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DAN O'HARA JUL 1, 1948 - OCT 22, 2010 Dan O'Hara, beloved brother, uncle, and dear friend to many, died at his home on Friday, October 22. He was 62. Dan was born in 1948 in Syracuse, NY. He moved to California in 1973, fell in love with the golden hills, and made them his home for the rest of his life. He worked as a Sales and Communications Consultant, but as he said, ''life is like a book'', and he lived exuberantly through many chapters, the most recent of which was his adventure as purveyor of the finest pies ever sold out of a pie trailer. Dan was an athlete and lover of the outdoors, and he could always be found surrounded by a crowd of devoted friends. He loved his dogs-Trevor, Ruby, Oscar, and Annie-like family and liked to say they weren't spoiled, they were deserving.'' Dan found many people over the years to be deserving''; he was quick toopen his doors and his heart. Dan is survived by three sisters, Terri O'Hara, Maureen (O'Hara) Crist, and Patty O'Hara. He was preceded in death by his sister Sharon (O'Hara) Short and his brother Tim O'Hara. There will be a memorial service this Friday, October 29th from 11:00am to 2:00pm at the Palm Pavilion at the Alameda County Fairgrounds. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to your local animal shelter or Stanislaus County Animal Services to honor Dan's great affection for animals, and his generosity for all lost creatures in need of love. www.modbee.com/obituaries

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Published by Modesto Bee from Oct. 27 to Oct. 28, 2010.

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Edith GOLDEN

November 15, 2011

I was just searching Facebook to see if I could find Dan. He is one of those people you don't see for a long time but once you do, it is like no time ever passed. We worked together for years at Winterland Productions in SF and also with Hard Rock Hotel t-shirt accounts. This is so sad and untimely. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Cath Coridan

August 23, 2011

Maureen - I don't know if this will get to you or not - but I will try to find you soon. I was looking for you on facebook and Danny's obituary popped up, that included the news about Tim and Sharon. I am stunned and saddened. know that the O'Haras have stayed close to our hearts for all these years.

Rich Martin

March 22, 2011

Maureen,
I am one of Dans old Delta Sigma Phi brothers at FSU. I met him, of course, when I pledged. We became fast friends along with Frazee and Ba-Ba Bitner.
I was a guest at your home in Southfield more than once and the thing I remember most was what an inclusive family you were. Your mom and Dad even let Dan take the Lincoln, with suicide doors, down to Notre Dame one weekend.
I could go on and on. I am so sad that we never connected after college...Life is that way.
Let me say my life is richer because of my great friend Danny O'Hara

Rich (Herbie's Little) Martin

Amy Bauer

December 7, 2010

I am in shock right now! I just found out about this by my daughter coming across the obituary looking for Dans phone number to reconnect after to long. My two daughters and I worked with Dan in the pie trailer the first two years he had it. We cleaned his house. We became fast friends. Dan was like that, it didn't matter where you came from, what you had been through, or how you had met. He saw people for the good in them, and helped you to see the good in yourself and your life. We shared a love of dogs, coffee, and chocolate. Oh yes, and good music. When we were at the fairs Dan was the man, everyone knew him, and all wanted to tell you what a great man he was. I had not spoken to him since he canceled a date to watch me give the valedictorian speech during my AS graduation ceremony. I am truly saddened, shocked, and so sorry for his family. He will be missed by all, his zest for life and desire to make the world a better place are so rare that his passing will leave an empty space in the world. I am so sorry so much time had passed, I loved you Dan and we will all miss you so much...

Özkurt Cihan YILDIZ

November 17, 2010

Hello from Turkey ..

First of all im sorry about my english..

We all (Dans Turkish son and daughters) got shock after Dans sister's email.

I was with him at 29th september i just come to modesto to visit Lovely Dan me my wife justin Dan and some of my friends spent good time at his home after that i left for LA.

Then got this sad news.

I hope i will be in USA next month for scool at LA. so i neeed some contact to find Dans resting place. i want to visit him one more time .

He did alot of good stuffs for All him Turkish childs and we will never forget him

I am realy glad and thankful to god becouse of I had a chance to meet with Dan spent time with him laugh withhim ..

my english is not good and its realy hard when i try to write something serious and sad. i am sorry again but please reach me

Email : [email protected]
facebook: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=522396487

regards.

