla) Carlson, four children and their spouses, John and Nancy Carlson of Avon, Jeanne and Tony Ambrosio of Farmington, Raymond and Patricia Carlson of Windsor, and Donald and Kathleen Carlson of Portland, seven grandchildren, Megan Carlson Langman, Lauren Carlson, Matthew Carlson, Michael Ambrosio, Shawn Carlson, Amanda Ambrosio, and Mark Carlson, and a greatgrandchild, Andrew Langman.
He was predeceased by a sister, Janice Carlson, and by his grandchild, Jeffrey Graham Carlson.
Funeral services will be held Wednesday, July 25, beginning at 9 a.m. from Portland Memorial Funeral Home, 231 Main St., Portland, with a service of Holy Eucharist at 10 a.m. at Trinity Episcopal Church, 345 Main St., Portland. Burial will be in Center Cemetery, Portland. Relatives and friends may call on Tuesday from 5 to 8 p.m. at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Trinity Episcopal Church, 345 Main St., Portland, CT. 06480.
To send an online expression of sympathy, please visit www.portlandmemorialfh.net.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Middletown Press on Jul. 23, 2012.

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Lillian Lombardi

August 7, 2012

Mary & Family. So very sorry to hear of Graham's passing. Unfortunately, I just heard about it today. My deepest condolences to you. Love, Lillian Lombardi & Family

Janet Oliva

August 3, 2012

Dear Mary, Raymond & Family,
We are deeply sorry to hear of Grahams passing.Hold on to the happy memories of family times together.
Mary- if my mom was alive-she would be giving you a giant hug- but instead- she and my dad are giving Graham one.
With our deepest sympathy,
Janet(Wells)Oliva & Family

Carmel Meli

August 1, 2012

Aunt Mary,John,Jean,Raymond,Donald and all of your family I was sorry to hear about uncle Graham.You are all in my prayers.Love Carmel

Len & Paul Gale

July 26, 2012

Jeanne & Tony
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Understand he walks in a better place.

July 25, 2012

Sorry to hear of your loss. We are sending our prayers to all of you in this difficult time.

Love,

Julie Soucy and family(Patrick, Devon, Charleigh, Jeff and Lucas)

Lynda Robinson

July 25, 2012

Mary, Sorry to hear the loss of Graham. You and your family are in my prayers. I will always cherish the memories at Costa.- Lynda Robinson

Sascha Kraemer

July 24, 2012

Ray,

my sincerest sympathy to you and your entire family for your loss.

Your friend,
Sascha

Mike Willinsky

July 24, 2012

Donald and Mary. Very sorry to hear of the loss of graham. May you find strength in your time of sorrow in the wonderful memories of him.

Michael Willinsky

Karyn Ahern

July 23, 2012

Jeanne, Tony, Michael,Amanda & the rest of the Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Love, Mark, Karyn, Kelly & Justin Ahern

Sue & John Lariviere

July 23, 2012

Ray, Patty, Matt & Shawn - Our sincerest sympathy to you and the rest of your family for your loss. God Bless you all.

Deb salamites-Wood

July 23, 2012

Mary, Donald and family, my sincerest sympathy. I remember having many conversations about Graham with both of you. Wishing you comfort and peace Deb Salamites Wood

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