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Alandra Neilson Obituary

Alandra Mae Neilson
May 5, 1987 - June 1, 2012
Alandra Mae Neilson, 25, was a vivacious young woman, with an electric smile.  She could light up a room with her presence.  She was compassionate, fun loving, playful, energetic, generous, passionate, and sought always to uplift others.  Born in Modesto, CA, Alandra was a graduate of Davis High School, Class of 2005.  She attended MJC and BYU-Idaho.
Alandra will be remembered by many as a dynamic soccer player and all around great athlete.  She loved yoga so much she became certified as an instructor.  She is a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Alandra is survived by her parents, David and Linda, brothers, David Jr. (Valeria) and Jared (Gilmara), and sister, Aubrey Anne, all of Modesto.  She is also survived by four nieces and two nephews.  Alandra is loved dearly and sorely missed by her family and friends.
Our sweet baby girl, you will be in our hearts forever.
Services will be held on Sat. June 9, 2012.  A reception will begin at 10 a.m. and Memorial at 11 a.m. at the Dale Road Chapel, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 4300 Dale Road, Modesto, CA.  Interment will follow at Lakewood Memorial Park, Hughson, CA.

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Published by Modesto Bee from Jun. 7 to Jun. 9, 2012.

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Valentina Prescott

May 22, 2013

It was my privilege to know this charismatic ,free spirited & kind hearted person. I can remember playing soccer as kids with Alandra. She was well liked by all of our team mates. During our conditioning times we all thought it was possibly our last breath of air and we would look over at Alandra and she would be making some funny gesture , time seemed to fly by a lot quicker with her around. This message is really late my apologies for this. I just discovered the news yesterday from an old soccer team mate. I am very sorry for your loss. Alandra was an amazing person!

Anita, Valentina , Kevin Prescott

May 22, 2013

Our heart aches for your family, we are so very sorry. I enjoyed Alandra's great sense of humor in our comings and goings to soccer practice with Valentina. My favorite memory of Alandra is the day Valnetina decided she would talk back to me as we were leaving for soccer practice. I picked up the hose in front yard and drenched valentina with it to "cool off that smart mouth" LOL. When I arrived to pick up Alandra and shared why Valentina was not in the car Alandra and I had a good laugh about it. Of course we went back to the house to pick V up (after she changed clothes) Alandra teased Val for the rest of practice. Your daughter was a wonderful person, sweet loving and kind. Valentina, Kevin and I are so very sorry for your loss. Love you the Prescotts

Susan Cox

July 1, 2012

May God Bless and keep you

Susan Cox

June 28, 2012

Dear David and Linda, I want you to know that you and your family are constantly in my prayers. Alandra brought so much joy to my families lives. You were so good to me in my time of need. For that I am grateful. Dozier one of our puppies was my Mothers rock during the loss of my dear sister. "landy" or as my Dad called her " jack rabbit" wanted to attend the service to show his support but at 88 the trip was not possible. My parents always enjoyed Alandra and want you to know they share your grief. Life does not always make sense but through prayer, love, and faith we can help one another through. We can look forward to the time we will be reunited with our loved ones. Alandra graduated early. God is gracious.
All our love,
Susan Cox (Folsom, Ca)

Derek Murray

June 18, 2012

Dave & Linda,
So sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you and the Neilson family.

Holly (Brown) Barnett

June 15, 2012

She is was everything the obituary says and more. You are in my prayers. May you be comforted at this difficult time.

Barbara Bonham

June 14, 2012

Dave and Linda I am so sorry for your loss.

Shawn and Dianne Price

June 11, 2012

Dave and Linda, We are so, so sad to learn that Alandra has gone! We truly hope your sorrow with this separation will be softened with the expectation of a joyful and even thrilling reunion. You and your family are in our heartfelt prayers. Hope on. Love on.

Sharlene Stewart & Family

June 9, 2012

I'm sorry for your loss She will live on in the hearts of everyone who loved her.

Megan Byrum

June 9, 2012

Today is Alandra's service and I am very sad that I wasn't able to make it. I love you Alandra and I will greatly miss you. You were a wonderful friend and I will always remember you and the great times we had together. I will never forget the first time I went over your house to play when we were in elementary school. You were too much fun! I remember you offered me a glass of milk and you laughed at me because I wouldn't leave your kitchen with it because I was a kid and my mom always taught me to never eat or drink in the living room! But at your house I guess it was ok, or maybe it was ok because your mom wouldn't see us. I love you Alandra and may you rest now. The world will miss a great person..

Tom W

June 9, 2012

You'll be missed Landy. You left us way to soon but we'll see each other again.

James and Loretta Moshier

June 9, 2012

Dave, Linda and Family. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Alandra. We remember her bright spirit and beautiful smile well. Our prayers go out for you, and thoughts are with you often during this sad day. Love, Jim and Loretta

Wendy Dennehy

June 9, 2012

May you be buoyed up through this time of sorrow by the memories of the infectious joy and energy Alandra brought to those around her. Her smile and the twinkle in her eye always brightened the room--you couldn't help but smile with her.

Julie DeScenzo

June 7, 2012

You always had a smile on your face. Your laugh was infectious. Made those grueling soccer practices a lot more fun. R.I.P.

James and Jenni Sahlman

June 7, 2012

Alandra was a wonderful babysitter when our kids were young. She was so fun and full of personality. We were so sad to hear of her passing. You are all in our Prayers...

Ken & Kathy Heffner

June 7, 2012

May my Brother, Sister & there children left behind find peace and comfort at this time. Alandra's is in the arms of our Heavenly Father and surrounded to, in the arms of her Grand-parent's... We love you Alandra and will miss you... Until we meet again.

Sue Zwahlen

June 7, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this tender time in you lives.

Lou & Karen Gustafson

June 7, 2012

You will forever be in our hearts!

Julie Stewart

June 7, 2012

My heart broke when I heard of Alandra's passing. Some of my fondest memories of Alandra were at church sitting in the pew with Aubrey and Linda giggling at something :)...I wanted to join! It made me feel right at home. Alandra had such a captivating smile....She will be missed. Know that we love you!

ISABEL MATUTE

June 7, 2012

OUR PRAYERS AND HARTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ..LOVE THE MATUTE FAMILY.

Scott Nunes

June 7, 2012

You and your family will continue to be in my prayers. God bless you!

Alyshia Brown

June 7, 2012

We will all miss you Alandra! Getting to know you and meeting you in high school was a privilege. Such an amazing girl! Your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers!

Kellie Ramey

June 7, 2012

Prayers to alandra's family and friends

Lindsay Weaver-Webb

June 7, 2012

So many great memories with you.. Miss you

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