November 7, 2010

Maureen,
I'm so very sorry to hear about Dan. Although I haven't seen him in many years, Morris has kept us up to date.

Thinking of you and sending my condolences.

Most Sincerely,
Barb. Fiorini

Judy Johnson Westcott Walton

November 7, 2010

You were always Danny to me and I was so shocked and saddened that I had lost my oldest and dearest friend. From the first time I met you in eighth grade math class we instantly became best frindds. You were such an unbelievable friend....always caring for others and always making us laugh. I remember all the crazy stuff we did and the fun we had in high school, Ferris, Scottsdale when you would come for spring training and Morris and my visit to California when we went to wine country. We laughed so hard I peed my pants! That was the best time.
My heart goes out to your family and friends and you will be greatly missed.
I LOVE YOU Danny....JuJu Bees

morris skoropa

November 6, 2010

Dan was a true friend of mine, from when we first met in high school, his family was my family, Bobby and Cappy took us in at all hours, spent plenty of hours on Magnolia Parkway, eating your Moms roast beef sandwich, Midnight Mass, even though I am Jewish, we had a ball. Always enjoyed visiting Dan in Sa Ra Ca. he always went out of his way to show you a good time. Daniel George, Mark O'Hara, you will truely be missed, I'm proud to have known you and your family, you will always be remembered and I hope at the family reunion to see your sisters and nieces and nephews, we will all cry together to remember your life. Peace, Morris Skoropa

Charlyne and Mark Smallwood

November 4, 2010

We also were so shocked and saddened to hear of Dan’s sudden passing. He was a truly nice guy, a class act, with a twinkle in his eye and a smile on his face, generous and genuine. It is so very sad to think we will never have the pleasure of seeing him again; it was always such a joy to run into him. Our condolences to his family.

Patricia Clayton

November 3, 2010

This is for Justin. Dan loved you so much! He always would tell me how you were doing and how he had taken you for your 1st driving lesson, and the job, at the fair as a cute dog. And to come see me for a massage I'd love to give you another free massage when your ready. I'm at 1127 13th st now. Call me 529-4830 Dan would want you to come see me and relax! We will all miss him so very much and I know you had a special relainship with your friend and mine You are in my prayers Justin. Love in Jesus name....Patricia Clayton.

Seal Danziger (Cameron)

October 30, 2010

I have not seen Dan in years, but I always considered him a friend. I would think of him sometimes when I watched the SF Giants (that was one of his accounts when we worked together)and always figured he was having a great time somewhere. To his family and friends who will feel this loss so acutely - may his memory be a blessing, I know it is to me.

Christine Costa

October 29, 2010

Dan was one of my dearest friends. He would light up a room when he entered. His beaming smile,blue eyes, and gentle way was something to behold. I never new a man that touched my heart as much as he did. From the moment I met him I loved him.. He was kind, loving, warm, gentle, and had a great spirit. He will be missed greatly..My deepest sympathy to Dan's family...He was a true treasure...

Lori Martin

October 29, 2010

Dan the Man. We will miss him. I first met him almost 40 years ago in Sausalito. His smile and wit and kindness were hard to duplicate.(Might I add that he was quite the handsome guy driving around in his Alfa Romea.) He lit up the room when he walked in and always had a way to make you feel good. He was kind and generous.A good friend who cared about others. We tooled around marin togther sharing loves and loves lost. I worked for him and years later he worked for me. We stayed connected over many years because I knew he was a special person that you don't let go . His sparkling blue eyes matched his sparkling spirit.We were fortunate to have known him.
Sending love and hugs to all his friends and family. Peace. Lori Martin

Trish Aleck

October 28, 2010

Dan was one of my DEAREST friends. He introduced me to the beauty of San Francisco and helped me when I first moved there. He always told me to let the universe take care of me. Now I can have Dan looking out for me. I will miss him terribly and know everyone who loved him will as well. He game me my nickname that has stuck for over 35 years! I love you Dan the Man! Trish the Dish

Earl Boehm

October 28, 2010

I dedicate track 5 for Dan, from some of the music he loved. You will be missed Dan. Godspeed in your new incarnation my friend >>
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Erin P

October 28, 2010

Tons of love to Dan's family. I didn't know him well, but sometimes it doesn't take knowing someone well to know how great they are. My prayers and thoughts are with his family.

