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Elmer Matthews Obituary

ELMER MATTHEWS SEPT 3, 1921 - OCT 26, 2010 Elmer Lee Matthews passed away on October 26 at the Alexander Cohen Hospice House in Hughson, at 89 years of age. He was born on September 3, 1921 in Asher Oklahoma and had been a resident of Modesto for the past 43 years. He is preceded in death by his wife of 70 years Hazel Matthews, their daughter Carol Ann Avara, and his twin sister Thelmer Gregg. Elmer is survived by his children, Helen Fraser of Lodi, Dolores Medrano of Salida, Norma Tayahua of Modesto, Michael Matthews of Modesto, and his grand- children Steven Fraser of Lodi, Curtis Avara of Oakdale, Denise Schultz of Escalon, Ben Medrano of Salida, Philip Medrano of Salida, Ernie Medrano Jr. of Oakdale, Christina Yassin of Israel, Victor Tayahua of Modesto and Natasha Tayahua of Modesto. Happy trails to you, until we meet again! Visitation will be held on Monday, November 1st from 2:00-5:00pm at Deegan Funeral Chapel, 1441 San Joaquin Street in Escalon. Graveside service will be on Tuesday, November 2nd at 11:00am at Oakdale Citizens Cemetery, 701 East J Street in Oakdale. There is an online guest book available at: www.modbee.com/obituaries www.deeganfuneralchapels.com

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Published by Modesto Bee from Oct. 30 to Oct. 31, 2010.

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Angie Corona

November 3, 2010

Mike, I am sorry about your dad. He always said hello whenever I came to see you. You and your family our in my prayers. Please let me know if I can do anything for you?

October 31, 2010

SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF YOUR DAD. YOU ARE IN OUR PRAYERS.
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Linda Loveday

October 30, 2010

My thoughts are with you for the loss of your Dad. I have lots of memories of him and your mom. May GOD be with you today and always to help you through this time of sorrow.

October 30, 2010

Dearest Matthews Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have fond memories of Mr. and Mrs. Matthews. May GOD be with you all in your time of sorrows and need. Sincerely, Taeya Loveday

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