Carl Skaggs

October 28, 2010

I'll miss that smile and "Hey" as I walked in his door
I'll miss his calm demeanor and way of making others feel at home no matter where they were.
To his family I wish my most sincere condolences, for no matter what the loss I feel for my friend It isn't nearly the loss you feel for your brother, uncle, and confidant.
Dan O'Hara was one of a kind.

Lynn

October 28, 2010

To Dan's family and many beloved friends, I wish my sympathy and blessings. I was so shocked to hear of his passing,since he appeared healthy and athletic. Even though I never knew him well, I'm touched and sadden that I will never get to know him better..Lynn Arsanis

October 28, 2010

To Dan's family my love to you all. My heart is broken. What a wonderful friend. I love you Dan and you will be missed. Miss La De Da......Pat Smith

Steph McCabe

October 28, 2010

I am blessed to have called Dan my friend. He was an amazing human being...his door and heart were always open...His smile was infectious, his laugh contagious. Anyone that knew Dan, loved him.

The last time I talked to him, he called just to tell me how great my kids were..."You're doing something right. Keep it up!" Who does that? Dan did; always positive, always hopefull, my good friend. I miss him.

My condolences to all who loved him.

Earl Boehm

October 27, 2010

I'm so very sorry to hear this sad news. Dan was an outgoing and very friendly person who i had the pleasure of knowing for many years at the Fair. We shared a great love of music, and I sure will miss him. my condolences to his family & friends. Fare thee well, Dan!

Alameda County Fair, 2010

Deb Grant

October 27, 2010

To Dan's family and family of friends, I am so sorry and sad. I am shocked. He and I had just recently reconnected after several years and I spent 4th of July weekend at the fair with him-- he was truly Mr. Fair, loved by all. I have a photo of us in the Chiquita Banana booth that I will treasure always. Dan was an extraordinary man, my children loved him, he taught them so much and we all shared so many good times together -- Tahoe skiing, waterskiing on Lake Tulloch, playing with the dogs, Giants games in Scottsdale...so many great memories. He brought so much joy to so many. I miss him and send all of his family my heartfelt prayers.
Denise, Doug, Melissa and Deb

Patricia Clayton

October 27, 2010

To all who loved Dan. I was shocked to read of his passing. We met in the park with our dogs, and became fast friends! Our dogs played together and I told him I,m a massage therapist he said I know you. I've been trying to get into see you. Well he became a client and a friend! He for the past few yrs got a group of us in the fair took us around on the cart and introduced us to all his vendors. He was such a real person so easy to know. We will all miss him deeply. I pray that his family find GODS PEACE through this time.Only by HIS LOVE can we be comforted. Keeping you all in my prayers. May the peace of GOD be with you all. I cant be at his service. I hope to have something here in Modesto. If any of you friends and family have a get together please let me know. Thank-You

Alan Horowitz

October 27, 2010

To everyone in Dan's family...this is very sad news indeed. Dan was absolutely the most GENUINE person and friend I ever had.
He taught me how to run, play, and have a dog! Thank you, Dan...I will miss you deepely.

Steph McCabe

October 27, 2010

I was blessed to call Dan my friend. I came across a poem by Ralph Waldo Emerson that, to me, describes Dan perfectly.

"To laugh often and much; To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; To find the best in others; To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded."

I love you.

Alta Fernandes

October 27, 2010

To Dan's family, my deepest thoughts and prayers go out to you in this terrible time of loss. Dan was a beeming ray of light that will be truly missed.

Patrice Mandel-Nappo

October 27, 2010

To Dan's family, what a tremendous loss, I worked with Dan for 8 years and he was a blessing in disguise. Always knowing the right thing to say, making me laugh, yet giving encouraging advice or just engaging conversation. I will truly miss him and our monthly chats. HE was a great friend, mentor and colleague. God bless you and your family through this time.

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